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>find local lgbt group in very small town >super happy

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>find local lgbt group in very small town
>super happy and excited cause live in rural very small town with nearly 0 queers

>fast forward today
>it's another "you don't need dysphoria to be trans" episode
>it's another "muh opinion, muh feels, muh activism" episode
>it's another "KILL THE STR8TIES!!!" episode
>it's another "I WANT COOOOOOCK XDDD" episode
>it's another constantly smoking in everyone's faces, drinking and burping everywhere episode
>it's another gay drama episode

Point is, what are your experiences in local lgbt groups? Any horror stories?
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>>7277728
>local lgbt group
Not even once, it doesn't matter where you live. NOT. EVEN. ONCE.
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>>7277728
>be questioning if ftm, very androgynous
>go to school at a local uni
>there's an lgbt group there apparently
>don't go for a while
>hang out alone, bored, drawing and posting on 4chan, avoiding crowded places
>eventually get lonely

>start going at the start of my second semester
>pretty okay people
>a ftm and four lesbians on the board
>a few gay guys hang around, a few more ftms, mostly lesbians
>decide to go every wednesday because i didn't have much else to do

>a few cool people
>bunch of catty bitches though
>stay quiet and draw the regulars for my part
>don't socialize much

>election day for new board members comes up
>get pressured to run, so i halfass it
>go for VP against cisgay iraq vet who is clearly more qualified
>his speech involves lots of ways to improve next semester
>old board is offended
>my speech involves bullshitting about how much the club has 'improved my life', no plans or anything for next semester, just sucking dicks so i can get out of there ASAP
>i win the election

>new board is me, two other ftms, and last semester's president
>everyone but me is super, super tumblr
>every new member we get is also a tumblr autist that likes to call everything problematic
>president apparently can't take criticism
>old board starts gossiping about her behind her back
>tension builds up between the secretary and the president
>she starts gossiping about him, and him about her
>he ends up resigning (should have beaten him to it desu)

TLDR: not even once
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Worst we had were some GSA cunts selling stupid bracelets.
Absolutely refused to buy one which baffled this one girl and amused the one guy I was out to at the time.
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>go to local trans group
>Mostly hons but there are a couple of decent looking people
>Every once in a while there will be one of the annoying "super hons" (literally old men dressed as disgustingly as possilbe)
>Whatever, kinda started making friends with the decent looking ones who aren't as nuts
>Super hons are also racist as fuck, I'm brown so it's a bit of a red flag but whatevs
>Decent looking people stop attending, it's just me and the most freakish looking ones
>They start trying to sit near me and make conversation
>Jet the fuck out of there as soon as that happened
Haven't gone back, it's like a microcosm of my social life where I try to socialize with normal people and I end up only attracting the weirdos, fuck that I'm just going to be a hermit now, not like I even expected to actually make friends for once, fuck it.
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I was a really overly ambitious faggot in highschool, and I wanted to have the great SJW badge of honor that colleges suck honcocks for by saying I helped found a GSA

> Get group of fellow gays and lesbians together in big rural texas highschool
> mostly a couple of fuckbuddies and people from my debate team and the lesbian activists one finds everywhere
> Get everything set up, surprisingly everyone helping found the organization really started getting into it
> School was incredibly homophobic about it, principal and vice principals would literally rip our signs off of the walls
> christian student association held protest
> eventually threaten to sue the school when they passed a bullshit rule that no new clubs could be founded without 100 signatures within like 3 days of when we were scheduled to have our paperwork finished
> the school board agrees to meet with us
> school board holds weird hearing to get public opinion
> queue massive outcry from the ultra christian parents in our city,
> "didn't send my son to school to learn about people who like shit in their mouths" from bleach blonde orange spraytan rhinestone plaid wearing 50 something woman
Sidenote - we sent that clip from someone recording the meeting to the houston news and she was fired from her job as a secretary or some other shit
> Go through all of this horse shit, and finally GSA club is finalized and the first meeting happens
> the 10~ people who helped found it are there, plus like 20+ we didn't know before
> Really excited about turnout, first elections are held
> speech from first contestant for president - 300 lbs landwhale with pink hair and nose ring
> she wins in landslide against me and several others

Never looked back.
Club shut down the next semester.
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>>7279832
Hint: There's a rule against what you just did and I hope the irony hits you when someone inevitably reports you for reporting

That person is not me bc mobile
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>>7277728
I'm gay & not in an LGBT group but in my group of friends I met at a card shop we have two lesbians, and one is bi.

We just play D&D and Magic the Gathering. I don't see a point in going to an LGBT group, I guess it's better than online dating, but still.
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If you mean strip clubs and Grindr. Pretty good, could of been better, not bad though, all around an agreeable experience.
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>>7279884
LGD&D should replace LGBT.
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>>7277728
Are you looking for someone random to fuck? If not then avoid lgbt groups. They are always cancer.
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Youth LGBT group (for ages 14-24) I was a part of appointed a flamboyant, obese fucker as the youth leader. People stopped going to the group meetings because he would sexually harass them. Also because one 15 year old in the group started doing meth and because one of the adult leaders raped one of the 20 year olds.

I left the university LGBT group because I said I was attracted to masculine traits (i.e. secondary sexual characteristics like beards and shit) which is how I explain my attraction to some FtM guys. Lesbian with a short haircut got mad and asked if that meant I was attracted to her. She's wasn't even masc, bro.

Current LGBT campus group at the college I'm doing post-grad at is led by a guy I fucked months ago who I've recently learned does bareback porn, coke, and may have done heroin. No one goes to the group except for him, myself, some fat straight girls, and this one socially awkward kid.
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I was never actually in a LGBT group, but this guy I went to high school with wanted me to help him start a GSA there.

Of course he was a huge dick. One of those self important guys who thought he was the most persecuted just because he was gay and talked over everyone. He loved to hurl around slurs and call people trannies, dykes and shit even when trans people and lesbians told him they were super uncomfortable with that.

Oh and he was one of those sexually harassing, woman hating gay guys. I didn't start transitioning until college and wore push-up bras and shit (thought I didn't like my boobs because they were too small despite being a DD lmao I was a fucking idiot) and he'd just fondle them or smack my ass, and did this to everyone else too. Of course it was okay because he was gay. He wouldn't just up about vaginas being gross or so-and-so having a smelly pussy.

didn't set up a GSA and im glad because he's a fucking ass hole
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>>7279967
>>7279884
This x10000. I've been to LGBT groups, and some are straight up Tumblr cancer, and some are okay but really awkward meetings where you sit around and try to find common ground and make small talk with people you realistically don't have that much in common with. DnD is a fun thing to do and half the people in my groups always end up being queer anyway.
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>>7280117

>Lesbian with a short haircut got mad and asked if that meant I was attracted to her.

Lesbian getting angry over someone else's sexual preferences.

Kek.
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>>7277859
10/10

>>7279818
Beautiful

>>7280015
The best kind

>>7280117
888

>>7280174
>DD

>>7280323
I fucking hate this one ftm cult leader who brainwashes these sheltered, non binary girls into hating straight white men when he looks and behaves like a numale cuckle despite how good and funny his speechs can be while still having some shred of respect for him, bizzarely. How the fuck he convinced Virgin Atlantic to donate 300,000 £ to the organization is beyond me.
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>>7279884
>>7279967
>>7280323
A little offtopic but man, I wish I knew how to play shit like DnD. Moreover I wish I had someone to play it with in the first place, but... There's a recent coffee shop in my town that does DnD sessions but I'm scared 1) it'll be awkward as fuck 2) not welcome to complete tarded noobs.
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>>7280389
Jesus Dude just pick Fighter or Paladin for your first time and you're golden. Watch a youTube video beforehand maybe to learn some of the basics.
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I've only been in several small(7-16 people) online LGBT communities. Does that count?
Though they are more like groups of friends who were initially drawn together by their relatively common struggles of being gay/bi/trans. Pretty comfy places.
>>7277728
> it's another "I WANT COOOOOOCK XDDD" episode
What's wrong with wanting cock? I think that's a desire a lot of us can relate to.
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>>7281330
Didn't express that very well; what I meant was them being extremely overly sexual towards everyone, always flirting, always playing sexual games, to the point of somewhat sexual harrassment, even with underage kids. Not saying you gotta be a prude, but I myself get fucking put off with moaning and turning everything into a sexual joke and flirting every 5 seconds.
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The worst part about the lgbt group in my town is that they are super strict when it comes to alcohol. They'll actually kick you out if they discover you ever tried alcohol in your own free time.

Also, the majority of people there are like twelve years old.
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>>7282054
Kek it's the exact opposite here. People look down upon you if you're not drinking and smoking and fucking 24/7. I let peer pressure get to me and drunk and destroyed my health. Thank god I cut off things before I started smoking, drugging and fucking too. They're pretty pro-HIV too and everytime you mention "safe sex" they get triggered.

LGBT local groups are like your local anime clubs. Very rarely you will find actually half decent people. I call this the animebu phenomenon.
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As a tranny, I only go to dedicated trans support groups. "LGBT" groups are cancer.

LGBT groups always seem to attract cis white "bi" girls who only ever seem to date men, and "bi" beta males who are basically just hoping they can score with the bi girls.

At this point, I'm not convinced "bi" is even a thing. It just seems like an excuse for straight people to validate their low self-esteem.
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>>7282054
>>7282536
That's interesting. My local LGBT group definitely has both types of people but it's mostly a mix of somewhere inbetween. Typical person is slightly more sjw than normal and likes drinking and partying slightly more than normal, but on the whole they're easy to get along with.
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>>7277728
We have one lgbt in state- (lgbt česká republika)
Honestly it sucks. They ignore and hate me bcuz one of them dumped me, for no reason, just stopped responding. Propably bcuz I ran out of money, after buying him things and food.
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>>7281660
>overly sexual and flirting a lot.
The reason for this is that after being unable to freely express your feelings you go overboard when you finally allow yourself to. They'll generally grow out of it.

It's the same sort of phenomena that happens when old people come out and get overly sexual for a couple years. Often this is called delayed adolescence. And what the younger guys are experiencing is this, but not as bad because they didn't supressed themselves as long.

>Tldr: Basically they need life experience with being allowed to flirt. They don't have it yet and are going to flirt like they are 13 for a while until they figure it out.

>with underage
This is inexcusable for anyone.
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Where do I go if I'm a 4/10 transgirl and wanna get hit on by girls?
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>>7287732
And not old hons.
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>>7277859
sounds fun
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