My boyfriend is taller than me, but I'm far more muscular and masculine.
He has feminine inflections in his voice and it is Totally obvious who is the top/man in the relationship. Nobody ever asks if we want split bills or if we need separate rooms. It kind of upsets me.
I don't want to be pegged as "the one who fucks the fag" and to be labeled as some kind of failed male.
If people assume you are gay together at first and not brothers or friends, you are doing bfs wrong. Somehow even if there are two """masc""" dudes, something about their relationship makes you think lol gay.
Luckily now I'm so comfortable with my bf and I like seeing the reaction to he's my partner haha.
>>6702245
okay then...other than altering his gay ass speech patterns and high voice, how do i convince people? I am a pretty str8 looking guy. I love to hike, fish, and whittle. He spends more time in the lab than I do. He likes movies and cooking more.
Basically, it is obvious that we are complimentary in roles and that he is my partner. There is no rule that says you have to have some sort of straight man friends camouflage.
>>6702253
>There is no rule that says you have to have some sort of straight man friends camouflage.
You just answered your own question. Just let go, who cares what breeders think lol.
>>6702237
>2016
>caring about what straight niggers think
Unless you live somewhere, where you can be killed for being gay you shouldn't give a flying fuck.
It's honestly kind of shameful IMO but whatever.
>>6702237
So you care more about what people think of you than how much you like him, nice to know you don't deserve him.
Why the fuck are you ashamed that people think you're gay?
You let other people in your head, that's your problem.
>>6702237
>I don't want to be pegged as "the one who fucks the fag" and to be labeled as some kind of failed male.
So are you worried about being outed as gay or worried about being thought of as a straight guy who just fucks a dude? (._.)?
>be twink
>dating twink
>my hair's just a little longer and im thinner
>he wants to go out for a meal with me
>later the waitress asks him what we're ordering
>barely acknowledges me
>we get some food, wine etc, its all good
>at the end they give him the bill
>they dont even look at me
>"let me pay my half it's okay"
>"no, i wanted to take you out I'm paying"
>"No it's expensive, just let me pay my part"
>"No, I'll be upset if you try."
>mfw sit there and feel pathetic while he pays for the whole bill
>mfw it was actually really emasculating and sucked for me
It's not nice the other way around either anon.
>>6704116
>mfw it was actually really emasculating and sucked for me
I hope your sucked something else to thank your daddy for dinner. :^))))
>>6704116
>twink
>complaining about emasculating
>>6704116
Nobody thinks too much of it. At bars I've seen lots of people pay for their friends bills and such.