All I really want is a an older guy who's mature, down to earth, and sane, but I'm genuinely not convinced such a man exists.
Define "older".
>>7657442
I'm in my twenties so someone in their thirties or forties probably
>>7657445
You kinda have the opposite problem of me. I am coming out of what turned out to be a failed thing with a college-aged guy (I am 26). Trust me, there are plenty of older men out there who are mature, into you, and very willing to give you lots of love and have a monogamous relationship.
>>7657487
How do I find such a person?
>>7657635
The usual ways: hit the dating apps, create an appealing profile and start finding matches. Don't neglect in-person contact as well. If you have decent gay hangouts nearby, you should go with a friend.
>>7657392
Im 18 mature, sane and down to earth, I am in my relationship since 6 years now and we found each other on a social event
>>7657392
Chances are that you are stuck up. You could be meeting plenty of men like that but because of your own shortcomings you can't see it and will remain alone.
>>7657710
Where did you find a bf at the age of 12?
I wish I grew up in a place that accepting.