/bi-gen/ - Bisexual General Discussion

>>6756527

I look for dicks in female partners, and pussys in male partners.

>>6756527
>What do you look for in a male partner?
Someone to look after me and make me feel secure and subby.

>What do you look for in a female partner?
A friend who I can do cute stuff with.

>Is there something you look for in both?
Being not an idiot.

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>>6756547
As an idiot I resent that.


>>6756527

>What do you look for in a female partner?

Sweet natured but capable of acting the opposite. Grace even within the limits of humanity. Can work a room. Average is fine but not overweight not incredibly skinny; keeping fitness with the navigational beacons.

>What do you look for in a male partner?

Either lightly feminine or incredibly masculine. Direct natured with the capacity for charm. Not incredibly sexually aggressive but open minded in regards to sexual things; in a way the sexual nature of a women to a degree. Either more fit/larger than myself or much smaller/leaner.
>Is there something you look for in both?

Be able to hold engaging conversation about varying topics. Independent/ able to live without the assistance of others (unless due to some unavoidable circumstances). Able to view situations in an abstract way. I usually attract/prefer artists through any medium or those who seek knowledge, though I'm not much of either?

Conversation is critical, as well as the ability to just chill out and get down.

>>6756719
No offence anon, it just means you're not for me. I hope you find people.

>>6756760

Well I guess that depends, how do you define an idiot?

>>6756808
Not caring to think, refusing to change their mind in the face of argument, lacking curiosity, being unable to learn.

In a female partner I'm pretty specific... tomboyish/butch looks, short hair, small figure (not more than B cups).

In guys, a cock. Seriously I'm not particular unless they are obese (chubby is fine) or have bad hygiene habits.

My ideal relationship is polyamorous with another bi guy and a straight girl so I can live out all of my eifel tower fantasies as well as being the middle of sodomy sandwich. Also we could both take the girl home to appease our homophobic parents. Also rent would be easy to pay with 3 of us. And we could start a band. This is all theoretical of course.

>>6756944
Did you just post a fucking Bjork? If you browse /mu/ we are getting married right now.

>>6756831
Oh! I've always just identified as the type of idiot that could mishandle the best laid plans.

Well then there's still hope!

>>6756921
I hope to meet a person like her one day, appearance, accomplishment, and a sense of style even in the way they walk.

>>6754779
Props, that's the best case senario I'd say.

>>6757021
That's just a problem the the male look for things of looking after me and making me feel secure.

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>>6756903
>>6756944
>>6756950
are both of you me as well

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>>6757117
>>6756944
We need to start an independent music themed sex cult. Except when we get to death grips night we'll have to do hardcore bdsm. I don't know about that.

>>6757096
Going to be honest here, not sure what you meant to say.

>>6756527
I'm into masculine women and feminine men. No clue why.

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>>6758897
Oh my nigga

Is it just me or is dating as a bi person much harder than for everyone else. so much hate.

>>6759501
It's probably much harder for asexuals, but I feel ya.

>>6760295
Wtf is even dating as an asexual. That just seems like it would be really close platonic friendship.

>>6760301
I don't know, mostly cuddling with maybe kissing. Just no dick/pussy touching.

>>6762336
Imagine how much they would hate that. Doing this thing that has no meaning for them to another person. Like forcing a deer to use escalators. It would feel un natural and forced and fuck if they know what they are doing or if they are doing it right.

Anyone else find guys cute, but find it really difficult to get aroused by them, but get aroused looking at girls almost pathetically easily?

Is there some kind of mental block that I can remove so I can be sexually excited by gay shit more often? Or do I just have to live with this?

>>6756527
> What do you look for in a female partner?

Facial aesthetics, cuddling, companionship, sexually I like women with really big butts

> What do you look for in a male partner?

A hard cock.

>>6763857
How long have you known you were bi? Have you been with men? How we're those experiences?

Oh and we're you raised in a place that would be adverse to these sorts of things?

>>6764017
What is driving you to do this?

>>6764068

So any hard cock? No requirements for personality, morality, intellect or the like?

>>6764017
We'll soon meet in hell, anon.

>tfw bi, but have only been with other guys
>tfw half-virgin

>>6763857
other way around for me. aroused by men, but prefer looking at women

i keep coming back to weird shit like
>maybe i'm fully straight and just imagining being aroused because the person i'm looking at is aroused in a familiar way and i just have a mental block against being turned on by women
and i know in my head that's the stupidest fucking thing ive ever read but, you never know,

>>6765170
Define deadbeat

>>6764294
A couple of gay wet dreams, had a gay guy hit on me for ages and I got turned on a couple of times around him. Every once in a while I get turned on by gay porn - about one in 50 faps. Family somewhat homophobic. On the other side of equation, haven't had a female friend for two decades which kills me (proper wizchan shut in), but had the standard dick-in-hand adolescence of being turned on by any 'sexy' females, photos, vids, real life.

>>6766523
>but had the standard dick-in-hand adolescence of being turned on by any 'sexy' females, photos, vids, real life.
man i wish i knew what that was like

i remember as a kid having a friend telling me he popped a boner because he saw britney spears on tv and i just internally was like "wut. is that a thing that happens"

>>6756527
>What's your preference?
I wouldn't say I have one. It's kind of hard to say.
>What do you look for in a female partner?
Someone who is okay with not getting showered in affection. I have trouble showing my emotions, but at the same time I'm insecure so I would need someone to give me a lot of affection to remind me that they still love me.
>What do you look for in a male partner?
Same as above

In your guys' experience, are straight girls usually put off by bi guys? I mean, I can hide my man loving half pretty darn well, but I'm afraid of bringing it up in converaation.

>>6756527
is the discord invite expired?

>>6767033

they will think you're a faggot and won't date you anymore.

>>6767913
Yeah, because OP fucks up constantly hehe.
https://discord.gg/22JQmdt

kanker

>>6770039
Only the stupid ones.

>>6767033
I mean if they are put off by that the 'relationship' you would build up wouldn't mean anything at all.

lately been wondering if maybe i just have a fetish for being physically intimate with men but not an actual genuine attraction to men

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So, I had a relationship with a girl ages ago, and it was great. We're still on good terms and I have high regard for her as a person.

Now I'm in a relationship with a cute as fuck twink since about three weeks or so.

Now, given the choice, I'd go for guys over girls any day. My girlfriend at the time was great, but this still feels ten times nicer.

Anyone relate to this?

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>>6770045

>>6770045
I do I do, but many find it chamring?

>>6771174

keep your cham ring to yourself weirdo

>>6771174
Yeah you do. Maybe try being a sub once?

>>6771235

yes I'm a huge beafy faggot please rape my face~
also we can drink and maybe even more?! say hiiiiiiiiiii

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>>6773008
I think we could be drinking buddies, don't be shy.

>>6773022

also there is no limit to what we can do

;) ;) ;)

I just want to have some anons in my bed to play with them

I like not too much masculine men and do lewdies, LOTS of lewdies!

Anyone wanna chat or something?

>>6775511

you should probably join the discord

>>6775511
Join our discord group. It's pretty comfy.

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Hi bigen, all my life I've thought of myself as gay but a recent crush on a female friend of mine made me question my identity. I realized that I've only ever had romantic crushes on women, while with men it's more physical. For example when I like a guy it's because I want to be friends with him AND sleep with him, but with women it's because I feel a need for something more than just friendship. Is anyone else in the same boat as me? I'd want to date a girl someday but I'm worried that I won't be physically interested in her and the relationship wouldn't work.

>>6775820
>>6776566

whats the link? the one OP posted is not working

>>6777376
https://discord.gg/jAnJtrz

I realize I suck

>>6776719
Have you perused any of your female crushes? Have you ever been intimate with a female in a physical way?

In long term relationship with another man.

Have extreme desire to have sex with a woman. How do you deal with this?

>>6777432
Depends on your partner honestly. Communication is essential and obviously if you're monogamous you can't just up and hook up with someone else.

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>days ago: "I think probably bi because i fantasize a lot about both genders? in that case, yolo"
>later: "nah, i still miss my ex-gf, she was cute & i was so hapy with her. i'm just straight, I must have been perverted by 4ch, porn and such"
>later: "i want to fuck this guy so much, i think i'm in love, he's perfect. Well maybe i was gay in denial all along?"
rinse repeat everyday.
This is just so fucking exhausting.

I'm more stressed about my 1st time with a guy, that my 1st time with a girl kek

Does anyone here start to fap to straight porn, realize it's doing nothing for you and switch to gay porn? Sometimes I'll be really horny but i don't know for what.

>>6777432
Im not a slut. I devote myself to my partner. Tru luv ya know.

>>6782120
Mainly just switch actually. But yeah depends on the mood, straight porn tends to be a lot better so it's mostly that.

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>>6757042
Yep! I wasn't expecting difficulty, but it was still surprisingly difficult just to get the words out. Gave me a little perspective on what coming out must be like for the rest of LGBTQAZPF$AZASDF in a non-supportive environment.

Is it normal to be very selective as a bisexual?

I am definitely not straight, but I greatly prefer the female figure, but I like dicks so much more. I love traps/trans stuff, and I could see myself in a relationship with an androgynous man. But I'm extremely picky, I don't know if real life would be the same as it is with porn, cause gay porn with manly men I can't do, I've tried many times and it legitimately isn't a turn on. I don't know, sometimes I can fantasize about having a boyfriend though.

I don't know if these are inhibitions left in me from a lack of real life experience. Just feels confusing cause when you call yourself bi, at least I sot of have that image of being attracted to both genders, but it feels like not the truth to say I am attracted to men.

This past weekend I finally unlocked the part of my brain that isn't grossed out by kissing men. I am romantically and sexually interested in women but physically attracted to men. I like sucking dick and have used a dildo in my ass before and I loved it and would be okay with doing that irl. But I have always thought kissing guys was gross. Just the thought of it used to repulse me. But this weekend as I was fapping gay deepthroat videos there was some heavy kissing going on and... I didn't look away or fast forward. I have always looked away and fast forwarded up until point prior. I used to be genuinely turned off.

But now I want to kiss a guy. Deep tongue passionate and lengthy makeout session. I've even fapping to gay kissing videos. I've gone from a blowjob whore to a kissing whore. All I wanna do is makeout with cute twinks and manly bearded men.

>>6756527
I only care about personalities, not physical attributes :^)

>>6756538
wat

>>6783815
holy shit I literally identified with every word you said. I thought there was gonna be something to separate us but we might be the exact same person. struggling with those thoughts as well, my social anxiety and depression makes it unlikely that i'm gonna get to "experiment" anytime soon

>>6785197

are you me?

>>6756527
>What do you look for in a female partner?
I'm not looking for a female partner. I honestly feel gross that I'm attracted to women.

>What do you look for in a male partner?
Someone who can understand and tolerate my dumb bullshit.

>Is there something you look for in both?
Cuddles.

>>6756538
you're the opposite of me ew

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If only the annoying tranny trolls would stay out of the discord...

>>6792291
>If only the annoying trannies* would stay out of the discord...
fixed

>>6789849
Yupp, you're me this confirms it.

I'm old though, turned 25 in July. Still a virgin. Depression and social anxiety and a lack of social life all stop me from meeting people and falling in love.

>>6783815
I'm attracted to very feminine men and very masculine, muscular men, but the between that i feel like I'm forcing myself to be attracted to them to call myself bi.

I still want a qt /fit/ bf though.

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>>6792291
>>6792336
Have you considered discussing your gripes with management?

Have you also considered being open minded about others perspectives and if someone is discussing something that bothers/annoys/causes you buttblasting levels of damage to use another channel?

>>6792336
Kek
>>6792753
I have.
And literally, it stems from a hypocritical inability to respect others perspectives. I end up butthurt not because of a difference of opinion, but because my chatter in the server is consistently belittled.
Worse yet, the rules don't apply to the server queens cuz rationalizashuns
And unlike the trannies, THAT is the ONE AND ONLY lgbt server that I can honestly go to. Bis aren't welcome in other lgbt specific servers. You know this. Honestly, I removed the app cuz I need some time for the swelling on my behind to go down.

>>6756527
can I join the discord if I'm still questioning my sexuality?

>>6798354
Yes. Welcome!

>>6794802
You are talking about the /bi-gen/ Discord? We generally try to be pretty chill, so if there are any problems talk to one of the Arbiters or Admin.

New mega-survey, join in:
https://www.surveymonkey.co.uk/r/YGTXSVZ

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>>6799759
>no caffeine

I just submitted a blank survey

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>tfw no ""hetero"" relationship with a bi woman.

>>6756527
>female partner
hips:waist ratio

>male partner
big dick

>both
clone of me

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>>6800581
I can't wait for her post about his follow-up confession that he's been sucking cock behind her back since they stated dating.

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>>6802188
>I would feel incomplete
>thbiseckshulmanfesto.bmp
>oh God my desire for both dick and pussy is out of control pls help
>I'm dissolving in a puddle of my own juices
Remember when gays were oversexualized because the only visible ones were the massive slutty faggot ones? This is the same thing.

>>6798940
Damage control. You can't police your celeb members' contributions. I said already, I contacted the admin. Connery knows who I am.

>>6802431
who's a celeb member

>>6803092
I wouldn't ask that here.

>>6802431

look, I think I know who you are. You can stop crying and trying to blame anyone but yourself. EVERYONE gets on well with each other, it's just you who makes everyone go wtf?!
so yeah, maybe fix yourself first.

>>6802431
I didn't even knew there was drama or any damage that had to be controlled. As I said, if you felt that someone of the team doesn't treat you how you want to be treated try another team member.

We also don't have celeb members, most people get full posting and reading privileges after showing that they are pretty chill and engage in the text channels. Policing is also very limited, can't really remember any *censoring* happening.

so what did you have last bigen?

dick or pussy?

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>>6804448
Just a bit of pussy this morning, I am not sure I will want to keep seeing her though.

I may have some dick this weekend but the fellow is quite desperate to a fault. I hope not to have a young man moaning to my every step and glance indefinitely if it costs them the opportunity for personal growth.

>>6767033
Find a fujoshi and BAM you're instantly 100% more atractive to them, and they secretly wish you tell them your gay adventures

>>6804448
Where is the option 'none'?

>>6804448
Dick, and it was awful.

I actually realised something today, and it was that I'm attracted to men but only for things like cuddling, kissing, and well, I find them really cute, but I don't want to have sex with them. I can suck dick but it doesn't make me horny or anything like that, and taking a dick goes from nothing to slightly painful.
With women I'm perfectly fine, I'm sexually aroused by them.

What does that make me, /bigen/?

>>6805624
>I can suck a dick
>I find men cute

Bi, 75% women 25% men

>>6805701
oh, thanks. It still makes me really confused though, but I guess I'll stick with women.

>>6805624
Maybe you should try topping.

Why do we have a discord group but not a telegram group? imo telegram is easier to set up and much more convenient
I'm new here so sorry if you guys already made a telegram group of some kind

>>6806191
TG is just not as popular.

I can't sleep.
Send help.

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>>6808059
I'll stay up with u anon

>>6804448
pussy, ages ago

pussy is great, sex is fun

>>6756903
Same but I'm the girl and I'm bi, not straight lol.

Bigen?
More like scumgen haha.

Anyone else have trouble getting laid with women as a bi male? I'm a virgin still and for once, I'd like to get with a qt and stick my dick in some pussy. I want a nice thick woman with huge tits and a nice fat ass whom I can dominate. I want to have sex, period.

As much as I love men, particularly qt fembois, I hate that I've had more success with my own sex than the female sex.

>>6809584
>more success getting laid
>virgin still
explain.

>>6809584
where in the US are you? My area is full of girls who are at least tolerant of bisexuals.

>>6757133

Hannibal, your new name is Mannibal!

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>>6809439
>>6809439

>>6756527
Females
>short hair is awesome
>cute, sharp features
>bewbs not too big, medium is best

Males
>qt
>effeminate
>smooth or lean body type
>hairless is nice

Both
>intelligent
>mildly eccentric
>has that childish curiosity
>has something they're weirdly interested in, doesn't really matter what

Don't like in either
>fat (not even chubby)
>smoker/stoner


>tfw my looks are barely average and yet I'm still picky as fuck

I'm trying to figure out if I'm full gay or bi or trans or what. I'm a girl, for clarification.

I find men and women attractive. I don't hate dicks, but I do have a general disinterest in them. I just don't get turned on by touching them, sucking them, or even fucking them. I can get wet and come by being fingered or fucked by men, though.

To get turned on with a guy for legit sex, I have to have him wear panties. I often will get desires to fuck him with "my" dick in "his" pussy, which gets confusing.

Meanwhile, there's not much confusion about sexual arousal for women. I want to grab their hips and fuck their dripping pussies with "my" cock. I get very turned on very easily and very quickly when it comes to women.

All in all, I find the male form more aesthetically pleasing, but female genitalia more arousing. I also find myself with male genitals more natural during sex. What the fuck does all that make me?

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>>6810509
same on p much every count except i'm ok with a lil fat

>>6810807
>I also find myself with male genitals more natural
Is this refering to wearing a strap-on or do you have a dick but you identify as a girl.

>>6810829
Neither... ? I guess the first. I have a vagina, but the thought of using a strap-on while imagining it is my real dick is often my default sexual desire.

>very thin body
>pretty much a twink with zero muscle above my belly button
>guys want me hairless below my sideburns (pretty much what I want too)
>girls always ask why I don't have chest hair and say it's a turnoff.

Why do genders like different aesthetics?

>>6756527
Guys is it normal to feel like I am becoming more gay as I grow older. Because guys have been getting more and more attractive to me every since I turned 16

>>6810927
it makes sense desu: once they turn 30yo, every female are craving for babies. this is plain disgusting

>>6810942
The idea of having kids is so strange to me. What if I father another Elliot Rodger or Eric Harris? The responsibility is fucking terrifying.

>>6810975

well don't you like vanilla latte

>>6810942
Makes sense

>>6756527
Female partner
>Cute
>Non-SJW
>Similar interests

Male Partner
>Cute
>Similar interests
>Not horny 24/7
I definitely prefer guys because generally I can talk to them easier but girls are cute. I've yet to meet one in person who I share much in common with though.

I feel attracted to both men and women and it's driving me crazy. I don't know where to start in the dating game. My family would hate to see me dating a man.

If I start dating a woman, I can't cheat on her with another man.

How do bi men who are dating women keep their urges for men in check?

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>>6812059
>If I start dating a woman, I can't cheat on her with another man

It may take a while, but try to find someone who

A. Trusts You

B. Is Comfortable with your sexuality

Maybe you could look for a more "liberated" girl and come to a certain agreement as to an open or poly relationship

Maybe you could just communicate with your partner that you feel like having an open relationship, but you will still respect their wishes if they don't (seriously, dont go behind their back. That's how biphobia happens.) but reiterate that the ebb and flow of bisexuality may put a strain on your relationship

Maybe you could find a bisexual partner yourself and have a wonderful time fucking them and having group sex like the hedonists we are.

The one thing you absolutely should NOT FUCKING DO is put yourself in a relationship with no way out, because that's how infidelity happens. Don't perpetuate the stereotype that all all bisexuals are cheating scumbags.

t. Dan Savage

>>6810077
I consider myself a virgin when it comes to hetero sex, but I've pretty much had sex with a guy and done everything except anal.

>>6810081
I don't want to say. I'm just paranoid people will know who I am for some reason. I know it's illogical but it's w/e.

It's not even just because I'm a bi male, I just get really spergy and nervous when it comes to trying to initiate anything with women. Like nothing seems to come out of my mouth and I get a huge fear of rejection. I'm not smooth at all.

>>6812196
>I just get really spergy and nervous when it comes to trying to initiate anything with women. Like nothing seems to come out of my mouth and I get a huge fear of rejection. I'm not smooth at all.

I used to be like that actually. I really was and I'm not lying to make you feel better. I realized that it wasn't the fear of rejected, it was the fear of being judged. Judged on appearance, judged on my shitty teeth, judged on how I would do as a partner. I had pretty crippling social anxiety

You know how I got over it? I realized that you will never see 99% of the people you meet in bars and partys and such again. The worst they can do is make fun on you. Any person who is willing to make fun of someone who is attracted to them simply because they tried to approach them is a shitty and narcissistic one.

They also never reciprocate oral sex. It's all about them in the sack, trust me. I know.

I'm not done let me make a second post

t. Dan Savage

>>6812233
This applies to 99% of all social interactions as well. The guy you bumped into in line at the store and spilled gatorade on? He'll forget you in a week.

The girl you had a crush on and when she asked you if you wanted a cough drop and you didnt want to say no so you said you were allergic and she looked at you like you were a retard because that doesnt exist. She forgot it happened within a month. My friend didn't though. Motherfuckers never stop teasing.

My point is that you shouldn't be nervous around anyone. Stop giving a fuck about what they think of you until they show they care about you.

What is the worst that could happen?

>>6812233
>>6812259
Really good advice, except that my situation isn't quite like that. I'm talking about getting with women in my social circle. I've had some success with making out with some, getting to fondle some boobs, them letting me spank them, etc., but I've never had full-on penis-in-vagina sex yet.

I'm also a NEET, which doesn't help me at all. I know I should just focus on getting my life together but fuck, I just want to fuck already. I want to take control of a woman and dominate her, making her squeal in delight as I pump my dick into her, making her legs and feet bend and curl as I please her sensually. I want to be the MAN. You know. I want her to want my cock, which I don't think I've ever really had, a woman to really like me and want me sexually and I guess romantically as well.

You are pretty right though, what's the worst that can happen? It always does seem like people forget that sort of thing weirdly fast, because to me, I end up dwelling on all my past failures for months or even years after they happened. It always just seemed really stupid to me that people would forget things they said or did only a few weeks after they said or did them, you know?

>>6812389
>I'm also a NEET, which doesn't help me at all.
Do you live with your parents? College Degree? Find someone who shares even a single interest with you and talk with them about that. Don't use a pickup line or anything like that.

> I've had some success with making out with some, getting to fondle some boobs, them letting me spank them, etc., but I've never had full-on penis-in-vagina sex yet

I don't like to speak for a different gender, so I'll speak as a human

Generally, people are willing to do

> I want to take control of a woman and dominate her, making her squeal in delight as I pump my dick into her, making her legs and feet bend and curl as I please her sensually

things like the above if they have an honest to god connection with someone. Try not to focus on the fucking. It's hard, I know, but in the long run you want to find a girl to get into an actual relationship with, rather than a puss puss to ram your ding a ding dang dang a long ling long into.

>>6812422
>Do you live with your parents? College Degree? Find someone who shares even a single interest with you and talk with them about that. Don't use a pickup line or anything like that.
Yes, I live with my parents. No college degree yet but I do want to go back to school soon.

>Try not to focus on the fucking. It's hard, I know, but in the long run you want to find a girl to get into an actual relationship with, rather than a puss puss to ram your ding a ding dang dang a long ling long into.
So it's really bad that I focus primarily on the fucking then?

>>6812500
It's not bad, its just missing the point.

I think you are missing the point of why you want sex. You probably would feel empty even if you had the best one night stand ever. You seem lonely. Again, I know that feel. I hope you find someone that you can love, and give your feelings and emotions to and all that lovey dovey stuff. Then fuck the absolute shit out of them as much as possible. That's how those lewd memories are made.

>>6812522
>It's not bad, its just missing the point.
>I think you are missing the point of why you want sex. You probably would feel empty even if you had the best one night stand ever. You seem lonely
Huh, no one's ever figured that before. I think you're right. When I had sex with that man, it felt really emotionally fulfilling. Felt nice that someone would actually find me attractive for once, both physically and for my personality. I felt really good afterward to, like I was invincible, which was something I don't normally feel. Typically, I feel really vulnerable and low.

Actually if anything, talking to the guy that I've been talking to is really helping me understand how to get with someone. It's helped me look at past failures and realized that I had no idea what I was doing really.

Thanks, man. I really appreciate it! That's probably some of the best advice I've gotten in awhile.

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>>6756527
So what's your preference /bi-gen/?
I strongly prefer males.

>What do you look for in a female partner?
I haven't sought out a female partner/love interest in so long that I've practically given that up to be honest.
I like a woman that's somewhat tomboy-ish, without being obnoxious. She'd have to be able to get along with and do well surrounded by typical male nonsense. "One of the guys" I guess. That said, my roommate's ex was very much a "girly girl" and loved cooking/baking and being artsy. I liked that because it was just two guys otherwise with very little class.

> What do you look for in a male partner?
A feminine figure, either taller than me or shorter, can be a man where it counts (makes crude jokes and can be rowdy) but also has a quiet, reserved side.
In short: a cute gay nerd.

>Is there something you look for in both?
Creative, intelligent, NERDY or Weeb, extreme levels of lewd, on the paler/lighter side of skin tone.

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Do other girls still dress butchy when they're in a hetero relationship?

Sometimes I'll get super dressed up, but mostly my outfits and hair scream lesbian. I think it bothers my boyfriend.

>>6812780
how does your outfit look?
I only wear skinny jeans, tops and tight shirts, that's all.
doesn't scream lesbian to me tho, it's pretty normal around here.
fuck the cakey dressed up girls. they actually get less dick here. cuz everyone knows their overcompensating for their fugly face.

>>6812829
Sometimes I get caked up to hide my fugly face, but when I don't I'm dressed in loose shorts and t shirts. It's really my boy haircut that really tips me into the obvious lesbian side of things.

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>>6758897
>>6759280

Ayyyyy

>>6758897
>>6759280
>>6814181
My niggas. I dig the hell out of androgyny.

>>6756719
No point in me posting, it pretty much happened already

>>6756527
I know I'm a bi male (finally admitting it to myself) but haven't had much experience with guys beyond kissing. I have a girlfriend that I love to death but also desperately want to explore with other guys. Don't really know what to do, would love some help.

>>6814286

Have you talked to her about it?

>>6814298
Yeah she knows but is understandably hesitant about letting me experiment with other guys

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>>6758897
>>6759280
>>6814181
>>6814203

you have a good taste.

so bis, what was your first experience with the same sex like?

>college
>heading back to dorm in the evening
>shout form a friend in his balcony
>"Hey anon! I wanna fuck you in the ass!"
>"OK!"
>"wait, really?"
>"Yeah!"
>"fuck yeah"
>asian guy, hung like a bull field mouse so it didn't hurt or anything. felt good.
>after first round, bad clam chowder takes effect
>spend rest of night puking/shitting my guts out in the co-ed bathroom
>we never make eye contact again

>>6814239
I take it we are basically the same person in our tastes?

>>6756527
>what's your preference
i don't care desu, i just want to be loved ;__;

>>6815178
I love you anon

>>6815723

this kills the thread

>>6812552
>>6814479
I'm not sure of the gender here but I don't care either.

>>6814479

And you have a nice booty~

>>6814479
D I S C O R D
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>>6818158
>>6818184
>>6819146
sorry guys, but the photos where from /mtfg/ (i'm a bi ""man"" i'm not sure), in theory the photos are of female anon with a trans gf, but maybe the anon who posted it lie and is just a random girl who never visit 4chan.

>>6819283
This girl is from /soc/ she posts in /shg/

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So I'm a guy who just came out as Bi this summer and I'm going back to college in a few days. I've been with a few women in my life but i'd like to finally start seeing guys. Since I'm "new here" I don't know a whole lot about safe sex with men. This might be a dumb question and I don't even know if this is the right place to ask this but is there like a health site or something explaining safe gay sex?

>>6819397
Use condoms, other things are bullshit. And use lubricant, vaseline is not worth it.

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>>6819468
thanks!

>>6819477
Good luck

>>6819397
http://www.loveyourcondom.co.nz/

if you can get past the hilarious accents this is as good as it gets

>>6819537
this site is exactly what I was looking for, thanks so much!

>>6819295
>This girl is from /soc/ she posts in /shg/
would.

++ if she had a dick tho

>>6819558
beware, if it sounds like "meth" it could mean "math"

but it could also mean meth. do some meth first just to be sure.

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>>6819397
You should visit the San Francisco clinic web site:

http://www.sfcityclinic.org/stdbasics/

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I prefer females. MTFs and Androgyny is cool too.

>Females
Feminine or androgynous but with a bit of grit (I like to do outdoorsy things, and I'm an entomologist, so must be okay with getting dirty/critters). Equal in life, submissive in the bedroom. Must be semi-educated (at least an associates degree, apprenticeship, certification etc). I'm open to a lot of different body types as long as they aren't too skinny or too fat.

>Males
VERY Feminine or androgynous.Submissive in general. Agreeable and amiable personality. Well educated (at least a bachelors degree, might be willing to make an exception if personality is good). MUST be skinny or have a feminine body type.

>Both
I look for someone who's patient, open-minded, and respects nature, even if they don't know a lot about it.

Checking if Discord bi-gen tracker works!

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>tfw you will never be a celebrity member

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We need a new mascotte, and it should definitely not be pic related

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Sorry for all the spam.

>tfw no one believes you are bi because you are in a M-F relationship

Oh well

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>>6822230

i think the reason so many people have difficulty with bisexuals is because it seems that they are indecisive and unable to commit to a relationship.
A populare cultural example of this would be the Lady Dynamite episode where Maria dates a guy who is "bisexual because of meth"

In the episode, Maria’s friend offers to set her up with Shane, a bisexual former meth addict. Maria initially balks at the offer. “It may be a little too complicated, too much for me right now,” she says. But after finally agreeing to go on the date, she discovers the two have a lot in common—neither want to be defined by their illnesses. The trouble is that she doesn’t understand what bisexuality actually is. Maria tells her agent that her new beau is a “formerly meth-fueled bisexual” who is “now straight… and straight.” Of course, bisexuality is a recognized sexual orientation, not the product of addiction.

Maria’s talking radio encourages her to hook up with him, despite her hesitations about getting physical. “Go get ‘em, tiger!” the radio advises. “And use a goddamn condom. He is bisexual.” The implication is that because he swings both ways, he must be promiscuous. When she arrives at his house, Maria discovers the waiter from their previous date giving him a blowjob. To make matters worse, Shane also has a live-in boyfriend.

The episode attempts to lampshade their behavior by showing that Shane doesn’t seem to understand how bisexuality works either. He believes that if you’re bi, that means it’s OK to cheat on your partner—as long as it’s not a man. “We have our relationship, and she’s my woman relationship,” Shane asserts with a smile. “I’m bi-sexual.”

http://transcripts.foreverdreaming.org/viewtopic.php?f=643&t=27336

>>6822424
>all those stereotypes
I must say this episode sounds quite _problematic_

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>>6822475

It is actually pretty funny

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>>6822704
You better be.
Why though?

>>6778491
It is such a relief to hear someone else with the same fear. I always worry about being straight or gay depending on whom I have a crush on

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>>6822724
Currently testing a scraper on Discord that checks for new messages in this thread.

>So I'm now checking if it screw up with all this formatting

Also have another pasta picture!

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>>6822724
Also thank you
>It works I think
Test url: http://www.sfcityclinic.org/stdbasics/

>>6822931
Much better yes

>>6756527
>Preference?
90% female, 10% male. If I wasn't currently dating a man I love I'd just call myself a lesbian honestly.

>What do you look for in a female partner?
Taller and more curvaceous than me, wears some sort of alt fashion (goth, punk, gyaru, etc), lesbian, confidence.

>What do you look for in a male partner?
The cute nerd type, not too feminine, must at least humour me when I talk about girly stuff, bisexual.

>Is there something you look for in both?
Take care of their appearance (good hygiene, dresses well, etc), intelligent enough for deep and meaningful conversation, but chill enough for fun and nonsensical conversation too, makes an effort to spend time with me often, but doesn't require constant attention, low or nonexistent libido.

>>6822935
For some reason it still crashes at random moments, that's not good.

Shitposting for a glorious cause!

>>6823545
Thank you for helping, but yeah I fucked up.

>>6823137
>wears some sort of alt fashion

really? sexual attraction for you is about what she's wearing?
i guess i gotta start paying attention to fashion.
*groans internally*

>>6824174
We now post in this shitty thread.

Sorry for the bump but does this still work?

>>6814640
My first time

>be horny af
>download grindr
>an asian guy sends me message
>he doesn't look that bad in the pics
>barely speaks any other language than his own(thai/vietnamese)
>arrange to meet him after work at a mall
>he looks worse irl
>have strong urge to call it off but it didn't seem polite
>we go to men's bathroom and suck each other off
>nervous af
>he has clearly smaller than mine
>he cums in my mouth 4 times
>cum 0 times
>he has to catch a bus so he leaves
>stay in the toilet for 30 minutes thinking about the experience and writing about it on /lgbt/
>go back home

In the end it was a shitty experience for a first time. Gladly I had two better times after that one.

>>6825869
Thanks anon
I'm not sure how I feel about the male body however
Though sometimes I think a guy is good looking or could even be cute but I would not get with them unless it is a passable trap

>>6823651
I wear alt fashion every day. I don't think it's any more unreasonable to want a gf who shares that interest than it is to want to date a nerdy guy who shares my interest in vidya.

>i guess i gotta start paying attention to fashion. *groans internally*
Why? Because it's one random stranger's preference?