Are you content with you're sexuality?
>falling for people you can't have
>more chance of disease
>stigma
>bullying
>higher risk of sucked
>family rejection
Who would sign up for this guys?
>>6718206
I used the wrong your sorry guys
Yeah, pretty much.
>>6718206
Honestly I'm pretty happy with my sexuality. I used to feel weird and shamed slightly about it, but for the most part I'm pretty glad to be attracted to the people I am. I'm also really glad I'm not straight, not cause I enjoyed the struggles that my sexuality put me through, but because I genuinely believe that they made me a better person.
>>6718206
>falling for people you can't have
Why would you remind me of this, asshole?
>>6718206
Not really
I had a lot of gay sex and loved the hell out of it but then met my current girlfriend of two years. I love her completely but sometimes I get tempted to try find some gay sex but the guilt of cheating stops me. So pretty much I just jack it furiously to gay porn and occasionally use kik to cam with guys.
>>6719131
Are you attracted to your gf? Are you attracted to any other women?
>higher risk of sucked
What's the problem?
>>6719231
Yeah I am attracted to her and other women aswell
>>6718206
Yes for the most part, but:
>falling for people you can't have
>tiny dating pool
>most guys just want to fuck and not get into relationships
If I had a choice I'd be bisexual
>>6719481
lmfao
>>6719481
>Are you content with you're sexuality?
Yes. Being in my 30s, I'm completely grounded in who I am. I don't frankly give a shit what anyone else thinks about my "lifestyle," provided they aren't able to legislate my physical rights away.
If there were a magical "cure" for homosexuality, would I take it? No way. You don't spend your entire life growing into a certain shell, only to wake up one day and have to adjust to being someone completely different. That would be psychological torture. I don't want to have all my memories and feelings suddenly be incompatible with who I am.
>>6718206
>Tfw your sexuality has been overtaken by a fetish
i'm not uncomfortable with being gay, i'm uncomfortable with being sexual. i'm certain if i was straight it would make me feel just as uncomfortable. for all purposes i might as well just be asexual, but i'm still 100% gay.
>>6722334
No, no, you do not want to be asexual. Embrace your sexual feelings and live the life we asexuals are denied.
>>6723928
How does asexual feel like? Do you jerk off to porn? How does sex feel like.
I just fooled around with two different guys last night(2 hours apart). I couldn't cum, I got hard all the time, and I sucked their cock, they sucked my cock, I felt their bodies but I could't cum, but when I came home I could cum.
But what I really liked about fooling with one guy was just chilling with him and cuddling while we were jerking off. I just feels good being intimate with another man.
I fucked a old woman once, and that shit made me cry in the shower. But when I'm with guys I feel ok.
Aro-ace here. I like my sexuality just fine, but I still get bummed about my romantic orientation. Most parents want their kids to settle down by age 40. I want kids at least.
>>6723928
Fuck that, ace is based. All that time and money saved.
Rise above, focus on science.
I'm content with being ace.
>falling for people you can't have
Not a problem for me. I'd prefer to have a companion than a partner
>more chance of disease
pffffffft. I'd probably have LESS chance to catch something. After all, you are unlikely to catch a fish if you don't cast a line.
>stigma
Possible. I mean, not only am I not likely to breed, I am not likely to hump. Considering how much the world seems to be focused on finding someone to breed/hump with, I'm sure that there would be someone who hates me for deviating from the norm
>bullying
See above.
>family rejection
I guess so. I mean, my mother seems be be fine with the idea that I might be gay. I don't think the idea of me being Ace has entered her mind though. I'm still at the stage where I subtly probe my family on the subject.
That said, if I could CHOOSE my preferences, I'd probably want to be pan. I mean, I'd fall in love with someone and only worry about their sex/gender afterwards.
>>6723985
Adopt.
>>6723957
> How does Asexual feel?
With my hands and my heart. How does Gay feel?
>Do you jerk off to porn?
Some do. Some don't. I do,mostly because if I try and cook up a fantasy to wank to, I'll end up getting bogged down in stuff you can't jack off to
>How does sex feel like.
Never had it. Best description I've heard for an asexual POV of having sex was that it was "moist and uncomfortably intimate"
>>6719481
Think op meant suicide
Wish I was asexual since I'm not getting laid anyway.
My sexuality is boiled down to which category of porn I click on before I jerk off. I'm ugly, dull, and awkward, so my sexuality never affected my life in any way. Being straight wouldn't change a damn thing. So I'm okay with it, it's whatever.
>>6718206
Being bi is fucking great. I'm only interested in being with other guys but it's nice being able to be into girls and jerk it to all the porn out there.
>>6724069
That wasn't what I meant. I'd adopt even if I wasn't aromantic.
My issue is that I feel like I'm disappoining my parents and society as a whole by not pairing up. Having kids helps a little (at least I'm not a total weirdo) but there's still a pressure. Being a single parent is not even that acceptable in itself.
Being bi is great, mostly because if I were straight I would still be a virgin.
>>6718206
>Who would sign up for this guys?
We don't but yet here we are talking about being different
Also I'm fine being gay but falling for guys I can't get is still a pain until I can get a bf
I've become more confident in my sexuality, but I still think it'd be easier to be straight. My parents flinch whenever I talk about getting married in the future and adopting kids, and I'm not out to my grandparents (who I adore, but I don't think they'll be happy) and my best friend.
Sometimes I'm attracted to the normalcy that being straight would afford me, and that's something I need to work in, because I could see myself as the kind of person who would marry a man just so everyone would be happy with me and I can have that white picket fence dream. But I'm proud of being a lesbian, and I'm still young, so I have time to get more in tune with myself.