Why do modern gay guys feel the need to dress act and talk like a flaming faggot?
I'm a gay guy and when I tell people I am gay 90% of the time there reaction is
>oh you don't act gay
I said on my grindr "no queens please" and everyday I get 5 faggots calling me out for internalized homophobia.
>inb4 OP is a masc lifting homophobe
I'm not even masc I'm like a twig nerdy boy, but I don't act like a fucking faggot.
It's like that chris rock routine. There are black people and then there are niggers. There a gay men then there are faggots.
tl;dr: Why are so many gay guys faggots?
PS: where can I meet gay guys who are not faggots?
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>>7729505
>modern
not only is there nothing new about this, if anything it's less true than it used to be -- when gay men were considered separate from society as a whole, they acted it to fit
anyway, varying degrees of neurofeminization
though many 'str8-acting' gay men, even ones who aren't full 'get all these faggots away from me' tier, underestimate just how effeminate they are in some ways (e.g. retroactively believing they were more gender-conforming as children than they actually were)
>>7729505
I haven't really encountered this. I'm not in the gay scene at all and have gone on about 8 dates from tinder in the past few weeks. Only one of the guys was fem (he was an asshole too). Fems make my dick limp.
because there proud to be gay
>>7729505
>Why do modern gay guys feel the need to dress act and talk like a flaming faggot?
Blame identity politics and the entertainment industry.
I'm soft spoken and effeminate in appearance action and speech, but I don't use one of those fake over the top gay accents at all. I just naturally sound effeminate, I had people including my own parents asking if I was gay long before I had even realized it.
I hate the flamers with their fake voices but what about those who are naturally effeminate? Not over the top at all, just soft spoken and lightly feminine sounding.
kike media
>>7729505
>where can I meet gay guys who are not faggots?
What qualifies as a faggot? Do not be vague.
>>7733050
If I can tell that you are gay and you are not doing any of the following
-Sucking dick
-Having sex with a guy
-holding a guys hand
-kissing a guy
Then you are a faggot.
IE if I can tell you are gay by looking at you or having a conversation with you than you are a faggot.
>>7729512
post full?
>>7729505
protip: you can filter people by tribe on grindr
queens usually identify as twinks
take this quiz to find out which tribe you identify with:
https://www.buzzfeed.com/benhenry/grindr-tribes-unite
then list select it as your tribe.
erase "no queens please" from your profile.
it is just going to bring you hate.
Maybe that's their natural personality. You judging them for being camp is no better than them judging you for being masc. Variety is the spice of life.