Hey /lgbt/ I really want to come out as gay but everytime I try I try to work up the courage but I fail, any tips? It's been very stressfull.
I dunno
>>6692521
Very helpfull, thank you.
Who are you trying to come out to?
>>6692555
My family and friends.
>>6692459
Don't bother, you're just gonna cause them problems (at least family)
My friends are okay with it, but when I told my mother she cried and even though she accepted it she still is sad that she won't have grandkids
I regret telling her, poor woman could have been living peacefully
>>6692459
I'm in the same position with my family, but I honestly don't see the point considering I don't have a BF. It's just needless drama for me.
>>6692699
I have siblings that aren't gay. Should I tell her then?
>>6692459
Tbh writing a letter and handing it to whoever you're coming out to works decently.
As to whether its worth it to come out it depends on whether or not you're dependent on your parents in any way.
And also if you have a gauge of how open they are already.
idgaf if me coming out gave anyone grief, it's their fault for caring about my life so much instead of their own
>>6692818
I'll keep this is method in mind if I'm too pussy to tell them myself
>>6692715
I guess it's a different situation for everybody, if you're close to your mother and think she'll be cool with it then go ahead