I'm so fucking lonely. I just want a boyfriend, I want

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I know that feel

>>7620093
me too

tfw no bf

>>7620021
>>7620093
>>7620178
>>7620301
Same T_T

>>7620301
> tfw

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Not too hard. Lower your standards a bit, and get talking.
>Tinder or Grindr is a must nowadays.
>Talk for a while, ask to go for a coffee (or a pint if from UK)
>Repeat until bf is found.

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>>7620396
>
aren't tindr and grindr just for hookups and fuck-and-forget things? i'm not op but i want a long-term life parter not to be a cum receptacle

Whenever I see those pink and black images of Lain they make me want to watch the anime, but if I do that people will think I'm gay, and that's only half true.

>>7620406
What you need to trump

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>>7620021
If you're anything like me, even having a boyfriend wouldn't help. Day after day. Fuck, I'm exhausted.

>>7620426
I feel like you're right

>>7620421
just watch it, it's only 13 episodes, you can watch that in one night

>>7620021
if you don't have a bf in today's times, you either haven't even tried or you're a tranny.
If the latter, you fucked up.

>>7620443
>tfw I've tried desperately but no one wants me

>>7620443
tfw i'm a tranny T_T

>>7620021
i just want a transgirl gf

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How do I find someone I don't care if it's a guy or a girl, cis or trans at this point.

>>7620451
has it ever occurred to you that maybe your standards are unrealistic or you're looking in the wrong places?

>>7620471
[spoiler]yes[/spoiler]

>>7620436
>just watch it, it's only 13 episodes, you can watch that in one night

You were supposed to ask me round to yours for torrented chinese cartoons and chill, silly.

>>7620467
hi my dude

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>>7620406
From my experience in the gay world, Tinder is full of the guys who are too classy to use Grindr.
To some extent using social media to find a bf is inevitable now, given that there just aren't as many gay guys as there are straight birds.

Try Tinder, check it out for yourself.

>>7620021
is the problem that you cant find a guy or you cant find a guy you like

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zentraedi pls

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>Meet cute guy on tinder
>Invite him to come over, fuck repeatedly, kiss, watch movies, basically have the best day/evening
>Keep talking to him as friends, but never see him as a love interest
>We talk every day, have cam sex, have conversations about life, lots of fun together
>One day he asks me what he thinks about us seeing other people
>Say "I can't stop you, we're not dating"
>mfw he already had found someone else
>mfw only then did I realize I was in love with him
>mfw I let go of a potential boyfriend that would genuinely have made me happy
>mfw this happened on Christmas of all times

Death sounds pretty sweet lately.

>>7621127
if you've found one already, you'll probably find another. or not.
sorry anon but atleast you're probably a decent guy.

>>7621138

I have been in love more times than I can count, but this is the only time that I only felt it after the fact. I wouldn't mind it too much if this was just unrequited love, but I am pretty fucking sure he used to have actual feelings for me and I didn't act on that in time. That's what hurts here.

I console myself by thinking we wouldn't have worked anyway. I am 26 and he is 18.

>>7621143
uhh yeah that is quite a gap but i'm still so sorry for your loss. well... have you told him that you want to get back together?

>>7621172
Yeah sure. I don't know how it's working with the other guy (last I checked they had a fight), but he's done some things I didn't like and I decided to stop talking to him altogether. He didn't value me anyway.

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>>7620396
>tfw dont have any pictures of myself that i like
>cant even make conversations in apps
>will probably get 0 messages anyway

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>>7620021
>I just want a boyfriend
Donald, up to 500 Volt this time.....

I'm so fucking lonely.

I just want a girlfriend, i want someone to love, support and care for.

Will i ever find a clingy QTP2T to keep me company?

>>7620021
Where do you live?

>>7620021
How old are you?

>>7620396
I have a date with a guy I met on tinder next week. Any advice?

>>7621696
Get over your learned helplessness and take control and responsibility over your own life.

>>7620021
I know how you feel
>tfw 21 and never had a bf
Life isn't much fun, wish i had a bf. Considering going onmones just to get chasers to go after me

>>7621127
Are you me.
>be 23
>talking to 18 year old from 4chan discord server
>think we're getting along famously
>starts bragging about how he's talking to some other boy with the intention of fucking them on a shared public chatroom
>flip my shit, bitch at him and remove him on everything
>he's surprised and says he gave up on it
>I add him back
You shouldn't have let him go so easily, Anon.

>>7622912
I let go when I knew I absolutely had no chance. I actually went and confessed my feelings to him, which is pretty hard to do.

I hope it works out for you and your boy, though.

I doubt anyone will reply to this, but does anyone wanna be my bf

>>7624259
No.

>>7624259
Yes!

>>7624500
I take it back.

To all tge single people in this thread. What is the reason that you are single?

>>7624793
I never leave my house and when I do I talk to nobody.

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>cis and trans girl friends complaining about getting 400+ messages on OKC daily
>meanwhile Ive never been messaged by anyone on either OKC or plentyoffish
>no one replies to my messages either

being ugly is bad, but being ugly and boring is worse

>>7624793
Zero personality, too anxious to meet guys or even talk to them online.

>>7624798
>>7624850
What are you going to do to fix the situation?

>>7624860
Initiate contact online.
Got 2 dates so far.

>>7624860
Withdraw from society and eventually off myself

>>7620784
ofuk I'm caught

>>7620528
oh...
round to mine for torrented chinese cartoons and chill, silly?

>>7622077
aus

>>7622456
secret

>>7624259
>>7624500
>>7624594
that was rude anon

>>7626404
W-where in aus?

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>>7624793
Fat and anxious. Relatively interesting from what some people have told me, even if I don't think so, and I have a cute face. Fatness really screws it up tbqh.

>>7626423
south brisbane

>>7626404
What was rude? I said I wanted to be his bf.

The guy saying "I take it back" was someone else.

>>7626433
Weight loss is possible. While I have only lost a little over 20 pounds in the past year, my best friend has lost over 100.

How old are you?

>>7626458
not calling you rude.. It was just kinda funny

>>7626451
Sorry anon, I'm not even close

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>>7626472
18 desu. im 6'2" 270lbs. I also have an extreme food addiction.

>>7626552
At that age you have every chance in the world to turn your life around. You could be in good shape by 22 and have any kind of partner you want.

how do you keep conversations going on tinder? i always find myself unable to find common ground or have a good back-and-forth going

>>7626552
Anon, I'm 23 and I've been in the exact same situation as you for years.

Do yourself a favour, start now. You'd be amazed what you can accomplish in a month or even a year. Don't let yourself sit at that as long as I have.

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>>7626634
>>7626568
It's so hard to get the confidence and motivation to do it. And to control eating
>mfw I even have a weight bench and several other weights and I'm just throwing my life away

>>7626767
I hear you, it took me so long to get the motivation. But trust me, once you get it and start taking action, you'll never look back. Every day you'll start to feel better and better about yourself. It's quite incredible actually.

If you can, keep track of your calories too. See how much you eat in a normal day and try to cut back from there. Having that accountability helps a lot too.

>>7626767
Sounds like your problem is self-control. You know it would be best to eat properly and get exerciese, yet you aren't choosing to actually do it because you lack the self-control to make the correct choice.

The best thing to train self-control is meditation. Here is a handy guide for very basic meditation techniques that help you learn discipline and self-control.

http://zenhabits.net/meditation-guide/

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>>7626775
>>7626789
Thanks anons. I'll try my best to start again. I'm just so desperate for love I'm gonna start somethingb life changing. Life is fun

>>7626831
Best of luck, anon, I'll be rooting for you!

You'll see, a year from now you'll never know why you waited so long to take this step. You'll be far from regretting it though.

>>7622503
I'd be a hypocrite to offer advice mate. Just be able to talk about yourself and able to listen to what they say. Laughing helps I guess. I'm still figuring that part out.