Wow, never thought I'd post here, but I need some advice. I've been in a relationship with a trans girl for about a year now. I think I've fallen for her, and I can definetely see our future together. She's already met my parents and friends and they love her. The problem is that no one knows that she's trans. My friends dont need to know, but if I end up marrying this girl my family is bound to ask questions about us having kids and what not. I think it's only a matter of time before we have to tell them the truth, and I dont expect them to react well. They are pretty traditional, and I dont want to cut them off in the process. What should I do? Am I thinking too far ahead?
Due to medical problems my girlfriend can not have children.
That is all you have to say. If they pry tell them that she has an undeveloped uterus. You are not lying and that will be that.
>>6617114
Why do they need to know?
Even if they ask about kids, just say you don't plan on having any or say that she infertile or something.
Actually, let her make the decision when the time comes and don't pressure her into coming out to them or anything like that.
My bf thought it'd be a good idea to tell his family and now they're freaking out, they thinks he's gay, they hate me and think I've somehow brainwashed there son, etc.
There is absolutely no need to ever come out to anyone but a partner or a doctor.
>>6617148
You can either lie, tell them the half truth (just saying she can't have kids or something) or say "fuck what they think, this is the person I love" tell them, and let them decide if they're going to be petty enough to turn their backs on the two of you or not. You'd be surprised how accepting parents can be (even more conservative ones) it'll be a bit of a shock, but if they like her already, chances are they'll be okay with it.
>>6617125
This is literally everything that needs to be said.
SAGE and /thread.
>>6618370
Its not really as simple as that. Its about trust. Whatever, ill let her decide when she's ready.