Tomorrow I will come out to my parents as MtF, any tips and confidence boosters, legbutts?
>>6904708
Lol
>>6904708
Drink your estus like a good snake prince
Hi Gwyndolin anon, do you like men or women?
>>6904740
This. It sucks, but you can never be sure in your trust with your parents if you come out as trans. They can seriously fuck up your life if they're the wrong kind of people, and most cis people are the wrong kind of people when it comes to trans stuff.
Your best bet is to find a job, save your money and self-med under the table. The effects of estrogen and blockers for MtFs are usually subtle for the first few years and can be easily hidden with clothes. Use your parents for what they're giving you and come out when you can be secure without their help.
>>6904708
How old are you? Do you need their help to transition? If you don't it may be better to wait until you're already transitioning to come out to them. If you insist on telling them anyway while you're still dependent, have plans ready in case of really bad reaction (friend's place to crash for the night, enough cash to last until you can get a job, numbers for support networks in your area, etc.).
Otherwise general tips from my experience;
>Play it cool, try not to make it a big deal if you can.
>Explain transitioning as a medically necessary procedure to help alleviate your gender dysphoria. Bring along a copy of the DSM-V part on gender dysphoria, it will help them see it as a real medical issue.
>If you're going to present as female when you tell them, don't go overboard. Just wear some casual women's clothes like jeans and a nice blouse, maybe some light make-up (foundation and mascara). "
>Don't hold them into a confrontational position. If they need some time to think or get some fresh air, let them.
>They will take time to accept it, for better or worse. They will likely go through the five stages of grief. They will likely feel they have lost a son. It may seem like they're being selfish but this a normal reaction to loss.
>express that you transitioning is inevitable and it will happen regardless of whether or not they support you.
If you have any more specific questions, ask away.
p.s. gywndolin is the best
>>6904708
go for it, if you don't you'll probably end up killing yourself, it's better not to keep stuff like this hidden
DO NOT COME OUT TO PARENTS ABOUT BEING TRANS, IT IS THE BIGGEST MISTAKE YOU CAN MAKE
I came out to my parents like 6 months before starting transitioning and its been absolutely horrible. Everything is awkward and they treat me much differently. I can't spend time alone with them in fear of them bringing it up. DONT DO IT
>>6904708
Don't.
>>6904708
legitimate response, we need more information on your parents.
>>6904708
Bad idea.
If you really want to and if it backfires, just say you're gay or something lol. Being gay is way better than being a tranny to most parents.