Welp Legbutts, i fucked up.
>Friend of mine starts being flirty after years of thinking he's straight
>Think that there's a chance to actually start a relationship, he's literally my dream boy.
>3 weeks pass of fooling around and going out to parties as his +1
>Sex isn't amazing but I really like him so it can be worked on
>Give him space, time, and support for coming out as bi
>Mentions he want's an open relationship
>Starts to flirt with girl when I'm around
>Look into open relationships and realize i can't do that
>Yesterday we talk it out and he only wants freinds-with-benefits
>tell him i'm fine with it and set up ground rules
>pretend i'm ok but really feel dead inside
>feel like an idiot for allowing myself to endanger our freindship & let myself kinda fall for him.
I think i'm going to try to play it cool and see what happens.
Any anons been down this road before?
>>6928110
this is cute, but you're fucked, sorry
>>6928124
Damn it.
I might just try butt stuff with him and the 3-way he mentioned but then just leave this in the past.
Is the friendship proper fucked?
>>6928110
Don't go down this road
End the sex and see if you can salvage the friendship
You don't need someone who cannot commit to you
>>6928110
Welcome to fwb hell.
He's only using you to jerk off when he can't find pussy.
>parties
eww
Sex is better then no sex
You're screwed anon, I'm sorry to tell you that but maybe you can salvage the friendship. Don't let yourself be used for sex because you think you can win back. There'll be another boy in your life, be strong!
>>6928397
>humans are robots with no feelings that just need to eat sleep and fuck to be happy
>>6928110
The same thing happened to me with my roommate. TLDR, this shit never ends well
Gay are so ridiculous.
Sex doesn't equal love
there's absolutely nothing wrong with open relationships
>>6928507
>robots with no feelings
What do you think happiness is?
>wah let me carry on being an insecure jealous *
anon....
>>6928605
Open relationships and friends-with-benefits are not mutually exclusive.
He just wants fwb
>>6928605
As a bisexual, kill yourself you horrible slut.
Open relationships are not real relationships.
>>6928653
NICE SPOOKS NERD AHAHAHAHAHA
>>6928110
Oh man this makes me feel so sad.
Hang in there anon. It'll be okay...
Thanks for the support anons.
I'll talk to him tonight after work.
>>6928879
gib update
>>6928110
You should probably make it clear that you aren't fine with it and that you are trying to make it work anyway. If you actually can't handle it and decide to break things off, he'll be a lot more understanding because you where honest from the beginning about how difficult it is for you. Friendships can survive sex, but lies are a lot more dangerous.
>>6928139
yes
>>6928605
But then again love is just what I pretend to feel towards one of my very close friends so they accept exchanging cuddles and eventually sex.
Don't mind not having sex with friends but I'd like it if I could experience more skinship and cuddles with all my friends.
fuck him in the ass and tell the girl lel
>>6929148
/thread
So I just left and i think he took it ok.
I played it cool but I feel kinda numb right now.
I think our friendship should be ok.
Thanks for the hugboxing anons
>>6929863
I reall wanted to have one last kiss but I'm pretty sure that would have fucked it up.
>>6928110
Ha! Fell for the bi meme.
>>6929947
We're both bi.
>>6929967
Ew. Nvm. My bad.
>>6929947
>>6929979
why do you post with my name when you aren't me ¿?
>>6930019
Lel!!! So you're S now? By all means cover my ass more with your stupidity.
>>6928110
Well if shitty movies have taught me anything it's that honesty is always the answer. Try confronting him and telling him that you have genuine feelings for him but you can't do open relationships (Be open minded to his needs too) and tell him if he doesn't want a relationship that you just want to be friends again.