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How do I get my dominant boyfriend to be MORE dominant?
I have been dominant with other men in the past, but his triggers for dominance seem quite different to mine and I can't figure them out. Like, he never wants me to give him blowjobs outside of pre-anal foreplay, says stuff like "It's about what I want and when I want it" when I ask him to rim me (which is hot, even though I don't quite get it), likes choking and really heavy aggressive fingering, spitting etc... He said that he used to tie up his last boyfriend but he hasn't done that with me yet (I really want him to) and I also kind of want to be bitch slapped etc, how do I bring this out in him?
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>>6584383
There is no need to for him to do that. The fact that he is withholding the dominant behavior is already torturing you.
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I sympathize. I had an ex who was occasionally dominant in bed. He knew before hand that I wanted a dominant guy.
I got frustrated with him because he was so passive. I would deliberately piss him off to get him to be more aggressive, but that obviously isn't healthy. I broke it off with him in the end.
You can't change someone into your ideal mate
BTW, I found my Dom and I can finally be the power bottom--slave-pig I've longed to be
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>>6584558
when I want to dominate a guy it's all physical, wrestle a guy to the floor, shove my fingers in his mouth and fuck him really aggressively. I've always found the psychological domination thing fairly unattractive and feminine (in the sense that it is what women do)
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>>6585168
Psychological domination without abuse is an art. Using it alone is boring, but it makes physical domination much more intense.
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>>6585454
I don't doubt there's a lot to it, it's just that it's how women act and interact with men and each other... not for me.
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