*****GAY Q/A***** H-hey g-guys... Straight male here with a lot

As far as I've experienced it, homosexual people are quite picky and focus more than straight do on appearance.

I am a gay male and I managed to remain in the closet just because of how masculine I sounded (also why I've been called daddy). Anyway I don't tend to use terms such as honey or sweetie or anything like that. From my experience, gay guys are fairly difficult to get into bed because most of them that I've met are rater picky. I've only been in 4 relationships and my most recent one lasted for 5 years so you could say I'm fairly exclusive. Outside of my relationships I don't flirt with anyone at all it's just how I am.

>>7533047
i am a normal guy who is into sports, video games has loads of straight male friends and has had many girlfriends. I am completely masculine do not have a lisp, dress normally dont act effeminate.
But I am attracted to guys, I have never acted on my urges and never will.
I hate being gay it disgusts me makes me feel less as a man. If there was a cure I would take it in an instant.

>>7533077
I just saw a video where a gay guy said "the two extremes are super masculine, passing for straight and super feminine z snappers"

How is masculinity an extreme for being gay?? I just dont get this. I want to experiment with guys who are gay but just appear straight, how are they the extreme ones? If i want something feminine I will get a girl.

>>7533092
How attracted?

>>7533093
They mean people who put on a front of masculinity and take it to the extreme. As in they get roided, scoff at people who like anything but muh classic rock, and all they do is watch sports. Pretty much a stereotypical meat head.

No one cares about those elsewhere in the spectrum, those that are naturally fem or naturally masc and just do their own thing rather than trying to fit into stereotypes.

>>7533097
I jack off to gay porn and fantasise about guys. Very rarely to I watch porn with women in it.
Mostly attracted just to men. But can be romantically attracted to women, like some of my former girlfriends, but something was missing I never felt lust towards them or a overwhelming desire to have sex with them.

I am a young fit attractive guy who should in the future have a wife and kids. But sadly my brain is fucked up. and I am attracted to guys.

>>7533121
>I have never acted on my urges and never will.
>I jack off to gay porn and fantasise about guys.
Contradiction. You should've specified that you have just never done anything with another man, as you're still giving in to your urges by fapping to men, and fantasizing about them.

Hopefully you find a way to realize happiness some day. No one should live that caged their entire life.

>>7533134
Yes your right it is a contradiction.
Caged???
HA
Oh yes I will be so liberated by catching some disease because I stuck my penis up some guys waste pipe.
Thats why for the rest of my life I will stick to porn to feed my problem

>>7533142
Caged, yes. Cages are restrictions placed on beings to prevent them from doing something. Birds from flying around the house, Tigers from scratching up zoo-goers, Dogs from getting into the kitchen, Babies from reaching anything but toys.
You're going from one extreme to the other, and that's not really a healthy mentality. Going on a date with another guy doesn't equate to getting a disease, it's unfortunate you believe so. Must be a lot of propaganda that's intoxicated you sadly. So I hope you find love and stop being so caged. :)

>>7533142
Bro, you like dudes. Why would you try to force a bullshit relationship with a female? You will destroy your wife.

>>7533150
I want an ordinary life, wife, kids a family. Like all the other men in my family from previous generations.

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>>7533159

There's adoption, just make sure your partner is trustworthy around kids. Alternatively, surrogates if you want the kid to be genetically yours. Expensive, but kids are expensive anyways. Plus with two men and their incomes, you should be well above the man+wife income level from day 1.

It's your choice. Look into your conscious and let that be a deciding factor.

>>7533171
I do not want to marry a man. I will marry a women

>>7533185
Why would you do that when you've expressed little to no attraction to women lol why would you put a girl through that?? Just stay single dude

>>7533185

Watch "Whatever Works" by Woody Allen/Larry David. Then realize how your life and marriage will be a similar sham and end up similarly if you go forward like this.

>>7533185
Have fun living in pointless self hate.

>>7533047

>agnostic to gays
Pretty sure they exist

>Are there any gay men who just act 100% male? No feminine voice, doesnt say sweetie or honey, just like any of my straight friends but gay?
There are the super-femme YAAAAS HONEY SLAAAY ones, the GRRR I'M SO MASC AND DEFFO NOT INSECURE ones, and the ones you don't notice because they like to stay under the radar. There are those who aren't necessarily feminine, but put on glitter or something occasionally as a nod to the community, and there are those who want nothing to do with it.

>As a straight man I would probably be willing to have sex with 50%+ of women I see on the street. Is it like this for gay men? Is it hard to keep away from eachother because everyone is DTF?
Maybe for some, I'm unsociable so I just find it awkward. Irritates me when I look in someones eyes and realise I'm not being listened to for what I have to say.

>Are there any gay guys that are hard to get in bed? Are there gay men who are super exclusive with their partners and have only had relations with a few other men?
Not many, depends where you look. If you're in a metropolitan area, good fucking luck. If you're in a town or village, they'll be split between those who are obsessed with moving to the big city where they can slut around or get a sugardaddy, and those who just want to latch onto someone and settle together. My plan was always to snatch up a city twink and drag him away to the country where I don't have to fend off the other fags.

Hope this helped.

>>7533255
Thanks. So jealousy is definitely an issue in gain relationships just like straight ones?

>>7533185
Don't listen to these cuck faggots, man, I'm sure you can make a marriage with a woman work just like millions of gay men have done in the past.

>>7533310
Thanks for the support. I would hate for my life just to be consumed by degeneracy. All because of some fault in my brain

>>7533307
More polarised I'd say. The jealous ones are uber-jealous, the non-jealous ones are like "Monogamy's for straight people honey"

Why do you ask? Thinking of trying the gay?

>>7533352
...Well explain this to me. Is this just mental illness. Gay porn and dicks disgust me, I would never want to touch one.

I just want a big gay daddy (masculine as fuck) to hold me and kiss my head. Is this gay or weird?

>>7533319
Society is degenerate thinking that gays are abnormal.
Do you like to loose? If not then stand up, say fuck to society, go out and go suck on some bomb ass dick.

>>7533047
Hey OP, relatively normie gay here. Acting 100% male doesn't really mean much because people have different standards for masculinity ( example: who is more masculine; beer drinking truck driver or whiskey drinking businessman?)
But in terms of being straight passing, most people can't tell I'm gay until I bring it up even though I like gay music, glitter, drag queens, all of that.
The gay community has a lot of promiscuity but yeah there are plenty of gay men who are super exclusive but they're usually hard to find. I'm a virgin (not a shock, I'm only 18) and would like to have a boyfriend to be exclusive with but I don't use dating apps and I'm not really on social media. You'd have to know one of my friends to meet me. This is the case with most of these gays.

>>7533047
>Are there any gay men who just act 100% male?
No straight man I met acted 100% male.
>As a straight man I would probably be willing to have sex with 50%+ of women I see on the street.
If you are some sort of standard for straight men, then you don't have standards if +50% of women are fuckable to you.
>Is it hard to keep away from eachother because everyone is DTF?
There's more to life than sex. The fact that this is coming from a gay guy should tell you enough of how pathetic this thread is.
>Are there any gay guys that are hard to get in bed?
Is this bait or are you a retard?
>Are there gay men who are super exclusive with their partners and have only had relations with a few other men?
Are you?
because let's face it you're not.

>>7533310
>millions of gay men have done in the past
lmao no
you mean leading unfulfilled and unhappy lives where the sex is abysmal because they just aren't into it and so they lash out onto their kids and later on in life when the fact that death is nearing, they separate?

fantastic life

>>7533310
>in the past
That should have tipped you off about the stupidity of your idea.

>>7533608
Um. Maybe you have daddy issues?

Maybe you have a burgeoning submissive side which transcends gender preferences, and you're struggling to keep a lid on it?

I don't know, I'm no expert. I've have sex with men and I'm still a bit weird about it sometimes, maybe it's something that needs time to develop into something you can make sense of.

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>>7533701
This.
0/10 OP, try harder.

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>>7533047
Every since I got a bf. I do act like a complete fag in the bedroom and totally become submissive

But I've had to catch myself from doing fem mannerisms or lisping the more times I've had anal sex outside the bedroom

Sometimes my voice just slips into a sissy inflection and I have to catch it

>>7533047
For the first one yeah I'm a pretty standard guy except I like guys and 2 no I'm quite picky mate and frankly a bit of a Stacy when it comes to choosing guys.