Anyone here not yet come out of the closet? >27 years old

>>6823238
i dont got it as bad as you
i know im not straight but i dont know what flavor yet but im scared af but just want to stop hating myself for years

hang in there friend

>>6823238
I guess I'm kind of in the same boat. I'm 27, still not out, only some of my family would accept it. I'm not a neet I guess but I lost my job, couldn't find work, now I'm living at home and going back to university to try something different. I'm hoping I can at least move out next year and get my life started again though.

I'm 20 and just got out of a 2 year relationship with a family friend because she didn't feel like I loved her. I didn't, but I lied and said I did. Both sides of my family are from the south (Virginia and Kentucky). One of my best friends is a white nationalist. My mamaw said gays deserve to be lined up and shot. I'm and apprentice plumber, so I work in tight quarters with conservative guys and I accidentally came out to one of them today (the owner of the business' son-in-law of all people) and I've been freaking out about it all day, because the owner is a close friend of mine's uncle, and I've yet to come out to any of my friends.

I might be just overthinking a lot of this, but the anxiousness I get when I'm thinking about coming out is all to real. It's paralyzing.

>>6823503
Am dude btdubs

>>6823238
>Anyone here worse than me?

Well, I'm homeless and typing this on a computer in the public library. Surrounded by other mostly homeless people. It smells. I smell. We smell. Try going weeks without bathing. Try going nights without sleeping because the cops harrass you and make you keep moving. Try getting gang-raped in shelters. Try not having food, getting attacked by aggressive douchebags who just want to rage on someone they perceive as being inferior. Try sleeping on cement because it is the only thing warm. Try wandering the city day after day wondering if anyone loves you, if there even is a God why would he abandon you, what did you do to deserve this?
Try looking for work but you have no clean clothes and when you try to wash in public restrooms people yell at you and call the cops. Try having everyone think you are a drug addict or a drunk or mentally ill just because you don't have a place to live.

Actually, you know what? Don't try it. Being homeless sucks. I wish I had family that let me live with them, even if they were conservative. /rant

>>6823565
Your city doesn't have homeless shelters that can get you a job? In my city if you're homeless you just go to this place for homeless people that hooks you up with a job, it's pretty much guaranteed work. I've known a few NEETs use it cause getting a job as a homeless person is easier than explaining a huge gap in your resume

>>6823591
Where do you live, some kind of socialist country?

>>6823565
Yeah you smell bad but those poor refugees are literally dying! We have to prioritize.

>>6823591
>it's easy!

did i mention i got gang-raped in the shelter?
yeah, i did.
thanks for reading before replying.

Not worse than you but still closeted
>22
>student
>fairly chill immediate family
I just pussy out every time I get even remotely close to telling them their only son is a tranny.

>>6823503
>I accidentally came out to one of them today
story?

>>6824148
I feel you but don't keep waiting, find a therapist

>>6824633
I'm already on hormones tho. No rush at this point

im technically still in i guess?
i haven't told anyone without it coming up first or them straight up asking
and havent told my parents even tho im sure they wouldnt care
idunno it's just something that feels awkward to just bring up out of nowhere and it's not really a pressing issue

>>6824704
same here really.
"coming out of the closet" just seems unnatural. it'd make me feel like that one dude who did the anal vore party.

>>6823254
you are me

>>6823238
I'm out of the closet but more fucked than you.
>27 years old
>unemployeed and neet
>useless bachelors degree
>~$20k defaulted student loan debt

>>6824763
>>27 years old
>>unemployeed and neet
>>useless bachelors degree
>>~$20k defaulted student loan debt
hello me in 8 years

>>6824572
Whatever you say, hon.

Third options like what femboys pull, where you can still take all the prestige and family ties you want but look like a girl exist. You can pick a route where you don't turn into an ape or get disowned.

>>6823565
You had to fuck up royally hard to wind up there. It takes effort to be so disorganized that you actually wind up homeless. Don't even pretend like this is anyone's fault but your own.

>>6824424
Nothing is preventing you from having a "traditional" marriage and household with a gay partner other than your hangups. "Gay lifestyle" is a meme

>>6823503
why the fuck do you feel you have to explain to the world what kind of sexuality you have
People dont care unless you force them too

>18
>still at school
>very progressive family

but

>i have a girlfriend

I've been with her for more than a year. How the fuck do I tell her?

>>6826044
>you're such a massive bitch you turned me off women for life.

>tfw might be FtM or weird nonbinary
>tfw might be any combo of sexuality other than straight

quitgame.jpg

>be 19
>have super conservative parents
They love me very much and are super nice to me and we have a good relationship
But it will immediately end as soon as I inevitably come out
It kind of sucks
If it wasn't them I would've just bitten the bullet and told everyone by now. But as it is only my closest friends know right now.

My thing is I've recently come to terms with my sexuality, am in a new area, but I have no idea how to meet guys. I'm also still very shy/unsure about the whole thing.

>>6823238
23, conservative family aswell.
Got a job tho.
Literally just meet the cutest and most careing guy ever.
I think with him, i'll finally come out and tell everyone!

u need to get out and actually meet people, don't be afraid to try new places or talk to new people.
And u might also one day meet the cutest guy ever!

>>6827052
23, conservative family.

We are literally in the same boat.
Only, i decided to find a nice/cute guy that i will maintain a relationship with. And 4 years of going out with some strange guys, i finnaly found my prince.
I'll let my family know soon, i'll probably come back to tell u guys how it went.

>>6826044
R u serious?

22 with a gf

I think about sucking dick multiple times literally every day and sometimes during sex I imagine balls dangling between her legs.

>>6827854
>during sex I imagine balls dangling between her legs.
do u at least fucc her in the ass?

>>6827891

She recently said she'd like to try it do you're damn right I will be

>18
>everyone i know hates gays
>live in a very conservative bible belt area in the south
>kinda small and cute, somehow people don't know i'm gay

guess i'll never get a bf

>>6827896

Do you like British accents (southern stereotypical one)? Can you get me over there?

Please love me

>>6827917
:o?

>>6823238
Exact same situation, with the exception that I'm a single year younger.

The only reason I'm not really panicking right about now is that since I'm unemployed and a neet, I wouldn't want a boyfriend anyway, and once I'm employed I'll just get the heck out of here and everything will be fine.

Yeah, if anything, my gay issues don't even register on the radar, although they do make me feel worried. Unemployment is the WORST.

>>6823238
I don't think I'll ever come out, not for quite a long time anyway. I'm fairly sure no one could ever love me

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>>6827896
I find the idea of forbidden passion at once enthralling, but also saddening.

I'd stay in the closet, but have sex with as many 'straight' boys as possible, but i'm a cunt who prefers social acceptance over being myself.

>20
>m
>bi
>religious family but they're not too bad

I'm more worried about women just turning me down outright because of the whole i still like dudes thing.

>>6827052
>they love me very much

No they don't. They love their petty idea if God.

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>24 years old
>Haven't had a job since Jan. 2015
>Hispanic
>5ft 7in tall
>Small brown 5 inch cock
>Balding
>Closeted Gay
>Borderline type 2 Diabetic
>Kissless, Handholdless Virgin
>Dyslectic
>Never finished college

Just fuck my shit up desu senpai.

What's the point of coming out, leave that for the pretty fags.

>>6836200
>>Borderline type 2 Diabetic
>>Kissless, Handholdless Virgin
Just eat less, and you'll at least have two less problems.