Anyone here consideres a "flamer"? How do you deal? Is it really looked down upon?
I don't aim to be a femboy but I am pretty feminine. I don't have a lipsy voice or call people "girlfriend~"or anything like that, but I like painting my nails, gardening, baking, having female friends, wearing light colors like pink or green, etc. Basically I act like a middle aged stereotypical gay guy. I just want a nice picket fence, two kids, and a husband.
>>7002810
It's looked down on by the gay community but loved by the straight female community. There are more straight women then all LGBT put together so you'll be fine socially, and thanks to the internet it should be easy to find a guy who also wants the same future as you.
>>7002820
Why are lgbt people so hivemind?
>>7002837
Because it was a secret underground club until like 20 years ago
I get mistaken for a het all of the time, but my bf is super into all of that girly shit. I'm pretty masc and people usually have to pry it outta me.
Nobody cares, but if you act like that they are going to assume you are a faggot, which is fine, because you are. Probably nobody is going to give you any shit for it. You just have to watch yourself though, cos something could go down.
>>7002867
I'm half-black so I worry about macho dudes trying to hurt me. It's probably paranoia though. People always say black people are homophobic but as far as you don't wear a skirt I have never heard of any teasing. Just some religious bashing from Baptist folks.
>>7002837
Social conditioning. Every demographic is trained to react a certain way to certain triggers. Blame the CIA
>>7002810
I would sooner take a flaming faggot over a try hard, " straight acting","no gay shit", masc type.
>>7003053
Some guys are just masculine.
>>7002837
>he doesn't know
BREEDER ALERT! EXTERMINATE!
BREEDER ALERT! EXTERMINATE!
>>7003721
Some guys also try too hard.
Bump. I doubt everyone on here is either a femboy or masc.
>>7002810
i never understood why gays being freinds with girls was a stereotype. i tried it and its awful. they aren't fun. they arent attractive, and they dont like the same things.
i tried it in highschool cuz if you come out right away its your only option and god damn they are so fucking fussy. just annoying.
ur gay, why wouldnt you appreciate male bonding more?
>>7009834
Women are not another species.
Anyone come from a culture that is considered stereotypically homophobic and transphobic? How are your experiences?
>be femme ftm and black
>paranoid because I hear all this stuff about black trans woman and flamboyant gay men getting killed, bullied, and beaten