passing/un-passing stories

>>6577730
>be in boimode at store
>drunk lady trying to buy lotto tickets
>walk by her as she is leaving
>she yells
>"are you a boy or a girl"
>everyone in the store looking at me now
I guess not really passing or un-passing, sort of a grey area

bump cuz you guise suk

>>6577730
>at bar
>hear, "Damn, she's really tall"
>"her ass"
Turn around to look
>both guys blush
>I blush and give a dirty grin
>"damn, her tits, too..."
Mfw

>>6577953
did you rape them after?

>am east asian
>17 years old
>had long hair
>im cis but i just liked having long hair(just above shoulder length)
>could waltz into girls public restrooms and nobody would bat an eyelid
>did this for a couple years til i got sick of the woman smell and sounds
Also
>attracted lesbians in gay clubs
>straight guys would make comments about me to my friends like "got a qt there with you" "introduce us to her" and my friends would just laugh their arses off
>parents friends would think im a female relative
>when going out with my little sister people would think we're sisters

Thank fuck i lost all that androgynous nonsense and actually look like a guy these days

>>6577953
Show me your tits boi

>>6577992
you squandered the gift god gave you
sadreeeeeeee

>buying thyme ice cream in Arles
>pull 10€ out of my phone case to pay
>older ice cream guy is really impressed
>compares me to James Bond
>says something like "oh wow James Bond girl here!" (It was a while ago, I don't quite remember)

I felt really good after that. It was the first time someone had gendered me female at the beginning of an interaction, and kept doing so until the end. And it meant my voice was passable in French too.

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>>6577992

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>>6578012
>>6578031
If i could give that to you i would, it really was wasted on me because i just love being a guy too much, always have. I did some crossdressing earlier this year for the first time, i think i still have it as long as i have a wig and dress on :3 pic related

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>>6578125
>tfw you will never be asian

Jew

>tfw too male looking for female restrooms
>tfw too female looking for male restrooms

ftm by the way

I will never pass, the end.

>>6578195
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G2U8yfKM9nY

>>6578147
If you're too manly for the women's room, simply use the men's. You have to own it but if you can, nobody will care that you sit to pee.

>me, 18, boymode mtf 3 months hrt
>in airport on Sunday, getting bags
>"excuse me miss can you please move your tray"
>smile awkwardly and nod

Related story today too

>male toilets
>some old Spanish guy there (reading a book not peeing? creep)
>go to leave, hold door for him
>he babbles in Spanish, I hear "chica" a bunch
>points to the sign
>laugh awkwardly

Was very weird couple experiences, makes me wonder if I might pass in girlmode

>>6579952
You're already passing as female in 'boymode' idiot. Having strangers gender you correctly is passing.

I like these threads, but they always tend to die early.

>boymode
>go to eat breakfast with gf
>get check, sign credit card receipt
>accidentally carry receipt towards exit
>"mam! mam! we need the receipt!"

I find myself questioning a lot these days when people gender me female, whether i just misheard what they said or if they were talking to someone else.
I definitely don't pass in boymode, so I get confused everytime

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>>6577730
Sometimes I get ma'amed in boymode at a glance and then they realize that I look like a dude when they look closer. it always ends up like
>hi ma'am wh-
>uh-sir-sir what-what can i do for you

or sometimes they just look at me confused and stumble around pronouns.

At least I get gendered as a girl sometimes though right ;-;

And just an awkward story, not actually passing:
>At walmart with my mom and little brother (senior in HS).
>boymode
>mom suspects because I accidentally came out to her before but went back into the closet
>me and my little brother both have long hair
>creepy guy come up to us
>says to my little brother "boy its nice to see a father shopping with his two daughters" and walks away
>know it must be some kind of weird awkward attempt at humor but still turn red
>mom looks in shock
>me: "ha ha ha *walmart* amiright ha ha"

>>6580569
>I accidentally came out to her before but went back into the closet
Wut

>>6580590
I used to commute to college and one semester I had to leave for class at the same time she would leave for work so she would come into my room and wake me up
>having dream about coming out to people and being accepted
>mom wakes me up in middle of the dream
>still half asleep and in dream mode
>"mom I'm trans"
>she leaves the room
>I finish waking up and realize what I've done
>she acts really awkward around me for a few weeks
>we never speak of it and it kinda fades away

My family is really weird in that they'll blatantly deny that anything is abnormal or wrong. Like I could literally be around them covered in the smell of smoke and they would refuse to acknowledge that I was smoking or that they even smelled smoke.

>>6580662
>My family is really weird in that they'll blatantly deny that anything is abnormal or wrong. Like I could literally be around them covered in the smell of smoke and they would refuse to acknowledge that I was smoking or that they even smelled smoke.


This is not weird at all, sadly. My family does the same thing I literally came out to them and then started taking hrt I actually am starting to look really feminine. They're acting like absolutely nothing is happening.

>>6580569
was he trying to say your mom was the father?

>>6581169
I don't think so. I mean my mom also has long hair and doesn't look masculine at all.

From the way he said it I'm pretty sure that he meant my brother was the father... but who knows

I don't know, it would have made more sense if he had said "a mother and her daughters" to my mom like "hur hur, ur sons have long hair like girls". But we all had long hair so I don't know why one of us was the father in this scenario?

My hometown has a huge meth epidemic so he was probably tweaking out of his mind and just blurted something out that made sense in his head desu.

>>6581234
strange

>>6580373
this is fucking hilarious and I'm mtf, any more edits?

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>>6580373
top kek my man

absolute gold

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>>6578131
>be asian
>was never trap or even twinkmode

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>>6578131
>>6583210
>be asian
>be unpassing island nigger asian

ONE CHANCE

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> be me, pic related
> be growing hair for years before hrt
> be passing at 6 mo
> be autistic
> cut hair off

now im 23 months in and still get called sir

mfw ill never pass with short hair,
older ladies seem to keep complimenting me for it tho

>>6583632
you look like an old asian aunt

i don't like riding planes anymore cause the tsa always makes me go through the scanner again because it thinks my dick+balls are like cocaine bags or something then they have to pat me down. so yeah i guess i'm passing, even in hoodies and sweatpants lol

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>>6583636
Thats cuz i am

>>6580712
>>6580662

Yeah, same here. I'm two and a half years on HRT and don't have a lot of contact with my parents.

I had lunch with them a few weeks ago at a cafe near the beach and my dad fucking brought board shorts along so I could go for a swim with him.

>>6583813
lol how did that go

>>6583643
aiyaa

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>>6583947

Lots of awkward silences.

The waiter kept calling me "miss" even though I'm still in complete boy-mode. My parents looked like their eyes were going to bulge out of their sockets but they were quiet.

Dad looked completely crestfallen by the time we left and we haven't spoken since. It was honestly the most depressing experience I've had in the past year.

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>>6583978
>that photo

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>at work, eating lunch with the other girls in my pod (they're all late 20s with husbands)
>22, 11 months HRT. Been working there for 2 months
>all talking about kids and how weird it will be, we all decide on another lady as the most likely to next get pregnant
>she denies, then someone suggests me
>"yeah I can see it! the dark horse, you never suspect the youngest!"
>panic

also earlier that week someone was asking me for tampons. I didn't even mean to go stealth, I just didn't tell anyone and assumed it was obvious

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>>6584386
>all the dried blood from FFS made it matted beyound repair

>>6584404
ew
can't imagine how much worse would it be with coronal incision

>>6584404
You shouldn't scratch off the scabs either, since they can leave scars too.
I ended up with at least one sorta reddish scar, despite not scratching and being careful.

Hair pulling and turning while sleep pretty much made me bleed every morning

>>6584452
I had coronal incision, and I think it was nicer than having it on the hairline.

This isn't much but

>16-17 years old, pre everything at the time
>would occasionally get catcalled walking home from school despite short hair

Felt cool at first but then weird desu

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lol plenty of predators

>be at restaurant with 2 female coworkers
>waiter greets us with "hello ladies"
>takes my order "and for you, miss?"

that's it, im out to both of them so nothing awkward but still nice

>>6580373
That was hilarious. Please tell me that there's more of these.

>>6583632

You legit look like my japanese grandma when she was younger. Congrats?

>>6579879
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=54t0iyp_udc

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>>6584939 >>6583632
She looks like everyone's japanese grandma when they were younger.

>>6583632
holy shit obaasan is that you! can you tell my mom to chill please?

>>6580569
>actually going to Jamalmart
I go to the most expensive grocery store in my region specifically for a pleasant shopping experience without the unwashed hordes.

>>6588563
>Go to leave, hold door
What is sign on door?

>>6588734
Not my story.

>>6578125
damn you're a qt

>>6588585
you're not dating the right guy

So I'm not out with my company, however, I don't ever really interact with them. Most of my interaction is with fellow company members at different sites that the company holds contracts at. Today I visited one for the first time and was relieved they knew my gender right away. They introduced me to different staff at the site as "Mr" and the whole day was going really swell, finally being treated right in a professional setting without having to "come out".

At the end of my shift, in walks a supervisor with my company who I had worked with a year ago and we'd been buddies at work but had a falling out when we started working at different sites. He greeted me, then proceeded to praise me to my other coworkers, using the term "she". One coworker interrupted and exclaimed, "she?! You mean he??" Both of them looked at me in shock and confusion, so I nodded, "yeah, he" and the coworker laughed at the supervisor, "you mean you had been working with him that long and didn't know he was a guy? Does he look like a girl to you?" And the supervisor was just "yeah....yeah you're right, wow I'm really sorry."

Part of it was my fault, as I had let it go when the supervisor had called me a girl before. I never blame others when they misgender me. I blame myself for not looking like society's expectation and just shrug off the female pronouns. I'm on T so I know it'll work it's magic in due time and I'd get called "she" less and less without having to intervene. Apparently that was now but wow I got myself into quite the mess and had had a pretty solid recovery thanks to my coworker. I don't know if they suspect I'm trans but I'm certainly not saying it at work.

I hate the fact that I don't pass (boymode) but I still get abuse for having long hair.

Also drunk people calling me "she" and then realising

>>6588734

literally right there in the post:

>go to leave, hold door for him
>he babbles in Spanish, I hear "chica" a bunch
>points to the sign

they held the door open and the sign would be on the inside. retarded gotcha, anon.

>less than two months hrt, my in boymode
>out to dinner with my mom
>not our waiter, but a different member of the staff says "you ladies have a nice night" as we leave the restaurant

It's probably just because they didn't hear my voice, because I got lumped in with "ladies" many times as a teenager due to my long hair. But it still felt nice.

Other side of that: friends being wishy-washy and avoiding pronouns entirely even though I've asked them to use female or gender-neutral ones. They just say my stupid name and it's way worse than if they would just say "they" or "she".

>>6578021
this is a cute story. i'm glad it's working out for you

>21 months hrt
>pass pretty well
>got invited for an internship with a company
>have soft spoken male/andro voice
>talk with the company went pretty well
>tell her i'm trans at the end, because i thought it was obvious because of my voice
>she says she didn't notice
>fuck.jpg
>shake hands and go home
>calls me on monday that i didn't get the internship


i fucked myself didnt i

>>6591458
If it helps I lost an internship doing the opposite

>>6591458
Why even tell?
What does it have to do with the job?

>>6591809
had nothing to do with the job, but due to my shitty voice i thought she'd find out sooner than later. Didnt want to be fired halway through because she suddenly saw me as "male" or something.

>>6591682

Wait, seriously? Did they expect you to tell them before hand, or did they just fire you for being trans?

Had this happen the past two years during summer. It's mainly thirsty men saying stuff because i wear more revealing clothes in summer.

>8mo hormones
>cycle to the shop to get my new contact lenses
>see two fat men sitting on a bench
>fat men wave at me and say hi
>race into the shop because uncomfortable
>when i come back out the men are still waving at me and ask me where i live
>booked it out of there on my bike

I live in a small town so i got lucky i never saw them again.

>still 8mo
>sitting on a bench relaxing
>dude on a bike drives by
>stops for a sec to say "bella" to me
>apparently this dude is italian
>kind of liked the compliment but was creeped out at the same time
>i left shortly

>18mo hrt
>walking towards work
>some construction is going on near work
>one construction worker tries to get my attention by saying a random female name
>i give him a surprised look but walk further with a smile because this never happened before.
>dude shouts "i like your smile, girl" from afar
>fastwalk the fuck out of there because he was moving towards me

>back from work
>dudes still there but now putting stuff in his car
>says that i could take a ride with him home
>nope the fuck out of there
>take different route to work the next day

>>6592188
just ignore them or say no. christ is there anything that doesnt bother u, ye were women, but we don't need to be fucking pussys

>>6592156
>did they just fire you for being trans?
This basically. Not much I can do about it.

This happened a few days ago
>be me
>fat as fuck mtf
>a little over a year hrt
>usually don't pass but sometimes someone doesn't notice
>Taking dog for a walk at the park
>pass two black guys on trail
>hear them laugh and say "that bitch was giant"
I don't even care that they were making fun of me they thought I was a girl so I win.

>>6592188
Those are funny stories anon, except the last one. It actually made me really sad. You appear so uncomfortable in them. I wonder whether you actually don't want to be with those people or if you're just too insecure. Hopefully you can overcome this. Allow yourself to approach people. It's ok if it's awkward or turns out to not be what you want. But it's so sad anon. Don't miss the chances.

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>>6578125

>>6592188
Some of those people seemed nice enough

>Be femboy
>Have to take a piss, walk into the mens room like I own the place
>Chad is washing his hands
>Looks at me with confusion
>"Uh, the ladies room is next door."
>Yeah, I know
>Piss in the urinal
>I don't have a reaction on my phone to convey his face when

I love being a femboy.

>>6592362
post pic of dog

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>>6594367

>>6578133
I don't... what were you going for here? is that an accusation..or?

Not so much passing stories but I want to share.
>be me
>love subway
>go to subway uptown a lot
>guy there who always calls me dude/man and seems kinda slightly mean
>overcharges me for two subs
>take receipt back, explain and get a gift card
>use gift card later, has $0.01 on it
>take it back to that store and get it fixed
>hes all quiet and awkward
Why are some people douches like this. Everyone in my life says I pass except for the countless retail and fast food workers who insist on calling me sir. Even when I go to get laser on my face. I feel like he charged me twice on purpose and added one single penny for more pain.

Also
>be downtown the other day pokemon going
>sitting by a pokestop getting them pokeballs
>guy drives by and the passenger makes eye contact with me for a while
>meows at me
is that just cat calling

Foreverahon.tiff

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>>6577730
You'll all get a kick out of this story.
>Be me, 2012, cis-guy working at one of my countries largest zoo's.
>Working as supervisor in guest services/ rides dept. Basically have to travel throughout the whole of the zoo through my work day.
>Be stationed near one of the entrances helping with admission during a very busy afternoon.
>One of my coworkers tells me a / guest needs assistance out front.
>I got this, I always jump to help people.
>Meet some...45-48 year old Hon Man, in a long floral designed dress.
>Clothes all suggest female
>face with no make-up suggests a man.
>what in fucks sake are you trying to identify as?!?
>laughing my ass off in my head, maintain a very professional outward appearance.
>"Hi there...(try avoiding pronouns out of courtesy) how can I help you?"
>Forgot to mention this Hon was also a little overweight.
>Answers me out of breath in what appears a bad feigned impression of a woman's voice.
>Bingo, talks like a woman, dresses like a woman, must be trying to identify as a female then.
>Hon explains 'it' is diabetic, needs sugar and water. Basically demands it typical ham beast style.
>Call security over radio to help her up to the health station.
>Oh Shi- I just gendered 'it' on accident...
>initiate triggered mode "EXUSE ME?! I'm a MAN!"
>here comes my studders.
>immediately and profusely apologize, over use the word 'Sir' , while doing so.
>Spend a hellish 13 mins waiting with an angry man-Hon while he glares at me.
>Security finally arrives and saves me from the extremely uncomfortable situation.
>they look to me like "wtf..you said female,. and also what the hell is this?!"
>They also avoid any pronouns and drive the rude asshole to the front.

and thats my only experience with Hons so far.

>>6592256
>>6592487
>>6592941
No. I'm ftm (pre-t, look 100% like a girl), and no.

People like that are dangerous. Maybe not all of them, but they are. Catcalling is not fun or nice. That kind of shit feels really wrong, like you're being preyed upon.

And you never know who is or isn't nice or safe. They all look and act the same. She absolutely did the right thing.

This is probably the most awkward experience i've had when i was still pre-hrt

>be pre hrt
>talked with therapist last week who thought it was a good idea to get out of my comfort zone and go on vacation in girlmode
>hesitantly accepted
>however since i was pre hrt i looked like a total guy in drag
>yolo'd it anyway and went on vacation with my parents
>on one of the days go on a boat tour
>bunch of teenagers and parents with children on the boat
>passing mission impossible mode activated
>literally everyone stared at me the whole time, especially one girl who decided to make my life extra hard by following me around all the time
>eventually had to pee
>couple of dudes behind the bar were looking at me to see which bathoom i would take
>took the mens
>hear laughing outside
>hon faith was sealed that day
>generally bad day

But there's more!

>When i came back to the vacation home i took all my clothes off and changed to boymode.
>decided to go swimming because why not
>once there i spotted the teenagers that were also on the boat
>Teenagers saw me
>they were like "this tranny fo' real"
>had no fucks left to give from the rest of the day so swam for a couple of hours anyway
>left
>suicidal for a month afterwards because of one fucking day

Let this be a lesson kids, don't go on vacation when you dont pass for shit

only time i passed that vacation was in bathroom of the macdonalds of all places.

>Be heterosex male working in retail because I'm an art major
>Store manager hires a new associate
>Actually cannot tell if they're male or female
>Their name is Leslie so that doesn't help
>They're in uniform but it's so fucking baggy that I can't make out their body shape
>Boss assigns me to train them
>Awkward day full of pronounced avoidance so I don't inadvertently offend them and lose my job

They've been here for two months. Everyone is too afraid to ask so nobody knows what they are.

Fuck this androgynous agender shit. It keeps me up at night.

>>6596551
Just ask them what gender they identify as. If they're that androgynous it's probably a common thing for them.

>>6596407
this is exactly why RLE is inhumane and cruel and dangerous and should be stopped.

>>6596559
Knowing my luck they'd fly into a rage that I couldn't tell right off that they're male/female/pangendered demi otherkin and whine to corporate about how I discriminated against them.

Plus there's no tactful way to ask someone what gender they are.

>>6596584
It prepares for worst case scenario though- absolute hondom

>>6596596
>Hey! What are your preferred pronouns? Just thought I'd ask.

Or ask a friend to come into the store and "sir" them for help.

>>6589866
>Other side of that: friends being wishy-washy and avoiding pronouns entirely even though I've asked them to use female or gender-neutral ones. They just say my stupid name and it's way worse than if they would just say "they" or "she".
if you don't look like a girl it doesn't make sense to call you a female pronoun

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>>6596407
>>took the mens
lol pussy

>>6596947
well it was not like i was passing. pretty much everyone on the boat knew i was a dude in disguise. If i went to the womens i'd probably be shouted at by the women lined up outside.

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>>6596407

>>6596407
That's terrible ;-;

>>6577730
>In boymode, no hormones
>walking home from school
>free government cell phone stand set up along my usual route
>"ayy miss you wann get a phone?"
>awkwardly say no thanks
>"oh shieet my bad mayne"

>>6596551

literally this >>6596559

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>frat boy in my class flirting with me
>I ended up meeting some of his frat friends
>I'm not entirely sure he knows I'm trans

We're working on a project together too so I can't even ask if he knows until we finish. He's hot and nice, also I don't want to get beat up or gang raped. H e l p m e .

>>6598820
how bout consensual gang rape

>>6598854

um...

>>6598926
...um yes!

just think of three hot frat boys pounding the shit out of your primo boipucci

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>>6595712
>>guy drives by and the passenger makes eye contact with me for a while
>>meows at me

Does anyone have any good before-after pictures? Not really stunning, amazing before and afters, but even some decent and even BAD ones like guy-to-hon, etc?

I just wanna see some because my bf is wanting to transition and like, I need to kind of think about this for awhile.

>>6601007
go to /r/transtimelines for hons and semi passing people

>>6596605
Let's be real, if you achieve absolute hondom it's best to just kill yourself. I would.

>got a new job
>have to buy a uniform from their place
>go to the uniform place to get my uniform
>have to give the dude my id, still has a picture of me from before transition on it
>he gives me my uniform and tells me i have to try it on rn
>ask where the lockerroom is
>he's struggling
>what??
>tells me "i dont know which one you are"
>i.d. is male
>hired as a male
>begrudgingly tell him I'm biologically male

Can i also just say, men are the most violent shitters in the world? It's disgusting. Everywhere i go, no matter what. I dont use the mens restrooms anymore but when i went to try on my uniform that day i did it in a bathroom stall and immediately a man walked into the stall next to me and and let or screams of rebellion. He was very apparently worried that he might need that stool for something later. Am i the only person who shits in absolute silence?

>>6601177
they always do laughable angles and heavy makeup in their after photos

>>6591458
If the interview goes too well it means they weren't considering you anymore.

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>post in assumption thread on soc
>Everyone just assumes I'm a girl, assumptions include "Gravity falls fangirl" "You've been mistaken for a boy" and "you have a hairy vagina"

>post in tall girl thread saying I'm 5'8 with size 10 women's shoes since they were talking about feet
>immediately get called a guy and told to get out

This is the pic I posted in the assumption thread

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>>6601975
And this is the pic I posted in the tal girl thread

>>6601975
>>6601979
you pass a lot better in the second pic, kind of surprised you got called out
I saw the thread you were in, /soc/ is full of dicks

>>6602083
Thanks, I kind of like the second pic even though it exposes my fucked up eyes.
It -was- a tall girl thread so perhaps everyone's tranny detector was turned up to 11.
Still it was nice to be treated like a normal girl for the first time.

>>6602089
Sweetie, you shouldn't take it so hard. This website can be really unforgiving sometimes. Just always remember you have a family that loves you. And it doesn't matter how tall you are.

>at an amusement park in girlmode
>get off a ride
>employee looks at me funny
>shitshitshit
>"you're really tall, do you play volleyball?"
>"no"
>run away

Great time. I also wore a two piece on the water rides and no one batted an eye

>>6592256
Having that after a lifetime of being ignored can be jarring.

>>6602089
Get some new clothes.. it may take a while to find what's right for you, but you will get treated like a normal girl way more often ^^

>be today
>go out to play pokemon go alone bc complete loner
>see some stacked lures
>go there
>when i get there some dudes shout "oh look she's playing too"
>shoot the shit with the lads
>leave and go to another place with stacked lures
>group of guys approaching me as i stand there awkwardly with my phone trying to catch a drowzee
>seems like half of them dont know the game
>as one of them are explaining one guy points at me and asks "what about her? is she also playing?"
>he then asks me if im playing
>"y-yes, im team yellow"
inb4 team instinct fag

>>6603503
INSTINCT OR EXTINCT

>>6603662
>>6603503
INSTINCT POOP FART OUT!

>>6577730
>mid-transition, 1 year HRT and it shows
>I'm blessed with a 10/10 body
>androgynous enough face, but voice is full dudebro
>go to school in ghetto alternative high school
>wear girl clothes every day cause they fit better anyway
>nobody really fucks with me
>one day I'm walking down the hall
>hear Jamal and Tyrone behind me
>one of them says "damn that one got a fine ass"
>I look around to see what they're talking about
>realize we're the only ones in the hall
>realize they're talking about me and blush
>let out a nervous laugh
>"OOHHHH SHIEET THAT'S A DUDE AHAHAHAHA"
>the guy who said i was hot starts having a breakdown
>"N-NAH MAN I DIN'T KNOW"
>"AHAHAHA YOU'RE FUCKIN GAY DOG"
>the one guy's got his hands on his face and he's bowed over in shame
>the other guy's smiling and laughing and jumping around like a chimpanzee
>I'm literally watching a WorldStar video in real life
>I don't know whether to be embarrassed or entertained
>fast walk my ass out of there, clinging my books to my chest and the reddest face known to man

>>6580373
more more more

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>>6603888
Nice trips tho
Sorry about your hot ass

>>6596407
>>talked with therapist last week who thought it was a good idea to get out of my comfort zone and go on vacation in girlmode
>>hesitantly accepted

That was a mistake... forcing your way out of your comfort zone never ends well... for anyone.

Happened just a few minutes ago

>in fancy restaurant in androgyne/semi boymode
>just coming out of the mens room
>look back at myself in the mirror to check my hair
>guy was just walking up to the door
>looks at me, turns around and starts walking to the womens room thinking he made a mistake
>open my mouth to say something before he walks in
>but thankfully he realizes his mistake when he sees the big W on the door
>starts walking back, looking embarrassed
>give him a reassuring thumbs up and run away

>>6603888
Show us that HOT. ASS.

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>>6610710
Ok.

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>>6614535
Dayum

>>6614535
Do you do anything to get a nice butt, my familia? Squats or anything?

>be cis gay who is often mistaken for straight by heteronormative society
>visiting Austin, TX
>play Street Fighter III: 3rd Strike at arcade ufo
>smoking out on the arcade patio, chatting with the locals
>local faggot mentions that all the Ibuki players are queer
>one of the Ibuki players is a girl sitting next to me who now seems nervous
>faggot proceeds to out her as trans to me, a total stranger
>she puts out her cigarette and goes back inside hurriedly

fuck, man.

>standing at bus stop on my phone
>some dude walking towards the stop sees me from the side
>after standing a bit further away he walks up to me
>"hello, are you single?"
>I pull my face up from my phone and ask "wut?"
>he realizes I'm not a woman
>I can literally see his eyes light up in panic
>mumbles out an awkward "uhh nevermind" and turns away from me
>bus arrives, doors open and I get on
>mfw poor dude was so shocked he didn't even get on the bus
>see him waiting at the stop as the I drive off

It was pretty weird and awkard, I don't even know how one can be spergy enough to cold approach like that

>>6596407
Oh God is it really that bad?

I'm planning to go on vacation with my family next month and I'm 7 months HRT but definitely not passable

I have little tits that I'm gonna have to hide with a top while swimming and I'm sure everyone will notice an obviously male skeleton wearing a bra

What the fuck do I do ;-;

>>6615310
wear a swim shirt over the bra?

>>6615339
Eh regardless of what I wear the bulges on my chest are gonna be obvious

I think I'm just going to wear some basic black bra swimwear thing and hope for the best

>>6615352
get a binder and wear a black shirt in the pool or get a wetsuit. or better yet have self control and just don't go in the water and tan. does anyone think anymore?

>>6615425
I mean is it really that shameful to just have a plain top over them? I'm too socially autistic to be able to tell

It's gonna be weird and awkward and shit but at this point I'm kinda content to just deal with it. Do you think the stares will be too much? ><

>>6615310
Ey yo so
My parents took me to the beach at like 11 months HRT and I just wore board shorts and a swim shirt
Like, people could see my tits, but it didn't matter
It's really not that bad

>>6615503

You could try wearing a compression shirt under a swim shirt, or if you really want to look autistic, a full wetsuit

Or just go to an antisocial beach

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wow you guys have boobs big enough to be noticed

mfw 2 years hrt, a guy had his hand over my chest while i was wearjng only 1 layers and noticed nothing

overly successful boymode

>>6602089
if that second pic is really u, i wouldnt even question your gender in real life, you look really nice
also i you said your eyes are fucked up but i dont see it? they look pretty to me

Bumping thread?

>>6615157
Just genetics and a year of hrt. I'm actually fairly out of shape and my diet is mostly pizza and soda. I fucking can't get fat. It all goes to hips, ass and boobs.

I'm building an at-home workout routine though, just to build better habits for the future when maybe I don't have this luck.

>>6616076
thank you so much
but they are fucked up, they point in two different directions. maybe it's no visible in that pic but in others it's really apparent.

>>6601979
but you pass wtf

>>6616887
like i said, i think the tranny detectors are turned up to 11 in the tall girl thread
could also be that i dress butch. like that butch girl who got kicked out of the bathroom
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6GXIaHjZ-Ok

>>6583632
u fell for the kageshi meme

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>>6602113
u dont belong here

>>6616908
oh my god those people are annoying as fuck
this is why i never want to be anywhere near the lgbt "community"
what is so confusing about "look like a man, get treated like one"?

>>6616887
looks like a man to me tbqh

>>6617490
But she doesn't look like a man.

>>6615166
Age probably liked you desu

>>6617634
what? yes she does. she even sounds like one

>>6617695
*she
Not age, my bad

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>18
>out for breakfast with mom
>waitress asks "What can i get for you ladies"
>mom laughs and corrects her and says im her son
>she's fully aware i'm trans and supplies me hormones
>waitress laughs too and apologizes

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>>6617850
y ,mama?

>>6617850
Something similar happened to me
Me and my dad were at a diner
and the foreign owner asked if the pretty girl wanted a lollipop

Except my dad doesn't know and was visibly disappointed
Ha ha....kill me

>>6618162
>does the pretty girl want a lolipop

I just realized how creepy that sounds
He literally had like...a box of dum dums he gives people I guess

>>6617850
Should have told the waitress she was your dad desu.

>>6588946
this desu. countless times some drunk have catcalled me and realising when i answer them and the yelling at me as i walk away.
though my hair has been called cute often lately and sometimes even sober people have a hard time figuring out which i am. i'm really enjoying my androgyne mode.
i just hope i won't lose my touch on hrt....

>>6601007
give me another 11 months and i'll get back to you

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>>6618270
>when old ladies compliment how soft your hair is

>>6603503
I went Instinct because I didn't want to participate in the stupid rivalry between Valor and Mystic.

i just want to catch the pokemen like i always dreamed of doing as a child

>>6618296
But articuno and evolution

>almost 2 months hrt
>facing ice cream toppings at work the other day
>Excuse me, miss?
>Turn around
>Oh, sorry sir

Guess my ponytail threw her off, not the best story but it's the first time I've been gendered female even for a very brief moment.

>Be me, 4 years ago, still a teenage autist
>Go to meeting with parents to settle business with new house we are moving to
>Shake hands with different agents in the room
>Older guy shakes my hand, I give him a firm manly handshake
>"Oh, it's nice to meet your son--I mean, daughter--"
>Parents visibly cringe
>I'm just a butch lesbian, mom and dad, haha
>I'm just a butch lesbian
>Just a butch lesbian
>I'm not a tranny
>J U S T A D Y K E

>>6618642
I don't get why handshakes are so important
Who cares if it's flimsy
Dad!

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>>6603503
>>6618296
>tfw unaligned
>refuse to make an arbitrary decision that will determine the rest of my poke life
>above the petty politics of gyms
>can come and go where I please
>can associate with anyone from any of the 3 gyms
>will be the unaligned trainer to bring peace and unity to the 3 gyms

>>6618642
>>6618658
>tfw mtf
>always had to shake hands with people at church growing up
>people always say I have a girly handshake
>dad embarrassed by my flimsy handshake
>taught me how to do firm manly handshake
>trained me by making me firmly shake hands with him every time I greeted him for like a year
>every time I shake hands with somebody now I automatically use a firm grip even if I try not to
>tfw I'm stuck with manly handshake and its trained into me subconsciously

>>6618827
but again
why do old men care so much about them?
>he almost crushed my fingers so I know he is a good guy
Like what

Maybe a ftm or gay can explain

>>6618909
ya, fuck those guys who try to squeeze the crap out of your hand

>>6618909
Supposedly it represents manliness and strength and trustworthiness and dependability. Having a weak handshake is like not looking someone in the eyes when you greet them. It indicates that you don't have a real mental connection to them, like you're shaking their hand but you don't really mean it or something

Also according to the way my dad taught me, you aren't supposed to squeeze their fingers. Like You mostly squeeze the inside of their palm to the outside of their palm, not the bottom of their palm to the top of their palm (where their thumb is).

And it shouldn't be so tight that it hurts, just tight enough that you're actually solidly holding onto their hand and not just resting your hand in their hand. And your strength shouldn't vary for the duration of the handshake.

Squeezing too hard is a power play or represents lack of intelligence/manners. Similarly, never squeeze harder than your male superiors (in age, status, rank, whatever) because it represents an attempt to establish dominance over them. When shaking hands with a woman, be firmer than her but not as firm as you would shake a man's hand.

>tfw my parents wanted me to be a good ol southern boy so bad
>trained in how to be a southern gentleman
>at least maybe an ftm somewhere wil benefit from my southern etiquette knowlege

>>6619019
I mean to shake their hand that's why I'm doing it
I just don't see why we have to make it feel so unpleasant

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>>6619019
>Having a weak handshake is like not looking someone in the eyes when you greet them. It indicates that you don't have a real mental connection to them, like you're shaking their hand but you don't really mean it or something
Delet this

>>6619073
Idk, I didn't make the rules.

Also you're compulsed to shake their hand if they extend it. Like refusing to shake is a terrible insult that no one would do, so a weak shake is like a sign of just going through the motions even though you don't actually have any interest in greeting them.

It might be different in other parts of the country.

In the south, disrespect and insults are subtle. Direct insults are unheard of, so people also read more into what you do to find cues. Like "bless your heart" is a pretty big insult. People don't literally mean what they say or do, its all about the way that they do it or hidden meaning underneath.

>>6619075
I mean more like looking to the side out of disinterest or looking at another part of their face than their eyes. If you look down or away while also tilting your head down then its a sign of submission and weakness which normally isn't good (for a man) but also isn't as much of an insult as it is a reflection of your weakness.

>>6619142
The south is an odd place

>>6619152
Yeah, its pretty crazy. But I like that northerners always think we're all so nice, bless their hearts. If only they knew what those sweet little old southern ladies actually mean when they meekly say stuff like "I just don't know what to think of that young woman john is seeing, but it aint my place to judge and he sure seems happy. And, lord willing, i guess thats all that matters" with sweet little smiles on their faces

[spoiler] she knows exactly what she thinks, and it isn't good. And she's praying every night for god to strike that whore dead in her sleep.[/spoiler]

Or "I just adore your sweet tea recipe. Its a little different from the way I make mine but a little variety never killed nobody." *lightly touches your arm*

[spoiler] she thinks your recipie is absolutely disgusting and is furious that the church asked YOU to make the tea this time and not her [/spoiler]

>>6619264
How can you live in such a passive aggressive two-faced society

>be me
>closet ftm back from college for winter
>go to craft fair with mom in sweatshirtmode
>go to table to get tickets
>discount for people under 18
>girl at the counter says "and how old is your son?"
>mom loudly replies "my daughter is 19"
>come on mom, why can't your son be 17 for a day
>go inside fair and walk around
>sperg out on booth with a bunch of precious stones
>mom wanders off
>talk to the booth owner about rocks for a while
>mom comes back
>joins me and the booth owner
>owner asks "this guy... is he your... scout?"
>mom cringes and replies "no this is my DAUGHTER"
>tfw

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This isn't about my own passing but related

>working as a cashier in college to make some extra transition money
>two short (5'3") asian girls with long hair come up to the register
>ringing them up
>realize one of them is actually a guy
>I couldn't see his body/what he was wearing from behind the register, just assumed from his hair/height/face he was a girl
>be glad I didn't say "hello ladies" or something
>finish ringing them up and they leave
>later see him talking to my coworker (a friend of his) about getting mistaken for a girl all the time

Some people don't know how lucky they are

>>6619019
Thanks m'lady. I'll put it to good use.

>>6619288
I guess you just get used to it. Like after growing up in it you realize what people mean when they do stuff like that.

For the most part as long as you don't rock the boat in any way, people really are very nice and hospitable to you. But nobody goes through life without rocking the boat a little.

And not all of southern society is always like that. Church and places where appearences really matter are the main places where the passive agressive 2 faced behavior happens. And with old people, regardless of the situation. But younger generations in normal situations aren't as bad.

Plus I live in a big city now and it its basically non existent here even though its in the south

>>6619468
*courtesies*

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>>6618827
We're called team harmony now, apparently. Someone even made a sick symbol for us so I'm cool with it.

>>6620002
I dunno...how do gyms work if everyone was on the same team?
I'm not one for conflict but I don't think friendly competition hurts none

>>6619142
>isn't as much of an insult as it is a reflection of your weakness.
Yeah I have autism and can't look people in the eye so I look at the bridge of their nose because it's close enough
I wonder if people can tell

>>6619288
I was really paranoid until I learned how to navigate and emulate cultural behaviors
I still hate it

>>6616759
>I fucking can't get fat. It all goes to hips, ass and boobs.
If that's true you are one of the luckiest fucks this side of the Universe... god I wish I were you.

>>6619264
im one of those northerners who never wants to stop foot in the south.

the midwest, though - it's boring, but they're nice.

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>Be passing MTF out in public
>No one seems to know
>Getting called "miss" and "ma'am" by pretty much everyone
>mfw this is going great
>Suddenly, something lands on me
>Look down
>Massive cicada has decided that I will be its perch
>Deathly afraid of insects and freak out trying to get it off
>All the while I've dropped my female voice, so all anyone hears is a dude losing his shit
>Cicada is driven off
>Look around at the people staring at me
>Blush and leave

Never going back to that store again, nope.

>4 months hrt
>dress like a guy all the time cause Im a hon and am scared of being killed
>walk into mcdonalds to get nuggies
>"Can I get you something miss?"

hrt meme magic

The comic that a few anons are looking for is called "manic pixie nightmare girls" your welcome

>>6600860
Yeah

I'm starting to think I'm a perma hun.

>>6628046
That picture seems unfitting for the second half

>be me 20 yo 4/5 month hrt
>in boymode
>have to pee so go in the male bathroom
>too much people so have to pee standing up
>some kids were like
>"is this a girl or a boy"
>"she look like a girl, but it's the men bathroom"
>"and she is peeing standing up"
>3 or 4 of them were so confused they walked into the trashcan while looking at me and fell
>had to hold back laughing so hard

Another one kinda awkward

>Be me now 16 month hrt
>at a bar with some friend
>old lady (70 yo) start to join the groupe cause why the fuck not
>talk for like an hour
>she told me shi found me beautifull and all
>don't remember why but i say that i don't like my voice cause it's too deep
>old lady is like "no your voice si fine, even if it's kinda deep it's fit you"
>damn does my voice pass, always tought i had a shitty voice
>friend : "it's because you didn't know her before"
>old ladies : "why ?"
>had to explain i'm trans
>old ladies change her mind like 180°
>your voice is too manly, you should train it and all
>ask me like 10 times if i'm not jocking
>wtf

>>6630727
How can someone do that?
Nothing changed except what she knew

>>6618337
You're lucky. It's somewhat harder to pass from behind. Unless they got a view of your girly butt.

>>6630762

I don't really know, well, she was a bit drunk so that can explain.
And i think that knowing that someone is trans make you see all the litlle "imperfection" even if the personn passed for you, so might be that

>>6630794
>tfw pass from behind but not the front
Well I'm still pre-hrt so i guess not all is lost

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A slightly related story.

>Be cishet white Scandi.
>Be outside at beach, trying to enjoy the one day of sun this country gets
>Notice group of girls closeby, one of them is acting very uncomfortable
>Realize that it's a kind of passing mtf, probably first time outside in a bathing suit.
>Notice she's reluctant to leave her place in the middle of her friends.
>Eventually they kind of drag her up to actually get into the water.
>She says something I can't quite hear and looks like she's going to sit down again.
>Whistle and make eye contact, she blushes.
>Her friends give me deathstares.
>She seems much more confident after actually having been objectified and put through the same problems girls do.
>She proceeds to have a good time, all hesitation seems to be gone.

Who knew a well timed amount of fuccboi-ism could be so helpfull. Pic unrelated.

>>6630865
Your a good person, anon

>>6593045
Hahaha something similar happened to me last week.

>mtf without srs in full girl mode
>riding train home
>gotta piss
>go to bathroom, toilet facing the door and looks like shit, I ain't sitting on that
>stand up pissing
>lock was broken/I locked it incorrectly
>some dude throws the door open and sees me holding up my short skirt in one hand and holding my dick to piss with in the other.
>swearing engaged
>dude closes door quickly while apologizing

In retrospect it was fucking hilarious.

>>6630925
That must of been really embarrassing

>>6630925
>standing up to pee
agp detected

>>6631204
But she just said how gross the seat was

>>6631213
at least you can like pretend to squat or some shit
thats too agp for me

>>6631292
>agp agp xDDD
just stop already

>>6583632
I think ur cute tho. I saw you in another thread and thought you passed. Guess other people think otherwise. :(

>>6584395
Not gonna lie, I'm kind of excited about going stealth. I'm not really a champion for the cause or anything and I'm not gonna be a hon. I don't want people to make a big deal about, I'd rather be the center of attention for being my usual asshole self than looking different.

>>6595643
He passes. He's the good boy.

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>>6601979
You pass really well. Actually your super cute.

Man you guys are faggots.

>>6577730
Here's a dumb story from when I was younger

>Be 11/12
>Really quiet and gay kid
>Kinda feminine hair, high voice
>Attend mixed school where I hang with girls mostly
>Asked every so often if I'm a boy or a girl
>Also bullied a lot

>Part of national running team
>Day of a big race in a big stadium
>In the bathroom, peeing and trying to calm my nerves
>A bunch of assholes from my school come in, notice me washing my hands
>They're my age/slightly older
>"What are you doing in here anon?"
>They surround me, I try to leave but I'm stopped
>Can't move, and suddenly someone is trying to pull down my shorts
>Shorts and underwear are yanked down to my knees before I can pull them up and leave the circle

>Was very upset the rest of the day
>Lost the race
>It was a bad day

>Cut hair a while later, tried to be more "macho"
>Never realy asked if I'm a boy or girl since
>tfw years later one of the dudes are trying to hookup with me

>>6631447
Holy shit. That's fucking awful.

okay.
>be me, 23 none HRT
>go to store today in girls clothes for the first time
>Got called miss by starbucks and tj max employee
>Did I just fucking pass pre HRT

I didnt say a word though because my voice is very dudebro.

this is kind funny I guess

>6months HRT
>look okay I guess
>wearing girl skinny jeans
>junk is adjusted so my dick is vertical with the zipper and nuts pushed to the sides alone the crotch seam
>it looks okay not super wierd
>two guys who passed I hear talking about camaltoe
>mfw two guys on the street thought my balls were a camaltoe

>>6631494
you presented as female, so you can never know if they were just being polite or you really passed

>>6631551
And the paranoia sets in.

>>6614535
can I worship your ass and fuck you

>be me, around 16-17
>FTM pre-everything but dress as masculine as possible
>out to parents but they still refer to me as female, sister (who is a few years younger than me) doesn't know
>go to dentist with mum and sister
>new dentist
>she's foreign so doesn't know my name is gendered
>mum starts small talk with the dentist
>dentist asks which school I go to and lists off a couple
>one of them is a boy's school
>mum looks confused
>'oh no, um, anon is a girl'
>dentist then starts talking about how she was 'also a tomboy' when she was younger
>sister laughs about it for weeks afterwards

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>>6631414
thank you!! you're too kind.
i dunno what happened, someone had a descerning eye I guess. Even Natalie Mars got clocked so I guess it happens.

Here I got another story for you guys, it's a quick one:
>Be in boymode drinking on a street corner in the Castro district with an ftm I met who is very early into T
> lil guy with a mohawk comes up
>he wasn't a kid he was just really short
>Says "hey ladies"
>Starts talking to us
>FtM has a full conversation with him while I just try to stay silent
>He starts asking me yes or no questions, just nod or give thumbs up or shake my head
>Asks us where we both live
>ftm friend, he answers
>mohawk manlet (MM) looks at me dead in the face
>can't be rude
>Deep voice: "I uhh, I live in New York"
>"Ohhhhhh it's a dude hahahaha damn bro you look like a lady, that's funny"
>"Y-yeah I wanted to see how far I could go with this"
>end scene

>>6601979
male dress makes you look like a tomboy but you still pass well

>>6632483
Looks like it's time for you to start working on your voice

>>6632571
thanks!
>>6632702
yea maybe but how to do so without embarrassing myself.
What do I use to practice?

>>6632742
Start with recording yourself so you can know what you sound like, once you get to a plce you feel you can't really improve much on your own, either post in a voice thread to get critiques, or talking in your girl voice over skype or some other voice chat with friends and have them help you keep the voice up

>>6632742

If you want to use a program use any phone tuner to determine the Hz, but if you really want to use a program, use WASP: http://www.phon.ucl.ac.uk/resource/sfs/wasp.php

Wasp is great because you can see the resonance, which is an equal, if not greater part of your voice than just pitch (hz)

>>6632790
WASP sounds awesome, I'll try it. Thanks!
>>6632778
Sounds pretty good, I guess I would prefer something where I have to listen to myself as little as possible

>>6632778
Oh, thanks for your help too, it was kind of rude of me to not thank you also.

>>6632837
Well it's best if you have an idea of how you sound so you can adjust accordingly, it's kind of irritating at first but you get used to it

Though if you have an android phone you can also try out this app (https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=de.lilithwittmann.voicepitchanalyzer&hl=en) called Voice Pitch analyzer. It's built for training your voice and tracking progress, though it's really only good for telling you if your pitch is okay not so much your inflections or your resonance

>>6632853
No problem I'm glad to help ^_^

>>6632837
>>6632790
>>6632778
Praat is also great but kinda hard to get used to. You can see basically anything about your voice that you want although you probably will have to use guides and stuff to figure it out.

>>6632888
yeah i've been using praat, but i've only been using it for pitch, can you also see y o ur resonance with it?

>>6632888
http://www.fon.hum.uva.nl/praat/

Also its cross platform

>>6632906
you can see "formants" which are measurements resonance. Supposedly F3 is the one you want to pay attention to for what we consider resonance.

Here's a study about the differences in formants between male and female speakers.
https://halshs.archives-ouvertes.fr/file/index/docid/764811/filename/Article_Pepiot_RJC_2012_-_Pre-Print.pdf

In praat you can go to "formants" ->"show formants" then select the area and then go to "get 3rd formant"

desu WASP would probably be easier unless you either have a mac or you wanted to get into a lot of detail to like fine tune your voice.

>>6632944
Praat is old as shit and hard to use so I didn't mention it. I haven't used wasp in a while, can it show the formants as well? I thought it could...

>>6631447
>Be gay boy in 3rd grade
>Pull my friend's shorts in front of some girls
>Scar him for life

It makes sense that I wanted to see him in his underwear, so I did it as "a joke" Basically, I identify with your bully :/

>>6630865
You're a good person and I'd like to thank you for making someone feel or act more normal or confidant

>>6585010
The children of the 30-50 woman are fucking horror movie material.

>>6630794
are you insane? far easier to pass from behind

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Probably the shitiest story here but meh
>be me 19 MtF fag
>driving to jfk museum
>think google maps has got my back
>fuck up directions
>hit a toll booth
>in boimode cause im eternal hon destined to make the suicide statistic
>go through and ask how much
>pay
>older dad looking guy
>"have a nice day honey :)"
>stare at him and he keeps smiling that fathery smile
>end up having a good laugh
>get to the museum
>go in to get ticket
>mom asks me if i have my student id cause discount
>tell her i stopped carrying it
>i forgot sorry
>:/ really
>guy smiles no worries where do you go to school :)
>k....
>start to speak
>dudebro voice cause hon
>he loses all interest

well that was nice while it lasted :)

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>>6596407
>The NHS wants me to do this for two years before they prescribe me hormones

>>6631325
but how will be people know i'm a tru tranny (i.e. a true womanly female) if i don't insult disugusting straight male fetishists?

>>6631494
the only way to tell if you pass is to go out in mens' clothes. if you still get called miss and ma'am, you pass. otherwise you don't

>inb4 e-even cis girls don't pass if they're not wearing makeup and womens' clothes!!

>>6634386
Lie your way through it. Only show up in girlmode on appointments. That's how i did it until i started got hrt.

>>6634485
>the only way to tell if you pass is to go out in mens' clothes. if you still get called miss and ma'am, you pass. otherwise you don't
This kills the ftm

Does this count?
>be at big company party
>in girls room
>about to walk into a stall and one of the other girls freaks out and says "That one has no toilet paper! Don't go in!" even though I just need to pee and don't need it
>I awkwardly process it for about 2 seconds then go "Oh thank you for the warning! and move to the next stall over

I can't tell how well I pass at work. I pass out in public and with anyone who met me after transition just fine, but I transitioned at this place a few years ago and so some of the people who have been there awhile know I'm trans, but I don't know how common knowledge that is.

>>6584395
>also earlier that week someone was asking me for tampons.
I know this life

>>6636463
Why would it matter? If you dress the way you want to dress and you pass then you pass.

>20/mtf, pre hrt
>Pass about half the time, more if I dress up nice.
>have friends who don't bring up passing
>Never think I'm passing until I get catcalled
>Flattered but also scared

It doesn't help that it's always huge douchebags with cross tattoos who would probably beat me to a pulp if they found out I am Trans. I actually understand why CIS women don't feel safe after dark.

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>>6637041
>feminine looking person
>wears male clothes
>more than not gets gendered female/dyke
It's great for mtfs, sucks for ftms.

Honestly, if more mtfs dressed like soft butch or tomboys early in transition they'd be better off since society, especially liberal leaning, already clicks that as a female style.

>>6637562
Yeah, I see what you're getting at. I've played that high stakes game if "FtM or Butch"
That being said, for many Mtf people the Butch thing doesn't work. I'm leggy and an avid cyclist, it's way more effective for me to leverage the legs and butt than pretend to be GQ or Butch.

>>6634361
>not practicing your voice
for what purpose

>>6630865
if I ever see a tranny in public I'm going to laugh and a point at them because I hate trannies and hate myself for being one

>>6642681
I don't see the point if I'm an eternal hon. It's like buying games for a system you don't own. What's the point lol.

>>6643171
at least you'll pass as an ugly girl instead of just a weirdo in a dress

>>6643175
I won't take an ugly girlmode. I'm an all in kind of person. Either I'm gorgeous or I stay a boy, non of that inbetween shit lmao

>>6630727
>friend : "it's because you didn't know her before"
I would've killed your friend... fucker basically outed you.. you don't out other people, major dick move.

>>6592256
>>6592487
>>6592941
THIS.

Don't be a pussy. Have some motherfucking courage. Sing along.

I just wanted to say that I read all the stories, don't feel ignored because there is no reply to your post.

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>>6618287

>7 or so years back
>When your drunk friend pats your head and says 'hair so soft' or something like that.

Not lgbt, just stumbled on the topic from the main page. If I was gay or a woman then yeah that'd have been great because dude was tall down to earth self-deprivating handsome guy all the girls wanted and all the guys wanted to be.

Also had him and other friends freshman year scold me for trying to participate in/help break up a brawl that developed because if I had gotten hurt they would have murdered the guys. Guess I have/had a sort of sincere fragility and sweetness about me. Was touching and just a little patronizing but I didn't mind, was more amused.

>>6643188
Practice your voice anyways. One day you'll get to that point. Over enough time, the hormones can do cause subtle changes and you'll eventually pass. And then, when you realize you look like a 35 year old woman, you'll cry because you have a disgusting man voice.

>>6651979
this tbqh
voice will help you pass anyway if you're on the edge or even look sort of manly, because in cis people's minds, a man can never talk like a woman and vice versa
you can still use your man voice if you feel uncomfortable with using it, but you should still practice it so you got it down for when it's actually time
>>6643188

>>6614535
>>6614535
Those are really nice pants! where did you get them?

>>6615257
>Me, 3rd year
>lost in the back half of the school looking for the print shop.
>run into guy I took a philosophy class in first year with.
>he doesn't recognize me at first
>6 months HRT will do that
>had a crush on him when I met him.
>tfw he's taller then me.
>tfw he's a dark and brooding athiestfag and im a joyful intervarsityfag.
>Tfw it'd never work.
>he asks me what I'm doing
>tell him i'm lost
>he directs me to the print shop and we start walking down the same hallway.
>come to a intersection, look both ways to not run into anyone
>he thinks im going to go the wrong way
>puts his hand across my back to my opposite shoulder and gently steers me the proper way.
>look up at him as he doing this
>he's horrified, he knows this isnt how bros touch bros
>cant stop, his body's already moving
> momentum presses me close to him
>tfw he smells so good
>facing the right way, decide to get out while the getting is good
>smile and tell him thank you as I scamper to the print shop
>felt good whole day

>>6652132
>>6651979
again i could care less about my voice. if i look like shit now even when im 35 that shit isn't gonna change. id rather just be a feminine looking guy then trade one shit life with no relationship for another shit life with no relationship + where even though im an ugly girl i have a dick too with mental problems to boot. ill keep the shitty femboy/closeted tranny life until i join the suicide statistic lol. the fucked up part is ive already decided when now im tryna decide on how to go out cause guns laws in mass make u jump through hoops on hoops to just get a simple pistol, probably will end up with either the good ol wirst slits in the tub or car in the garage

https://discord.gg/r2KfK

>calling AAA for a tow.
>and for verification what is your name mam?
>Robert

>>6577992
:(

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>>6593045
I like you

>>6596551
You should kill yourself and get a good nights sleep anon....

>>6596947
Hey... Whoever you are Anon... I like you

>>6598940
No, seriously, kill yourself

>>6654940
Cute

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>>6616878
lol yep anon we got the same genes or something. Got the weird eye skew and everything

>>6618827
Your FW tou cant trade with anyone....

>>6655674
Does every mantranny have that? I do too, and so does my giant manly (cis? Maybe ftm? Who knows???) gf.

>at restaurant with family
>waitress taking our orders
>says she'll start with the ladies
>takes my sister's order then skips over me and takes my mom's
>then moves on to my sister's husband
>once she moves onto me she gets all flustered and apologizes saying she didn't see me there
>everyone laughs except for me
I don't know if this was a passing or unpassing story. I haven't really had any other awkward situations besides myself being paranoid about what people that I see looking at me are thinking and the times I've been outed by medical staff.

>>6631514
LEARN TO TUCK

>>6655113
Look. Maybe you're as hopeless as you say you are. But you've seen Robina Asti, right? When she started, she was the honniest hon to have ever honned. Now she just looks like an old lady.

If you keep taking mones, you will pass somewhere along the line, even if you're an old ass lady. That was my point.

I don't know your situation though. Maybe you're a broke 60 year old just starting transition, and you look awful and will probably die of old age before you pass. I don't know. But practicing your ladyvoice will not hurt you. At least in private or with your close friends or spouse or something. That doesn't change jack dick for you socially, but you have a head start for if you do need it eventually.

And like the other anon says, voice goes a long ass way to passing. My gf only gets gendered female because of her voice (she's a cis hon, they exist, and I love her anyway).

Tl;dr voice will help you pass, and even if you never pass it's not gonna be a detriment to your life to do it

>>6578021
impressed that you... had the money to pay for ice cream?

>>6655740
I'm sorry. Something like that would haunt me in my nightmares.

>>6655937
Ehh, it wasn't that bad. I just wonder if it even had anything to do with how I look or if it was just a simple mistake.

I love reading all of your stories, passing and unpassing.

I've finally got one to share myself now.

>MtF out with FtM spouse for dinner at sushi restaurant
>Dressed sort of andro, no makeup or anything, hair in a bad ponytail. Spouse didn't bother binding. We felt lazy.
>Took three times before either of us realized waiter was referring to me as miss and not the other half.
>Handed spouse the check when we were done, rather than me.

Surprising, but pleasantly so. Maybe it's because I have a soft/quiet voice even when I'm not bothering and the other half has always sounded kinda like a dude even before T.

Almost makes you wonder why you bother "Trying" when more often than not passing happens when you aren't giving a shit.

>>6602113
>a family that loves you
Not that anon but many people who come out as trans get disowned by their family. Myself included.

>>6602276
>wore a two piece on the water rides and no one batted an eye
H O W
Are you post op? I'm terrible at tucking and have an obvious bulge in basically everything i wear. I hate that I can't go girlmode anywhere because of it (3 months hrt and soon boobies will show so idk what to do anymore)

>>6615166
If I were in your position I would have gone and apologized to her for the dickbags behavior. Transgirls are precious maidens that need to be protected and loved

>>6619308
>sperg out on booth with a bunch of precious stones
I like you. People make fun of me for basically this same thing.

>>6630865
If more people were like you, the world would be a much better place.
I want to move to somewhere in Scandinavia some day, everything I hear it's so much better than where I live now...

>>6654940
Stories like this make me hate that I'm tall. (6'0) all I want is a nice tall boy to treat me like a little lady... Too bad that's never gonna happen ;-;

>>6661134
Not trans, but I'm 6'2" and it's a struggle living in Cali where everyone is 5'.
>tfw all the tall guys you know look like stick figures
>tfw you will never have a bara manfriend

>>6618296
Team mystic ftw desu senpai.

I wish I could copy team valor's leader look on my avatar though.

>>6618171
>box of dum dums he gives people I guess
b-butterscotch plz...

>>6601975
>>6601979
Typical transbian.jpg

Saved for future reference/transbian shaming.

>mtf 3 months hrt
>have long hair past my shoulders
>take really good care of hair so it looks shiny and silky
>look like a boy with pretty girl hair
>walking home from bothers place
>he lives in the ghetto
>6-7 kids between 10-13 (mostly black) playing basketball outside
>walk by them fast but they still zone in on me
>they start pointing and I hear "lol wtf is that a boy or a girl?"
>they start following me
>they realize I'm a boy and start calling me faggot and a bunch of other shit while laughing
>I cross the street to a take the rail road tracks which is a shortcut to my house
>they stop and shout "why you running away fag?"
>can't take anymore of this and turn around and say to them "Yeah at least I don't live in the ghetto like you broke ass niggers" then give them the finger
>they literally start jumping around stomping all mad and shit like monkeys
>one brave little nigger runs full force towards me and starts throwing rocks but I'm pretty far down the tracks at this point
>laugh at him and fat walk the fuck outta there


>2 years later
>still don't think I pass despite family and friends telling me otherwise
>really depressed one day and take a walk down those same tracks to this little bridge my grandfather used to take me to fish
>sit there and cry for awhile
>thinking about suicide
>see two guys walking down the tracks in the distance
>quickly dry my eyes cuz men don't cry
>just look forward at the water
>one of them says "hey what's your name and what are you doing out here alone?"
>tell him my name nervously and say I'm kinda sad and I come here to think
>he says "oh ok then, if you want we have some beers and a joint we were gonna smoke at BAB (it's a local party spot you have to take the tracks to get to) if you wannna come
>politely decline and they go on their way
>think nothing of it and come back a few days later to chill and see something engraved in the wood
"hey sad girl sorry I forgot your name, call me --> telephone number

>>6661146
For me it's weird. I don't find myself attracted to men sexually or romantically most of the time, but when one is as tall as me or taller and strong or manly and treats me like a lady... i dunno i cant really describe it but i love it either way. I've only had it happen a few times, one was an old friend who moved away :(

I go on hikes for photography with one of my coworkers that i'm stealth with (although i bet he's clocked me by now) and i have fantasies about twisting my leg or something and him having to carry me or ride on his back or something, since hes massive like 6'6 and works out a lot, and he acts chivalrous towards me... god im such a fag someone kill me already...

>>6661326
That second story is cute.
Fuck those nigger kids though

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qgk2A4a6HFs
>You will never be with the most whimsy of SOs
The 2:40 mark killed me.

>>6661533
btw these two aren't trans in any way possible but I just want this to happen.

>>6645402
yeah, sadly it's not the first time he did that, gonna have a talk with him soon i think.

Also new story

>still now 16 month HRT
>have 5 month gf
>she still leave with her parents
>often talk with her brother
3 day ago
>gf and her brother are a bit drunk, and start talking about everything
>gf start talking about me being trans
>her brother is like "whut, i didn't even notice, well her voice is like a the one of a german athlete on steroid but never thought it was this"
>mfw she told me that

>Just under 5 months hrt
>out for dinner with mother and Fiancée after coming out to my mom
>In andro mode because I don't leave the house in girl mode and don't want to freak out mother
>Waiter comes over "are you ready to order, ladies?"
>Mother doesn't hear
>Consistently get called ladies that that night by the staff
>she doesn't hear every time
>Ask the waiter for the drink list
>he doesn't hear me so he puts his hand on my back and leans in close
>hears my voice
>steps back immediately
>tries to play it cool

Also a few days prior

>In work
>Normal boy clothes, jeans and shirt.
>Boss is in this today for some reason. He's here maybe a few times a year
>notice something's up
>Some guys come into the shop while I'm standing at the counter
>One calls to get my attention
>"Sorry love"
>Boss starts staring daggers at me

>>6662039
why staring daggers?

>>6615896
what age did you start?

>>6618194
kek, i'll remember that if that ever happens to me