Is it gay to just have gay fantasies? >21 year old straight

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>>7144602

Don't think so.
Pretty much the only way I can get off without porn is by fantasising that I'm getting fucked by men/boyfriend but it's mostly just a fetish and I identify as straight.

>>7144602
So do you like traps or not? I can't tell from your post if you're intentionally avoiding it or if you stay away from it because you don't like it.

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>>7144602

THICC
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>>7145044
LOL
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>>7144602

Anyone else wish they had an ass like that?

>>7144697
not really
dont they identify as girls?

>>7145600
Anyone doesn't?

>>7144602
Why can't you be bi?

>>7145932
I'm asking if you're physically attracted to them. They have more feminine bodies and they have that beautiful cock you lust for.

I'm sure a lot of traps do, but plenty are just androgynous crossdressers.

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>>7144614
>>7144602
Lol. Most stupid denial I've ever heard... oh wait no.. its most common and regular denial as ever.

You are both gays. If your cock gets hard from thinking of how SOMEONE ELSE FUCK YOU IN A BUTT then you are gay. All other "thinking I'm straight" - is just socially acceptable life camouflage.

>>7144602
You're bi.

I've been full conservative-tier straight until about 14, where I started groping my ass.
Over the years it went all the way to insertion of multiple fingers, and some phallic objects, but I still wasn't really into traps or anything so still het.
At 17 I once looked at gay porn to try it out but felt nothing.
Don't know at what age exactly but I got more and more into traps over the years. Must have been around 18-20. It wasn't only interest in traps but also in my own sissification; both together.
By now, 22, I'm not just quite interested in traps/trapping, but actually advanced to full-on gay fantasies, and really wish to fulfill those fantasies eventually.

Getting a gf now but if it doesn't work out with her or if she allows me, I'll probably see that I have both-ways sex with a guy at some point. I'm not big on receiving handjobs or blowjobs by a guy, but penetrating a boy/man anally is a very exciting fantasy, and I love (in my fantasies) holding, sucking, and getting penetrated by cocks.

Bought a dildo and some plugs recently. Initial excitement died down pretty fast but every once in a while I use it. Feels good.

I don't know yet what all this means. Two theories: 1) in my nature I'm simply het or 95% het but gained a fetish for gay stuff due to the taboo effect over the years, and 2) I was always bi but had been repressing the homo side (and I love women/girls a LOT so it wasn't hard).

Anyone else had similar experiences? How do you interpret it?

>>7144602
Well no
You identify as straight - you're straight

>>7148607
If I'm a biological male and have sex with biological males and identify as a straight man, and if you're a biological female and have sex with other biological females and identify as a straight man, and if both our identifications are valid, then the term "straight man" loses any and all meaning and becomes utterly and thoroughly useless as a term.

Self-identification is such fucking bullshit. The way language works is: a group agrees upon a clear definition of a certain term, so then everyone can objectively observe to whom that term does and doesn't apply.

I'm not attracted to men, but I'd be lying if I said getting fucked in the ass wouldn't feel good.

Here's a thought: what does the "B" in "LGBT" stand for?

>OP: hey guys, I find men sexually attractive, does this mean I find men sexually attractive??

Gee I wonder. Why do we have this thread every day?

Sage

>>7153181

He brings up a good point though. Fantasy isn't reality, you could envision a certain scenario to be good, then actually experience it and dislike it.

>>7153209
This is where relying on flimsily defined labels such as those we use for gender start to hinder more than help.

When I say 'gay' I mean someone who is more or less exclusively attracted to masculinity, and when I say 'bi' I mean someone who is attracted to masculinity and femininity. In both cases it's pretty irrelevant whether they will actually enjoy gay sex, it's just about their attraction at the time, which is why I'd break down OP's question the way I did.

>But that's not what Gay means!

Yeah, maybe not to some people, but such is the fluidity of the English language. That's part of why, in my opinion, the only reason anyone should bother with labels like that is convenience. Anything more in depth should probably be fixed with a working definition at the outset.

TLDR; it's a boring question, because it's mostly objectively meaningless

>>7153231
*gender

Meant sexuality, I'm tired as fuck

>>7144602
If it's all about the anal, then not necessarily. Would you equally get off to being anally dominated by a woman?