What are some deal breakers for you when it comes to the person

>>7078283
They can't have a vagina, be a leftist, or be a liar. Other than that, I don't have that many deal breakers on who I'd date. I do tend to like guys with darker hair and pale skin though.

If they don't like cuddling, I'm not interested. That's the big one. Other than that, my dealbreakers are totally normal. I don't like to date people who are trashy, stupid, unhygienic, or have extreme political views. Cuddling is the big one, though, because I need cuddles.

Guys who cut off all connections with their family. Can't be with someone like that

>unironically talks about getting violent
>prone to physical violence
>does hard drugs often
>sleeps around a lot
>follows some weird ass meme religion like wicca or some shit
>follows a Semitic religion
>extremist political views
>has an STD

If they hate cats

>>7078838
Nice to see your priorities are straight

Dead

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Nothing pisses me off more than having my time wasted. If a boy is looking for a hookup, or a friend, or something. I'll push someone out really fucking fast if they pull something like that.

>>7078796
What if their family was abusive?

>>7078283
Lack of drive or purpose in life.
I have a strong sense of what I am doing with my life, I have a long term plan for my life and what projects i need to accomplish. This is both a blessing and a curse, I work myself to the bone and I have a set of important criteria that each stage of my life must meet. A person that doesn't have a goal or at least a drive to improve themselves in some way then they just don't get what I'm doing. I need a person that can understand why I do the things I do and has their own things going on in their life. If I'm with someone who is just in a holding pattern I get trapped in the land of the lotus eaters.

also
>cuddles
>books
>cooks or at least eats my strange 3am gastronomical monstrosities.

My deal-breakers:

Not honest and openly/frequently communicative
Doesn't want to Dom me in bed (at least sometimes)
Obese
Not moral
Not reasonable/open to discussion
Not empathetic
Completely dependent upon me (financially, emotionally, etc.)
Not sexually attractive to me
Doesn't find me sexually and romantically attractive

>>7079799
very reasonable. a lot like me but i am not submissive.

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>>7078283
>is submissive
>consumes media besides music and literature (especially film and television)
>is an actor or singer
>does commissions if they're an artists
>is a centrist/moderate or a """""libertarian""""""
>is "damaged"
>has a strong moral code/believes in "justice"
>non-andrgynous or too femmy/too masc
>wants to have sex in any capacity
>drinks at all/romanticizes drinking and doing drugs
>despondent and not witty
>has more than 2 friends

>>7079894
Wait..
They cant act or sing but they can be an artist..only if they don't sell it. And they also cant watch movies???

Wut.
Am I not understand

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>>7080027
Artists are great. Acting and singing is not art. Artists who do commissions are not artists. Film and television is not art. It's as simple as can be.

Physical-
>At least a 5/10 is a plus
>Cares about personal hygiene is a must
>Taller than me is a huge plus
>Some sense of style, even if weird, is a plus
>Some others depending on the sex of said person, otherwise, I could date either.

Mental-
>Have have some integrity and willpower is a must.
>Able to be logical and analytical if a situation calls for it is a huge plus
>Strongly enjoys a hobby or two, a must
>Have dreams and goals, even if they're unrealistic is a plus
>Able to communicate their needs without too much problems. This is a major must. Relationships without communication tend to fail.
>Some level of confidence in themselves to some degree is a plus
>Mentally flexible and adaptable is a huge plus
>Able to at least try to understand what they do not, and able to grow as a person.
>A basic level of psychology is a huge plus, it helps with a lot of what I said above.

Other-
>Very sexually flexible is almost a must. I love trying new things in bed.


So, pretty much, I want a somewhat intelligent and 'real' adult to be in a relationship with.
I've acknowledged the fact I'll be alone for the rest of my life, and I'm willing to deal with it.

>>7079894
Enjoy your solitude.

>>7080039
you make less and less sense by the day but also accidentally reveal more and more about your motivations by the day
this is almost as fun as watching the brakes fail on the trump train

Most people I meet do not meet their own standards. Do you?

I dont, but I am also not bothering with dating until I have improved myself.

>>7080048
Date me?

>>7080115
Out of the 1/∞ chance you're someone I'd want to even date, then maybe.
I really doubt anything will come of it, but I won't shoot down a possibility based off my belief alone.
I'm mtf, 25, and I live on the west-coast of USA.
What about you?

I don't like tall, too shredded and overly masculine men. Women who are too butch are not attractive to me too. Also if a man is strongly opposed to being dominated in bed it's definitely a no-no.

>>7079799
You could have just said every poster on this site.

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>Has to be 5/10 or above in attractiveness (to me)
>Has to be my height or taller
>Has to be pure dom (Since I'm pure sub)
>Not fat/obese
>Is okay with me being a housewife since I struggle with work
>Has to have a job since I most likely wont be (need money to live after all)
>Patience for me since I'm prone to child like outbursts of anger and depression
>Not overly Religious
>Likes me physically / personality wise (Some aspects can be disliked/hated)

>>7080377
what state you in?

>>7078283
Being male. I have lost all hope and standards at this point so that's kinda literally it.

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>>7080387
Miserable, usually

>>7080429
>state as in texas or new york

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Likes:

>Taller than me. I'm barely 5'8" so that's not hard.
>Be adventurous. Most days I'd rather spend my free time outside hiking, kayaking, cycling or just sitting on the porch enjoying the weather.
>Be into fantasy. Books, movies, games, art in general. I'm a huge fucking nerd.
>Be versatile in the bedroom, open to try new things. I'm very kinky.
>Be hygienic. Take care of your body, especially your teeth for the love of God.
>Like to eat, because I love to cook. If you're a little chubby, that's fine by me. Especially if it's mostly in the belly.
>Love lots of music. I have a massive library of all sorts of music that I listen to all the time. If I'm someplace quiet, I'll usually have music playing, at least as background noise.
>Don't be too interested in politics or religion. If you are into politics or are religious, that's fine. They just bore me, so I'm not the person to discuss something like that with.
>Be kind. That's the biggest thing. Don't get mad at people for things out of their control or understanding or because they're simply different. You'd think that would go without saying in the LGBT community, but that's definitely not the case from what I've seen.

As far as physical attraction goes, I'm not too picky. I don't want someone extremely skinny or extremity fat. You don't have to be a gym rat either. As long as you've got enough energy to enjoy the world with me, that's all that I care about. Hair/eye color don't matter. Lots of body hair or no body hair are both fine. Like I said, taller than me is a plus and very likely, but not a requirement.

Yup.

>>7078283
>wants children
>is a SJW
>has attitude toward work like >>7079779
>is a morning person

they masturbate to anyone other than me

>>7080518
I fit like every one of those descriptions x.x
I'm 6'2"
Love being in nature
Very clean (hate people who aren't)
Love fantasy, sci-fi, post-apocalyptic fiction etc.
Love to eat (even though I only weigh 130 lbs and can't seem to put on weight even though I eat all of the time).

>>7079894
>is a centrist/moderate
Literally what's wrong with you?

How big of a deal is fucked up fetishist camwhoring?

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>>7080533

>>7080692

what if they're thinking in their head at the time about someone else

>>7078283
>they choose their partners based on political opinions

The worst kind of identity politics. Sjw-tier.

>oh hey you believe in socialism/capitalism
>well were never going to be friends.

No, fuck off

>>7080730
sorry you don't like my list!

>>7079769
Then there's probably lots of issues with them and its a ticking time bomb.

>>7078283
what I really can't stand in people:
>make fun of others for being better at something
>in some way discriminates people regardless of their individual personality
>aggressively extroverted
>not willing to always learn new things/can't handle being wrong

Also can we also turn this thread around? We'll post things about ourselves that we think might be deal breakers and others tell us how much of a lost case we are.

me:
>don't like talking about my past
>constant nightmares
>prefer talking alone with someone, don't like socializing in groups
>don't drink, hate interacting with drunk people but do other hard drugs regularly
>no family except estranged parents
>virgin at 21 despite good looks
>shy, need a long time to be comfortable around people
>total night person, most productive from 9pm until ~5am
>too rational to the point of ignoring my/others feelings
>sometimes get lost in projects and work on something for hours/days ignoring basic needs like eating aswell as other people
>no appeal in sex without emotional content meaning I probably won't open up for months into the relationship

>>7080822
>>total night person, most productive from 9pm until ~5am
how could this possibly be a dealbreaker

>>7080822
>I cant seem to stay at a job for more than 3 months, although I do seek employment when I'm out.
>Cheap, at least when it comes to myself.
>Cant drive (yet)
>dental health is a nightmare

Also I feel like I dont think enough about others. Not sure if its because I'm cut off from people or not.

>>7078283
I honestly couldn't date anyone who is even a little bit "SJW". I don't know if I'm just overreacting to a stereotype I've seen on the internet, but the whole phenomenon just repulses me

Here are a list of some "red flag" vocabulary
>oppression/privilege
>people of color (PoC)
>"black bodies"
>conspicuous use of the word "folks"
>misuse of the word "violence"

>>7080377
Hey look it's my clone

>>7081098
I think you mean, you're my clone.

>>7081139
Possibly.

>>7080698
I'm assuming you don't live anywhere near North Carolina.

>>7081090
same, although i enjoy hatefucking them.
i like to get them to tell me to stop then keep going

>>7081090
lol if someone got upset about my intentional use of gender neutral language like "folks", i dont think it would work out anyway. probably for the best

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Do you think you could ever date or fall in love with a fat person, or it is a total deal breaker for you?
Assuming that person is hygienic, isn't body positive about his/her weight and doesn't have other of your other deal breakers.

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>>7080518
You're a gay man, aren't you?

>>7081044
get your teeth fixed.
most people don't really care if they're crooked but caries, tartar and the like are so easily treatable and preventable that no one living in a 1st world country has an excuse for that. If you look 10/10 otherwise I still won't kiss you if your teeth are rotting and your breath smells.

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>>7081225
Oh yeah, I guess I probably should have mentioned that.

>physical
webbed fingers or closely related things, no matter how hard I try, I can't get used to seeing it ;-;
>personality
being a control freak in an autistic way.
giving control to someone else is one of my kinks, but not being dominant and instead being a big autist about it is a HUGE turnoff

>>7078324
Tfw don't have a vagina and posses dark hair and pale skin
your not a liar but you are a leftist

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>>7080704
Do you not have opinions because you're stupid or something ? What's the deal ?

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>>7079894
>>7080027
>>7080059
>>7080054
>>7080704

>>7080039
lol

If they are an SJW cuck who shills for Islam.

My deal breakers:
>Stupid
>Ugly/fat
>Wants a completely sedentary lifestyle
Things about me that could be deal breakers:
>I'm pretty much a complete sub
>I have a drinking problem
>Mental issues- gives me wild mood swings
>Incredibly unorganized

Dishonesty/Openness
If you wont tell me how you feel or what you want from me then I cant work with you. Probably anything these is negotiable to some extent if you will level

>>7078283
>physical
unhygienic

>personality
passive-aggressive and manipulative

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If I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but do not have love, I have become a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy, and know all mysteries and all knowledge; and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 And if I give all my possessions to feed the poor, and if I surrender my body [a]to be burned, but do not have love, it profits me nothing.

4 Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, 5 does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, 6 does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; 7 [b]bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

8 Love never fails; but if there are gifts of [c]prophecy, they will be done away; if there are tongues, they will cease; if there is knowledge, it will be done away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part; 10 but when the perfect comes, the partial will be done away. 11 When I was a child, I used to speak like a child, think like a child, reason like a child; when I [d]became a man, I did away with childish things. 12 For now we see in a mirror [e]dimly, but then face to face; now I know in part, but then I will know fully just as I also have been fully known. 13 But now faith, hope, love, abide these three; but the [f]greatest of these is love.

deal-breakers:
>being 100% dom or sub and not willing to switch ever
>having either no sex drive or needing sex 3x daily
>not at least somewhat into weeb shit because i am a massive weeb and a relationship would not work if i couldn't talk about weeb shit
>not being at least a 4chan definition of 'autist'
>being an extreme extrovert who has like 2392302 friends
>believing that fiction = reality
>being any further right than moderate
>does any hard drugs or even smokes often. drinking is fine if not belligerent drunk

red flags (not necessarily dealbreakers)
>strong religious or areligious beliefs to the point where they argue with others because of it
>being overly argumentative about petty things and not just letting things go sometimes
>being too skinny, or being morbidly obese
>being a perfectionist about appearance
>not being willing to wear feminized clothes during lewdtimes at least like...sometimes

physically, I'm much more attracted to women but tend to have fucked up relationships in the women in the past and tend to end up in longer-term relationships with men, even though I generally don't find them physically attractive until I develop romantic feelings for them (often I'm physically repulsed by them beforehand actually which i've experienced guilt over feeling)

(yes, I know I'm a conglomeration of far more red flags than this. somehow, I am not single)

Dealbreakers:
>Fat
>Sleeps around/multiple partners
>Doesn't drink
>Extreme political views
>Doesn't like cuddling/physical intimacy
>Won't top
>Hates vidya or anime

deal breakers:

>is consistently lazy about everything (ie wont work towards anything in life, has gotten obese due to being lazy, wont change)
>obsessive and elitist about art (even worse if it's some basic bitch tier pop culture shit)
>being anti-fun, like those who take every opportunity they can to proclaim games are for kids
>extreme right or left politically - can only think of politics in terms of tribes
>loves to invade privacy
>spends a LOT of time on social media or watching news channels
>loves big bang theory or john oliver

pretty much it desu

>>7080241
I'm 21 mtf chicago. LDR kinda eh. But my Skype is evelynphoenix if u wanna add mee

deal breakers

>won't put up with my depression and anxiety as well as my vices (smoking/drinking)
>won't call me out if I'm being selfish/horrible, even if it's because of my mental issues
>too right wing
>no body hair
>to skinny
>if anyone can tell he's a faggot by simply looking at or having a short conversation with
>can't stick up for himself
>penis is below 4 inches
>tries to stop me listening to music or attending the rave

It's like I don't even want a boyfriend with these standards.

>is not intimidating
>doesn't pressure me into sex or taking drugs or alcohol
>if sex is imporant to him: it should be gentle and not degrading
>He has a place in his heart for a misfit that has no clue about social life

thats all I think