Any other FTM guys having trouble finding male partners? I'm passing, and sometimes they come to me first, but when I tell them they gun it. Starting to give up on this dating thing.
Have you considered dating other ftms? If not, then you'll quickly realize why most gun it (because they don't want a pussy, both literally and figuratively).
Try online dating
>>7090776
I thought I'd have a better chance with bisexuals, guess not
>>7090772
Cis gay man here
I like the idea of dating a FTM guy, but haven't met one I'm interested in yet. The two I have met were both quite feminine.
>>7090783
Most people I've tried dating online usually fetishize the fact I'm FTM, which is something that I'm not looking for,
>>7090798
>fetishize the fact
It's going to be really hard to find a guy who's into you, but not (specifically) into the part where you're FTM. Genitals are pretty important to most gay men.
>>7090772
straightscum trans guy here, but:
http://notanotheraiden.com/faq-gay-men-and-gay-ftms-redux/
the guy behind notanotheraiden is a gay trans guy who doesn't date many bisexuals due to bad experiences with them AND is an exclusive top AND has completely fucked genetics that made him the true ftm equivalent of a hon (5'0", perceived as androgynous after 10 years on t), but still went stealth-ish and got laid all the time, at least at the time he was writing the blog
if he could do it so can you
>>7090840
Hey, that's a great read. Thanks for the inspo, Anon, I'll make sure to make them thank you in my obituary
>>7090772
actively search for bisexual men. they are the most likely to be into you.
lots of dating services let users label their orientation, though many guys won't actually admit their bi because both cis guys and gals tend to hold prejudice against bis
Gay men are only after dick. I know this, because im mtf and i had plenty of gay men
I'm a gay cis man. Met an FTM off grindr and he freaked out when I tried to fuck his vagina. He wanted it anally.
I mean, if I'm going to fuck a guy up the ass it might as well be an actual guy? I don't understand what he was expecting when we met.
>>7091273
Dysphoria retard
>>7091275
this is why mentally ill transgenders will die alone
>>7090772
i feel for you, but as a cis lesbian i would gun it if i found out a girl i was seeing was trans and still had a dick. even if she was post-op, unless i reeeally liked her i wouldn't stay
you're better off with bi or pansexuals
>>7090795
>implying bisexual men don't have sex with men specifically and ONLY for the dick
I'm dating a gay leaning bi cis dude and he doesn't give a shit abt what I got. then again he is an ass man. if you've got terminal noassatol then youre probably doomed
>>7091811
> implying all bisexuals want/like dick
>>7091277
they're all mentally I'll. question is why the fuck would a gay man want pussy when a likely never used asshole is a few inches away
>>7090772
I'd give it a shot, but it's pretty intimidating - like being a virgin all over again.
>tfw op isn't straight
>ywn cuddle with op and marathon Mr. Plinkett reviews
> feel like a liar flirting with men who don't know I'm trans
> don't want to tell anybody I'm trans unless I know they're into me
It's so fucking awkward
>>7090776
>they don't want a pussy
literally this.
And no dildo can compare to a real dick.
>>7090772
I would but only chubby FtMs tbqh
>>7092059
>don't want to tell anybody I'm trans
there's your problem
Why is literally every single FtM on 4chan 'gay'/attracted to men
Don't you realize that 99% of men are into women? Don't you consider yourself a man? How is it that ALL of you are 'gay'
>>7093574
the reason they want a dick is because they love dick
>>7093574
they are literally the opposite of transbians
>>7091962
>tfw ill cuddle anyone
>ywn find anyone who will want to watch Mr. Plinkett reviews with you in the real world
When hooking up with a guy, are FTMs into PIV sex at all? Or just anal?
>>7094074
I've become more comfortable with vaginal as of recent, it took me a while then I just realized 'fuck it, it's there, why not use it' It's just the problem of finding guys who will actually want to do it.
>tfw no handsome ftm bf who is way out of my league but still likes me because I'm cis scum
>>7090772
>be gay ftm
>no gay man wants to touch me with a 10 foot pole
>Don't want to date a bisexual man who'll leave me in a month for a woman
Guess I'll just die alone lmao
>>7094074
i'm okay with both, though i'd say most prefer anal and there are a few who'd rather have piv.
>>7094193
just be my bf i'm never going to put in any effort at catching another human being anyway
>>7094366
Average build, short side fringe hair, people have told me I look like Ross from Game Grumps only with brown eyes and darker hair. i7 870 @ 2.93 GHz, 8 GB of RAM GT 240
>>7094025
NYC
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>>7094428
I'm way down in Texass, maybe one day.
>>7094448
hopefully.
>tfw no neil breen marathon ;-;
>>7094453
I've already seen all the Neil Breen movies at least 3 times anyway, ordered Pass Thru, waiting for it to arrive
>>7094476
niiiiicceeeee
>>7090798
Let's be real here
>heterosexuals fetishize the opposite sex
>homosexuals fetishize the same sex
>nobody doesn't fetishize somebody unless they are asexual
>>7094412
>short side fringe hair
disposed
>>7094539
That's not even close to what fetish means.
>>7094542
Yeah, I deserve that. My hair's been thinning out as of recent and this is the only haircut that looks remotely good for me at the moment.
>>7094476
mike stoklandis
>>7095014
k e k
>>7094087
Ey yo 909 area?
>>7090809
Yeah--a man who wants to fuck a pussy is either a really drunk gay man wondering what he's missing and to try it ONCE, or straight (meaning he wouldn't want a man with a cunt).
> turned into man-with-pussy
> now whines that nobody is attracted
> if they are attracted, whines about being
"fetished"
You fucked, Zir
>>7094087
Also, some gay guys don't even like anal--just oral. But, they are going to want a dick to suck, for sure.
>>7090772
So..if an FtMs cis het male friend casually mentions something about needing some pussy and said FtM hasn't fucked in a good long while...is it okay if said cis het male says "Let me clap them cheeks" or "can you give me a brojob"?
What if said male friend had a big dick and was known to be a great fuck?
Feminine boys are cute. Why wouldn't FTM boys be too?
I'm not really sure why everyone is so uninterested in that. I guess I'm weird >.>
>>7092059
Wait until they show interest, then tell them.
Gay men hate pussy. Lmao.
>>7095815
Depends on if I'm interested or not, I don't think a lot of trannys would take kindly to the wording of the request.
>>7095900
Yeah, that's kind of how it works.
Genuinely curious, what were you expecting? A magical world of dates that disregard the preferences of 99.999 of the human race? Were you not aware of how romantic relationships functioned before transition?
>>7095926
No, I was well aware. I was expecting it to be a smidge easier since, from a lot of sources, guys/girls would be more likely to be attracted to you if you were passing.
>>7095917
What if I said it jokingly while I was in the middle of giving my hypothetical FTM friends bits a good stroking?
>>7095953
I don't know, it depends on the friend. If they're more comfortable around you and their situation I think they'll joke about it, too. Unless they're extremely offended by stuff like that.
>>7095946
did you forget about the whole "gay=dick" thing? because that's pretty important to gay guys. like, super important.
>>7095987
That's why I said I was trying to go after bi dudes
>>7095776
I'm not gay and I've sucked some dicks.
I'm a biscum ftm and my partners have been 2 cis guys, a trans guy, and my current gf is a trans girl. I'd like a cis girl but they are never attracted to me. I think its because I'm basically a femboy and girls aren't into that after about 16.
Its probably for the best because I'm a total bottom anyway and wouldn't be very good at sexing them. But I would feel more like a real man if cis girls were attracted to me.
>>7094412
Hot. I wish more ppl had that style of hair haha
I'm a cis male that likes FTM guys. I just love masculinity and body hair. What is in your pants doesnt bother me, its all in the attitude.
>>7095818
Fuck no, masculinity is where its at!
>>7093574
you cant beat the cock
Wait wtf
I am a total sexuality noob here but why in the fuck if you're attracted to men, did you yourself try to become a man
You literally just threw away all the thin that makes you attractive to men, and all your female privilege
For what? To become some hacked up female who NOBODY wants?
You did this to yourself you could have easily just stayed a butch woman and got a straight man
But no you had to hack your tits iff and pretend you're a real man which you'll never be btw , in order to steal homosexuals from actual gay people
No fag male is going to want you you are a female you have NO cock lmao
Just detransitikn lol problem solved
Oh but hats the whole reason you became ftm in the first place isn't it? You think you're ugly and could never make it as a female so you thought it would be easier to just avoid societal beauty expectations on women altogether rather than just hardening up and getting some confidence in how you look, as. Fucking female
You're a wimp, you perpetuate egregious gender stereotypes, you're a faker a liar and now you're trying to steal the gays from actual gay men
Go back to being straight, freak . Gays hate you , leave us alone
Your just looking in the wrong places. Trust me your looking for guys who ID as 'firm/strict' tops.
>>7093574
most transwomen are lesbians or bisexual as well
>>7094366
i don't have problems getting females
gays don't usually like me but i like femboys so
>>7090772
>Any other FTM guys having trouble finding male partners?
not really
>>7095957
Oh, so talking about needing to fuck something and casually getting them to admit that they need to have sex before basically holding them down spreading their legs and going down on them, then whipping out my fat pulsating cock and fucking them ragged?
They would be horribly upset by this?
To be basically overpowered then brutally deep dicked into multiple leg shaking orgasms and creampied mostly against their will by their male friend?
>>7090772
when i came out i lost 70% of the guys interested in me
prolly gonna lose more once i go on T :):):)
>>7104738
have a hard time fucking real girls? lmao
>>7104891
What?
Agreeable, female company and pussy is more then a little easy to get.
I'm not entirely ugly, have a decent body, bit too thin now I guess, and I'm horse hung.
What I'm interested in is that exact type of scenario and relationship.
A bro ftm.
An early transition tomboy super fem andro no op ftm who needs to fuck.
Taking him and using him like a fucking toy till I've not only satisfied him I've broken him, then going back to regular broship after.
Something about that appeals to me and I have no idea what that is.
God, my cock is so hard right now.
>>7105215
>An early transition tomboy super fem andro no op ftm who needs to fuck.
>Taking him and using him like a fucking toy till I've not only satisfied him I've broken him, then going back to regular broship after.
why do i want this
>>7094557
>>7094539
>I really like tall guys
>I really like guys with deep voices
>I really like girls with big tits
>I really like short girls with fat asses and thicc thighs
>I really like tall skinny girls with no breasts
>I really like guys with big dicks
>I like thuggy black guys
>Tranny "Why is there nobody who accepts and even prefers my specific set physical characteristsics?"
>I really like girls with dicks
>I really like boys with pussies
>PLEASE STOP FETISHIZING ME REEEEEEEE
>>7105289
Because it's fucking awesome.
>>7104088
All of that bait yet no one took it
>>7104187
Everyone wants the strict tops, though
I'd be okay with a qt verse but he'd have to be the top 85% of the time
>>7104088
fucking lmao
>>7093574
Its weird. Apparently there's a ton of translesbians out there too. People are just into what they're into I guess.
>>7104088
Take a chillaxative my friend