Hey lgbt. I've recently considered experimenting with guys to see if I'm actually bisexual or it's just a fantasy. Tomorrow I'm going to have anal sex for the first time (bottom). What should I do to prepare? Is it going to hurt a lot? what can I do to make it as easy as possible? Thanks for your consideration
>>7365094
How do you not know you're a bisexual?
Do you like thinking of men when you wank?
>>7365103
well no. My attraction to men is purely sexual, but I've never had sex with a man. So if tomorrow happens and I hate it, I won't really be attracted to them. also irrelevant
Clean out your backdoor and lube it up. If you don't he could get shit all over his cock, and it'd be uncomfortable.
>>7365120
I figured that. Do you have any specifics? like should I not eat tomorrow or stuff like that? I really am pretty clueless with all this
>>7365118
>My attraction to men is purely sexual
>I won't really be attracted to them
nigga wat
If you're sexually attracted to men and get off on them then you're sexually attracted to men. You are a bisexual
>>7365137
sure then idc i just want some advice
>>7365150
Well be sure you're clean, and yes it's going to be uncomfortable if you haven't been doing in this area before so maybe take it easy
Does anyone have any good cleaning tips?
use spit
beginners guide to buttsecks
A) use good lube, i suggest ky gel, use as much as needed
B) use a condom, bareback isnt safe
C) if possible stretch with a small vibrator or dildo beforehand
D) ask your partner to go slow
E) their is a sharp pain that you can get if you go too big too quickly, simply ask ur partner to take it out and wait 30 seconds for the sharp pain to stop then you are good to go again
F) moan like the slut u are
>>7365721
in terms of cleaning, how should I do approach it?
>>7365767
get an anal douche.
use it to get water up your butt and relax - you don't want it to go up your digestive tract because that'll give you waterfall.
after some seconds, get the water back out. after 2-3 times the water that comes back out should be clear. If it isn't, just wait - there's a dump incoming and will find it's way out within around 30 minutes. afterwards, just repeat again.
If the water is clear, just wait around 30 minutes again. If you hadn't had a waterfall in that time, you're good to go.
At least that's what does the trick for me.
>>7365767
U should get a douch from cvs
They might call it an anal syringe
Quick clean: Squirt a bulb or two up ur pooper to clean out what is there
Full clean: put many bulbs of water up ur butt until u give urself a high colonic. It takes way longer but makes u much cleaner
Or
fast: it takes 8 hrs to digest food, so dont eat for 8hrs before buttsecks, also a high fiber diet will help with cleaning.
I suggest fasting and a quick douching
>>7365902
what's a waterfall?
>>7365927
Douching is odd... i assume he means when a lot of brown water shoots out ur bum
>>7365927
https://youtu.be/xhBUgo4N3oo?t=31
>>7365137
Not OP but I get the idea that for him it's like saying 'I get off on s&m porn, but when I tried it I didn't enjoy it'
Some fantasies are better as fantasies. But if you don't try, you don't know
>>7365094
hello,Please seek Christ you can be forgiven for these sins, friend