I'm gay, but the person I'm looking to date identifies

>>7046899
Gender neutral as in "use whatever pronouns you think fit me best, it doesn't bother me" or gender neutral as in "I insist on being called xir!"?

If it's the former, those people are pretty chill. They might turn out to be trans later, or they might turn out to be cis, or they might stay neutral forever.

If it's the latter, run.

>>7046913
They say they prefer "they them".

>>7046922
Huh, never talked to someone like that. I have no idea then.

Best of luck anon.

>>7046922
Cut it and run.

>>7046922
So just treat them like any other dude and use gender neutral pronouns. It's not that hard bro, stop over thinking simple shit

>>7046899
Is this really that important to you? I mean, if they're not super annoying about it, who cares? Does their non-gender define them? It seems like rather stupid thing to let get between you.

>>7046946
>>7046951
I'm just worried because I personally will respect their decision, but I know I also know that I personally won't see them the way they want to be seen and I don't know if that will effect things in the long run is all.

>>7046968
It's less it would get between how I feel about them, and more I don't want to hurt their feelings if I don't see them how they honestly want to be seen.

>>7046968
If they identify as gender neutral but look like a dude that most likely means they are fine with being thought of as masculine, they just don't feel any connection to those assigned gender roles. You don't need to see them any special way, just treat them how they ask to be treated

>>7046980
Alright, good to know. Thanks anon.

Does they be having a penis? Does they be XY or XX?