Who here /abusive dad/ >be mtf >stuck in boimode >out

Go on Grindr and find a few nice bears to beat the shit out of your dad. I'm sure a few of them would if you told them that story desu because I really want to rn

>>6756399
Awww anon, i'm so sorry you had to go through that :(

>>6756413
I don't want people to beat up my dad though.
I love him and he loves me.
He is just trying to do what he thinks is best for me and toughen me up, even if he is wrong.

>>6756425
>he loves me

Sure.

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>>6756399
Your father is a horrible human being

>>6756425
Yeah okay this is either not the OP or the entire original post is fake

>>6756399
>not being able to take your dad in a fight

I would fucking wreck my dad if he tried to fight me. Step it up, fempai

Did you get with waiterbro at least?

>>6756441
this only happened yesterday, so no.

plus I don't know if he would notice something happened.
or if he was gay and thought I was a cute guy,if I actually passed by some miracle and he thinks I am cis, or if he just doesn't care.
gives me too much anxiety to actually call or text him desu.

>goes to prom
>sees faggot kid
>kid is a total ugly nerd but obviously thinks I'm hot
>I am the hottest queer within 50 miles
>slow song comes on
>I'm not openly bi yet
>everyoneknowsthough.jpg
>kid looks really lonely so I ask him to dance
>he's visibly nervous but excited
>is this what it feels like to be Elvis
>says thank you and I continue dancing
>get picked up by dad because I'm poorfag and no car
>tell dad about it kind of testing the waters
>ain'tnosonofmine.jpg
>oh-okay daddo it was just a joke Lul
>deadinside.jpg

>>6756450
> gives me too much anxiety to actually call or text him desu

Just fucking text him, you failure. He's probably thinking you're a hot trap and wants to fuck.

>>6756450

Don't doubt your self sempai he approached you remember, strike up a conversation tell him what happened and he'll show his true colors.

>>6756399
iktf anon
>tfw dad is likely schizophrenic but has gone his entire life undiagnosed and untreated

>whenever there's an argument in the car he'll speed up to 90mph on the tiny winding countryside backroads where we live
>if it's night he'll turn the headlights off too
>goes completely silent and refuses to respond to us screaming at him to slow down

and that's just a little taster

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>>6756451
>is this what it feels like to be Elvis

>>6756471

Uncanny sounds like my father

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Posting OP's source

http://imgur.com/gallery/35YwZ

>>6756399
Your dad has the right idea OP. 10/10 parenting, stop being such a bitch

>Watching a show with papa
>Show has multiple brief straight sex scenes
>A single gay character appears
>14 second long gay sex scene
>papa audibly groans
>Goddamnitgayagenda.jpg
>ask him why this one is pushing an agenda but the straight ones aren't
>"anon it's just disgusting"
>tell papa that the gay actors are more attractive than he'll ever be
>papa is mad because he knows it's true
>Papa jokingly says "what're you some kind of faggot anon Lelol"
>littledoesheknow.jpg
>"besides its against Jesus"
>tells papa that Jesus probably got bukakked by all of his disciples every night
>"what's a bukakke anon?"
>nothing papa just put the show back on and grumble about the gays

Not really abusive but this was funny to me

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>>6756495

Muh feels thanks anon

>>6756425
This is honestly so scary that you think he still loves you, time to move out friendo and and living ur life

>>6756508
even abusive relationships have love in them
I don't think it is fair to say he doesn't care about me just because he can be a bit rough
that doesn't make it right, but it also doesn't mean I want strangers assaulting him either.

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>>6756533
Your missing the point if his "love" for you is him not accepting you as you are faults and all then it's not love at all it's tokenism at best.

>>6756533
You have Stockholm syndrome like a mofo, as someone who's about as far removed from your situation as I can be, get some fucking help. Don't ever let someone else make you feel worthless no matter how much you may think that they "love" you. Life is way too short for that shit and there is way too much suffering inflicted upon us that we have no control over to sit around and let ourselves be miserable.

>>6756533
Fuck off, troll

Tbh I probably fell for the troll but whatever

>>6756488
What did you get belted for? Did it turn you LGBT?

>>6756553
If it's real he needs to hear it. If not then yeah whatever.

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>>6756399

You should murder him.

>>6756505
>"besides its against Jesus"
>tells papa that Jesus probably got bukakked by all of his disciples every night
>"what's a bukakke anon?"
>nothing papa just put the show back on and grumble about the gays

Lol very funny

>>6756450

I had a moment where it seemed like a cute blond and blue eyed guy was hitting on me, but when I got a closer look at his face some minutes later (no bully, I'm shy), I noticed he had gay face. Up until then I had been so excited and nervous talking to him (or rather him asking me things and me nervously giving short answers), because I thought maybe I started looking like a girl and I was finally going to start living. So when I realized he was gay, my mood deflated, and I thought to myself, "Of course he's gay. Why would a straight guy want me?" When I got home, I decided to check the mirror just to see what he was interested in. There I saw my well-sculpted Chad jaw and 5 o'clock shadow and I wanted to kill myself. I looked handsome, not pretty. Of course, that was 2 months into HRT. Anyway, good luck, anon. You should try to text him to see where you stand.

>>6756505

I'm tempted to say GoT, but you said single gay character.

>>6756425
It's hard. My dad's gone and my mom beat the shit out of me until the day I moved out. She loves me, but she only loves the me that she thinks I am. I haven't been that person since I was 12 or 13, and the abuse started not long after. You don't hurt the people that you love.

I love my mama, but I'll never trust her again.

>>6756533
Everyone calling you a troll and a pussy has never been in an abusive relationship. I'm sorry. I know it's bad. If you need to talk, my email is [email protected]

>>6757045
>>6757026
These are both me, by the way.

>>6756425
>He loves me

No, he doesn't. Tell him to fuck off.

>>6756399
How old are you, can you move out yet?

>>6756437
This.
>be closeted mtf
>alpha as fuck
>if my dad even thought about hitting me Id beat the ever living fuck out of him to prove im not a faggot

>>6758052
seems like a difficult feat when he has testosterone on his side

>be me
>be 12
>be in bed asleep
>dad punches me in the face

I had a habit of not waking up to my alarm clock, a habit that still ruins my life to this day

my dad and I have a surprisingly good relationship now... i mean he is still a cunt but he tries

>>6756450
>hello i think you are attractive and want to get to know you

BUT WHAT IF HE DOESNT THINK IM ATTRACTIVE?!?!?

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When I was younger my dad used to get wasted and beat my ass. Wouldn't even remember it despite my bruises. He'd say all manner of awful things to me and my sister although he liked my sister a lot more then me. He thought cause of my red hair and blue eyes that I was a bastard, my mom denies it and I trust her on that but i still wanna get a paternity test in secret one day.

The one rule my mom was firm on was that my dad wasn't allowed in my room, I think it's cause my sister complained about me sleeping under her bed when I was scared. It might have been for personal reasons too cause my dad used to rape my mom and she would come into my bed afterwards to hide from him. She'd cry and hold me and in the morning I'd always find blood on the sheets. Didn't click for me until years later when my sister asked me about it.

>>6758303
>Be me
>age 14
>in really bad mood
>Dad comes over and slaps me so hard I see a white light and I cry in bed like a bitch

>6758363
He slapped me during his drunken stopper as well. Probably my 2nd most depressed moment of my life

>>6758363
oh god...that's awful

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i just wanna cuddle everyone in this thread

>>6756399
should have reported it to the police immediately.

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>>6758472
He didn't mind me being gay at least, both my parents were fine with it. Although my mom made me promise to raise some kids for her to spoil cause "That's the whole reason I had kids". Still talk to my dad although I don't really think of him as such, he has a new wife and a cute little baby that I love. He stopped drinking awhile ago and now smokes weed instead, mellowed him out and made him a better person. He almost killed himself after the divorce cause of the guilt, now he tries really hard to get involved in me and my sisters lives.

Really though could have been much worse.

>>6758503
Because my father going to jail would help me so much

>>6758558
no, you should have gone to jail instead. then you could have gotten all the dick in ur bp u ever wanted.

>be me
>live in cali
>dad im gay
>"ok"

>>6758726
>Orange County
>Fuck

>>6756738
Not the poster but I was once sitting on the couch while my dad watched Girls and it was transitioning between sex scenes to wrap up the characters plots of the episode and the last one was gay

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>>6756430
>>6756429
Fuck people like this
Sometimes someone who loves you hits you because you're the one who is screwing up. I threw everything away because I listened to people telling me that I didn't deserve being hit when looking back I definitely did.

>>6759644
there's something wrong with you domestic violence is never acceptable

>>6756399
> Piss bed.
> Get beat.
> Caught smoking.
> Get beat.
> Bad marks.
> Get beat.
> Get swole as fuck.
> Beat back.
> Finally earn his respect.

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I was terrified to ever tell my father or my older brothers I was gay because of their views they openly expressed any time something "gay" was brought up into a discussion or just shown on television.

>Watching Six Feet Under, one of my favorite shows in living room on couch
>One of the characters in the show is gay
>One guy kisses another guy, that's all
>"Fucking disgusting" my father said from the dinner table. My brothers are in agreement with him
>I regrettably say "What's so disgusting about love?"
>They all look at me with a disgusted shocked look on their faces
>My father ask me "What, you have friends that are faggots, are you one yourself?"
>Face flushes red
>Brothers and him all start laughing
>It was a joke
>I awkwardly laugh to conform
>"If we ever had a queer in the family, hell would be raised"

There were many times where things just like this happened. It terrified me to ever come out. After my father passed and my brothers all moved away, I came out to my friends and my mother, the only one who seemed to be accepting in the family, who was just as accepting as I expected her to be. I'm very glad I waited, as I fear something terrible could have happened to me if I did come out to my bigot family members, OP and others who have shared their stories, I'm sorry you all had to go through that and I hope the best for everyone here. *hugs*

>>6756399
that's really, really awful. No matter how much it seems like someone loves you, physical violence is never okay, especially from a parent. He sounds really really awful. If you can get out of there soon you really should.

>>6756399
>tfw no abusive father to fight

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>>6760347

>>6760347
> Piss bed.
> Get beat.
> Going to freinds.
> Get beat.
> Bad marks.
> Get beat.
> Get in a fight with him
> Get beat with a crowbar.
> Get drunk as fuck and cry and talk about how I want to die
> Dad cries.

I dont even hate him.

>>6761061
The funny thing was, the day after he beat me with a crowbar and a chair I had to do a presentation in school. I mailed my teacher and asked him for more time since I couldnt finish it. He refused and I only had 2h sleep that day. The teacher still gave me a really bad mark. I was more mad at the teacher than at my dad

>>6756399
Damn you should thank him hell you should ask him to kill you since you obviously deserve it.
That was sarcasm. Domestic violence is a serious problem. You nees to tell someone. It is never your fault if you are hurt physically without physically engaging the person.

>>6756399
>mfw all my gay friends have it bad like this
>I try to be as nice and comforting as possible
>I can never truly relate because I'm straight
>Trying to be the best out of home dad I can be
Anon, let me be your dad

>>6756425
What do you intend to do, then? Talk to him about your tender loving feelings and how you could improve your relationship? It's not going to work.

Really, cutting all ties with him is just about the best thing you can do.

>>6758217
Like I give a shit. I have hate on my side.

>>6756399
Your dad thinks you are weak and you do need to toughen up because life will shit on you at every opportunity.

He gave up beating on you because you chose to be weak. You should have hit back. He thinks you're a lost cause now.

>>6760257
Words and facts only do so much. A slap might actually open someone's mind.

Just troll him until he learns to see the funny side of it.

Get your leg out and stroke it and say "Dad feel my leg it's so smooth I just shaved", then when he rages out just laugh and run away.

Keep doing stuff like this and he'll eventually take it less seriously. If you keep your sense of humour, he'll eventually get over it.

>>6761131
I have enough daddy issues as is, thanks

>>6761214
Yeah if you want to have your throat slit or a shotgun fired into your stomach.

>>6756399
Continued...

>several hours later while I'm in the kitchen making myself something to eat
>hear something strange at the door
>apparently dad went to to the bar to get drunk or something
>with a loud boom he erupts through the door stumbling, speaking incoherently
>"give me that fags number I'll, I'll beathusassbdb"
>his speech is slurred
>he starts walking towards me
>"son please, let me give you want fine just take it"
>"huh? dad what are you talking about?"
>to my horror he's unloosening his belt
>I back away slowly
>he mumbles... "ttturn roun..."
>I mutter
>"dad what are you saying I can't understand you"
>he shouts
>"I SAID TURN THE FUCK AROUND FAGGOT"
>I'm in shock because he's never used that tone on me
>I turn to run but he grabs the back of my shirt
>he pushes me to the floor on my stomach and lands on top of me
>I can feel that he's fully erect
>I yell
>"no dad PLEASE STOP, DON'T DO THIS"
>he just tells me to shut up and he will cure me
>he licks the back of my neck and bites my ear
>imliterallyfucked.gif
>he whispers
>"I always knew you were a fag and I know you want this"
>I tell him to get off or I'll scream loud enough that all of the neighbors will hear me
>he covers my mouth with his left hand
>we continuously struggle on the ground
>I start to cry
>he whispers
>"keep squirming you little bitch, squirm until all of the fight is out"


Keep going?

>>6761310
Please don't.

>>6761310
you had my curiosity but now you have my attention please continue

>>6761310
Please tell me you're not actually OP.

>>6761310
0/10
I call my dad papa
did you even read my first post, idiot

>>6761359
What difference does it make? OPs story was obviously fake.

>>6761376
...might as well continue though

>>6759547
GR8 B8 M8

>>6759644
Love and assault charges aren't synonymous anon period...

>>6761061
>>6761077

And yet you feel that someone who beat you with a fucking crowbar is worthy of respect?

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>>6761196

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>>6759547

>>6761454
Honestly if someone attacked me with a crowbar or something id just murder them. I don't trust my family. I have my room orientated so that Im the farthest possible position and constantly able to see the door. If my dad came in YOURE GOING TO DIE FAGGOT swinging a crowbar or pulling a gun on me etc. I'd pull my .38 out of my drawer crouch underneath my oak desk and put every single round into his stomach.

>>6756399
Baby! Baby, noooooooo! :(

Baby =\= pussy or weak.

>>6761710
where did you get a gun

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>>6761710
always good to be prepared

Im lucky. My parents employ a "dont ask dont tell" strategy in which my mom knows but only brings it up to tell me I'm going to get AIDs if I fuck black men. My dad still has no idea. He's really old so Im probably just not going to tell him. he'll be dead before my marriage.

not abusive but I have dad stories. I think I've told a few of them here before so I'm going to give the abridged version

>be mtf
>around 14 years old
>come out to mum
>she starts crying
>"you're just like your father"
>wat

>a few months later, ask mum directly what she meant.
>turns out dad likes dressing up in womens clothes as a fetish (I think, maybe he's just repressed feelings)
>mum tells me that he was beaten by his dad because of it.
>she tells me he has a suitcase full of dresses and the like
>I check it out once I'm alone in the house
>open it up, see a blue satin dress. Immediately close it... I don't think I want to look through anymore.

>skip to half a year later
>mum buys me a suitcase
>we're not going anywhere and I already use another one....

Whenever I think about this I get a surge of pity... but then I actually talk to him. He's alcoholic, bipolar, and extremely childish, ie: every time we're in an argument and he knows he's lost, he plays the victim card and leaves the room. I feel disappointed in him

what a role reversal

>>6758558
yeah, fuck him, cut him out of your life, get a job and never see him again.

although if he's the main breadwinner then you may have a problem

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>>6758684
>implying u get dick in jail

Somebody who was actually in jail for 9 months here, gays never got dick in prison for a few reasons

1: no condoms and having sex was literally asking for aids
2. people were generally aggressive toward gays and if u werent able to at least moderately disguise your gayness you would be put in protective custody (solitary confienment) so you would get beat up
3. there was no place to have gay sex, the way jails are designed is that so that guards have a clear view of most of the place at all time to stop fights and other shit. Also since there was no real privacy if you somehow managed to have sex with a dude without the guards noticing, other inmates would find out and would get angry and try to beat both of you up

Mind you, this was jail (less than 12months sentences), not prison were there is dudes doing 20yrs or life and are probably more desperate for sex

>>6760347
I would rather have the respect of a literal homeless person than the respect of someone who beats their children

>>6761376
you should go into your papas room when he is asleep and ride his cock

>>6761997
why is everyone here so concerned with revenge and retribution?
besides he is co-breadwinner with my mum

>>6761182
An angry bitch is still a bitch. Good luck with your impotent rage

>>6762068
Not so much revenge on him, but more so that you can be happy in a better place. Also if that were me I would want revenge

>>6762125
how is putting someone in prison not revenge?

>>6762144
well I don't have a connection to him, from what you said I would want revenge

>>6762178
I don't know if revenge is ever worth it
but perhaps I am being holier than thou

>>6761981
oh fuck that's my biggest fear
that it actually is genetic

>>6756399
kek
cool story faggot

oh shit, i thought i was still on r9k
ignore the last post

>>6762253
roger roger

>>6758726
>be me
>live in Seattle, WA
>dad I'm trans
He now lives in Florida.

>>6762363
>seattle
eyy bby wan sum fuk?

>>6761449
>>6760257
I know it doesn't sound like love but he was jusy trying to save me from myself. I wish that I had listened to him. He was the only one that could have loved me and now here I am an alone friendless alcoholic.

>>6762144
Justice, not revenge. He assaulted you unprovoked. I understand you care about him but he's proven himself violent and possibly a threat to your life as well as others'.

not quite abusive, but absent
>dad and mom constantly fight
>finally they divorce when I'm in elementary school
>grow up without dad, resent him
>much later, find out he's gay and that's why my parents divorced

sometimes I wonder my childhood is what caused me to turn out to be a tranny

>>6762702
it comes down to me on whether or not I wish to press charges

>>6762708
I don't think you need to wonder anon.

>>6762025
>no condoms
Wut

>>6762721
Well, that's that, then. But I hope you're willing to draw the line somewhere, if you want this to be an incident and not a constant in your life. You seem too nice to receive that sort of treatment.

>>6762731
Yeah, cause it's not something you turn into

This is probably not the best place to post if you just want emotional support. Although there is something satisfying about anon's 'me-too'ism.

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>Be faggoty twink
>Not officially out but pretty much everyone in my family can tell
>Have this one uncle though
>The kind that believes in THE GAY AGENDA and that we're ruining his America
>Makes a point to call me out on being a bitch whenever he can
>Gets drunk, asks me outright if I'm a faggot
>yeah lol
>Loses his shit, asks my dad if he's proud of having a gay son
>"He's graduating with honors and plans on doing something with his life, of he wants to suck dick at least he'll be rich while he does"
>tfw never got rich

>>6763417
Your dad is bro tier. You should make sure he knows it if you haven't already.

>>6763512

It sounds like his dad is only conditionally accepting. 'As long as you're successful', in other words. That's not broish at all, I'm so glad I wasn't raised like that.

>>6761310
Keep going

>be straight
>dad is gay
>dad, i'm straight, i like girls
>he starts yelling at me
>you are fucking white male stop opressing me
>he convince his husband and husband boyfriend to dont talk with me anymore
>he stop giving me money and i must beg on the streets

>>6756399
>>6761310

this is some gachimuchi shit

>>6763754
Pretty much what I was thinking. My father says I need to become a lawyer or doctor to love him. (I never said I loved him once and he hasn't either)

>>6763754
>only conditionally accepting

Jesus you faggots are never happy

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Not abusive dad story but...
>be me, mtf, 17 at the time
>parents been divorced forever
>dad invited all of us over for breakfast
>just broke up with his gf
>i have something to tell you guys
>I'MGAY.jpeg
>meh don't think much of it cause he's 50
>justbehappydad.avi
>get home
>decide its time for the tranny to come out too since there's literally no better timing
>tell him next time i see him
>dad tells me it's a phase
>doesn't accept it
>don't talk very much about it with him for 2 years
>keep it internal whenever i see him out of respect
>boymode whenver i visit him
>moms supportive
>having dinner one night with him
>get into a fight
>he tells me he thinks his son died
>he tells me it takes more than 2 years to adjust
>he tells me i'm lucky he even walked around with me in public
>lose it at this point and almost physically beat him
>ask him how he thinks i feel
>tell him to grow a fucking a pair and be a man
>tell him i never wanted a fag for a father
>tell him maybe i wouldn't be a tranny if he had done his fucking job
>he's the bottom in his relationship to make all of this worst
>feel disgusted
>leave

Haven't talked to him in about 2 months. Keeps texting me to get "family therapy" and that he wants to talk. Told him no when I really just want to kick his ass still and tell him to fuck right off for being a pussy and pushing the "be a man" agenda on me even though he's never followed it himself.

>>6763916

That's normal m8, your parents shouldn't conditionally love you, that's not love - that's bargaining. You sound like you've come from a broken home if you think this is unusual.

You've been emotionally held at ransom by your parents, abused in one of the worst ways possible. This might explain why you have harsh expectations of others, you've basically never been loved.

>>6764087
>emotionally held at ransom by your parents, abused in one of the worst ways possible.
>actually thinking this
>actually being this sheltered

>>6763945
You should really talk to your dad. He wants to talk to you and I don't know what he wants to say but it kinda sounds like he still wants a relationship with his child.

>>6764113

It's not being sheltered, that's what your parents are supposed to be like. Your standards have been set by your own abusive parents and you don't know any different. I'm sorry if you don't like it, but it's true.

I got a pretty normal upbringing, I got smacked and sometimes belted when I did really bad things - I wasn't wrapped in cotton wool by any means and my parents were always eager to push me to make decisions in my life so I didn't waste it.

They're very proud of me and the things I've achieved but they've never once used it as a bargaining chip and for the sake of your post, I've actually gone and asked them a few questions:

>"Would you still love me if I was a complete failure, had no job and just leeched off you and had no goals?"
>"Of course we would, it'd be disappointing because we know you're capable of more but of course we'd still love you, you don't think that we wouldn't do you?"

>"Are you disappointed that I'm gay and won't--"
>"No no no no. You know we've never been like that, as long as you're happy and safe that's all we care about."

I had to stop at this point and explain your post to them because they started thinking I was actually doubting them. My mum said this to you:

>"Tell him that it's normal for parents to be concerned about their child's future because they want them to be safe and happy but if he feels that his parents wouldn't like him if he couldn't make them proud then he should sit them down and tell them that. Otherwise he might end up resenting them in the long run, especially once they're gone and he realizes he spent his whole life trying to please them just so they'd love him. It's really sad, that happened to..."

And then she rolled off some anecdotes about people she knew which I don't need to post here.

>>6756425
Either kill your dad or have me do it

>>6762606
n-no...

>>6765284
i-i mean... idk senpai I'm not ready for that.

>>6761748
at a gun store you mongoloid

>18 years old
>come out as MtF to my parents
>mother is 'accepting' but tells me not to transition because people will laugh at me
>dad just says 'I don't understand why you would do this' and 'but you're my son'
>repress everything and stop self-medding hrt
>2 years later, still want to be a girl
>parents act like nothing ever happened
>face and body have become significantly more masculine since I was 18
>only just now stopped kidding myself and ordered more hrt
>no idea how to bring up the topic again

>>6765413

Damn, I know I was stupid enough to drop transition when I knew it was what I wanted just because I knew my parents would veto my decision, but I don't think I would have been stupid enough to stop if I had already been on HRT.

Who here abusive to dad?
>be swole as fuck and way bigger than dad because he's a 5'4 femboi and mom is 6'1 (I'm 6'3)
>dad does domestic chores, mom is breadwinner
Whenever he fucks up, which he does a lot, I just can't help punching him

>>6765413
>truscum gets owned because HE can't just go the femboy route
Hahahahaha get fucking fucked.

>>6765567

What makes you so hostile toward that anon?

>>6765553
You should be gassed.

>>6765579
>my parents dont approve of my transition
>better put myself back on testosterone instead of dressing in a masculine way and cutting hair short

>>6759644
this is the circle of abuse you naive soul

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>>6765553
this is gold

>>6761454
Not respect but I dont hate him, I dont know its weird.

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>>6765676
I thought this thread was dead.
But he was right, being alone and unloved hurts more than anything he ever did to me. No one could love me like he did. I found the one person who could love me and i ruined it.

>>6761981
>drugs
>bipolar
>childish
>victim complex
This is pretty much every trans person I've ever met.
I used to say I was MtF, but recently I've decided to just be a fem bi twink so I that wouldn't risk ending up like that.

>>6763945
>be tranny
>tell dad i never wanted a fag for a father
all of my wut

>>6764526
Sorry friendo, but a parent rewarding positive behaviours is the basis of raising a successful child.
The grey area is between:

Asian:
>"Be a doctor or you're not my son"

&

Jimmy-Bob:
> "Do anything, I dont care."

Saying that you want or expect more of your children is holding them to the standard of adulthood. You can love a child and still expect them to behave like the adult you raised them to be.

Normal people:
>"You'll always be my son, but I expect better from you"

>"I love you, but I raised you to be better than this"

>"Be the adult I raised you to be"

Remember, Parenting!=head pat machine. Everyone needs positive and negative enforcement to understand the dynamics of the world. If you give a child the understanding that they can still be just as loved whether in ruins or riches then the child will never see the incentive to put in the outstanding amount of work it takes to become a success. The adults in our lives must hold us to account for falling short of our potential. If that bar is too high then they will eventually step out of their parent's pocket and begin paying for their own lives.
You can either rise to the standard that the person paying for your life expects you to be, or pay for yourself and set your own standard.

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>>6756425
Holy hell anon, you have STOCKHOLM SYNDROME

GET OUT WHILE YOU CAN

>>6759644
The dad is not hitting his son because he "loves him", he's hitting him because he's an abusive fuck who had a specific image of what he wanted his son to be and can't accept the fact that his son didn't turn out that way

>>6762068
because we are existential failures that are aware of it and therefore have a deep desire to burn up in a little ball of nihilistic rage

>>6760347
That's some Sith Lord shit right there.

I would find some way to hurt him without living up to any of his expectations. Stab him, poison him, call the cops, etc. Ensure that he's defeated both physically and emotionally.

>>6761182
Hell yeah sis. Insane yandere MTF's unite.

How many dad's have been beaten senseless by their sons after coming out?
Also how many dad's have developed a daughter fetish after being abused by their daughter?

>>6756399
Well, my dad killed himself. If he didn't, I would probably kill him. Fucking drunk-ass, I have scar on my head when he smashed a bottle over my head.

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>>6756425
>He loves me
>He is just trying to do what he thinks is best for me and toughen me up
>even IF he is wrong

There is no hope for you if you continue to believe this shit

>>6766980
What's wrong with dads beating their kids? I wouldn't be the man I am today if y father didn't beat the girl out of me

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>>6756399
nothing personal anon, that scene was fucking hilarious... but anyway i hope you r now a happy gay person.

>>6763945
>he's the bottom in his relationship to make all of this worst

this is such an uncool attitude

>>6767008
>What's wrong with dads beating their kids?
I don't know.
What's wrong with kidnapping random people, tying them up in your basement and then biting off all their fingers and toes, gouging out their eyes and then abandoning them to die of dehydration or infection?
I mean honestly some of these morals people have are dumb as fuck. Like seriously how is it wrong to torture people to death and fuck their corpses? People have been doing it for thousands of years and you're telling me that it's suddenly wrong now? This is almost as bullshit as the ban on child labor.

I am so sorry that so many people have had to go through this kind of misery, I can't even imagine what some of you anons have gone through. I have a story of my own, it's not as bad as some of these but it fucked me up enough, I guess.
>Be a literal aspie, manifested as a bad temper as a child paired with hyperlexia
>Get in trouble for throwing a thick book at a student who was being a shit. A shitty response in hindsight
>Dad keeps me in a filthy, swampy, flooded basement for hours, demands I clean it all by myself
>This same basement would later take four rented dumpsters and the entire family with shovels and bags to clean
>I'm fucking Seven
>Later that week we go to the art museum, I wanted to see the indian artwork
>Tour is guided
>Every time I raise a hand to ask a question, dad smacks me upside the head
>This also happens at the zoo, science museum, any time the family goes out
>Much later, 13 now, don't want to go to a shitty family reunion picnic because there's nothing for me to do.
>Get smacked so hard my glasses break, am literally dragged across the floor, out of the house, through dog piss and pushed into the door.
>24 now, bring this up with him, try to confront him.
>"Anon, I don't know what kind of fantasy you've made up here but I never did any of that."
>Yes you fucking did I distinctly remember it
>"Whatever makes you feel better, anon. Memories are flawed and you can't remember every exact detail so it never happened."
>Fuck you what about the museum?
>"I knew you were going to just ask a question she already answered and embarass yourself so I had to top you."
> "Embarass yourself" = "Embarass me"
>My credit score is in shambles because he attached me to a joint account without my permission and tanked it with seven hundred dollars of debt
>Cant' even get a credit card

>>6767180
Had to "STOP" you. Stupid Keyboard.

>Mom adopts dogs like people buy groceries
>House smells like piss constantly, she doesn't housebreak them
>Guinea pig shit too because she breeds them
>I tell mom this has to stop
>She smacks the shit out of me and starts hitting me with the broom
>I talk to my siblings
>"Anon don't be such a pussy"
>She HIT ME WITH A BROOM HANDLE
>Bring up black mold that needs fixing as well
>Little sister mocks me loudly
>Siblings and parents invalidate my input constantly
>Every time I try to air greivances it's "Stop your bitching, anon."

>Can't afford to live anywhere
>Took a shitty college because it had dorms which means I could be out of the house and away from them

>>6767180
>trying to gaslight his way out of the blame
This warrants an elaborate and extremely sadistic revenge scheme. The kind that makes HIM doubt HIS sanity.

>>6767180
>My credit score is in shambles because he attached me to a joint account without my permission and tanked it with seven hundred dollars of debt
know a guy that when he was older, like in his 50s, his dad took out a credit card in his name, racked up literally thousands of dollars in debt, and then died in a car crash leaving the guy I know unable to fight it in court.

>>6756399
>>6756425

call the fucking cops

>>6767245
I once contacted the cops about an abuse case years ago, forgot all about it. It was something to do with a young child or a higher functioning mentally disabled person.
I tracked down the victim to a town in a completely different country(iirc canada). I called their local police department and explained the case and told them that I had the videos for evidence. All their cops would say was that I had to call MY local police to report the crime and then they would forward the info to them and then they would look at it.

This has been years ago so I cant remember the exact details, but it was some fucked up shit, enough to actually make me give a fuck.

>>6756399
let me guess, the rest of this fantasy ended in him roughly fucking you to "fuck you like the gay boy you are". am i right? or if he did beat you, i assume you had a boner afterwards

>>6766558
>If you give a child the understanding that they can still be just as loved whether in ruins or riches then the child will never see the incentive to put in the outstanding amount of work it takes to become a success.

ok but I'm successful, worked harder than anyone I know for it and was raised exactly like this so????

please advise, I eagerly await your explanation for what happened in my life to contradict your 100% proven parenting science

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>so many people on /lgbt/ had/still have daddy issues

Really makes you think... Huh....

>>6767298
Oh darn, here I was using reason and a detailed explanation of my, ahem, "science", and you had to come in here and beat me with your single instance anecdotal evidence on an anonymous cartoon website.

If you want to argue then do so, but don't come back with a strawman of my argument and a single counter case that was summed up in a wonderfully detailed one sentence.

Let me simplify the quote you took from me, so you might come back with a reasoned response.
>you give a kid a cookie.
>kid is bad
>you say "I'm disappointed, but you still get your cookie"
>kid is good
>you say "good boy, here's a cookie!"

What incentive exists to make the kid want to do good things?

My argument: There is None!

We can start from this reduction of my argument and then, If you're good :3, move on to my entire argument. K, pumkin? <3
...

Bonus round!

>fast forward 30 years
>*from the basement* "MAH! WHERE'S MY GODDAMN COOKIE?!"

>>6767365
>What incentive exists to make the kid want to do good things?
I'm not even that guy, but I can think of at least one: Not wanting to disappoint your parents.

>>6767365
To not disappoint your parents, is this even a question?

>>6767365
>be bad
>get 1 cookie
>be good
>get 2 cookies

Nigger that's a 100% increase of cookie.

>>6767365
>not giving positive reinforcement is the same as giving negative reinforcement
Please never have children or adopt pets or otherwise place yourself in a position of authority and leadership.

>>6763754
>As long as you're successful
the way he wrote it makes it sound like hes answering the question "are you proud of your gay son". his answer is effectively yes because his son, gay or otherwise, is finishing school and on his way to make something of his life, with the implications that the uncle or the uncles kids are failures or didnt get too far. hes saying, "you may not like that hes a cum sucking faggot but hes smart and hes gonna have a better life than either one of us, so yes im proud". of course his son didnt end up being a success because he wastes his time on the worst board on 4chan

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>>6767096
I feel like an asshole for writing this, but for the amount of times he's been a hypocrite, told me he doesn't support me, and told me he thinks it's disgusting that tax payers fund this shit I start to not feel as bad. (Poor college student so free medical care) It's not him being the bottom I have a problem with, it's that him and his boyfriend joke about it, and then he's off constantly telling me to "man up". Then he makes fun of my new name. Then when I man up and wanna fight him he pussies out. If your gonna be a bottom and tell me to be a man at the same time don't be a bitch too cause I don't put up with that. I don't care if I get my ass handed to me cause I'll still have my pride, but the way he acts is like a kid that does the big talk and walk, but when it comes down to it he really won't do shit and it bothers the hell out of me. Don't force something on me if your not willing to do it yourself.

>>6767442
>because he wastes his time on the worst board on 4chan
Oh, how terribly unfortunate that he browses /pol/. We should start a support group.

>>6767397
>>6767407

Okay, I can agree that disappointing people you love can be a reason why people don't want to do bad things. I think that feeling exists in almost everyone on some level. However, doesn't that kid feel this aversion because he doesn't want to lose their love? Because he learned that he cant be a cunt and expect to still be loved?

Most properly raised kids will learn to value their family's love and feel shame in letting their loved ones down. On the otherside, a child who has never felt a risk of losing their parent's love, ie a coddled child, will never learn to respect the value of other people's love.

The cookie example was simplified because I was being a dick. My actual argument was a post before.

>>6767433
Tyrone you know you can't do math, the example was one to one.

>>6767438
No animal, human or otherwise will respect the value of something without understanding that it is ultimately conditional and finite.

>>6767470
>support group
>for /pol/
you just want to suck them off again while they insist that theyre not gay

Eh, I'll bite.

>Be 12 years old
>Grow up in an extremely christian family
>However, my little sister drowns in the backyard pool somehow at age 1, nobody really knows how she got out there.
>My parents become alcoholics, I'm the youngest, separated by my brother by 8 years.
>My mother was constantly crazy, she would run outside and shout at the neighbors.
>Neighbors clearly didn't like us, so I'd constantly wake up to our house being vandalized as some kids bang on the garage door or throw shit at us.
>My mother in and out of jail periodically.
>When I was 12 and while my mom was in jail, my father rapes me. I was playing games in my room, and he comes in drunk. I could explain why he did it--his wife hasn't wasn't there to please him, he thought I was going to be a failure, etc but that doesn't really matter. He was my father, and he hurt me, he broke my trust.
>After that, I go into a depression. He practically brainwashes me into thinking that I should tell nobody or else I'd go to hell.
>I tell nobody, but I'm clearly depressed and refused to leave him out of fear, everyone knew something was up but I kept telling them that I was fine there.
>Constantly scared, but coming into my pubescent age, I realize that I like guys--or that I think I like guys.
>When my mom came home, she got drunk, and I told my dad that I think I'm turning gay. This turns him extremely angry, and he goes to my mother to tell her. I beg him not to tell her, but he does anyway. They both yell at me, my father even saying "If I ever catch you with another man's dick inside of you, I will take you out to the fields, shoot you, shoot myself, and then beat the shit out of you in hell."

cont.

>>6767519
>Two years later, he dies of a heart attack in his sleep, probably from all the drinking.
>Still depressed and afraid that he'll hurt me beyond the grave if I told anyone.
>One year later, my brother finds out I'm gay, and doesn't respect me at all for it. He believes I'm not gay, just confused, but finds it sickening that I'm even attracted to guys.
>Two years later, my brother gets it out of me and I tell him my dad raped me.
>He tells my mother and sister, my sister believes me, but my mother doesn't, and she cries.
>My siblings try to convince me that I'm not gay, because they believe that the only reason I'm homosexual is because I'm just letting the trauma of my father raping me sickeningly play out.
>From this point, I start sleeping around with random older guys, not even for money, but for pure hedonistic pleasure.
>Eventually, I can't take it anymore. The circumstances of me going completely against what I was indoctrinated into growing up combined with my teenage angst, I try to kill myself by overdosing on NyQuil and trying to fall asleep in the bathtub.
>My mother finds me in there, still alive, and I wake up in a hospital.
>They think my kidney is failing, so they stick a urethral catheter inside of me. When I thought it couldn't get worse, this was the most painful thing that's ever happened to me.
>My mother never leaves my side, she tells me that she kept hearing me whisper "I'm sorry, I'm sorry" in my sleep, something I've said constantly throughout my childhood.
>I get sent to a children's mental hospital and spent a week there, and then had therapy.

cont.

>>6767524
>Still depressed, I eventually get into an abusive online relationship with some bear who wants to turn me into his trap sex slave.
>I go through with it, I travel on a greyhound all the way down from norcal to socal, and meet up with him.
>I suck his dick, but he says he doesn't want to fuck me until I'm all shaved and cute. He then proceeds to piss on me, and forces me to drink it.
>From that point, I find a way to escape, ironically, find a church, and tell them I ran away from home.
>Police pick me up, I get put in a "runaway's" type-place where children who runaway go to to essentially "take a break" from their parents and learn how to do chores and shit.
>Eventually, I go home, and my mother went back to going crazy. My brother becomes ultra sad.
>After a long series of therapy, learning about yoga, my family accepting me as I come into adulthood, moving to a new apartment, helping my mother with her alcoholism, and making both of us happy, I live a rather sane, comfy life of the average student, and wishing I had a healthy relationship with a loving bf, like the rest of the normal gays.

wew

check these dubs fags

>>6767535
Fuck, reroll

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>>6767529
If this is bait, ur fucked in the head. If this is real god damn...

>>6767541
It's real, but how am I fucked in the head? You have to remember I was underage during that entire point.

>>6767541
>>6767547
Wait I misread your post, that was confusing.

>>6767524
>they believe that the only reason I'm homosexual is because I'm just letting the trauma of my father raping me sickeningly play out
they werent wrong. all the abused kids dont turn gay just by fucking chance. if you are male and are abused by males, you are almost guaranteed to turn gay. same for females. like that fat bitch. that famous feminist who wrote a book about how she used to sexually and emotionally abuse her little sister. now that sister is a fat dyke. guess what, it wasnt by chance. theres a REALLY fucking dumb idea that you cant be influenced into being gay or trans. it fucking happens

>>6767558
I wasn't disagreeing with them but it still made someone as depressed as me, having my father brainwash me into thinking it was my fault and that I was a failure, it made me feel different and unrelatable and subhuman. I was the kind of kid who said "I'm sorry" even when I didn't do anything wrong.

It doesn't help that I didn't go into the aspect of what it was like being bullied in highschool or constantly seeing women put on a pedestal, combined with my alcoholic mother, it was impossible for me to ever be attracted to women.

They were right, but there wasn't any going back.

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>Who here /abusive dad/
Me. Emotional abuse doesn't make a good story though. He constantly belittled me and threatened me my entire childhood, plus he took physical punishment way too far. Then he forced me to come out, and bullied me even harder. Kicked me out, dragged me back multiple times, lorded his physical strength over me, threatened to bash my skull in a lot, made me admit how pathetic I am, laughed in my face a lot, etc. So glad I left.

Now I have an extreme aversion to men (especially white men) that I'm trying to fix, which sucks because I prefer guys...

>>6767529
Oh and finally I still have trust issues and hate women. That's something I haven't been able to get over.

>>6756399
>mtf

Its almost as if your father had a dud child, raised him poorly and knows it, and now hes acting out his internal sense of failure with shows of external anger, in a desperate attempt to fix his mistake and relieve his internal pain at the same time. Ever consider that giving into your mental disease would hurt the ones who love you? Or did you just not, because thats a common type of thing with people who have this particular disorder. Seek help.

>>6756399
lol

My father was abusive, but it wasn't because I was trans. I didn't figure out I was trans until i ran away and had time to think about myself. I remember him kicking me while I had a cast on my leg, having us four kids rub our faces on the ground until our skin came off, used to beat us. always frighten and scream at us.

The beatings stopped when the police investigated but did nothing on account of no evidence. He had us beat him that night, on his command. He still got really angry at us though.

I was finally removed from the home when he wouldn't let my sister and I enter the kitchen or bathrooms.

I think he cared, but of course, "In his own way." He wanted the best for us, in only his way, serving the Chinese legacy. He was also an angry person and didn't know how to be a good parent. On an off note, he actually taught us to torture animals to protect his livestock, and for a long time, I believed it was a good thing to do.

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>>6756399
Nigga, just think in your daddy for just a fucking single second. I don't want be a dick, but that shit you did in public was as a punch right into the dignity of your daddy.

Holy shit /LGBT/ your lives are fucked up.

Did anyone here have loving parents who didn't give a fuck what sexual orientation/gender you identified as and supported you through your youth wholeheartedly?

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>>6767794
White gay cis male. I came out at 18. My mom cried and then was really supportive after that. My dad doesn't say much about it but he is definitely okay with it.

My biggest obstacle coming out was my internalized homophobia and cutting ties with the homophobic church I attended regularly.

This is a thread about domestic abuse though. So it's going to be a bit skewed.

>>6767702
Accepting someone's number?

>>6763803

This bait is...
>comical

>>6756738
What's gay face?

>>6758363
I have blonde hair and blue eyes but both my parents and brother all have brown eyes and black hair. I probably got ir from great grandfather but im def their child. Genetics are weird

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>>6766674
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!

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>>6767332

>Causality
>A thing...?

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>>6767529
>>6767524
>>6767519

I'm glad to hear things have improved for you anon you deserve to be happy after all that.

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>>6767107

>>6767956
Twinsies

>>6767558
Not every abused kid turns out gay. Not every gay was abused.

>>6768090
Wanna cuddle?

>>6756451
omg this is actually really sweet of you, you probably made that kids month

>>6756505
im sure this is fake but im cracking up thank you

>>6767495
hey at least he'll never breed

>>6768129
Ok. And maybe we can pretend to make >>6768129
super Aryan babies together?

>>6767576
wait this is me.... i developed OCD that revolves around being repulsed by men due to my father's abuse... lmao!!!

>tfw didn't have a bad childhood
>still want to kill myself for being a tranny

:^(

>>6756399
the best dad ... ok no,but think escape with your lover *-* have a new life anon gay wit your lover.
now tell a cowboy story.

>>6767495
>No one will respect value of something without it being conditional and finite
>No one will respect value of something infinite and/or unconditional

Do you have a minute to talk about our lord and savior Jesus Christ?

>>6756471
>whenever there's an argument in the car he'll speed up to 90mph on the tiny winding countryside backroads where we live

Almost like he is trying to stop you from fighting, and he wants you to wait until it is appropriate to do so. Have you tried not fighting in the car? Fighting in the car is always a bad idea anyway, it is a distraction to the operator of a three ton killing machine.

>>6767843
>internalized homophobia
What is this anyway? It is alright to be gay and hate the crap out of flamers and parade queens.

>>6768205
Yes, that's hot. Also stop getting me hard at work

>>6767207
>>6767180
Idunno what you're talking about anon, this is clearly the worst in the thread

>>6768918
someone was literally raped by their father in this thread to the point where interfered with their life and ability to form relationships and they tried to kill themselves/

>>6767558
All the abused kids were abused because of their faggy disposition

>>6768935
Yes.
This sounds much worse though

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>>6767794
Mine were accepting at first.

Now, after about a year of HRT I look exactly like my mom did when she was younger and she suddenly hates me. My dad constantly tells me I'm going to hell. My brother stopped speaking to me, and we used to be best friends. Hell, I actually got into a bunch of ivy league colleges that I didn't go to so I could stay home and raise him and my sister during my parents divorced so having him turn on me is just an incredibly painful betrayal.

>>6769256
*During my parents divorce.

Don't make posts on mobile, kids.

>>6768515
okay but it's normally arguments that he's started,
arguments about how people are trying to poison us and we're being watched by satellites

>>6769256
how old is your brother?

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Im a dad (my kids 5 in september) and i dread him being gay like me. I want to be a strong role model for him but its so hard to suppress my feminine side, like crossdressing and getting pegged by the wife. I even go out to suck some D' when the urges hit me.

I look tough but Im secretly a massive sissy and i dont want to be like this guys dad>>6761981


what should i do?

>>6769256
they jelly cus u hot tho

>>6769264
*parents'
Don't english without ' kids

>>6756425
holy shit this post is like the dictionary definition of battered wife syndrome

>>6770229
I really don't understand why people keep saying this just because I don't wish harm on another human being or try to deny the fact that he does care for me.

>>6768520
When you want to kill yourself because you are gay.

>hate the crap out of flamers
It doesn't have to be any specific type of homophobia.

>>6769973
are you bi or gay?

>>6767936
Kurt from Glee.

>>6770009
This, cant cope with the feelings they get for you :3

Mom is jealous the other ones horny.

>>6765553
treat your dad nicely

>>6756399
Not physically abusive, just really neglectful and emotionally awful.
>"Hey dad, can you pleeease come play lego with me"
>"Sure thing son, just let me run some errands"
>"Oh ok..."
>he proceeds to leave and not come back for two days
>when he does return, he parks his car on the lawn and shambles in yelling with a beer in his hand
>instantly gets in an argument with my mother
>I'm tugging on his pant leg to try to get his attention, to get them to stop yelling and to get him to spend time with me
>both of my parents turn their anger on me
>they accuse me of being annoying and attention seeking
>mother spirals into incoherent shrieking if I protest, frequently just screaming at the absolute top of her lungs in my face
>father yells at her to shut the fuck up because she's giving us hearing damage
>they take away my toys, put me in time out if i bother them
>basically grew up feeling incredibly scared, insignificant and distant from my parents
>no confidence, was bullied severely
>chronic depression my whole life
>attempted suicide in 1st grade
>most of my time at home was spent curled up under things
>all the love they gave me was forced and insincere, and only to keep up appearances
>divorced when i was young, but kept getting back together and breaking up again on a two year cycle
My childhood and teen years in a nutshell. The only person I trust anymore is my boyfriend.

I would torture the fucker when he gets old,beat him with a belt and rip his nails off ummm i just want to fucking kill every familly member i have i cant wait:D

>>6756505
>single gay character
>sex scene
don't you need at least 2 gays for a sex scene

>>6770855
Well i fuck my wife so i guess im bi. (although i do find its not as fun being on top)

>>6767466
i understand the pain and anger anon its just you are fighting transphobia with homophobia

>>6768977
as stupid as it sounds I think there could e some truth to it

I mean why didnt the dad rape the older brother of >>6767524 ?

>>6767794
im 'closeted' a/bi sexual (i fucking hate having to choose a sexual identity...) im like 99% sure my parents wouldnt give a shit if I was gay, there might be the initial "mfw no grankiddos" but other than that they wouldnt give a fuck

>>6772329
The second guy is a really flat tertiary character that doesn't really do much so I don't really consider him important.

>>6774048

being asexual isn't real.

if you jack off you want to fuck. most people who are "asexual" are simply scared of other people or want an excuse for their terrible social lives.

I've plowed a dude that claimed to be asexual one time. You just gotta get them warmed up and comfortable, but holy fuck once you get going he was BEGGING for the dick. Like he was disgustingly horny as if he repressed it for years.

>>6767794
It might also have a lot to do with the fact that we use 4chan too.

>>6756399
Is there an unbeaten version of this drawing? Its actually rather good.

>>6774708
I dunno
I found it on here

>>6756399
anon... I'm not the common /lgbt/ guy even if I'm bisexual but...

you break my heart when I read this... I want to be in front of you, to hug you, to put away your tears and kiss you, sorry for my bad English... I hope one day I can teleport in front of you and comfort your heart and protect you, I want to surround you with my arms and make you never feel fear again


Now, is important you know your life IS YOURS go with those waiter, don't let moralist people ruin your life, you need to fight, no one must take away your freedom, NO ONE!

>>6774850
Aw, you're sweet

>>6774894
I just don't like to see good people suffer, remember, your life is yours, only yours

>>6756399
Your dad should of beat you harder, beat the queer out of you...or at least turn you into a SM freak.

>>6774920
What is an SM freak?

>>6774942
Faggots that like to be slapped and beaten while having their asshole dominated by someone stronger and rougher than you.

>>6774980
I mean...getting dommed would be hot
I don't know about beaten tho .-.

>>6756550
I thought that was when someone falls in love with a kidnapper.

I guess I'll post too, btw it's 00:30 in my country and I'm posting this from my phone so no hate pls.
>be me 8 year old get raped by a 16 year old (anal and degradation)
>he threatens me that if I tell anybody he'll kill me
>because I'm young and stupid belive him and don't tell anybody
>parents always fight dad beats up mom she cries and I see it all
>one day run away from home cuz scared of being there
>mother finds me bring me back by pulling my her
Beat the shit out of me telling me I'm trash and fucking stupid
>they beat me basically almost every day
>be 12 move to a new house beating and cursing still continues
>they see that I try to grow out my hair and forced to shave all of it
>return home and start crying and saying I want to end my life
>14 realize I'm attracted to boys romantically but find it hard to get aroused by them
>oh btw through 3rd grade to 7th have oral sex with another boy on a daily basis even fingered a girl at the age of 10..
>14 year old (again) starting to develop depression miss a lot of schilling grade drops etc
>Mom beat the shit out of me until I bleed telling me I'm worthless
>16 start resisting all of the things my parents did and punched mom in the face
>18 year old still depressed get diagnosed with dysthymia and MDD
>now 19 on meds they don't help I'm in the army tried suicide when I was 16 but failed and no one know
>when look at the events that happened I don't feel bad about the rape or my parent hiting me just feel like killing myself.
>can't even think of starting a relationship cuz I feel shit all the time.

I know that this doesn't have to much of being gay but I just wanted to post it.

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>>6778472
why?

>gay
>accidentally got a woman pregnant when I was 17 and testing the waters
>stayed in the closet for 22 years so I could raise my son (and later my daughter) in a healthy environment
>come out as gay two months after my daughter's 18 year old birthday, son was two months away from turning 23
>son throws a fucking fit, refuses to talk to me until a week before his birthday only to ask if I could buy him some new tires for his car
>son loses his job a year later, moves in with me and bullies my (at the time) boyfriend who was the same age as him
>boyfriend moves out, get into argument with son, he shows no remorse at all and I tell him to start looking for a job because I want him out by the start of the next year
>doesn't look for a job, starts spending all of his time on the computer, never leaves the house
>eventually convince him to go to college, he picks a fucking game design course and starts hanging around with a bunch of 18~ year old kids with dyed hair and skinny jeans
>starts acting weird, suddenly has an interesting in the LGBT and other things
>as I'm coming home from work one day his mother calls saying he was acting weird and ran out of the house with something whilst she was in the bathroom
>get home and the house stinks of weed, his friends are being loud upstairs, my wine cabinet is open and five bottles of vintage wine that I got as gifts were missing
>storm into his room mad as fuck, he's wearing his mother's fucking wedding dress with red wine spilled down it and his friends are giggling up a storm
>before I can beat his ass he drunkenly blurts out that I'm a faggot, he's trans, everything wrong in his life is my fault and if I have a problem with it him and his friends are going to kick my ass
>calmly walked downstairs, locked the doors from the outside, and called the police about the drugs and theft
>he's now tearing my family apart and trying to make me out to be a transphobic bigot because I disowned him over this

>tfw abusive tranny son

>>6778737
Well it is your fault, you chose to breed.

>>6778787
He literally was an accident. If I could choose to go back in time and have him aborted I would.

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>>6778737
>stayed in the closet
>20 fucking years
>all so your children would grow up to be sane, reasonable & well-adjusted

Well that scheme unfolded rather stunningly. I'll pour one out for you tonight anon.

>>6778411
greentext rape pls

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>>6778411
what's a schilling?

>>6778929
>confused anime boy
But Sumi is a girl.

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>>6778737

>mfw retarded Abrahamic memes that preach doctrine, not acceptance, cause this shit every day, and have done so for centuries with no end in sight

>>6778737
>women
>not even once

holy fuck anon

>>6778929
Worth two schmurkels

>>6756451
That was cool as fuck, I hope things go well for you.

I know that feel, OP.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KZbHcAPsllE

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>>6756399
no but I have an abusive sister and my dad has a bad temper so he scares me sometimes does that count?

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>>6756399
I was a little shit growing up so it's a bit easier for me to get the abuse because it usually only happened when I did something wrong.
>timeout was being sent to the laundry room where i had to had to kneel on the tile for hours if i tried to leave or didn't kneel I'd be beaten
>when i got too old to be sent to time out i was just beaten, sometimes with a belt
>accidentally stabbed one time, was going to hit me with the handle but when i raised my arms to defend my head the blade went into my arm

Now that I'm older my dad seems to really regret not spending more time doing typical dad stuff with his sons so I don't hold it against him.

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>>6756399
Who here /whimpy disappointment of son/
>son has been effeminate since childhood
>always skrawny and weak
>try to give him time to grow and man up
>maybe im being too hard on him
>decide to take son to dinner
>faggy looking waitress tries to hit on my son
>son goes along with it *shaking my head*
>try to finish meal fast so we can leave this place
>waitress tries to offer son his number
>*absolute madman he took it*
>realize son is not only whimpy but also a fag
>get in car and start driving home
>ive been too soft on the boy, this is my fault
>get home and confront him about his actions
>tries to talk it off
>slap the boy to get him to man up
>instead of punching me he slaps me like a bitch
>punch him to get him mad enough to fight me
>*oh dear god now he is crying*
>try to mock him to get him angry enough to stand up for himself
>"i don't want to fight you papa"
>fucking hippy to the core
>tell him i ain't gonna have a fag for a son
>start fighting him hoping he will man up and fight back
>the boy lays there like a wet noodle
>lost cause there is nothing i can do to get this whimp to man up
>sigh and go drink myself to death over my failure
Id drink myself to death if i had you for a son

>>6779814
don't talk to me or my wife's effeminate son ever again!

>>6778796
maybe if you came out earlier it would change things. I wouldn't dwell on it though, everything happens for a reason. stay strong and all that anon

>>6778929
School *

>>6756425
It's easy to say how much of a moron your dad is but he probably isn't. More likely he's:

- confused: about just who his child is and how to relate to 'it';
- frustrated: with how he failed as a father;
- repulsed: because as a hetero man, from a generation where men were men, the idea of guys fucking, kissing or even holding hands makes them physically nauseated;
- disillusioned: over what and who you are turning into and what the future holds for you and him;
- disgraced: he doesn't have an echo chamber of 'supportive' people clamouring to say how wonderful this is - instead he's going to be snickered at and be avoided because most 'normal' people will have lost respect for him, can't hold conversations with him (nobody wants to talk about 'it' other than from a morbidly curious way) and normal conversations will be difficult;
- grieving: over the loss of the child he thought he had and the loss of the future he envisioned with that child - a vision replaced with something weird and fucked up.

What did you expect? Normal people really don't acccept fags and traps and because sexuality and sexual responses are hard wired into us, they likely never will do more than barely tolerate them.

>>6767794
My mother fits this description.
She's always been loving and supportive, and while she was initally against my sexuality due to religious reasons, she's become more accepting after we talked about it.

Not really sure about my father though. His actions and motives are beyond my understanding. He acts outwardly accepting and supportive, but he has such a long and nasty history of being deceptively abusive that I have absolutely no clue.
He does have prostate cancer which he has been ignoring for years now, so it's possible that he's trying to make the most of what he has left, but the last time we spent time together it ended horribly. He's got all sorts of other health problems (bipolar disorder and aspergers being the main ones) that he's totally ignored his whole life though, and he was raised to see self-destructive stoicism as the greatest possible virtue, so I don't even fucking know what parts are really him and what parts are his facade.

>>6778737
you called the cops on her?
why?
them being trans could of explained all their weird behavior. you should of been supportive. I know the relationship is strained and somewhat abusive, but this isn't going to mend any bridges.
>>6779814
>>6780617
now I feel bad for him

>>6779814

>says waitress throughout his counter POV
>OP was the effeminate one while the waiter was male

>>6756425
Nice b8

>>6763945
don't let this get between you and your dad.

>>6765553
respect your dad, you asshole

This just makes me think gays and trannies are just people who had shit childhoods.

>>6781609
perhaps they have shit childhoods because they are gay
instead of being gay because they had shit childhoods

>>6781617
Well there's that but half of these stories are just about getting abused when they were young, their parents didn't know they were gay.

>>6781118
Stealing his mother's expensive wedding dress, ruining said wedding dress, stealing and destroying £5k worth of wine, smoking illegal drugs in my house, and threatening to assault me if I had a problem with it is not something I'm going to let anybody get away with no matter what issues they have.

He's not a kid anymore, he's fucking 24, I can't just ground him and have a calm discussion about why what he did was wrong. This is the only way for him to learn his lesson, and if you think I'm going to take him seriously about this "trans" shit then you've got another thing coming. Not once in his life has he taken an interest in anything feminine or even acted he had anything going wrong in that area, this is clearly just him latching onto something to fit in with his friends and feel better about himself, especially since he's been taking fucking !!!steroids!!! for the past three months whilst attempting to get fit.

>>6781634
You should beat the shit out of him, he deserves it

>>6781634
wow that's kind of harsh coming from a guy who stayed in the closet for 22 years
besides you can have a calm conversation with anyone, they don't have to be a kid and you don;t have to ground them beforehand
all you are doing is straining your relationship with your child more

>>6781639
Coppers already broke his nose when he tried to tackle them lol

>>6781650
Considering how he reacted to me coming out of the closet at 22, not really. And clearly you've never had to deal with bratty or unreasonable adults, he can't have a calm conversation about anything that involves criticism or disagreement, you say something he doesn't like to hear and he starts shouting and screaming at you before either storming out of the room or getting aggressive and in your face. I've had enough of the manchild and I'm not paying for his misbehaviour anymore, hopefully being punished by the state will teach him a lesson but if it doesn't I'm keeping his name permanently stricken from my will.

>>6781663
you could be the bigger person

>>6768977
Cute

The only reason you think a faggy disposition is so bad is coz youre a slave to BS christian ideology and Hollywood and all that gay jew shit. Enjoy your shitty slave life.

If I have a boy I hope he is a huge fucking flaming makeup wearing queen so I can parade him around everywhere and get bad looks because fuck you

>>6781678
>stayed in the closet for 20 fucking years to give his kids the best possible start in life

Mate he has been plenty big enough already. His shitcunt (sorry Anon I know he's your son but he really does sound like a shitcunt) kid needs a hard fucking lesson which by the sounds of things is well past due.

>Eek im so frightened of my son not acting like Leonardo DiCardio because I luv Titanic and eating all the fucking dog shit billion dollar corporations shove down my throat with every waking second of my life, Eek im so ashamed even though people are dying over this fucking crap Christian shit

God I wish I lived in a forest somewhere far far away from all this twisted crap. How do you sleep at night

Also 'murica. Slave shithole. Cant even fix a broken arm without paying for it the rest of your life. And everyone's more worried about their son wearing fucking lipstick. Dumb as fuck shits, I hate you

>>6781717
>>6781722
Nutter.

>>6781704
Dude hes 24, kick his ass out immediately, worked wonders for me when I was a 25 year old heroin addict. I thank my parents for doing that every day, to this day.
I know quotes are trite but "If you love something, let it go. If it was meant to be, it'll come back.'

>>6781723
Dumb fuck. Slave. You bet im fucking crazy. Your rules are gay as shit.

>>6781725
Oh and also, I ended up moving back in with them but with some new ground rules. Me and my family have never been better. Good luck

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>>6756399
sounds like you got what you deserve faggot

>>6766459
Those people would get up like that regardless of transitioning or not. There are many well adjusted trans people, and it's not exactly hard to not do drugs.

If you actually have dysphoria (therefore are trans) then you're probably more likely to end up with all those emotional problems by suppressing and saying you're fine just being a femboy.

>>6756399
>>6756425
>>6759644
So weak and pathetic

>>6781799
It's a pattern of abuse. "I deserve it" and all that jazz. It'll repeat endlessly until the day they die. Unless they do some serious work on breaking it. It travels along generations too. Ugly as fuck.

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>>6781743
edgy.

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its not really abusive but

>finally get the courage to tell my mom and dad im transgender
>tell my mom first because i thought she would understand a little more
>told her to keep it a secret i want to tell dad myself
>She tells me she cant promise anything and that she wants no part of it
>next day my dad comes into my room and tells me im not trans and that im just a faggot
>he told me that no one will love me and that im just going to be beat and kill myself
>crying obviously
>man up and deal with it
>after that my dad didn't talk to me
>dad kept taking me to sign up for sports but never said anything to me during it


fuck you dad i love my husband and i love that we are married

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>>6782066
actually i have a another time

>dad trying to bust down my door
>he gets inside cause fuck my little arms
>try to push him away
>slams me into the ground
>still trying to get away
>pulls me outside my room and down the stairs
>put on the coach with my arm and neck bleeding
>"you will do what your mom ask and you will stop asking her for help she will not take you to a therapist!"
>after getting yelled at i go to my bedroom and sleep

>>6782101
I guess mine isn't really abuse either

>mtf
>dad tells me we need to help my grandmother with something
>get in the car
>we drive for awhile and pass my grandma's house
>ask him why we passed it
>says we are going to get a haircut
>have been trying to grow it out for like a year now
>tries to guilt me saying it will make my mother happy
>say nothing the whole ride
>get to barber shop and park
>he get's out, I don't
>he yells at me to get out
>say and do nothing
>he gets in the car and keeps yelling at me
>don't respond don't look at him
>start tapping on the dashboard because anxious
>he grabs my hands and says to stop and talk to him
>don't
>he sighs angrily and starts driving again
>takes me to the cities psych ward and tells me to get out. that maybe they can help me because he can't
>I don't
>yells at me for awhile before driving us back home

1/2 (count)

>>6782134
2/2

>arrive and get out of the car
>he stays in and says he has to do somethings but that I have better mowed the lawn before he comes home
>too depressed to do anything
>get in the house and plop on the couch and nap
>he get's home
>mad I didn't do the yard work
>pulls me off the couch by my leg
>hit my head on the ground
>starts dragging me
>I kick him and loosen his grip
>try to run
>he grabs me and pins me to the floor
>try to hit him
>he grabs my wrists and I am powerless
>yelling at me, I guess dumbfounded by my behavior all day
>don't look him in the eye or say anything
>after awhile his joints begin to hurt and he gets up
>as soon as he does I run out the door
>no shoes on
>run to the neighboorhood church
>try to open the door but it won't
>just sit on the steps by myself for like an hour
>getting really cold
>decide to head home
>doors won't open
>sit on the porch freezing
>my whole body hurts from the cold
>half an hour later he opens the door
>I am shaking
>he hugs me and says that he loves me and whatever it is the matter we can work it out

>>6782164
Man i hated my life back when i lived with my family all they did was abuse me. Fuck i got burns on my leg and hand cause they threw fire works at me!

>>6782173
I'm sorry to hear that