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So I, a cismale, had sex with a man for the first time recently. Before that night, I probably would have said I was curious to try having sex with a man, but doubtful it would ever happen. The thing is I a have zero romantic attraction to men and what's more I was quite uncomfortable and uninterested in kissing this boy or doing any other sort of intimate cuddling. I just wanted to try sucking cock and making a man cum. It felt sexy because it was so purely sexual, about getting off not about attraction. In this way it seems more a fetish than an orientation. I think I want to do it again.
I don't really know why I'm making this thread. One reason might be just to say to someone what happened. Another is for tips: how do I find men to fuck/be fucked by? Craigslist seems the obvious way, but I've never done that and it seems to be disproportionately creeps and older men. Tinder is too ambiguous. Also: am I just in denial and going to become a full-fledged homo soon?
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Seems like a lot of bi guys like hooking up just for dick. I've never been attracted to another man in person in my life, but I love fapping to gay porn because dicks are so fucking sexy.
I'll probably never fuck a guy because I can't touch someone I'm not all around attracted to.
I think having standards is the cure for bisexuality.
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>>7882166
Grindr, I guarantee you will fuck a guy within an hour.
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Yep, just come and then cum in
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Why is bisexual such a dirty word on this site? No, you're not going to turn full-on gay just from having sex with a few dudes. That's dumb.
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>>7882166
The distinction between romanticism and sexuality becomes useful here.
Who you fuck and who you love aren't always the same. Case in point, you.
Your behavior is described as bisexual +heteroromantic. Meaning you exhibit sexual attraction to similar and dissimilar sexes, but only have romantic attraction towards dissimilar sexes.
Every prefix-sexual has a corresponding prefix-romantic term. Generally the two will coincide, but exceptions are pretty common.
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>>7882257
My qualm with identifying as bi is that I feel I am not really LGBT. This just comes from a distaste for being so focused on such element namely from the lens of identity politics. But then again, if I vocally ID as bi I can use that to shutdown the fuckers who accuse me of being whatever.
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