Advice for coming out as transgender?
Here's my sitrep. I am 27 going on 28 and been thinking about visiting my family for my birthday in March. My dad knows but my mom doesn't and she's wound up visiting nearby for a wedding and plans to head back for my birthday. She was raised super Mormon and already thinks I might need gay (she sent me a pamphlet in being gay in the church.) I don't want to keep this a secret from her but I'm worried she'll blame herself for messing me up.
>>7502049
Just have her know this was a decision YOU made and reassure she was a good mother (if you consider her to be one) If she is a super mornon, she will sadly take alot to comprehend what you're doing, and in the long run, only positivity and honesty can truly make her understand if she ever decides to.
>>7502049
>I am 27 going on 28
>anime girl
please don't insult real trans women by associating us with your disgusting fetish. kthx
>>7502357
I already knew this...it really is on me, huh?
>>7502049
>posts anime girl
yeah ok dude whatever you say go back to r9k
I could use some advice as well.
>>7502049
I'm sorry everyone is being an asshole to you. I honestly don't have advice though I haven't told mine yet.
>>7502772
On this board, you will be judged harshly for any behavior that suggests you are not the truest of the trans, such as starting "late" or posting 2D girls. I'm not sure this is the right place for you.
Also nice Amaterasu.
My advice is to forget your mom existed
Even my dad who is super jack Mormon at this point (well, he plays Facebook slots) can't get over the indoctrination and will place his fragile narcissistic ego above loving his child.
My mom is dead, I provided so much care and compassion and did the difficult/demanding things that were necessary for her to maintain dignity while taking far too long to die. I really don't understand why I did. I got nothing more than token "thoughtful" comments and my mom still resented the fuck out of me, especially once her liver was fucked up enough she forgot to pretend she liked me.
Just stop giving a duck and be you. Your parents will destroy you instead of let you live.