I can't cum with my boyfriend anymore. We have been together on-and-off for almost 4 years, and though I enjoy sex I have always struggled to make myself cum at the end. I think it's a self-consciousness thing- I feel like he's waiting for me and I'm being a nuisance, and this creates a negative feedback loop.
But recently we gave up drinking (being hung over makes me horny) and I just can't fucking finish anymore. It's gotten to the point where I just don't want to "bother trying" to have sex. Every time I do I just end up giving up and it leaves me in a really bad mood. If it's not fun, why bother?
What the fuck is wrong with me? I'm 25, so I'm not too old to get horny. But I would literally rather watch porn by myself than have sex with my attractive boyfriend.
>>7080865
you were only drunk-gay
you're not really gay
Do you normally top or bottom?
>>7080894
We don't do anal sex very often because of the trouble of preparing for it. We are both vers. But 99% of the time we just do oral and manual stuff, lube, etc.
>>7080900
A lot of guys can't get off solely with oral. Try having him blow you and finish yourself off. Or if you like anal on occasions make having sex into more of an occasional thing, and get a cockring with a vibrator on it if you bottom
>>7080865
go to a doctor