What's up with gay guys being such sluts?
Is it really so hard to find someone who'd want a long lasting monogamous relationship?
I just want a cute chubby nerdy husbando.
I guess it's the libido. At least on my case. However i'd be up to a traditional relationship yes (I never dated anyone besides one night stand stuff, mind you).
And i'm a pretty cute, chubby nerdy guy. I hope you don't mind me talking about Star Wars all day and putting it on the sexual life.
>>7444928
That's the thing, I want someone pure who doesn't put sex in the first place and treats it as more of an emotional thing and not just an act.
The longer I hang around gay community the more it feels like I'm a weirdo for wanting something like that.
>>7444952
Let me tell you, you're never alone. Never. However, the quality of the gay community on your area is the issue, mister OP.
You have an interesting view of sex. I see it as many things...it can be a proof of friendship, it can be also a empty canvas to paint and explore and experiment.
I cannot give you advice on where to find people who want the same as you due to the lack of experience I have, but, you're not alone, that is what you need to know, OP.
>>7444913
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THIS OP IS A NOTORIOUS TROLL WHO IS OBSESSED WITH
CUTE CHUBBY NERDY HUSBANDO POSTING DOZENS
OF FLAMEBAITS LIKE THIS ON /LGBT/ EVERY DAY FOR YEARS
HE IS NOT A SANE MAN HE IS POSSESSED WITH PARANOIA
YOU CANNOT EXPECT A COHERENT RESPONSE FROM HIM
DO NOT REPLY TO THIS THREAD AND JUST LET HIM ALONE
WHAT HE NEEDS IS NOT A REPLY BUT MEDICAL TREATMENT
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>>7445002
First time I'm making a thread on /lgbt/ actually
Seems like I shoulda lurk more before posting
>>7444913
>What's up with gay guys being such sluts?
Because there are "gay" guys who have a fetish for men, and then there are gay guys who are romantically attracted to men. Learn to spot the difference. It may literally mean the difference between life and death. Clinch up that neg hole and pray you aren't stricken by incubi.
>>7444913
Same problem here OP. It amazes me that even though I KNOW that gay men are pretty rare in this area they always seem to lean towards the "slutty" side. I chalk it up to the immense amount of sexual oppression towards the LGBTQ community in this region and lack of strong reliability in general heavily contributing to these issues.
I don't define myself as a "chubby". I'm up for conversations or whatever though to ease you through the "pain and suffering".
>>7445643
Yeah I feel like it's the main reason people are like this, I live in a fairly homophobic country so that might be the reason.
Sure if you want.
>>7445643
Thats because sluts usually advertise themselves while more subdued dudes are flying under your gaydar.
>>7444913
Sorry all those cute chubby nerdy husbandos are "bears" or "pups" or "cum pigs" and they are all cliquey and slutty. youll never find a real chubby nerd that isnt a fucking cuck
>>7448499
Agreed. Plus, I have a shitty fucking gaydar to begin with. Not that it really matters because again, like I said, gays are rare in this area and/or if they're looking for a "On the DL" kind of relationship, I'm not their man.
>>7448511
I have never quite figured out what "gay label" describes my body type the best but, I don't think I'm any of those things. I do like video games and other nerdy/geeky things and I'm always looking for/working towards a monogamous relationship. Sorry I and other gay men like myself don't live in your area. Keep looking.
>>7448358
How best to contact you without getting slammed with unwanted attention?