How do other trannys deal with going out of the house and being

>>6625124
hang out in goth/hippy circles
they give less of a shit about trannyism and sometimes if you spill your guts to them they'll give you free drugs

mtf are master race
remember this my devushka

>>6625124
I'm used to it because thats what everyone already thought when seeing me pretransition lol

>>6625136
pretty much this.

>>6625136
Could I have hugs instead of drugs

>>6625273
oh I get hugs too
and occasionally fugs
basically counterculture folks are more likely to have struggled with social rejection and mental illness and are more likely to understand how you feel

>>6625278
I guess I'm kinda hippy-y
Uh...kinda...maybe not
At least not like the stereotype, but is anyone really?

>>6625124
You're spot on with your shit about guys, but girls have done nothing but treat me more nicely.

That said I never tell anyone I'm trans or wear girl clothes, I just look like this weird boygirl thing in a physical sense.

>>6625124
Half the guys will secretly want to fuck you and dominate you if you put effort into your appearance. Trans lust is disproportionately widespread

>>6625380
I'm probably just insecure

>>6625167
this, for the guys at least. I was just invisible to girls before transition, now I constantly feel like all women can tell and that they think I'm not worthy or something

>>6625124
>I feel like guys look down on you as some faggot

you are correct, we do

>>6625462
Why :c

>>6625483
makes it easier to fuck you without being gay

>>6625493
You treat us like faggots so you feel less gay when fucking us?
How does that make sense

>>6625503
shut up!
and get that ass in the air

>>6625539
I mean even if you don't see us as real females you don't have to look down on us

>>6625462
meh thats funny, i consider u guys autistic for a letting a girl trick u into being her slave in exchange for something like sex which u can pay for when u need it rather than begging for it

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>>6625548
Im just joshing with you. I really have no idea and honestly i'm not the type to look down on anybody. I'm no saint or tough guy but i'm really shocked by things sometimes and once in a while i'll see something that isn't 'normal' and my gaze will extend beyond what's polite. It's not meant to be disparaging, i usually catch wind of what i'm doing and try to stop but it happens.

More often than not i'm just attracted to anyone who puts effort into their appearance even if that's the case so sometimes that factors in. I know ho wit is with social anxiety i've been getting over it so regardless of why someone looks at me at times i just default to it being a bad thing like somethings wrong with me.

Thats really not always the case.

There really are people who look because they're just looking.

Girls on the other hand are evil.
(i'm half kidding)

I dont know, what kind of scenarios have you come up against have people approached you and done things to leave this impression or directly treated you badly?

>>6625589
I guess not
I just get paranoid that that's what people think when they see me

>>6625605
Well when I;m stricken by that kind of fear i try to look back and find evidence backing up the fear.

a lot of the times there isn't and it makes it easier to dispel the thought.

What brought up this thinking today if i may ask

>>6625667
Just out and about with the family

>>6625124

Your problem is that you seek attention from people who are more attractive than you. This is pretty much the basis of all female social anxiety.

>>6625714
I don't seek any of their attention

>>6625757
Yes you do

>>6625845
No I don't
I'm just minding myself

>>6625393
>Half the guys will secretly want to fuck you and dominate you if you put effort into your appearance. Trans lust is disproportionately widespread
I-is that really true?

>tfw no manly bf to take me and violate my bp with his big cock

>>6626159
I kinda hope so
That's not slutty right? I wouldn't sleep with them or anything

>>6625569
>for a letting a girl trick u into being her slave in exchange for something like sex which u can pay for when u need it rather than begging for it
don't you want to do exactly that from the other side? enslaving the guy, and so on? or are you going to be one of the prossies he can pay for instead?

>>6625124
You just have to learn how to stop being intimidated by people. Try meditation and exercise, or maybe start carrying a weapon or something.

>>6626637
I don't really see how exercise or a gun would help
I'm not really scared of being attacked

>>6627012
Meditation, exercise and carrying a weapon (doesn't need to be a gun) can all increase your self-confidence

>>6626556
nope imma be the type of tranny to have so much money she pays men and women to walk around the house naked so i can fuck whoever i want as i please. id never be a mans bitch

>>6627020
Maybe
I dunno if it would solve the problem tho

>>6627062
You could at least try it. If you seriously feel this intimidated by people, thinking guys are looking down on you and girls are judging you for your femininity or whatever... if you really find it prevents you from going outside, you really need to try one of those three things, or better yet try all of them.

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So, I pass pretty well actually, and at this point am moderately comfortable dressing in girl clothes in public. However, I'm a friendless NEET (technically I have one friend, but she is more antiscoial than I am) that lives on the outskirts of a city area, I cant drive, and I am too young to go to bars (go america!).

Basically I am wondering how exactly to do the whole being social thing? I am volunteering once a week, but I cant get a job or really look for one right now because I am in the midst of name changing stuff, and quite frankly I have no job experience to begin with so I'd rather not start while in the legal limbo I'm currently in. I just want to get IRL friends.

My previous main form of social interaction was with the relationship I was in, but that fell apart a couple days ago and now I'm single again.

I'm wondering how to get myself out-there and become social again (and ideally make friends) , all whilst dealing with somewhat strong social and general anxiety.

>>6627074
I guess
But how would it make me stop feeling like they are?

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>>6626159

>tfw I know that feel

>>6627383
your picture was less lewd then I was hoping

>>6625124
Somehow try to make friends who are lgbt, usually it makes it easier to go out. I'm ftm and it's a lot easier to go out when I'm with people who understand me at least a little

>>6627093
smoke weed

>>6627495
I'm too young to buy it legally, and lack the social connections to acquire it illegally.

>>6627373
Meditation is the most difficult to explain yet the easiest to learn. There's a VERY short and simple set of steps you can read here if you want to try it and see for yourself how it makes you feel. http://zenhabits.net/meditation-guide/

Exercise and carrying a knife probably wouldn't hurt either but they're bigger commitments, and I also don't feel like explaining all the ways they change how you feel

>>6625136
go to raves, concerts and music festivals and get into psychedelics

>>6625714
Absolute shit post.

>>6629457
Absolutelyharam

i don't go outside

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>>6627448

>implying

>>6630515
Implying?

Why go outside and feel the completely logical, wholly deserved rejection by society when you can stay indoors, stew in your delusional fantasy and emotional unbalance, and watch anime? You'll be a pretty anime girl who is beloved by all if you just keep waiting. Any day now. It's them who's wrong not you. Silly cis bigots. Stay inside, adjust your panties and watch your anime. Trans acceptance is gaining! Your passing! The hormones are working! Don't worry what the normal people are doing they don't matter anymore. They just don't understand. Order more panties and hormones from the Internet.

>>6630532

Yes, implying the lion picture isn't already plenty lewd.

>>6625124
I always fought this by being a huge alpha male chad and bullied everyone and madet them my bitch, which worked until I had a breakdown and started hrt and I have boobs now and look soft and stuff and havent gone outside for years and im incredibly socially awkward and afraid of everything. I mostly just look at the ground now.

>>6630542
But I don't really watch anime and my doctor gives me my hormones

>>6630649
Your doctor would collaborate in helping a confused young fetishist destroy their future? So much for the Hippocratic oath I guess. You should see a new doctor.

>>6630731
But hrt is the best treatment known in the scientific community

>>6630731

Come out of the closet.

>>6625124
By not being a tranny and accepting the role you were given in life

>>6626159

Big enough? :^)

>>6625124
>tfw I'm a cis male who teases transgirls but they're super sensitive so I always have to apologize

it's not even about being trans, but they almost cry about everything
it's p cute tho, I wish one of them liked me enough to date me

Go to nerd stuff like table top gaming or Fighting Games/Smash.

Socializing is EZ when you can just ask "so who do you play in X" or "how'd you get into X"

Only catch is you actually have to like that stuff

>>6630598
booooooo i wanna fuck chad bring chad back

>>6632810
p sure their role in life is to be a tranny or else god wouldn't have made them want ladyboobs etc

>>6633089
Pretty sure these groups definitely don't want trans invading their space. Even more than regular people

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>>6630515
>>6627383

Lions, like many felines, have barbed penises. So no thank you!

>>6625124
>I feel like guys look down on you as some faggot, beta male or sissy
That's a bad thing?

>>6635312
I mean they could make fun or bully you

>>6635333
hot

>>6635349
noooo

>>6635349
bullying isn't fun when it doesn't end in sex ;_;

>>6635377
this
nobully

>>6635377
can I bully you and then have you fuck me?

>>6635487
in a sort of revenge, role-reversal type of thing?
not really my cup of tea

>>6635490
Why do people like role reversal
There are roles for them

>>6635723
*a reason
don't know why I typed them

>>6633382
Done correctly you're a player before you're a tranny

See: Ricki Ortiz, Kayo Police etc

>>6625124
>I feel like guys look down on you as some faggot, beta male or sissy
>And so do the girls who think you will never be like them
Isnt this true tho, like forreal senpai.

>>6635791
is it real?
I really hope it just something I made up in my head

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>>6635802
It happens in nature that males go girl to get a mate.

>>6635810
but doesnt he want a female mate?

>>6635836
Men are weird.

>>6635791
are you saying it's real that they look down on us
or real that we are faggots who will never be real girls?

>>6635882
Wasnt even gonna quote the 2nd line, it sneaked in there.
The former, and if you're real girls or not is entirely up to how well you can suck this dick.

>>6635844
coming from the one who shove pineapple

>tfw no bf to force you to go outside dressed as a sissy

>>6635893
up their ass

>>6635888
so are guys who are good at sucking dicks officially girls?

>>6635998
Guys who suck dick are gay.

>>6636018
but you said a person's girl status was contingent on how well they could.

>>6635998
but girls are shit at sucking dick

>>6633382
I think a lot of those groups have already been infiltrated by SJWs so they would probably welcome trannies.

>>6636088
That's what he said not me

does anyone have any books to reccomend on femininty?

Mannerisms, etc?

Not just makeup advice but an actual dissertation.

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>>6625124
I don't i haven't left the house in 3 years

by passing and not looking like a disgusting crossdressing liberal faggot

>>6636548
>watching your favorite movies over again and watching the women's body language

>>6636793
I can't say I don't do that
Should I just be a femboy?
Would that be better for me in society?

>>6625462
thanks for clarifying anon =)

>>6635810
>>6635836
yes, which invalidates the claim completely.

>>6625124
you don't.
You kill yourself inside your house

>>6637058
if you don't pass don't go out into society and attempt to present as a woman and knowingly make people uncomfortable

it's your obligation to society to be seen as a woman, not societies obligation to treat you like one

>>6636588

ENVYYYY

>>6637058
>Should I just be a femboy?

No. Femboys are cancer.

>>6637258
so are hons, hon

>>6637258
femboy over hon any day thought