Question to bi or former straights. Is vaginal sex supposed to

>>6777015
You're actually fucking retarded, OP. No shit, it's supposed to feel good.
Now, that's not to say that you're not bi. I don't think I need to tell you that bisexuality is not a 50/50 split down the sexes.

>>6777015
Meh. I've done it a couple times and only once did it feel really good. All the other times felt meh so I must have done something different that one time.

Do you jerk off with a death grip? That's a common culprit. So is too much porn viewing. It causes you to rewire your thinking about sex, pleasure, and orgasms to be all about visuals. Lay off the porn, start jerking with lube and a light touch.

If none of that helps maybe try some weed beforehand? Speaking from personal experience, it heightens my sensitivity to touch and makes me hornier in general.

>>6777682
Actually, I have been laying off the jerking because I'm trying to have more consistent prostate orgasms. But I never used lube, is that advice relevant for uncut people?
I'll try laying off the porn too, but it's gonna be hard as it's just a habit (altough, can parasexual fetishes rewire how I think about penetration itself? Living them out didn't help so that'd be sad).

>>6777015
Hey OP, bi male here. I've only had very limited experiences with guys, but I've had a ton with girls and let me say sex can and does very drastically. At the time, my gf and I lost our virginities to eachother and we together for nearly 4 years after. It wasn't until after that I realized that I had 4 years of terrible sex. I mean, the intimacy and the physical contact and what not made it better than masturbating, but it was still incredibly bad sex. We jumped into fetish stuff rather quick and it was kinda fun to explore that some, but the sex was still bad and I ended up with skewed perceptions of my own fetishes because of it.

Luckily, I've had a very active sex life since and my wife is extremely open to kinks and personal attractions. I recommend you go after whatever makes you happy. Don't let your past experiences taint what could be an amazing experience. Even (mechanically and technically) great sex can pale in comparison to sex with someone where the chemistry is on point. As for experimenting, then what's the problem with trying things and then either going further or coming back? Just get out there and enjoy yourself!

Btw, A/S/L?

>>6777015
Is your girlfriend loose?
Does she lay there like a dead trout during sex?
Have you tried different positions?

>>6779891
I don't know if she's loose, I don't have much for a reference, but she isn't very active when we have sex that's for sure. She doesn't get on top because that's even less nice than me trying my best on top.
But we's tried different positions and stuff, it felt hot but also like my dick couldn't get pleasure like that.
>>6779784
What you said just makes me want to experiment more with boys for right now.
(I'm in france)

>>6777015
Do you get hard looking at solo female stuff? Report back what body part makes you hard. Like go on /s/ right now and check out a thread on each body part and write down experiences. What makes you erect?

>>6777015
well anal sex is supposed to mimic vaginal sex,
so vaginal sex technically should feel the best

must have been with a loose slut

>>6781299
I don't get the loose slut argument

Someone who is married may have sex with her husband every day, but a woman who has sex with two different men a week is looser?

It has to be different dicks for the vagina to get bigger? LOL

>>6781187
Solo female doesn't fail to make me hard. midriffs, thighs, boobs and long hair are the most potent

>>6781337
So do you see those things when you're having sex? Because if the lights are off, how do you expect to get hard? If you do see these things, and you're not getting hard, maybe your partner is not that attractive?

Also, cut down masturbating to one day a week. You can do it as much as you want, but only on a Monday, for example. You'll be super horny for the rest of the week and you'll want to have p in v sex on the weekend.

>>6781366
Well that's only the physical parts that get me off. I usually don't see some of them that much because I'm busy living out fetishes.
I'm confused because everything in the bedroom feels pretty hot and gets me horny but the actual sex sensation is almost nothing.
I don't know if I could satisfy a girl without ever having penetrative sex and at the same time only ask her to work on my nipples in return. Not with this one at least. She got tired of me only giving her cunnis.
That's why I want to experiment with a boy now. I've heard oh so many times from people who couldn't be arsed with anal that they'd be just ok for non penetrative sex.

>>6781411
the sensation of sex will never be super amazing, for women or for men

the whole point is that you get turned on enough that you cum with little stimulation - where penetrative sex is generally on the less side

If you want to make a girl come by fucking her for a few minutes, do a lot of foreplay - whatever she likes - and then when you fuck her rub her clit at the same time. This is more stimulation.

Whether or not you come at the same time is irrelevant. Just tell her to blow you afterwards if she knows what she's doing, or give you a handjob if she doesn't.

>>6779784
>I realized that I had 4 years of terrible sex.
>We jumped into fetish stuff rather quick

Oh god damn it,this sounds exactly like me and my gf. Anyone more experienced have advice on improving sex? Gf seems to enjoy it a good bit but I don't really care for it.

>>6781713
>and then when you fuck her rub her clit at the same time

This is the best. Being fugged in the front hole while having the clit rubbed, it's like super orgasm.

>>6781411
>She got tired of me only giving her cunnis.
desu while it cunnilingus feels good i don't think i could come from it alone