Is it wrong to be closeted if you were never gonna have sex anyway? I discovered I was bi pretty late in life after I already accepted dying a virgin.
Well I'm bi, and I've always figured I'll only go spreading that information around IRL if I actually decide to bring home a boyfriend or a trans girlfriend. It's not that I wouldn't be accepted by my family, but I see no purpose in randomly coming out. Feels like sort of being an attention whore.
I'm not a virgin, but I lost it to a girl.
>>7591343
Never close yourself. Or accept that your closed. It puts you in chains that you put on yourself.
>>7591343
It's not wrong to be closeted, but being closeted doesn't actively hurt anyone except yourself.
>>7591343
>man attracted to men
>dying a virgin
you could get laid five minutes from now
>>7591343
How late in life? I'm gay and didn't have sex until I was 24.
>>7591343
its not wrong to be closeted unless you WANT to be out.
there is no morality to saying 'HEY I LIKE THE THOUGHT OF A PENIS IN MY MOUTH' to anyoen you meet. no one has to know.
its up to you if you want them to know.
we act like its a crime to not tell people you like dudes, but once you start describing the types of porn you watch people get visibly upset.
>>7594535
If you value affirmation from your parents.
My dad is a conservative businessman on the verge of suicide constantly and in debt. Im not coming out to him. Ill show up with a surogated child maybe.
>>7594567
dont be sure. I cant even seem to pay for sex this week its killing me