I'm seeing a therapist for the first time on Thursday. I don't even know what I want to say.
I don't feel uncomfortable the way I am. But I sometimes feel like I'd be happier as a girl.
Mainly, it boils down to the fact that I'd like to wear skirts and dresses in public (if I could find any that fit me) or makeup.
What the hell do I even want? Am I transgender?
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>>6818343
why dont u wear a kilt? I mean its a temp solution but seriously go nuts
>>6818443
Don't own a kilt, and good tartan is expensive.
Plus, I'm an Englishman in Scotland so it could still get me some funny looks :)
>>6818474
>Plus, I'm an Englishman in Scotland so it could still get me some funny looks :)
thats all the more reason to weak a kilt... I mean its not like ur in detroit. u would get more funny looks elsewhere
It's completely normal to be skeptical and still be trans. Heck I was even moments away from trashing my hormones when I finally got them and giving up. Now I've happily been on them for 2 months.
>>6818517
At the moment, I'm pretty confident that I don't want to transition. I might even want to go in the other direction and talk to my doctor about whether I should be taking male hormones as a supplement.
But I really don't know what to say to them. And I feel like I'm wasting their time. I mean, so what, I want to wear girl's clothing sometimes; do I need to see a therapist about that? I really don't know... Does it even matter what my gender is?
>>6818343
Congrats, you're a transvestite.
Wearing girls clothes while being comfortable in your body doesn't make you trans, it makes you the male version of a tomboy. Go look up some Eddie Izzard stuff
>>6818618
looking up Eddie Izzard, he now identifies as transgender. "vestite implies it's all about the clothes." and I have to admit that I don't like the term transvestite either.
I definitely wouldn't say I was "comfortable" in my body either. Although, that could be just about anything, doesn't have to have anything to do with being trans*.