>gay male in long-term relationship
>develop feelings for another guy
>he's engaged to another man and set to get married on Christmas Day
>we fool around with each other behind our partners' back
>we agree to dump our boyfriends so we can be together
>he breaks off the engagement with his fiance
>I have an abrupt change of heart and decide that the idea of leaving my boyfriend is too heartbreaking, and that I would rather end the affair instead
>now he's upset and blowing up my phone with messages, telling him that I ruined his life and that he's all alone now
It never fails to amaze me just how deeply we can hurt others without the first ounce of malice.
>>7267612
Well he's not wrong.
>>7267612
Make fun of him and post the messages lol
>>7267612
You two knew from the beginning that cheating on your partners would hurt them. You're just reaping what you sowed now.
>>7267612
You cheated and then tried to make a commitment. Especially since it sounds like you both had love with other people and this was a mostly sexual thing. This is just karma biting you in the ass.
>>7267629
Always this fucking moralfag...
if they had kept their mouths shut and never played with the idea of leaving their partners for a steamy fling none of this would have ever happened.
However they really do only have themselves to blame. Mostly the self part.
To be clear, my boyfriend knows nothing about this and never will. I'm taking this to my grave. The other guy is the one who lost everything, not me.
>>7267645
He's probably going to let your partner know.
>>7267652
Yeah this. You better hope he can't find him/get his number/email etc.
It's probably a GREAT idea for you to move your prized possessions into storage for now.