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Why do trans women have a problem with chasers liking trans women

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Why do trans women have a problem with chasers liking trans women because they are trans? isn't that just a preference? being a chaser that is.

It's no different from a trans woman who only dates biological men.

checked m8
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>>7473304
I want chasers to start dating Femboys too tbhfam. We already have the same body you do. They just can't handle the male identity and role.


Bunch of closset bi cases
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>>7473304
It's a paradox wherein chasers generally like transwomen because they have a more complex understanding of gender than most men, and as a side effect are usually uncucked and gender nonconforming themselves.

Most transwomen however like to define their femininity next to extreme masculinity and other ultraconforming males.
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>>7473304
The problem isn't that they are chasers. It's that they are neck bearded, over weight, and have a lot of baggage in their mental bins. Like keep that shit in the receptacles, amirite? HI-FIVE!
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Only cunts think that way. Trannies outside the internet don't even know that chaser is a thing
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>>7473361
Not true. My gfs friend(doesn't use 4chan, transitioned in her 30s) started jokingly calling her a chaser when she started going out with me.
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>>7473370
If your cis gf has two trans friends, one of whom she is dating, then she probably is a chaser.
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>>7473304
many trans women don't want to be trans and don't identify as such beyond it being a part of their medical history

naturally they wouldn't like chasers who are attracted to them for being trans, the part of themselves which they hate so much
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>>7473387
She kinda is(like whenever we started dating and I was scared to take my clothes off in front of her because my bodies gross she told me she thought it was hot that I was trans) but she also loves me for who I am and sees me as a woman.
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>>7473419
I guess that's not so bad. Maybe trans women should be a little more lenient about stuff like that idk. Like obviously thicc girls don't freak out when their partners love the chub. Makes you think.
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I don't have a problem with chasers on principle. It's just that most chasers are betas, numales, closet faggots, closet trannies, emotionally damaged, or just plain unmasculine. They often go after trans girls because they lack any confidence, and somehow think that trannies are so deperate, they'll fall for them. I'm attracted to masculine guys, and that excludes 99.9% of chasers.

Unrelated homu
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>>7473304
Let me help you translate the language of my brethen.

This is a very simple series of questions.

>1 - Do you want to date them only to suck their feminine benis?
If yes, chaser.
If not go to item 2.

>2 - Are you hot enough for them to ignore the fact you want a part of their body that causes them a lot of suffering?
If yes just a hot guy with a weird kink.
If no go to item 3.

3 - Do you have anything to give them in exchange for the fact they will feel like shit being with you? (ex money for surgeries, etc?)
If yes you're an admirer (cute word for sugardaddy)
If not you're a chaser.

Hope it helps dudebro.
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>>7473483
Agreed. Both chasers and transwomen need to be gatekept on their masculinity. Chasers should be barred access to transwomen in they lack any masculine aspects, transwomen should be barred access to transitioning if they have any masculine aspects. Everything works in turn.
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>tfw not even good enough for traps

I have to admit I'm pretty far gone though, to get to a point where you're actively going after traps means you must not be very successful with woman.Its not something normal guys do.
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>>7473338
>>7473529
You're a preachy hypocrite and get more unlikable by the day. Liked what you said about androgyny and femboyism but you get more obnoxious by the day.
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>>7473588
How was that obnoxious? If you displayed masculine traits or presented male before transitioning you're not trans.

And trutrans people like pic related have presented female since birth so yes, it is possible. Don't complain.
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>>7473529
>access to sex is as important as treating a medical condition

Men are worse than hitler desu
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>>7473602
Possible, but atypical. Besides, the people who repress become enemies and shitposters. If we were the sort of people to apply draconian solutions to social problems, we would have banned you.
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>>7473602
Not really, just femboy who doesn't want to change anything about the way I act or call myself a woman.

I like androgyny, I'm not gonna toss that away because you think only women should be fem.
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>>7474038
Why so? Leaders of movements are not usually emblematic of their purported end product.

>>7474072
Agreed. Why do you think that MTFs are so obsessed with maintaining masculinity in cis males?
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>>7473568
dare to be different
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I have two rules to date a chaser
-he should not be ashamed of me or themself
-he should encourage me to be the most passible and natural looking trans women pissible.

Sadly most chaser not meet those expectations. They actually find you more attractive when you don't pass.
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>>7473483
>They often go after trans girls because they lack any confidence, and somehow think that trannies are so deperate, they'll fall for them.
It worked for me. :^)
Thank you based insecure trannies.
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>>7473523
am guy number 2
feels good man
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>>7473337

Make yourselves a little bit more noticeable in the public eye. Femboys may be more attractive as traps due to the fact that they're less ashamed of their own bodies.
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>>7473337
kek
what the fuck is even a chaser?
t. somebody that thinks he is a chaser
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>>7473304
It's because most chasers only like you because of what is between your legs. A relationship with a chaser cannot be healthy because they will never perceive you as you want to be. It's the same reason men with a fetish for obese woman are called chubby chasers. You deserve the term chaser when your relationship with the object of your fetish would be physically or psychologically damaged with you
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>>7474655
who is that in ur image?
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>>7479053
Girl that I dated a year back, why? I can't give out her name freely.
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>>7479057
oh ok i just wanted to cum on her face thats all.
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>>7479060
that was a prank sry
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>>7478998

Someone who actively seeks to date trans women.
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>>7479156
t chaser was right then
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>>7473304
A lot of times chasers will come at you with sexual innuendos, purposely backhanded compliments, and overly perverted jokes right out of the gate to test your negative reactions, push your personal boundaries, and normalize their disrespectful behavior. If you reject them, the anti-trans slurs and misogyny come out. Like how dare this tranny turn ME down, who do they think they are?

If a guy has no interest in anything but sex due to the fact that I'm trans, and can't be bothered to express at least a modicum of class because they don't think I'm worth it, I don't want to be with them and I don't care how much they think they deserve me.
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>>7473304
I'd say it's mostly due to:
1) Fetishising what she is
Being just someone's fetish isn't a nice feeling, especially if she is looking for an actual relationship to be loved and accepted.

2) Liking her for parts herself that she hates
It's going to be a point of contention in a relationship when one part is trying to push something away and the other party likes that.

3) Based on the above 2, chasers will still tend identify/refer to her as mtf, rather than simply a girl too.
When all you've wanted is to be a girl, and constantly being with a chaser reminds you they're there for that purpose alone, it's going to undo a lot of work.
Honestly, I wish I knew why I chased...it's frustrating...but I just do. :(
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>>7479735
>A lot of times chasers will come at you with sexual innuendos, purposely backhanded compliments, and overly perverted jokes right out of the gate to test your negative reactions, push your personal boundaries, and normalize their disrespectful behavior.

That's just me treating you like I would treat a girl. Walking on eggshells really isn't my style, and since traps are so sensitive about the gender thing I tend to often the fuck out of them quickly.
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>>7480109
Are you really trying to play the pity angle for sex?
"Honestly, I wish I knew why I chased...it's frustrating...but I just do. :("
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>>7480381
No, just expressing my own frustration with myself & lack of self-understanding.
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>>7473304
Go into the average "trap" or "shemale" thread on /b/ or /gif/ and you'll see why.
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>>7473337
Femboys are just failed trannies that either internalized TERF rhetoric or gave up on transitioning because they couldn't pass as women. Most are dysphoric about the male body and role to some degree, otherwise they wouldn't be taking hormones and potent anti-androgens.
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