how do you ask a guy you don't know too well if he's gay without being disrespectful but also getting him to be honest with you?
Tell him that you're gay. If he's gay too, there's a chance that he'll admit it too.
>do you have a girlfriend?
"Hey don't take this the wrong way, but are you gay? Because you're really cute."
>>7860226
what if he's in the closet?
>>7860239
what would I do if he isn't though?
>>7860251
"oh sorry for bothering you then" and walk away
just don't make it awkward
>>7860262
I might as well tell you my situation. I had someone ask his sister is he was gay and she said he wasnt. this guy doesn't seem to have alot of friends and I kinda feel bad and wanna see if he's cool. I still had that thought in the back of my head like "what of his sister doesn't know?" but like I want to ask and even of he isn't still be his friend. would there be a way for me to still try to be friends with him without it being awkward?
>>7860327
just ask in a natural and casual way without being an awkward cunt
it's not that hard
>>7860240
>what if he's in the closet?
If he is totally in the closet, you would have to drug him to get the truth.
>>7860364
I'm not the one who makes it awkward I think he's cute but the times I've tried to strike up a conversation he just kills all my starters with one word answers and I don't know what to make of it
>tfw no gay friend interested in your closetness
Find him on Grindr
>>7860239
That's a pretty good way to get killed, anon.
>>7861731
is it really that bad?
>>7861134
Walk up to him. Put on your most seductive faggy face and slowly push your body into his. When he says "what the fuck are you doing" say "I want you to ram your dick so deep inside my tight asshole and fuck me so hard that my parents will telepathically feel ashamed."
>>7862018
nigga I'm trying to get in HIS boi pucci
>>7862041
Well if he's a beta boi it might work, but the setup is different.
Walk up to him. Put on your most stern rapy face and slowly push your body into his. When he says "... p...plea..please give me some space" lean into his ear and say "I want to shove my dick so far inside your tight asshole that you'll feel pleasure in places you never thought you could".
>>7862018
>>7862041
>>7862084
Dayum that is hot.
>>7861134
You gotta get him to open up before you can open him up
>>7862084
thats a damn good way to get stabbed anon
>>7863350
how does one do that?
>>7863988
It's not easy, I knew a girl like the guy you're describing. She wouldn't even open up as a friend and ended up fucking off out of everyone's lives for no reason
Dem short convo
Dem one word convo killers
Get active in his interests or put him in situations where he might shoe gay interests.
If he's closeted or guarded it might be hard to pick up on but if he's a qt he may find himself looking at cute stuff like
>tops and sweaters I'm a girls clothes section
>stuffed animals
>real animals
>the edge stores like hot topic that are scary(to a qt like me at least)
>free or cheap events that might have his interests like craft shows and conventions
All those examples are just stuff from me tho. I'm not a closeted qt but I can be hard to read and when I'm with others I look at all that stuff from the corner of my eye.
Except the shows Cuz it doesn't matter thrn
>>7864006
I literally asked him what he liked to do and he said he doesn't do anything. like. fuck. does he just not want to talk or what? I wanna ask him to hang out but I don't know what he would like to do
>>7860240
If he's in the closet he won't tell you
>>7864322
Buy him a gift
>>7864322
>i dont do anything
Sounds like me
>>7864358
Dont do this, like the girl i mentioned in>>7864006 i did this and the reaction was unpleasant. Convince him to do something with you. Like you said in OP, you dont know him well, make getting to know him your first step. He could be dodgy around you because he likes you.
Hell the girl who bailed on me could have liked me, idk, i like dudes.
>>7864380
By unpleasant i mean
>please dont do this again anon
In the most flat tone of ever with the most neutral face ever of all time.
It turned a good feel into a cringe moment in my life.
If someone likes you, they are usually keen to show you. It doesn't even matter if they're gay or not.
I would just try chatting him. If it seems like he's into you, then just ask him if he likes boys.
>>7864380
how would I know if he doesn't want me to be around him at all?
>>7864397
>just asking directly
>>7864397
Not always with gay stuff in places that discourage gay stuff.
I was similar to OPs boy when i was crushing on a classmate in HS. But i had been a bully victim up to just before grade 12 and wasnt keen on starting the hate train up again. So i kinda distanced from my crush; less talk more stalk
>>7864412
I mean, if he's not telling you to leave him alone and he hasnt blocked you on any form of media(stalkbook, stalkitter, instastalk, stalkchat, pure innocent cellphone texties) you're probably good.
>>7864430
>tfw virgin gay anon is helping other anons get boys
>too shy to ask the cashier at the bowling alley I go to if he likes me or anything
>>7864430
this kid is off the radar though. I've tried to lurk his stuff to find common interests but I can't find anything on him. It's like he's off the radar
>>7864521
And so was i untill i needed stalkbook to stalk my crush followed by twitter until he locked it .___.
You gotta find a way anon, use his sister like you did before.
If you want this boy you'll find a way.
Also pls return to anime pictures, babies are creepy
>>7864521
Tell me more of your interaction with him too? Like how you met, long you known im, etcetra. Details are important.
>>7864558
well I noticed him a few months ago. I found out his name and tried to find a mutual. No one I knew knew who he was. my friend had the idea to send him an anonymous valentine in my school so I did. the day before valentine's day I saw him sitting alone and I decided to sit at his table but I didn't talk to him because I was petrified. the day after I sent the Valentine, I found out that his sister said he liked girls. Last week was when I tried to actually talk to him
>>7864542
maybe I could use his sister but that would take some work
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>>7864662
I got no ideas left atp really. Just keep trying.
What i can suggest is keep trying to get him to open up but disconnect yourself so that if he really is straight or he bails, you're not too hurt.
But if you only want the bp you could just move on
>>7866664
ok I'll see what I can do. thanks for the advice
>>7860200
The best indirect way is to watch their line of sight closely, as another attractive guy walks by do they lower their heads for a quick glance or not? Straight guys do this with girls; the fags with other dudes
>>7866782
what does that line of sight look like?