Do people become gay or are they born gay? At what age did you

>>6715760
IDK I have sucked a few dicks in my day got my dick sucked and ate cum, but I am not over attracted to men.
Some days I am all about the dick others I just want a woman. It comes and goes. I have been like this since sex was a thing to me.

>>6715760
Three years old. My very first memory is waking up from a dream involving tons of naked men. I have been gay for as long as my brain has been capable of long term memory.
Other fun, cringeworthy memories from early childhood include
>doing everything within my power to see my dad naked
>actually succeeding in it once by accident and being so embarassed I couldn't even look at him for like a month
>doing awkward gay shit with pretty much all of my friends without either of us having any clue that it was sexual
>convincing myself that I was morally superior because other kids my age were starting to be "corrupted" by the evils of female sexuality while I remained "pure"
>not realizing that it was because I was fucking gay until I was like 14

>>6715760
my brother says he knew he was gay in 3rd grade
>took me longer to realize i was bi, and longer to accept it.

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>tfw in elementary school me and my friend agreed to inspect eachothers' dicks because we were so curious about other peoples' dingdongs

>>6715760
i guess 14 i realised i was also attracted to dudes by then i had been jerking is to straight porn for like 2 years though and thought i was just really into like anal took me till my early 20's to figure out i was bi took me till my late 20's to tell anyone still haven't had sex though like inter course though done plenty of oral

>>6715760
I think there aren't sufficient evidence to prove either nature vs nurture, and thus it might aswell be a question about which gender happens to tingle your willy first and that until that point you are neither

>>6715760

For the longest time I thought I likes girls but in reality any sort of desire I had was rarely more than "kindergarten crush" level. I only really was "interested" in girls because it meant having a girlfriend to talk to my freinds about, not because I found girls sexually attractive. Around the age of sixteen I saw a picture of a dude online. It wasn't porn or anything but the first thought I had was "damn that dude looks really cool, I wish I could suck his dick". This feeling wasn't influenced by societal pressure or nothing of what I am supposed to want, but I was just like "damn I wish I could make him happy I'm a sexual way". This feeling was way different than any kind of attraction I've felt before and was a lot more raw. Long story short I guess I'm gay. Now it's three years later and yep, still gay.

>>6715760
When my first inklings of sexual desire came about they made me super uncomfy, not cause of homophobia or anything, just cause puberty in general and all the things associated with it were nothing but horrifying for me.

By the time I was 13 or 14 though, I had basically realized that I was Bi, and likewise looked at various porns of different kinds, usually anime that looked like me or the boys in my class, but also girls and stuff too. That being said, porn eventually turned into a really fucked up thing for me cause the very act of looking at it really grossed me out, so I looked at increasingly depraved things to torture myself for being male.

When I was 15 I dated a boy, and that was when I came out to my parents. I think they were more surprised I wasn't gay, rather than the fact that I wasnt straight.

>>6716844
That's exactly what I also felt and went through.

>>6715760
Half are born gay, the other half are sucked into it

I had zero of the environmental factors that people say can cause a child to be gay so I guess I was just born a fag. I just remember having various gay crushes throughout the years

>>6715760
I always feel sheepish when I hear the "born this way" argument for gay rights, because I definitely wasn't born this way. I developed an intense fetish for anal sex and couldn't find a woman who shared it. The two I actually engaged in anal with hated every second of it and refused to do it again. It became a physical need for me and I turned to gay men because it was the only avenue through which I could easily satisfy it. At first, I needed guys to be short, slender, hairless, and effeminate in order to get it up (I originally hooked up exclusively with Asian men), but I quickly started to appreciate more masculine forms (porn played a significant factor in this). Basically, at this point, if a guy is willing to receive it, I'm willing to give it.

Theoretically, I can still conceive of myself fucking women, but I haven't thought about them in sexual terms in years. I don't know if this qualifies me as bisexual or not. I'm pretty open about the fact that I only fuck guys these days and my friends and family all think of me as "gay". I've begun to think of myself in that way more and more; my relationships are no longer purely sexual and I've started referring to long-term partners as "my boyfriend". I took the Orlando shooting extremely personally too, which I guess indicates that I now identify with the gay community quite a bit.

However, ultimately, it all grew out of an anal fetish for me, so I don't know if I can call myself "gay" in good conscience when there are "natural-born" gay people. They were simple fuck-holes for me in the beginning and I still feel guilty over that.

>>6715760
realizing that i was gay/bi in combination with being trans was kind of difficult. i think i started to discover i wasn't straight at like, twelve or thirteen, and just before turning fifteen i slowly started figuring out that i was a boy. i'm still questioning plenty of shit and i still feel like shit for being attracted to women and i don't know why.

Never felt attraction to the opposite gender. I thought it was normal until elementary school, so I pretended to be le straight. I didn't think I was into my own gender, even though I pretended to be the opposite gender on games like Club Penguin to get my gender to get into a relationship with me. Only realized when I turned 12 and I started jerking my doodle.