So I just tried fucking a boy. He blew me for a real long time but I couldn't cum, so then I tried fucking his ass but he couldn't take it after a bit. Then he literally blew me for one and a half hour. We tried a lot, he gave me handjobs while I looked at porn, I tried jacking it but I couldn't get that aroused either, we tried all kinds of kinky stuff but nothing helped. He just couldn't make my cum.
Why? Do I fap too much? Am I just not gay? Or was it simply psychological?
He then proceeded to go outside to smoke and stopped talking to me. He's just laying in bed and it kind of sounds like he's crying. I tried talking to him and comforting him with all my might but the only thing he responded to was me handing him a glass of water. What can I do? I really don't want him to feel bad because of me. I only wanted us both to feel good.
Picture completely unrelated, it was on his desktop and I don't want to browse through his image files without permission.
>>7548142
>he couldn't take it after a bit.
That's the problem.
You actually stopping is the second problem.
You not dressed as a nazi probably the third problem.
>>7548142
Were you nervous at all? I find it next to impossible to cum, when I'm too excited/nervous, dunno why
>>7548142
You aren't gay most likely. Try not to hurt another guy over your mistaken identity.
>>7548142
try not fapping for a few days, look at gay porn, gen in the mood, be gentle with his butt and give it lots of time before you stick it in(he was not relaxed enough last time).
Assuming this is not a bait post, that's pretty fucking funny actually.
I have kind of the same problem!
First time I hooked up with a guy was a couple of months ago, and it was pretty great, I really like him. He made a move on me and suddenly we are in his bed blowing eachother. It was fun and all, but to be honest, I didn't even come close to getting off :/
And he really tried, plenty of times. It was weird because I felt pretty comfortable with him and doing it for the first time, but I was literally shaking in my whole body at times.
I felt bad for not giving him my cum :(
And the same thing happened the second date, 2 weeks later. I got a bit closer that time though.
We're gonna go out soon again, and I don't know if he's gonna "give up" on me if I don't cum? So I have been trying to not jerk off, thinking that masturbation is the problem. But it hasnt gone well at all :p
But jerking off to much can be a problem right? I didn't feel much at all being blown o.O
>>7548142
>He just couldn't make my cum.
It's called performance anxiety.
And it is your fault, not his.
Textbook performance anxiety OP. Don't feel bad. Give it another shot another time. I fooled around the first time when was 23. Didn't lose my V card 'til last year. Chin up.
>>7548142
Cry me a river Nancy, you're obviously a pretend fag so i suggest you go back to where you belong.
>>7550150
What do you get out of this, fag? Self satisfaction that you took all of the hairy 2 inches the first time? Lick mu ass.
>>7550263
>>7550442
Seriously, nobody experiments at an adult age with no self awareness. If you have no constructive comments, keep them to yourself.
i feel bad for gay men,
they try to turn opened minded straight men, but the guy can never get aroused
never have this problemo with straight grills