Gay General: Coming Out Edition

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>coming out

>>7037849
>Are you out to your friends, family or colleagues? If not, why not?

Yes, I am. I feel for the coming out meme many years ago.

>Tell us your coming out story.

Things were bad. Then I came out, and things got worse, and they never did get better.

>>7037849
>if not, why not

I'd rather not give gays a bad image ;^)

>>7037849

I did come out to one of the people I work with in lab recently only because she had talked about how she was bi.

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I'm only "out" to my friends and to people who have asked me if I'm gay. I never deny being gay when asked, and I trust my friends with the fact that I am gay.

>>7037917
That's how I came out too.
>>7037858

Just because people ask you if you're gay doesn't mean they're good people, or that they can be trusted. Bad people ask more than anyone, I find.

>>7037854
Hissing cat poster > tryhard wannabe Circe cutecat poster

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>>7037948

speaking of-

Happy Indigenous People's Day, /gg/~

Should I only ask someone out if I have positive evidence they like me already, or is it okay to ask someone out if I don't know what they feel about me?

fuck this stuff is so difficult, i preferred being NEET

family is gathered for my brothers birthday
>at dinner he brings out a cake that reads "im gay" an has rainbow frosting
>my mom says "aaaw ur not gay just because you bake a cake" he says nothing
>i have to explain to her that he is gay and is trying to come out
>he says he knew he was gay in 3rd grade

>after a short while my mom is being her terrible self and goes 1 by 1 asking all my siblings if they are gay too, gets to me
>"I'm bisexual I have a boyfriend right now"
>she's shocked "your joking"
>she literally doesnt understand bisexual at all, try's to tell me to just date women kuz itll be easier lol
>my dad asks what my bf's name was at least

>>7037961
Just once I'd like to see you looking normal.

>>7037961
Disgusting paki

Fuck off

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>>7037961

>>7037971

the latter is the more awkward but much more likely way.
Asking someone out is p much asking if they like you.

If they turn you down, just laugh it off and tell them it's no big deal.

>>7037986

NOT ALLOWED!

>>7037961
Indigenous people day, a.k.a. liberal shills shame Italians day. No one cares about your homosexual declarations or lack thereof to waste an entire day on it. Math states heterosexual behaviors are still the norm no matter how much you guilt others to feel differently. If you can't math then GTFO 4chan.

>>7037992

ok this comment got me
dude what

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>>7037990

>>7037935
If someone asks me about my sexuality and I'm not comfortable giving a serious answer, saying "I'm flattered but you're not my type" usually deters them.

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>>7038008
>[

>>7037948
>optimism and perseverance are tryhard
>pussycat who gets easily provoked is good
Ok man

Now guess: which personality type attracts more qts?
>>7037992
You OK there buddy?

>>7038026
>Now guess: which personality type attracts more qts?
If you're simply doing it to attract people or seem appealing, you are faking it, nothing more than an actor or pretender pathetically trying to fit in. At least an expression of provocation is not only honest and human, but funny and relatable, especially in comparison to the utterly forced and unnatural pretense of positivity. Truly nice and good people need not say it or virtue signal/flaunt it.

Catposter is a snake, a liar and a double standard hypocrite. I would never trust someone so fake.

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>>7038026
>which personality type attracts more qts?
The one who doesn't get betrayed by his friends.

>>7038044

i think if there any place on the internet where positivity would, definitely, not attract anyone, it would be here

But HE WERE ARE

I know I sound like a selfish douche for asking that (and I probably am one), but is there a way to very politely ask my boyfriend no not smoke before sex?
I don't want to control his life in any way or talk him out of smoking, its just that I don't like the taste of cigarrettes.

ngl p drunk 2bh
ily

>>7038100
maybe coyly try to avoid kissing him on the mouth after he's been smoking and hope he gets the message?

>>7038100
>is there a way to very politely ask my boyfriend no not smoke before sex?
By politely asking

>>7038100
Just tell him you'd rather not make out right after he smokes. Same thing with bad breath. It happens, but can be controlled.

I'm out as transgender and gay to my friends but not to the family I live with. I don't plan on telling them until I've moved into my dorm at college.

>>7038113
This

>>7038113
>>7038110
>>7038114
The thing is, he gets mad when I tak about his ciggarettes. I tried to bring it up two times, the first time he just left the room and he second time he had a rant about me and how grateful I should be that someone is putting up with me and my voice.

>>7038141
You should start smoking too and then you won't care anymore.

>>7038141
What the fuck? Who the fucking fuck tries to neg their own boyfriend? What a cunt, get rid of that retard. Don't put up with his shitty smoking or his shitty disrespectful attitude, the dick game is not worth it, you can do better and I highly recommend that you do.

>decide to ask someone out
>see them in person and suddenly think that they probably hate me and decide to not ask them out
>think about it at home, later
>decide to ask them out
>repeat

sick of this T B H lads

>>7038141

Sounds like an asshole

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Fuck I want Anderson Cooper to ravish me and tell me stories of his time in the CIA afterwards

>>7038044
>Catposter is a snake, a liar and a double standard hypocrite. I would never trust someone so fake.
I like such a colourful interpretation of my posting habits
>>7038059
>The one who doesn't get betrayed by his friends.
So, do you betray friends? Because I don't betray friends

>>7038141

You should dump him lol

Like step your backbone game up bitch

>>7038141
You shouldn't be with a guy like that, desu.

>>7038141
he does sound like a bit of a shit

>>7038141
Unless he has a foot long cock that jizzes diamonds I'd dump him.

>>7038158
but he is right. I have very bad social skills and somehow manage to embaress him and ruin his day. I have a horrible voice, problems reading facial expressions and adapt to any kind of change. Not many people would endure that

>>7038197
>>7038172
>>7038206
>>7038211
No, he's definitly not an asshole or shit. He's most of the time really nice, but some few things just make him angry. I doubt I would ever find anybody else

>>7038016
been there, done that, to both sexes within minutes of each other.

>>7038227

*abusive relationship siren rings*

>And so it begins, the great storytelling of our time.

>>7038227

Yeah and you fell down the stairs too, right

>>7038258
>>7038273
wtf no! He never has chocked me or anything like that, he's just obsessed with smoking. I'm living a perfect life considering how I am

>>7038258
>He only hits me when I really deserve it.

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>>7038293

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>>7038293

>He only says these things to me because he loves me

Speaking of abusive relationships, anyone remember Mansfield, whatever happened to him?

>>7038310
>>7038301
>>7038300
This doesn't happen with anything else. Normally, whe he's angry, he takes deep breaths and goes on. When he's really angry he goes out and smokes.
I'm not in an abusive relationship, healthy and happy

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>>7038227
>he is right
He isn't. There are lots of better people out there that won't so harshly judge and demean you, people who will understand. He is trying to impose the idea that you can't do better or that you're not good enough for better, he has you believing he's as good as you're going to get. It not true at all. That's a tactic of psychological abuse, you need to stand up for yourself and find someone that won't make you feel worse, or at least remove that toxic presence from your life.

If he's embarrassed by you then he doesn't deserve you, you're not some pet or accessory meant to compliment his existence, you're a person he should be able to treat as an equal and listen to. I seriously suggest you look into the symptoms of an abusive relationship for yourself and learn to recognize what's going on, here's a shitty list from a simple google search that can help https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/in-practice/201502/51-signs-unhealthy-relationship.

If you don't have the backbone to leave at least try to call him out on what he's doing, find someone in your life you can confide in and back you up when you confront him. Don't let him control your life or your thoughts, you might think you won't find better, but it sounds like you're only going to get worse with someone who doesn't truly love you or care about how you feel, someone who puts cigarettes above your emotional wellbeing.

Please, I implore you to recognize you're not in the wrong here, you are not responsible for traits he doesn't like that you can't control and he is being an ass by holding the things you feel insecure about over you in order to justify habits he *chooses* to keep.

ITT 2 autismos have an autism attack about an autismo having a relationship with an angry autismo

tfw will never be a maid

tfw will never be someones live in housewife

>>7038312

Probably beaten to death desu

>>7038389

Never say never

>>7038345
Actually, I have a lot of trouble because of my social skills and voice, but not with him. When I embaresshim he shrugs it off and often laughs about it. When I embaress other people he is the first to defend me or jump in line.

There was a time when they bullied me at work, and he told my boss (without my knowledge). They fitted me in another department where the people are more relaxed, prepared for me and I don't have to talk so much. I would've never had the guts myself to speak to him.

The cigarrettes are a special case and really important for him. he just doesn't want to talk about it

Is that enough?

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Okay, so anyone over this line who didn't post a story is a shit person.

>>7038171
Knowing for sure that no one would be interested in you isn't the most bueno feeling is it.

>>7038271
It's all stories. All the way down.

>>7038389
Doing nothing all day is definitely the way to go. I can highly recommend that lifestyle.

>>7038389

i've done that twice now

kinda sucks

>>7038434
Oh, you don't understand. When I saw housewife I don't mean 'lazing around all day doing nothing and expecting to do nothing'.

I would happily work 8 hours a day at a job, come home and give my husband/boyfriend a foot massage before going to do the dishes, laundry, dusting, vacuuming, and all around cleaning. Then proceeding to cook, before cuddling and watching anime or worshiping his cock while he's busy playing video games.

Maybe all the while I'm wearing a nice, elegant maids uniform.

That's literally my dream.

>>7037961
>indigenous people
>mattering

Literally europe and northern africa got the world where it was today. Those fucking hippies eating peyote and living in tents have done nothing.

>>7038588
After a week or a month, that shit would get boring. Seriously

Waiting for the cutest guy ever in his bed while he showers, happily thinking of our future life together

Then he comes out of the bathroom and says: "Holy fuck, I tried drying my ass with the towel after showering and found out I hadn't done a good job. Had to go back in the shower and wash it again. Hahaha don't worry the towel is already in the washing machine"

Why ;-;

>>7038621
Is he autistic? Normal people aren't that lacking in awareness

>>7038621
Those are the best part of relationships though. It means he likes you if he can say embarrassing shit like that

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>>7038588
So this is what you want? To become another mans servant? I'm not seeing why'd someone would want this.

>>7038588
Good wheeze.

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How do I get over my complex where I want to be cute, dependent, small, and bullied?

I'm 6'1, weak, and a little chubby, and I'm completely submissive on the inside but an arrogant asshole on the outside.

I really don't get why my hopes and desires conflict with my personality and looks.

>>7038588
lmao no it's not your dream

have you ever done housework? it's the least sexy thing ever sweetheart

>>7038643
Because it allows them to forego any sort of actual responsibility in their lives. They're submissive peices of boring shit who never contribute anything meaningful towards a relationship, which is why no one ever dates them long term, because you can't base a relationship around someone who is nothing but a tedious sexbot.

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>>7037961
Why should the losers of history be celebrated

>friend from high school always came off as a bit queer to me
>posts that one retard in the leotard with the I'M GAY meme
>don't have the gaydar to know if he really is or just some idiot memer

>>7038797
Hey back off. Idubbbz is a god

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>>7038821
Figuratively whom

Is he gay though

>>7038741
>you can't base a relationship around someone who is nothing but a tedious sexbot.
Maybe you can't.

Sounds pretty great to me.

>>7038827
I would say about 95% chance that idubbbz is not gay

>>7038827
Idubbbz is, in my opinion, the funniest youtuber of all time

>>7037849

I've been out for a few months. It's an interesting experience to be honest. It feels exciting after you get past the first couple. So much happier now desu, free from a stress I didn't even know I had.

>>7037849
I'm out to my mom and a few friends but I'm in the process of coming out completely

>>7038843
grow up

>>7038843
That would be DemolitionD+

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>>7038988
great taste

>>7037849
Hahahahahahahhaha
HAHAHAHHAHAHAHA

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> tfw my perfect guy is a straight and married guy at work
> tfw absolutely nothing I can do

Feels extremely bad, man. He was being friendly with me on our way out in the elevator and I was laugh/crying in my car on the drive home.

>>7039222
>laugh/crying in my car
Holy shit m8. Maybe get your hormone levels checked. That's not normal.

>>7038843
Well fuck.

Know about one youtuber and you're a zero taste loser

Don't know another one and you're an out of the loop loser

You don't win on the internet

i'm a match maker

i just facilitated one of my guy friends getting fucked in the ass by another one of my friends who wants to fuck a guy with a strap on

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>>7037961
>That desperate look for attention/ validation at the end of the clip
>"o-oh gosh i-i i hope I get some (you)'s
Jesus Christ get socially adjusted already.

Only gay people come out.

>>7039388
I still fuck chicks and I came out when I had a bf.

>>7037849
I have come out to exactly two people and they are both basically psychologists. Never came out to my family because I don't see the point. I have zero friends, and I doubt that will change any time soon.

If someone asked me if I was gay I'd probably be honest, but no one really has.

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>>7039456

>tfw no dog dicked bf

>>7039633
King Rice..?

>>7039656
?

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>>7037961

>>7039922
Good meme

>>7039951
Hey red

>>7039989
Hi ann

>meet a qt online
>we sort of have an online relationship for a year
>I want him bad, can't take it anymore
>break it off, because of distance
>regret it
>doing horrible on every possible way
>he's doing great
>want him back
>I don't think he wants me back
What do?

>>7040210
Grow up.

>>7039463
Can we call this the "Youro"?

>>7040224
you're almost thirty and you're a supervirgin who lives with his parents, doesn't work, never goes outside and has never been in a relationship
you are literally too much of a literal manchild to have an opinion worth regarding on maturity, you do not get to give out such pointless vague advice

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z9Mrsi-WBzI

>literally a perfect relationship

Why do some guys get this lucky? Damn...

Just finding a guy who wants to spend time with me and be friends is hard enough. I feel like everyone is caught up and consumed by their own life and don't have time to make a relationship work.

>>7040391
Anon, that was harsh.

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>>7040573
The idea of it seems cute but it honestly looks disgusting. Maybe it's just the shitty music, the "YouTube personalities" or the cringey tryhard cutesy stuff in a faggy gay voice but the only enviable thing about that unholy abortion of a relationship is the cute doggo.

>>7040613
I wouldn't be so harsh if clownshoes wasn't always such a dick to people
he knows he's not in a position to act the way he does, but he still goes around acting miserable, telling others to grow up, pretending to know what he's talking about and bringing others down
if he isn't prepared to take the harsh response then he should either take his own advice and grow up and fix his life or stay quiet
we have enough hypocrites as it is

>>7040391
Clownshoes gettin' got lol

>>7040573
Nothing is as perfect as it seems. Remember this.

>>7040704
I agree with you. It takes a new level of narcissism to document your degenerate relationship on YouTube. These gay e-celebs you see on YT carefully calculate every statement in their videos to give the impression they're a flawless human, something to aspire to.
Don't be tricked.
See "Andrew Goes Places" as an example of another deeply narcissistic, arrogant person.

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>>7037849
No I'm not. It's hard enough to vocalize. I'd have to wear a button. And since I'm in a committed hetero relationship, some (perhaps many) people will assume it's for attention or speshul snowflake status, and I don't want that. I just want to be able to speak openly, maybe have my relationship with my SO improve.

>>7039922
It wasn't funny the first time you said it Sadon and it wasn't funny putting pepe in it either.

>>7040210
>what do?
Start seeing things in a more realistic way and be smart aboot it. If you're gonna do a ldr you should have planned a meet up asap.

>>7038141
He's probably genuinely autistic, my friend is like that too, he will just snap at the littlest thing.

I unplugged an Xbox controller and he smashed a glass and stormed out the house, then he came back in and hugged me saying sorry.

He hasn't hit me yet~

I'd be wary anon, he might wind up being quite manipulative of you and what not down the line.

Tried to come out and bailed. Oops

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>mfw I came out to my parents because I have no sense of how my words can be dangerous and out of naivety
>mfw they went mad at me at first but then ignored that totally
>mfw I pretty much came out to myself and to them like someone says 1+1=2
>mfw still doing something people struggle for years to do in a very short time without struggles, I am still a horrible person

>>7037849
coming out today of the Muslim bakery with my str8 wedding cake. Praise Dearbornastan for not allowing homosexuals to buy so-called 'gay wedding' cakes from Muslim bakers: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RgWIhYAtan4

Why aren't they shut down and nationally shamed like the {HORROR] Christian bakers? You afraid of being blown up in the name of Fa la la allah? Just more proof that being am American liberal is to act like a fucking retard.

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>come out
>bitch we you weren't fooling anyone

>>7041389
bitch, engrish? lulz gurl! Beyonce sucks. That's not even music, just boasting of herself to stop and start beats. #noTalent

>tfw fappping to yandere guy drama CDs so much I can't get turned on by a normal guy anymore

>>7038193
>Because I don't betray friends
You have no friends.

>>7041703
Makes it easier not to betray them.

>>7040391
>>7040635
There is no need to be upset.

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chickened out of asking my crush out AGAIN

fuck me

>>7041373
Shit nigga I'm sitting in Livonia rn. Small world.

>>7041821
Fucking do it next time. Better to get shut down then live in the friendzone.

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wut's your favorite pair of pants, /gg/

>>7041886
Comfy gray sweatpants I use for running/relaxing. Not that there is much choice though, I've only got 3 pairs of pants, 2 of them being jeans.

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Who is the most handsome musician and why is it Florian?

>>7037849
Chickened out on coming out to my friend today, the opportunity was perfect too :(

>>7041886
This hasn't been a good fashion choice for about 10-15 years.

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>tfw been shitposting with friends all day on the shitty Twitter hashtag
Life is good.

>>7037849

>mfw my mom's birthday is today and she's a homophobe and transphobe

Kek

>>7042101
I hope she finds out and throws your ass to the curb

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>>7042101
Do it. Make it really dramatic too and do it in a public place with a camera on her.

>>7042116
>>7042126

I told my parents back in January. The thing is, even though they're homophobes and transphobes, they don't have it in them to kick me out and my dad told me so. My dad's still in denial too. I brought him the results of a psych test which he read two nights ago, that basically said I was a bisexual tranny and he dismissed it.

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>>7042174

Well, good luck, anon.

>>7041745
But the people who you think are your friends will betray you.

My friend asked if I was gay and I said no.

wtf is wrong with me, he did all the work

>>7042206
if someone asks, they know

>>7042206
Should've sucked his dick right then and there

>really handsome guy who runs in all my circles "super likes" me on tinder
>I message him
>he responds
>seems to be open to meeting
>I ask if he wants a drink since I hate "getting to know" someone over fucking tinder chats
>24 hours and no response

goddamnit why

>>7042206
>tfw everyone thinks im gay because they can smell my feminity

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>Scared to let people down
>Scared to be stared and pointed out as the "weird one"
>Scared of change
>Never speaks to parents. (Everything is always fine)
>Not many friends.
>Very weak

I don't think I'm in the best situation to reveal to the world my brain damage.

>>7042211
I said I was feeling sick because I wanted to tell him something but it was hard for me to say.

What I wanted to tell him was that I miss jacking him off and sucking his dick 'cause I used to after raves all the time.

So then he asked if I was gay, and I said no.

literally retarded.

>>7042213
I dunno if I can get away with just grabbing it sober, I used to grab it when on drugs though.

>>7042218

Maybe he thought you were being creepy
Meeting right away with alcohol involved

>>7042223
This is pretty much me. It's definitely easier to not say anything, but doing so wont make things any better.

>>7042239
I wonder for how long Will I be able to keep everything shut up without spilling beans anywhere.
Or if it's even healty to do so. Probably not

>>7042232
I didn't just ask if he wanted a drink though, I asked if he "wanted to get coffee or a drink or something" - if he had a problem with alcohol or anything he could have suggested an option.

Why would you "super like" someone you're not interested in meeting? Maybe I'm just overthinking it

>>7042245
It's possible to live your whole life without telling anyone. Don't let it happen to you.

>>7042239
Sounds like my situation too. My close friends know but my family doesn't

It's not even out of shame or anything I just hate being thought of as the odd one out, I'm not very comfortable with people knowing any details about my life so going out of my way to announce who turns me on sexually would just be unthinkable to me

If you want to come out then more power to you but I just don't understand the compulsion that you "absolutely must" come out. It's a personal decision with pros and cons like any other

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>>7042222
>tfw nobody has figured out I'm gay yet
>even got directly asked if I was gay or straight once when I was 16 by a girl going around the table asking everyone
>purposefully took a huge pause and acted confused about the question before saying I'm 'straight'
>the only person I was really friends with at the table wholeheartedly believed me
>even fell for the "oh I don't really like anyone from this place" when he asked me which girls I liked
>once told me it wouldn't be weird because he "knows" I'm straight when he wanted to use me to practice giving someone a massage

How do I stop being so mathc and straightacting, guith?

>>7042278
>How do I stop being so mathc and straightacting, guith?
You don't. Trust me, when you do come out guys go nuts for guys who act straight. You'll be drowning in boypussy

>>7042278

just come out already you huge faggot

you dont have to make a big deal about it, just tell one of your friends you have a crush on chris pratt or something

>>7042393
>friends
>

>>7042407

make some friends and then come out to them

better yet, make friends with the gay clique at your school/uni and then coming out is EZ

>>7042278
Why dont you just come out though? If i was gay it would be awesome. Youd get special priveledges nowadays.

Lol everyone can smell the trans on me even irl.

>Coming Out Edition
Oh well, here we go. Random shit I didn't really post here before
>years ago
>friends with a girl from class
>at a certain point whatever topic comes up she starts to head to sexuality once or twice in the conversation
>after the sixth derail convo I give in and just ask if she knows I'm gay or what the fuck
>she tells me almost everybody from the class of 40 people knows already
>just wanted to make sure and didn't want to straight up ask to avoid being awkward
>so she made me feel confused and awkward for 4 days
Logic at its finest, ladies and gentlemen!
But whatever, I moved to another city that year and nobody gave a shit. Next story, for something better.
>came out to close friend of 12 years nearly 2 years ago now, right about when I was to leave from his place
>told him I'm bi as a safety move (I AM bi, but it never worked with girls and gave up, cons of being a sub bottom bitch)
>he took it... not so well but could process it
>we talked it over on skype a few hours later when he called me
>everything is fine now, but still doesn't like it when I bring it up
Now comes last week
>sends a picture of him hugging a girl on kikebook
>conversation starts and goes on, and then the mandatory "Do you have someone?" happens, probably expected a girl
>eh fuck it, waited until I can tell it in person, but told him and showed a picture of the guy I'm dating
>surprised, paused, "Oh shit wait so my best friend really likes cock" moment after 2 years of not talking about it
>"Are you happy with him, anon?" "Yeah, more than happy." "Then what do you care about it?"
This was the reaction of my right wing conservative friend to my middle eastern boyfriend. That was the best feeling I had for quite a while.

>>7042411
You make it sound like making friends is so easy.

I tried for decades to make friends, but nobody I approached would have it. Friendship is a two-way street, if the other side refuses to be your friend regardless of what you do, then it's not going to happen.

>>7037849
a person who tries to out you would likely be a shitty person

why is it okay to make a day out of it

>>7042465

While I agree that making friends isn't easy, if you seriously haven't been able to find a single friend in "decades", you have problems.

>>7042457
>cons of being a sub bottom bitch
just need to find a Dom girl.

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>>7042411
I'm a NEET now though, and don't really have many interests that would facilitate me interacting with others to find friends. Only people I have to come to are my family and while they may be accepting of homosexuality they also live off of gossip, so every distant relative across the globe would probably hear "GOSH DID YOU KNOW X'S SON IS GAY?!" by the end of the month and I would never hear the end of it.

>>7042522

Firstly, get some interests. Very few people are born with an interest, pretty much everyone has to find it themselves.

Also exactly how is it bad that your family (which is "accepting") gossips about you? It seems to me like that would be a really easy, nonawkward way to spread the news with very little effort on your part.

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Came out to a friend, my brother, and my mother. They all said they didn't care that I was gay as long as I'm happy that's all that matters

>>7042520
It was easier to find a guy who's normal anytime else but the bed. Good luck trying to find a dom girl who isn't a sadist, isn't a manipulative asshole, doesn't have daddy issues and isn't to controlling in every single aspect of your relationship.
Also no dick to suck.

>>7042468
I live in a small town of hardcore Christians. Hardcore as in many of them think that fucking and impregnating their cousins is their God-given duty, that kind of hardcore. Hardcore as in all of all of the drug trade is controlled by neo-Nazis, and more than half of all working class people in this area use meth.

Everyone knows who I am. Everyone knows I'd rather beat a Christian than listen to it talk. When they threaten my life, I don't run away or bow and kiss their boots, I attack them with a knife. What few gay people there are would rather hide in the closet and attack me to keep from outing themselves. It's not me that has problems. It's all of your kind. :)

>>7042565
and then albert einstein gave you $100 and everyone clapped, right?

>>7042572
I didn't make anything up, unlike your kind. I have better things to do than make up things that don't reflect or affect reality on an anonymous image board.

>>7042537
>Very few people are born with an interest, pretty much everyone has to find it themselves.
This

>>7042563
I guess you're probably right there. Maybe just look for a normal girl who's into pegging.

>>7042565
>tips fedora
M'lady

>>7042578
The fedora danker doesn't work as well as you probably think it does. 40% of LGBT people in the US have been attacked by Christians while on school ground with a deadly weapon, never mind the ones that have it happen outside school grounds. We all know you're kind are always trash.

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>>7042595
>>7042565

>>7042595
>40% of LGBT people in the US have been attacked by Christians
>with a deadly weapon

I know this is bait, but lmao.

>>7042604
Census statistics gathered by the U.S. government carry a little bit more weight than "le baity dank fishy dank."

>>7042537
>get some interests
I have interests, just none that need other people. I've always learned to do everything alone, so the idea of just out of the blue joining a club or whatever seems scary. I was gonna try fencing but my local fencing club is super expensive.

>how is it bad
They're accepting in the sense that they don't mind gays but you can definitely tell they view them as either lesser or some form of entertainment, and a large part of my family on my fathers side are deeply catholic so while my grandparents and dad may be accepting, others may make a problem out of it.

Not only that, but if I were to tell them, I'd want to tell THEM, not the aunt up in fucking scotland or my rich ass cousins off in New Zealand. I'd want it to be between us, and I know I cannot trust them to keep it like that. The fact that I take it up the ass from other men is rather personal and at most should be used to temper their already low expectations of me

>>7042613
No, it's not. That was the finding of a multi-decade set of questionaires given to LGBT people by one or another of the three letter U.S. law enforcement agencies, which is predominantly staffed by conservative Christians who do the attacking, and even they found that.

>>7042623

maybe the idea of joining a club is scary, but the only way its going to get un-scary is if you try it and see what happens

i mean, its a zero-consequence scenario - if you fuck up somehow at a social club, you can just bail and never come back at any point

so there is literally no reason not to at least try going to some kind of social club

>>7042639
>no reason not to at least try
I can think of a few; such as humiliation, shame, embarrassment, awkwardness, the spilling of spaghetti and possibly even a slow and painful death. While I may never go back, the traumatizing experiences would follow me to the grave.

>>7042671

ah but humiliation only has bite because of the fact other people know about it

and if only strangers know about it and you never interact with them at all, its functionally identical to nobody knowing about it at all

>realize you're bi at age 28
>live in orlando
>terrified to even message guys on craigslist for fear of experiencing homophobia if seen in public
>still too anxious to talk to girls
>be tall but non athletic, hairy and insecure
>fear for your future when/if you're ever outed
>tfw

happy coming out day yall

>>7042707
Lift and grindr m8.

>>7042707
>>7042719
This. Get on Grindr already

>>7042707
>realize you're bi at age 28

Prison gay

>>7042706
Not really. They're still somebody, they still think and feel, have friends and family, opinions and philosophies, and they witnessed my humiliation. I would feel their disgust as though it were my own, and though they may forget the event with time, possibly only ever recalling it as future reference for what a creepy loser looks like, it would linger in my mind for all eternity.

>>7042707
Chubby hair guys are loved among the gay community, but if you're so insecure about it just lift and by the time you're fit you'll be able to fuck up anyone that tries to mess with you or your cute bf.

>>7042758

you are such a defeatist

how do you expect to improve yourself if you won't step up to challenges?

>>7042707

Is Orlando that homophobic? I went to Southwest Middle School and Dr. Philips High school and it seemed pretty accepting of gay kids at least. I even remember the first day of spirit week at Dr. Philips high was crossdressing day.

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>>7042761
I don't.

> lunch break
> colleauge browsing the news
> "Did you know today is the international coming out day for gays?"
> Think(excited): "Now is your big time, bro"
> Say (teasing): "Now is your big time, bro"
> laughter
> subject changes
Did I do good?

>>7042766
well i mean there was this one thing that happened at a club recently...
idk im kinda just having my mind blown by this realization about myself and its makin me feel weird

>>7042822

I mean in general. That was just one self-hating fag from an intolerant household that propagated the hateful culture of its origin. What are the white people and Jews like when it comes to LGBT?

Why can't my life be like in boys love manga? Why is romance in real life so awful and depressing?

>>7042847
Because god needs to keep the viewers involved for the better second season :)

Literally never coming out and will probably just get with a woman and hope the self hate doesn't consume me.

>>7042855
Why do this to yourself?
I mean come on man

Is there any point in coming out if you have no friends to come out too?

>>7042867
Constant bulling and isolation makes you numb.
Also, 99.99% of gays are boring and not worth talking to

>>7042867
Too embarassed to ever be a man in public.

Would never want to inteoduce a man to my family.

Could destroy or hurt my career prospects.

I want a monogamous relationship, which apperently makes me an Uncle Tom wannabe hetero.

I don't like anal.

With all of the above, I literally see zero reason not to just pretend to be straight.

Do you think 600mg of caffiene can give you a stroke of you take it ar once pill form daily?

>>7042908

I accidentally drank about 1200+ mg worth of caffeine once
all it did to me was have me shaking slightly on the ground unable to function for about two hours

>>7042908
Depends on your cardio state, but I really wouldn't recommend doing it. Also a nice cup of black magic is healthier than that shit

>>7042839
might be an isolated event but hey fear aint rational
no idea about jews but white people can go just about any way. they can be tolerant and loving, or they can be redneck fucks, with any degree in between. my manager at my last job regularly claimed hed kill himself if he was gay and referred to trans folk as 'it' so thats the kinda attitude im exposed to

>>7042935
>referred to trans folk as 'it'
kek. I do the same thing.

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what if i bleached my hair

>>7042707
>>7042719
>>7042726
I recommend tinder too, tinder has plenty of hot guys in my area and they're interested in more than sex

>took a massive shit today
>lots of blood
Is this what it's like to be a bottom?

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>>7042991
Trip on mascgen

>>7041858
Who is this qt and where do I sign up to be gay?

>>7043094

So was that thing about you trying to kill yourself by hanging or autoerotic asphyxiation real months ago? I mean it seems you aren't as brain damaged as they say you became.

>>7043147
Something must have torn in your rectum.

>>7043186

I don't think i have any brain damage.
Also, jesus christ, a little warning before a question like that, huh

>>7042879
implying you're not boring as well...

>>7043202

So it's true? Sorry, I thought there might have been something wrong with the way I posed the question, but I didn't know how to put it.

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what are the best cities for gays?

Not san francisco pls

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>>7043202
I fucking hate replying to trip assholes but:
>posts super personal details about a suicide attempt PUBLICLY
>is surprised that someone from the PUBLIC is asking about it

At least try to pretend you don't know what you're doing.

>>7043469
Any big city really.

>>7043389

Ah, it's ok.
I just finally hadn't thought of it in awhile and it was kind of a bitterly unwanted reminder.
But i don't blame you, it's ok

>>7043505

those details were leaked by other people against my will (although i guess i didn't tell anyone not to) while i was in the hospital/in a ward
how about some humanity, huh

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>>7043545
Why the hell would YOU of all people post suicidal stuff for sympathy?

I mean i dont want you dead or anything but you havent really gotten much positivity thrown your way...i hope you're alright but YOU posting HERE for sympathy is very foolish.

>>7043622

I'm saying i didn't, anon

Don't reply to Circe. Don't give it the attention it craves.

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>could've auscultated my crush's bowel sounds
>chickened out, chose a different partner
>i will never palpate his rock-hard abs
>i will never hear the sweet sound of peristalsis propelling lunch through his intestinal tract

Considering suicide, AMA.

>>7041858
Wonwoo!

>>7043655
This general is dead bruh doesnt even matter.

god i fucking hate native shitskins bunch of goddamn mongrelized niggers running around the fuckin reservation the white man was kind enough to set aside for these savage retard fucks and all they do is bust up gasoline lines and kills themselves huffing the fumes like the retarded inferior apes they are, then if they don't die from that they kill their livers with shitty ass moonshine. at least the spudniggers have the decency to make their booze decent before they kill themselves with it

god i fucking hate injun pesky redskin faggots, christopher columbus jamestown massacre best day of my life

only redeeming thing is the cheap cigs, but they hustle you for that too and lured me in when i was a wee lad and still an egalitarian

now i get hard to the thought of death camps and trap bussy

circe what you doin cmere girl lemme fuck you upside the hippities then crucify you in the name of the lord

>>7043699

Don't understand the obsession with attention either way
like, who the fuck cares

>>7043709

like look at this fuckin' weirdo here
w t f t b h

>>7042896
>don't like anal
You could always frot or something

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>>7042855
Same here. I will literally go into debt because my family would stop paying for my college.

Once I get a career where I can support myself I'll allow myself to risk coming out.

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I'm moving out with my partner soon, we're both male. I have a friend I hang out with a bit, we smoke weed together mostly, and I have a feeling he may have some homophobic tendencies which I think spawned from his older friendship circles. He doesn't even know I have a boyfriend.
How do I tell him I'm bi before I move out with my boyfriend without the potential of making him uncomfortable? And yes, I know, if he doesn't accept it then he's probably not a good friend, but it's still scary.

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How the fuck do you initiate a conversation with a qt ? There's a 10/10 qt 3.14 boi in my mathematics class and I have a strong hunch that he's into me, but I have to make a connection with him before the end of the semester and I have no idea how. The class is so quiet that I don't know how to start small talk with him without it seeming really forced and awkward.

>>7044035
I should have mentioned that I started sitting next to him a while ago but I don't know how to start conversations. It isn't something I've ever been able to do with strangers.

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>>7044035
"What's up man?"
Wait for him to respond.
"cool. you from around here?"
chat him up a lil and if he seems receptive
"hey man are you busy at all later this week?"
if he says no, then ask him out to a movie or something like that

>>7044010
I don't know that there's any easy way to break it. He's liable to be a little creeped out.
Know I would if I hung out in my boxers, then found it my roommate was into dudes and said nothing.

>>7044065
I feel like we've been sitting together too long for that to seem natural. I'm considering asking him to join my book club or something. I don't go to the cinema. I'm trying so hard to find some way of naturally doing it, but the thing about this class is that none of the students ever talk to each other at all, it's a really tense atmosphere. Even the professor is quiet as fuck.

>>7044082
Well, for the record, I've got no interest in my friend beyond just that. Is this a thing though? If I become friends with a straight person am I just doomed to having to come out right away or creeping them out in the future? Fuck.

>>7044083
On the way out try talking to him.
Or just never say anything and then think about what might have happened if you did.

>>7044117
Nah, the time before class is definitely the time to talk to him, since he tends to stay behind. I think he always stays to ask the professor things. I'll probably ask him something about the class, like whether he actually does the homework that isn't for credit.

>>7044083

Why not break the ice by talking about how quiet and awkward the class is then

>>7044128
Well we're in a really bleak community college in a really depressing area so all of the classes at our school are like that. My best bet is probably asking a class-related question and going from there. I feel confident about this approach.

>>7044094
It's a little more intimate if you're roommates.
You could have fapped on his toothbrush or licked his dirty underwear.
We know your didn't. But he's still liable to be creeped out.

I've always been attracted to women but fairly recently I've fapped to trap/futa & guys i find really cute. what am i?

>>7037849
I don't know if it would be "coming out" but I haven't told my family that I date trans girls. I don't like telling them about my regular dates either.

Whats your thoughts?

>>7044168
You misunderstood. Person A is a friend I hang out with a bit, I'm moving in with person B who is my boyfriend. I have never lived with person A and that is not the plan. Person A has no knowledge of my relationship with person B.

>>7044178
Do you date men too?

The semantics are iffy on transgirls but if you're otherwise hetero and date then for they're feminine aspects that's not "officially" gay unless the shenis is what sweetens the deal for you.

>>7044178

There's nothing to come out about

You're nothing but filthy breeder hetscum

My mom wouldn't care. My dad is extremely homophobic to the degree that he has said shit to the effect of "gays deserve to die", etc.

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>>7037849
>tfw my dad visits every october 11th

>>7044224

You should be all the only dyin imma do is for a few secs when i go to heaven when my man murders my bussy so good i nut handsfree

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>still no bf

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>>7037849
I just found out that today was a gay day, weird. I spent the entire time doing computational chemistry and wanting to die. What did you guys do on this holy gay day?

>>7044094
I don't think so. I have a very close heterosexual friend who didn't find out about my attraction to guys for a number of years and didn't seem perturbed in the least about it, and I actually do find him very attractive (and I think he even knows that, since I've directly called him a qt before and he just agreed with me that he is a qt).

>>7044273
I caught up on my programming class and then went to my book club and talked about how much I loved James Joyce's Ulysses. That's literally all I've done today.

>>7044188
Nope. I date them due to personality traits that I see more often in transgirls than women. Transgirls usually hate their shenis so there's nothing to talk about there.

Unless I feel comfortable with the person I'm rather disgusted by sex anyways.

>>7044310
That sounds really nice actually.

>>7044345
It really was. Not a bad day. But I'm really bored now that I don't have access to any of the books I want to read next.

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>>7044353
What genres do you like?

>>7044368
I'm not too interested in genre literature. I mostly like modernist and postmodernist stuff. I'm reading either Finnegans Wake or Mason & Dixon next but the closest stores that carry those books are about an hour's drive from me so I need to wait until at least this weekend.

>>7044378
I'd suggest Pandemonium or Raising Stony Mayhall

>>7044396
I'm more into avant-garde stuff like James Joyce, but thanks anyway.

>>7044378

Get the ebooks and read em on your computer ho

>>7044443
I fucking hate reading on a screen.

>>7044451

You're doing it right now

Git good son

ayyy gaygen how are you? long time no see. ;_;

>>7044459
This generals dead as dead dead

>>7043681
He is the cutest, but it was hard to pick. Seventeen are total heart flutter material.

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>>7037849
I have absolutely no idea if I'm out to my family or not.
>19
>known I'm gay for about 8 months now.
>family is super religious.
>go to have my wisdom teeth out.
>all I can think about is how I hope I won't say anything about being gay while I'm out.
>have the surgery.
>Two dentists working on my mouth, one chick and one super cute dude (9/10).
>Next thing I know, I'm at home and my mom is saying something about calling the doctor cute.
I have no idea what to do about this.

>>7044457
But I don't spend as much time reading 4chan posts as I spend reading literature, so it's acceptable right now.

>there are men who find women sexually attractive

>>7038227
Psychfag here who browses /lgbt/ for cases like yours. Do seek help anon, whether it be family or friends.

>>7044900
Over the last few weeks, I've been massively attracted to women. They're just SO much more attractive here than in the UK. A 7/10 here is like a 10/10 there. Gonna hang out with a qt in a few days, plus flatm8 is gonna hook me up with some sorority girls.

Gonna pull mad girlpuccii on Halloween too. Can't fucking wait.

I just need to tell someone how smitten I am over this dude I just started seeing. I ended up at the gay bar on a total fluke and he did as well and we ended up totally hitting it off he was totally funny and sweet and even though I had already decided I would go home with him he said:
"If i tell you where you got your shoes will you come home with me?"
"Sure"
"You got them on your feet"
And we just had our first official date since that night and it was so lovely. We just get along so well and have a similar sense of humor. And he's a good cuddler and I'm smitten :]

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>>7045083
Here's a puppy

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>>7045083
I'm happy for you :)

>>7045058
Who is this sexy fuck and how do I get them inside of me?

>>7045083
>"If i tell you where you got your shoes will you come home with me?"
>"Sure"
>"You got them on your feet"
Keeper

What do I do?

>he's very cute
>he's fun to be around
>acquaintances for a few years
>always see him working in food court
>always try to say hi or wave
>don't know what else to say
>in one of my classes
>a very small class
>into Asians (not Asian)
>friends with a lot of cute Asian (probably gay) guys
>he's still single
>he's still looking
>he knows I exist, recently messaged me asking about hw
I'm beyond afraid of asking anyone out, I don't even think about it

What am I supposed to do here?

>>7045240
Just ask to sea a movie. It doesn't have to be a date or anything, just get some alone time with him.

>>7045243
I want to. I honestly had the whole summer to ask him about watching Kubo with me. But I could never bring myself to do it. I just feel like it's too big of a jump given the level of interaction we've previously had.

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I love you guys
I hope you have a good day today

>>7045339
fagit

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>>7045345
<3

>>7045356


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Never come out, never will; I'm happy being married to a woman with children while having sex with crossdressers and trannies on the side

>>7045370
You're welcome back after she steals half of everything you own and takes Tyrone's kids with her.

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>tfw no bf to commit suicide with

REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

>that feel when you change your alternator belt and the car doesn't shake anymore when the lights are on.

That'll do, I'm sure it's fine for a blast to Berlin.

>>7045277
I feel you anon
>>7045405
Suicide pacts maybe?

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>>7045455
>tfw no bf to listen talk about cars all day

I find you dangerously attractive right now, KR

Funny, I actually decided I was going to come out (and confess my love if you will) to my roommate today, and yesterday was the day. I am kind of hopeful. Even if it doesn't go quite as I want, at least it will be less weird when i start bringing home guys. Wish me luck.

>>7045277
Just think about how easy it would be. It's as simple as saying something that you would have no problem saying if it weren't for the social implications that scare you. Just don't think about the consequences. Clear your mind and stop caring about what might happen.

>>7045370

So are you a closeted chaser or gay?

>>7045510
I might hold off on the love part. Telling him you're gay is going to be enough process.

>>7045482
I wish I had someone I could talk to about it too. Well, I do really, my friends, but something more would be nice.

I'm in full blown angry mode now though, I went to do the power steering belt and I couldn't find the fucking tensioner anywhere... Turns out they decided not to include one on the 1.0 engine... Absolutely ridiculous, I have to remove the entire power steering system to change it.

They did put it on the 1.3 engine though so what I will do is go to a scrap yard and get the tensioner off one of those and retro fit it to mine and then just buy the 1.3 belts from now on.

Still a pain in the ass though, the belt is really old. If it goes I'll lose power steering and the water pump. Still drivable but I'll have to stop constantly to let it cool down.

Damn it Nissan, you fucks.

>>7045843
>Just don't think about the consequences

Ah yes. The mantra of the degenerate sluts that have infested gay people everywhere

>>7046233
>>7046248
Lmao what did they do to piss you off?

>>7046233
Gayest face I have literally ever seen

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>>7046314
As much as I don't like either Matt Smith or Mike Dozer I think you're taking them a bit too seriously. They thrive on attention, they're probably getting off to the fact that someone would take the time to dox them.

>>7046314
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>>7046233
Who else's do you have?

>>7046475
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>>7046233
lol let's not forget this moment archive.is/2wl3x

>>7046497
I meant of others. Idc about swede or rugby and have no problems with them.

Im talking about circe maki clownshoes

>>7046497
>>7046475
>>7046314
>>7046233

You're a bad person and should probably neck yourself.

>>7046541

Yeah, but to ask people to harass his family is fucked up.

What I would think would be ok (but still kinda mean) would be screencapping various bits of his fb to mock and laugh at, but to actually share the whole thing and his family connections is a cruel and unusual punishment, and shows a complete sociopathy.

>>7046530
>I tell people to kill themselves on 4chan, so I definitely get a say in what constitutes a bad person

Fuck yourself, hypocrite.

>>7046554

Except that if you were actually concerned with "change", all you had to do was blackmail Swede to change his behaviour, without making it public or involving his family at all.

There was no reason to do this except for petty spite and a desire for attention. You are just as attentionseekign as Swede is, except that instead of posting nudes you get your attention by extreme and unnecessary cruelty.

>>7046562
He is literally trying to ruin someones life for no reason except spite. The world is better off with him dead, is my personal judgement.

My conscience is unblemished. Only the naive and foolish can take a view as black and white as yours.

>>7046576

Except that its not technically wrong. Its shady and degenerate, but not ethically problematic (although possibly morally so).

You don't know the terms of his and Rugby's relationship, and it may be they didn't properly consider themselves bfs until Rugby arrived, which means that him sleeping with someone beforehand is slutty but not wrong. Similarly, there is nothing ethically wrong with being a whore or seeking attention, and these are not things that really deserve punishments - they are their own punishment.

And even if they did, your retribution is way out of line. Its like sentencing someone to death for jaywalking and saying "he deserved it he was breaking the law". Proportional responses are important to navigate non-trivial wrongdoings.

>>7046571
You're literally telling people to kill themselves online based upon your own entirely subjective morals and philosophy, you're just as dangerous. Except it's the same hateful morality that brings you to deem others fit for death that makes you deem yourself righteous and capable of arbitrating life and death without a care.

Who is more evil, someone who plays a tease that might lead to someone being upset but ultimately won't lead to anything unfixable, or one who demands that others make the irreversible deicision to end their own life? While you may not like the person, wanting their death for something they did which was not even remotely equivalent is entirely selfish, not only that but you don't even think about the family members and friends whose lives may be ruined when someone one day takes the advice you so easily doll out.

You are a horrible person by my estimation, and if your personal judgement was anywhere near fair or objective you would see you are too.

>>7046592

Except that you have no concept of context here.

Telling someone to kill themselves on the internet isn't going to cause them to kill themselves unless they were going to do that anyway. Due to context (its a stranger, we're both anonymous, its over the internet, its in an environment where such statements are common, its an empty threat, etc etc), this apparently heinous statement really just functions as a generic insult and has no bite to it. Its functionally the same as just saying "i think you're a bit of a cunt" or equivalent.

However doxxing someone isn't divorced of this context - you are actively causing an unavoidable real-life disaster to happen to someone in a way they can't avoid or really hide from.

All the doxxer has to do to recover from his bad "feels" is to turn off the computer screen or more realistically just scroll down a small amount and forget about it within the hour. Swede doesn't have that luxury.

So don't try and tell me I am even remotely near the level of a doxxer you fucking moron.

Kill yourself.

>>7046603
If you think someone who doxxes people is mentally stable you are kidding yourself, and if you think telling a mentally unstable person to kill themselves isn't dangerous and careless then you're not quite so stable yourself. Swede and Rugby are normies, like they give a shit about this, like it won't pass in a day. However telling someone to kill themselves after actively trying to convince them they're bad people or not worth living when they're so obviously unhinged is fucking sick. You don't know their story yet you act just as careless and cruel as them, thus you don't get to say that they're a bad person without being a hypocrite.

For all we know this could be a cry for help, a last lash out at the world before they decide if life is truly worth living, and right on the precipice of overcoming their distress you swoop in to push them over the edge. You're a monster, truly. But I won't tell you to kill yourself, I'm not so careless. Words can hurt.

>>7046233
He's cute. Probably makes bank selling his ass.

>>7046603
>this apparently heinous statement really just functions as a generic insult and has no bite to it. Its functionally the same as just saying "i think you're a bit of a cunt" or equivalent.
Swedish law says otherwise

>>7046225
I'm talking about social situations, not sexual ones. Don't put words into my mouth.

>>7046667
At least now I know who's been messing with me lol

>>7046639
This is the most hilariously pathetic post I've ever seen. That doxxer should go kill himself, getting so worked up over 2 tripfags who don't even post here anymore.

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>>7046822
New thread

>>7037849
why

>>7038655
are...are you me?
probably no way out desu, i fucking hate myself

>>7037849
>coming out
I don't even have to guts to tweet SFW gay furry drawings…

>>7039300
wut.... damn. Im probably too late to this party haha.

>>7047625
Please do, they're generally qt as fuck