I found the perfect guy, but I like girls. What do?
He's my best friend and we play video games every day together. The last 4 times he came to visit me, he brought me flowers. (He lives a state away.) He even brought me pumpkins to carve because I complained I didn't carve one this year. I kinda fell for him, he's extremely sweet.
He asked me out on the 29th. I said yes. The 30th was my birthday and we went to a strip club. He bought me a lap dance and was able to see it all go down from where he was sitting. I ate the girl out and my face "showed pleasure that he could never give me." So now he's jealous and honestly, I think he has right to be. Because I DO prefer girls. And I definitely want to go back there at the very least.
Help.
normally i'd say if you're not attracted to him, don't date him. but if it's only been literally two days, you should probably wait it out a little longer.
>>7145948
I definitely want to at least give him a chance, especially since he's so sweet. But I feel so conflicted.
>>7146077
Maybe this is just bringing out the Bi part of you. Give him a chance.
>>7146077
but do you find him attractive though? can you imagine kissing him? cuddling with him? having sex with him?
You should probably try to figure this out, before you get this or it could mess a lot of your relationship up. Doesn't even have to be gay or bi or shit. Nobody cares about the rest of the male population. Just make sure you'd want to kiss and fuck him.
>The 30th was my birthday and we went to a strip club. He bought me a lap dance and was able to see it all go down from where he was sitting. I ate the girl out and my face "showed pleasure that he could never give me."
>So now he's jealous
Seriously? What the hell did he expect would happen?
You and him need to get a clue. Figure out how you feel about him and stop stringing him along. It will end badly otherwise.
>>7145797
>was able to see it
>I ate the girl out
O tempora! O mores!
Even if you did give him a chance you just gave hint that he would never truly be happy with you after seeing you with a female. I say let it take it's course but I doesn't seem as if it's going to end well.
>>7146340
We've talked about this stuff before, I didn't actually think he'd get jealous. I didn't get jealous at all when he got his lap dance. And he actually came too.