How does one get a straight, non-chaser bf as an mtf? I've

My straight non chaser boyfriend has been my best platonic friend for a decade. About a year after coming out and 3 months on hormones I started getting romantic vibes from him. One evening he professed his love and asked for a date. We've been together since.

>>7585874
You can do better than Sarina "prolapsed anus" Valentina

>>7585885
That's an awesome story. Congrats
Unfortunately I don't have a male best friend.
>>7585892
I just think she's beautiful. I haven't watched a lot of her porn. Definitely don't want a prolapsed anus though.

>>7585900
First time I heard of her but she is beautiful

>>7585874

Why IS a raven like a writing desk?

All I can say is you just need to look to make more male friends, and it will all fall into place once you are there. Hobbies/activities are a good place to start. Gym? Maybe a club (not a night club though). Just get out there and socialize, doesn't hurt if you have a few girls with you as well, probably make you feel a little less awkward ;)

>>7585955
Yea I guess it couldn't hurt

>>7585874
would it be that bad if the guy initially is interested in you because of your physical you? 99% of actual relationships start purely based on physical attraction and the rest comes naturally later. Find some1 you enjoy looking at even if in the beginning he might be a "chaser". Try to get to know him, do your share hobbies, whatever. Thats how normal people do it at clubs. Just don't get a random sexual deviant from /soc/ or something.

>>7586869
>would it be that bad if the guy initially is interested in you because of your physical you? 99% of actual relationships start purely based on physical attraction and the rest comes naturally later.

Not OP, but that only applies if he's shallow for normal reasons, like he thinks you have nice tits. If he's in it for the dick, I'm shoving breadsticks into my purse and hightailing it tbqh

>>7586880
So how do you tell if they are chasers or not?
Genuinely curious because I've been called a chaser more than once and I'm wondering what I'm doing wrong.

>>7586887
Actually I don't know much about this, since I pass and I don't think chasers notice me, in fact more gay girls seems to notice me than anything (except on Tinder, where it's all guys).

But yeah, I would assume they say something weird about you being trans? Like obviously it's okay to be like "I'm not bothered, I don't mind", but if they're like "trans is beautiful, I love your masculine features" then yeah that's a red flag.

Is there a particular reason you're into trans girls btw?

>>7586887

Honestly, if you’re charming and attractive and willing to treat them like a lady and not as a dirty secret, you’ll rarely be called a chaser regardless of whether you like their dick or not.

>>7586894
>Is there a particular reason you're into trans girls btw?
No I'm just biscum (pan?) and I like people, it's just that cis people don't insult me for liking them (usually anyway).

>>7586896
>if you’re charming and attractive and willing to treat them like a lady
>attractive
ah that's where I went wrong, lol

>>7586910
Oh I see. It's because you're bi. They assume you see them as another feminine man to fuck in the ass.

>>7586914
Well that's pretty backwards, but thanks for the info.

>>7586926
Well, as a bi guy, you're gonna get this from people anyway. "You're gonna leave me for a woman/man". It's just with trans girls, you'll get "you see me as a man", when it's not necessarily true. You'll just have to find one who isn't so insecure.