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What kind of guys do transgirls end up dating if they don't

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What kind of guys do transgirls end up dating if they don't go for chasers?
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Proposition Q: Chasers are guys who date transgirls
Proposition R: Straight transgirls will date guys

If so, then straight transgirls only date chasers
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we find guys that are secure in their masculinity and sexuality
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>>7114354
Chasers are guys who have a fetish for chicks with dicks, as opposed to guys who like girls and don't mind if they've got different plumbing.
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Nerds.
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>>7114328
IDk, it depends? All over the field in terms of attractiveness. I've seen ridiculously good looking trans girls with ridiculously good looking guys, I've seen vaguely pretty trans girls with neckbeards and I've seen not really passing trans girls with average looking guys.
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>>7114328
Fembois
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Anime nerds who can't score high enough to get one of the few anime nerd girls but high enough to get a girl with dick anyway
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>>7114541
What if they're post-op?
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>>7114328
Speed runners, apparently.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8WotPzG2nys
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Cute hipster boys who were probably emo/scene/goth/etc in high school thus don't give a shit about being seen as masculine, and in turn, have no problem publicly dating trans girls; that, or other trans girls, thus fulfilling the tranny prophecy that all trans girls will eventually go transbian status.
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>>7114541
those guys who like girls and don't mind "different plumbing" are chasers too, but they lie better
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>>7115166
Exactly this. No straight guy who's not into chicks with dicks would ever date a tranny. They would be disgusted to the point of gagging when it took off its panties. It's just a fairy tale that trannys tell themselves to make themselves feel better.
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fat ugly weirdos in my case because they make me feel wanted
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>"WAAAH CHASERS JUST WANT TO PLAY WITH PENIS"

http://i.4cdn.org/gif/1477051690834.webm

>Trannies say they don't want you playing with their cocks
>"Play with my cock, baby."

Then what did she mean by this?
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>>7115187
I think it gets past the point when the guy wants the tranny to fuck him, chaser wants to suck transgirls dick, chaser wants to play around/jerk off transgirls dick.
I think thats mainly what its about.
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>>7114541
>straight guys
>not minding about a dick instead of vagina
>

Fucking kek. It's literally just this >>7115166
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>>7115358
its porn, its fantasy

most chasers fantasize about being dominated by a dickgirl with a massive dong. in reality what ends up happening is them topping trannies with minimal contact with their dicks because that's the most they can get out of them.
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>>7115441
>most chasers fantasize about being dominated by a dickgirl with a massive dong

not me

t. chaser

i don't have any particular desire to touch a mtf's cock (which is usually why they're so butthurt about chasers, btw, because they don't want to fuck people/have their dick touched)
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>>7115715
not sure if you're lying to the me, to the trannies that might be reading this or to yourself
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>>7114328
That's a bit of an oxymoron. I'm sorry if it upsets you, but a heterosexual man cannot, by definition, be attracted to a penis. Post-op is a bit of a grey area.
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>>7115738
why would i want to touch a tranny's dick tho
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>>7115750
because the whole appeal of a tranny is that its a "girl" with a dick
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>>7114328
my boyfriend is a normal frood, apart from the fact that he likes "memes" a little too much for the average person. Otherwise pretty normal dude.
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>>7115759
except that he secretly jerks off to "huge cock shemale porn"
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>>7115769
hah, I know you'll reach for literally anything to try and put me down, but I feel pretty good about my relationships I've had.

He's even less sexual than me actually. . . Huge bummer, cuz I want D every other day, but we still love each other.
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So what exactly is wrong with a "chaser"? Because chaser to me sounds like a guy who likes trans people, I dont see whats wrong with that. People have preferences.
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I prefer post-op transgirls that can pass. Unless the day I want to have kids then I dump em for a real woman that can give birth.
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>>7115759
You know that feminine penis is a big-time meme nowadays, right?
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I ended up with a guy that works in a lumber yard. We've known each other for years before I transitioned, and he's always loved my personality so when I became a woman he totally just went for it.
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>>7115166
bi guys exist
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>>7115868
Chasers tend to treat us shitty/less than human.
They also tend to be gross neckbeards.
Also they tend to be secretly trans (often agp style) which is frustrating when you want a straight relationship.

I happened to find a supper attractive guy who was super into me. I wondered why and how I got so lucky, well turns out in a state of blackout drunkenness my big tall muscular, hairy manly man, was jealous of my transition and wished he could have done the same. He also has his ideal form of being a cute little girl with a huge cock.
Luckily none of my clothes will fit his manly ass, because it would just be terrible. But he's really fucking hot so I can deal. Lol
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>>7115959
>well turns out in a state of blackout drunkenness my big tall muscular, hairy manly man, was jealous of my transition and wished he could have done the same.

Holy shit, I have never thought of it that way.

Personally, I just want to date hot bitches.
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>>7115931
Yeah, bi guys is what trannies call "chasers"
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>>7116042
fuckoff, bi guys are the best

A "chaser" is someone who is literally making it priority #1 to find a "chick w/ a dick."
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>>7115980
Eh, that's cool.
Basically one way to not be labeled a chaser is to be somewhat attractive.

My standards are pretty low/there is more wiggle room when it comes to men's attractiveness for me. Basically don't be a neckbeard, don't smell weird, don't be ugly, i.e. just don't be physically deformed.

Bonus options include(But not nessicary): not having shit their taste in anime, playing video games with me and being able to keep up with me physically(I do yoga, ski, snowboard, surf, and am thinking about taking up MMA). That and making a decent amount of money, I'm not going to be a sugar momma.

Apparently I'm pretty cute already, and I'll only get better looking with a bit of facial surgery, in the form of a nose job/trach shave, and a boob job. Paying for it all out of pocket after the winter season.

Point is I feel no need to lower myself for standard neckbeardy chaser scum. But a normalish guy is totes fine with me.
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>>7116059
Who says bi guys do not make this the #1 priority?
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>>7116107
You're more entitled than real women and you're a crossdressing freak who thinks they're the other gender, now that's impressive.
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Asexual guys?
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How does one acquire a transgirl BF without being derided/rejected for being an alleged "chaser"?
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>>7116867
99% of transgirls are hypersexual and aromantic. If you don't put out for them then don't bother.

If one of them ever said that she loved you romantically she was just saying it just to say it. I wouldn't bother...
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>>7116894
Meant for
>>7116835
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>>7116155
fucking this
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>>7116867

play hard-to-get and have a big dick
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>>7116921
Well that's fucking gay(if you're dicklet)

To bad every single tranny is an ugly piece of shit, that I wouldn't touch with a ten foot pole
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Why do all the transies not want there dick played with?!? Play with my little dick daddy
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I hate being a chaser. Because of weird old men who watch too much shemale porn, we all have a bad name.
I like dick but mostly want an MTF gf because it'd be easier than dating a cis girl.
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>>7117321
>MTF gf because it'd be easier than dating a cis girl.
AHAHAH
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>>7115757
that's aesthetics
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>>7117368
If a guy finds tits aesthetically pleasing he is going to want to touch them
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>>7117339
Easier in the way that I'd be able to understand the dysphoria and stuff like that.
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>>7117283
>Why do all the transies not want there dick played with?!? Play with my little dick daddy
Not true i ahve been with trans girls who asked for it and also ones who wanted to fuck me but
I said nope
>>7117380
not exactly

Not that guy because i want to touche everything, but I'm not interested in tricking people into letting me fuck them or touch them when they are not into that

It's a Huge turn off for me when my partner is not into or enjoying what i'm doing it's boring and i lose my erection
I want a trans girlfriend who likes being fucked in the bum and likes being sucked and having her tits played with etc
I'd prefer a versatile girlover one who doesn't want em looking or touching her penis
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>>7114354
>Proposition R: Straight transgirls will date guys

wait, if a transgirl is genetically male, but dating a male, isn't that then gay not straight?
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>>7115930

>gib details

How you met, some cute or funny anecdotes from before transition, how he took it when you came out, and your first date, please.
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>>7114743
This.
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>>7116155
How So?
My basics are as stated:
>Basically don't be a neckbeard, don't smell weird, don't be ugly, i.e. just don't be physically deformed.

Everything else is just a bonus. How is that entitled?
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god i wish i knew.

so many dudes are just boring af and dont do anything with their lives, or just dont care about their appearance at all.
the ones that do? gay.

perhaps i should just pretend im a twinky faggot?
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I have incredibly low self esteem so I fetishise lower status women (disabled, scarred, ugly, trans) because I can't handle being in a relationship with someone I consider more attractive than me because I feel like they will inevitably leave me. Basically I want a trans gf because in my fantasy no one wants them and I can save them and show them the love no one else can. I don't mind the dick being there, I don't actively want to touch it but I will a little bit if she's into it. I have no desire to suck the dick or get fucked in the ass and will never consider doing that. I'd probably also fuck a twink but wouldn't date one.

Am I a chaser?
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>>7116107
>mma

I would gladly rear naked choke you, if you know what I mean.
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>>7118123
Trans girl here and I say no. Your reasons for "fetishizing" trans women have nothing to do with their bodies, and probably extend to your average cis female NEET.
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>>7118123
you either a) are lying to yourself about the reasons for your desires or b) need to get your shit together. that's how you get yourself into terrible life wasting relationships.
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>>7118138

Lying to myself about what? I just said I'd fuck a dude, but that I'm more into chicks. I don't know what there is to be in denial about?
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>>7117424
Okay, I'll bite.

I met my boyfriend 4 and a half years ago, while I was working overnights at a local store. I was a pretty sarcastic kid, and he came in one night and just stayed there for a few minutes after buying something, and then said that I probably thought he was sketchy as hell. I responded by telling him no, and it is true. I am really good at reading people by their mannerisms and demeanor, and I could tell that he was a gentle soul despite the exterior gruffness.

We basically slowly exchanged general life stories and anecdotes over the course of several years. I was completely oblivious to this, but apparently he always thought I was super attractive which super confused him which is why he always hung out with me while I worked, to try to understand it because he had always chased girls for all of his life, and been married once with kids.

So when I came out, he was really relieved because it all made sense to him finally and he understood that he was attracted to the woman in me. So when I got to the point in my transition when I started looking for relationships, such as with okcupid and whatnot, he panicked and expressed him interest and love, and I took him back to my place and we seriously talking about it, because in a way we had sort of been courting for 4 years almost. And I am convinced that he isn't a chaser because for the first 4 years of that he didn't even know what trans was.

We've been together for 7 months now, and I have been transitioning for 1.3 years. Rocky ups and downs. Honestly, he's been given far more shit for being with me than I expected though. Actually, noone has even really approached me about that at all, which I find a bit odd.
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>>7114328
Chad or another tranny or an alt girl.
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>>7118339

>Chad
>Fucking a tranny

The only scenario in-which this happens is if Chad is a closet case, basically making him a chaser.

t. former chad
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Musicians, classical musicians.
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>>7118354
chads are too scared of being called a fag by their bros to date a transgirl.
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What happens if you fall for a girl that's post-op Trans?

Still chasing?

What the fuck?
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>>7118610
If you genuinely fell for her and didnt seek her out because shes trans, you're not a chaser. Even if she's pre-op
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>>7117404
In some cases, genetics has very little to do with anything. There are women with an XY genotype who are cis and have had a female phenotype from birth. They're infertile, but they exist. The concept of biological sex is a really muddy and flawed one and has little or nothing to do with this.

If you're a guy and you see a trans woman as a woman, and you're attracted to her as a woman, then that's heterosexual attraction plain and simple. Nothing homosexual about it.
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>>7115959
>I happened to find a supper attractive guy who was super into me. I wondered why and how I got so lucky, well turns out in a state of blackout drunkenness my big tall muscular, hairy manly man, was jealous of my transition and wished he could have done the same.
This happened to me as well except he was not really masculine/manly or muscular and 1-2 months after we broke up turned out he is a tranny in denial and has some transphobic thoughts.
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>>7116107
Hey, all of that sounds fine, just as long as you arent the type that immediately labels any guy who is interested in you as "chaser." Thats what I thought trannies did until reading >>7115959 , and I totally understand why you would want to avoid that type of person. But I am not that person, and I would still date a trans girl, and I kinda find dicks sexy (but not men).
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>>7118328
that gave me an erection
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>>7115769
Yeah...normal dude.
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>>7118328

So he talked to you about him seeming creepy because he was attracted to you, or did that come after a while? How old were you two when you met?
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>>7117388
Ewww they weren't trannies they were cross dressers you fucking idiot go back to /gaygen/.
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>>7127095
hormones and breast
I didn't bottom anyhow you loser
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>>7127095
>All transwomen are the same Hurr durr
>All women have the same sexual preferances derp doo
Please stop acting retarded
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>>7114328
>What kind of ****guys**** do transgirls end up dating...

There is your problem right there... They date cis Girls unless they are dick mongering plebs.
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>>7115008
kek so awkward
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>>7126437
No, he didn't talk to me about being attracted to me until about a year ago. The initial time we met he said "I probably creep you out, I just find you interesting and want to talk to you for a bit." It just turned out that he was in a bit of a lonely spot and wanted someone to talk to because of life things and he was in a low self-esteem funk.

I was 27 when we first met, and he was 40, so there is a bit of an age difference.
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>>7114328
i wound up dating and getting engaged to a normy cis straight white male

as long as you pass and are attractive you have the same avenues for dating as any other cis female. you just might strike out more often with guys because of the whole "tranny" thing
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>>7115187
This, no straight guy wants a girl with a dick or axe wound, he wants a real girl.
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>>7114328

> implying I'd date a transgirl

I swear MtFs are so mentally ill because I see different version of these same obsessive threads every day. This is why FtMs are so much fucking cooler.
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>>7114379
H A H A
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>>7116155
This
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>>7127499

I meant was he attracted to you from the start or did that develop later, not when he told you he feels attracted to you. So you think of your 27 year old self as a kid?
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>tfw you have the perfect bf who is just a normal guy who loves you so much that your bottom parts dont matter.
>tfw he calls it cute in comparison to his
>tfw he tells you you'd look so cute with a vagina when you bring up wanting one
>tfw you mention this thread and all the nasty comments that constantly plague transgirls
>tfw he says those people are just repressed, jealous, or a angry lesbian.

tldr; i found the perfect guy that disproves all your shitty insults
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>>7128009
It's insecure trans girls who need post like yours who make these threads, mate.
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>>7118328
I am so jealous. This is like the ideal way to meet someone. Instead of meeting someone as a woman and having to disappoint them by revealing your trans-status it happens the other way around, you meet them as a man and surprise them by revealing you were really a woman.
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>>7114328
other transgirls lol
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>>7128009
lmao your bf doesn't exist. i am impressed you'r e even able to post with delusions this strong.
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>>7128009

>tfw no qt bf like yours
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>>7114328
>What kind of guys do transgirls end up dating if they don't go for chasers?
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>>7116042
>biguy, but lean more to girls
>have crush on one guy friend
>all the same interest, similar personalities
>never made a move
>they came out as trans, but feelings for them at the time didn't change
>slowly drifted apart
>graduated high school, didn't hang out with much of old friend group
>fell in love with a cisgirl, and have been dating her for 2 years
>old friend who i had a crush on, adds me out of the blue with their new account
>solid pass & looks beautiful since transitioning, even tho they've only done hrt
>feelings start coming back
>find out they had a crush on me too
>conflicting emotions between her & my girlfriend
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>>7128320
prove my point further. get a life
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>>7114328
I'd go for a femboy. I'm not attracted to a lot of masculine features usually, and I like somewhat feminine and androgynous gender expressions in general, as long as it's somewhat well done. I'm also attracted to those who I can tell are far more intelligent than me, though it is an absolutely unapproachable kind of attraction. So I guess it's more of an intense admiration with some amount of repulsion due to intimidation.
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>>7118123

I know a guy who married a trans woman for exactly this reason, save her, eternal love, never leave him. It's been going shitty because she's a selfish brat and he doesn't really love her
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>>7114354
chasers are they guys who message you
"hey man, do you have any panties?"
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>>7128324
Wanna go out?
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>>7118328
>So when I came out, he was really relieved because it all made sense to him finally and he understood that he was attracted to the woman in me

aww
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>>7118560
Substantiate your claim
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>>7116155
>how dare you not directly cater to everyone who wants to fuck you
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>>7114328
Ones with class that know how to talk to women, aren't chronically insecure about their masculinity, and don't act like single-minded and entitled hornballs who fly off the handle and call you names if you don't immediately express interest.
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>>7130312

Sadly, there's a reason I'm not in an official relationship.
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>>7127966
He told me that he was attracted to me from the start but got super confused by it, but he hung around to get to know me anyways even though it was weird for him.

I do think of being 27 as sort of a kid, but only in that the life I led then was so simplistic and different from the one I live now. So much more complicated, but so much better!
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>>7116151
everyone but you
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>>7130741
So we can only be friends.

I see how it is.
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>>7132992

I'm just saying you'd be uninterested because I don't pass and likely ugly. I haven't even started removing my facial hair permanently (no job).
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>>7133059
Well get to work, bitch.
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>>7134250

Waiting until I pass my driver's test (22 of November). Why am I a bitch?
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>>7115187

I refuse to suck dick but I do eat their asses out
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>>7134297
Because all females are bitches
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>>7120453
Yeah, both of those were my comments.
There is a huge difference between guys that are chasers and guys who just happen to be into trans chicks.
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I honestly don't think chasers exist outside the internet. I've never seen or talked to one in real life.
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>>7118872
>In some cases, genetics has very little to do with anything.

In some cases, humans are born with genetic mutations ranging from "oh my god its disgusting just end its suffering please" over "Holy shit he has 14 and a half legs and 5 nostrils" to " a female with a XY genotype who is cis"


Its nothing but a mutation or a dysfunction, more likely the later.

>The concept of biological sex is a really muddy and flawed one
No its not.
You have a XX or a XY Allosome, which was set in the second this certain chromosome pair was duplicated (or fused) in your mothers womb, basically when your "first" official cell formed.

Its a pretty complex process where two parts, your mother half of a XX (so its X eitherway) and your father XY (so its either X or Y) combine with a 50/50 chance of a XX or XY outcome.

And this "little" difference will determine things like
estrogen level
progesterone level
testosterone level
From the start of this humans life to the end of it.
And THIS hormonal difference will determine the humans behaviour and growth, and it defines the difference between male and female.

Its very defined.
And any "special" cases where something is off and unregular, is most likely a malfunction in the production or reception of certain hormones, or a malfunction in the creation of the humans DNA, which, since its a single very fragile process, is bound to happen from time to time.

>If you're a guy and you see a trans woman as a woman, and you're attracted to her as a woman, then that's heterosexual attraction
It depend on the amount of male features.
Is "she" or whatever it is, has a dick, and you are into that, you arent straight, no matter how much you say "shes a women" when you imagine you fucking her.

If you are attracted to male characteristics you are a faggot.
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>>7128294
> by revealing you were really a woman.
You mean
> By revealing you really wanted to be a women
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>>7135415
I don't want to be a woman, I have to be in order to feel comfortable. If it were my choice I wouldn't transition.
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>>7114328
imaginary
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>>7114328
I would date a transgirl. But I would want to date one who is okay with having her dick played with. I'm sort of a hipster-looking dude I guess. Can be pretty effeminate looking. Have only ever dated cis girls but I'm not really concerned with the "image" of dating a trans girl. So if I found a cute one that I liked, sure.
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>>7138479

>I'm sort of a hipster-looking dude I guess.

So a numale?
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>>7138596
pretty much. got the glasses an everything. except my ideology is probably a little edgier and i dont have a social media presence.
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>>7138647
You don't sound like a chaser, but you kind of sound like a douche.

Would still bone tho
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>>7138683
i am kind of a douche. also a problem drinker. good for a hump and dump maybe but all i have to offer emotionally is chaos and pain
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>>7118123
So this is why people like Hanako. I always wondered.
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