>Women are "above" labels but only want to date

>>5793238
Hello TYT

>opt out of traditional labels
wtf is that even suppose to fucking mean

>>5793247

it means they don't want to be labelled.
but they don't mind labelling you.

>>5793253

It's like with "fat positive" women who don't want to date short men.

>>5793238
Huh. Didn't really expect to ever see a TYT screenshot on 4chan.
Weird.

>>5793253
"Sleeping with another man" isn't a label, it's an objective trait.

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>>5793238
>Will they ever learn that what goes on in your life is more important than what goes on in your head?

A college girl these days could look at a gay couple that actually has to deal with homophobia, and see two cis*privileged white men - and then look at a heterosexual family and see a terribly oppressed pansexual xir/xim/xis agender person.

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>>5793238
>Huffington Post

>>5793238
>even straight girls don't want biscum
topkek

>>5793323
>A college girl these days could look at a gay couple that actually has to deal with homophobia, and see two cis*privileged white men - and then look at a heterosexual family and see a terribly oppressed pansexual xir/xim/xis agender person.
It's possible for a homosexual family to be more oppressed than a heterosexual one - homophobia isn't the only form of oppression.

>>5793362
>homophobia isn't the only form of oppression

I never said that homophobia is the only form of oppression. But these girls are like the sexual version of white women who "identify" as black.

>>5793358
>>even straight girls don't want biscum

The point is, that they don't see themselves as straight, tho. That's the problem.

Straight girls who think that they are part of the same "queer" community as people who are actually gay.

I'm a bi girl leaning lesbian and I think this shit is stupid too. None of these girls are anything but heterosexual but think because they don't want the "average fuckboy" type, they're suddenly gay or something.
And then they go on to implicitly say that bisexual men are not worth dating.

>>5793238

I imagine most of this is yeah, women are women, but what portion do you think is attributable to perceived HIV risks? Forgive me if that is ignorant but my understanding is STDs are higher in the gay/bi male community.

>>5793403
Saying you don't want to label yourself isn't the same as claiming to be LGBT.

>>5793644
>Saying you don't want to label yourself isn't the same as claiming to be LGBT.

This is special snowflake bullshit.
>I'm 1/64 Cherokee and not heterosexual or any other label

>>5793665
If you're claiming to not fit the DEFINITION of heterosexual, then you're claiming to be /lgbt/. If you just say "I prefer not to label myself" then you're not.

>>5793675

Even more special snowflake bullshit.
You ARE male if you want it or not.
You ARE white if you want it or not.
You ARE heterosexual if you want it or not.

"Opting out of labels" is tumblrina shit.

>>5793679
It's still not equivalent to claiming to be attracted to the same sex. And most cis people DO "opt out", they don't personally identify as cis, even though they are.

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>>5793238
Every day I thank the creator for not having to deal with the same bullshit that straight men do.

>>5793697
Excuse me, we prefer the term normal.

>>5793782
Normal is too vague, it doesn't specify that you're talking specifically about "normal in the sense of having a gender identity consistent with one's assigned sex".

Not even a little surprising.
What entitled, hypocritical cunts.

glad I'm gay desu

>TheWayIRage2 hours ago
>CONTROVERSIAL Idea here: Many female millennials, including myself, aren't gay but are sexually attracted to women, because we grew up watching porn. Not saying no one couldn't naturally be bisexual, but I believe thats the answer to your double standard. Because if they were genuinely bi they would completely understand even sympathize with bi men...but instead its a thing of disgust. Thats because in porn, women are the central focus, even when its 2 guys and 1 girl. Very rarely will those 2 guys do things to each other. I argue that the perversion that was intended for men has been extended to young girls growing up and watching porn. Which is why women can't say they're 100 percent straight. But there is something severely wrong if the guy they are considering for a mate can't do the same. Aka we've been brainwashed into accepting the female as a sexual object for all but men are supposed to be the ones in "control" if you will and be more respectable than, to put it bluntly, get fucked. Of course this in no way applies to strictly gay or lesbian people. Just a thought.

Why is your generation so fucking terrible and have to come up with bullshit excuses to justify itself?

>>5793238

That's one of the reasons why I don't hang out in modern feminist groups anymore, and instead just stick with other lesbians. If you go to these kind of college feminist groups, you'll meet dozens of women who talk about "toxic masculinity" and all, but after the meeting is over, only date the most "toxic" of men. Or they just talk about how they are strong enough in their feminism to be a slave for their "Master" all the time.

I hate to admit it, but sometimes I can understand men who say that straight women mean yes when they say no, and mean the opposite of what they say, and that they are subconsciously only interested in dominant macho men.

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fuck women and their fickle desires

except not literally because full homogay is the master race

That's gay.

Gets fucked

>TYT
Quality journalism rivaled only by Buzzfeed.

>>5793392

Being transblack is a valid thing you bigot.

>>5793832
what a grammatical nightmare jesus fucking christ

>>5793238
Bis BTFO thread.

It just drives more bi guys to cheat on women so who cares lol
Women oppressing women, what's new....

>>5796832
Being cheated on isn't a form of oppression. That would imply you have a right to control what your partner does, and that's equivalent to slavery.

Still keking

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>>5794860

>be me
>be a lesbian
>come out to straight "friends" / acquaintances
>said friends all girly with homophobic dudebro boyfriends
>all friends say that they aren't straight either but [insert some tumblr BS]

Sometimes I think that coming out as gay is easier than coming out as a lesbian.

>>5793268
Not if "man" is a subjective label.

>>5796855
They wouldn't cheat as much if women didn't vilify male bisexuality.

>>5793832
Holy shit that's the most stupid thing I've read in this year so far.

>>5793268
but a label is a representation of a trait

It sucks trying to date as a dyke because of these idiots. Do you know how many fucking women say they're "queer" or "beyond labels" when they're actually 100% straight and just want to seem progressive? Fucking all of them if you live in a liberal enough area. I literally wasted my time on OKCupid dates with these fuckers and got told at the end "Sorry, I'm not feeling it. But don't feel bad! I haven't really met a girl I'm attracted to yet. But I'm like, open to it, you know?"

Fuckers.

The only thing worse than them are the girls who are bi enough to fuck you but who refuse to actually date women because they're either not that gay or scared of coming out and actually living as an LGBT person, and they're never upfront about it.

And then you have those same fucking straight women going "Oh are you SURE you're totally gay? Sexuality is fluid!!"

>>5799919

Never thought I'd see a lesbian type something like this. (That other lesbians (other women) could actually be flawed.)

You've changed my perspective.

t. a male homosexual

>>5793832
DERP YOUR GAY DEAL WITH IT. NOT FROM PORN.

>>5799919
>current year
>dating non-lesbians

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>>5799919
Ugh this is the worst. A favorite is when they say they're "heteroromantic demisexual". So basically straight. I met a girl like that once.

>see qt grill
>go to talk to her
>she goes on about how she's queer
>actually some kind of tumblr gender
>claims she's trans and agender
>wat
>weird fucking pronouns
>she's like 30
>nope out of there

It's like they want to be LGBT so bad they'll come up with any amount of weird bullshit to try and justify their claiming of the label. Did someone release a memo saying we handed out jackets or coupon books or something? Is it just some exclusive club that everyone is dying to get in and I didn't know it? In my experience, women like this are totally the type to obnoxiously talk over everyone, as well.

I hate the "sexuality is fluid!" thing, too. I get that a lot. Then whenever you challenge them and ask them if they would ever date a woman/mtf/ftm/plantkin/whatever they always giggle and say they're "100% straight". It makes me feel like girls who are like that low key wish I would "turn" straight.

Swear to fucking god It's bullshit.

>mfw I put up with all this shit on the regular and I just want a pretty, normal woman to date who doesn't want to talk to me about her feminist discourse or feminine discharge

>>5799935
Boy do I have some news for you, friendo.

>>5800130
well, sexuality is fluid, that means it can change within your life

so saying that sexuality is fluid and saying that you're 100% straight or homo at the same time is no contradiction

>>5800130
>Is it just some exclusive club that everyone is dying to get in and I didn't know it? In my experience, women like this are totally the type to obnoxiously talk over everyone, as well.

I'm 99% sure these women spend all their time talking about privilege on Tumblr and claim the LGBT label because they want to be an oppressed minority and that's the only one they can "reasonably" claim. They'll even try to train that they're ultra oppressed because nobody acknowledges that their demisexual heteromantic sexuality is a real oppressed thing. (Maximum rage whenever one of them claims this.)

>It makes me feel like girls who are like that low key wish I would "turn" straight.
Yeah, I get the same impression.

>>5799909
Yes but labels are a lot more subjective. And orientation labels are based on attraction, not behavior.

>>5800130
>heteroromantic demisexual
w-what if i think i'm bisexual but i'd only ever want to date a girl? am i straight special snowflake scum?

>>5800899
Is it for 'external' reasons (e.g. you're male and don't want to deal with the stigma / HIV risk)? Then it doesn't affect your orientation. If you mean you're sexually attracted to both sexes but only romantically interested in women, you're a heteroromantic bisexual. (Assuming you're a guy, obviously if you're a girl you'd be a homoromantic bisexual instead).

>>5800937
nah it's that i think men are gross, although sometimes i just want to get plowed. until i cum and then it's over

>>5800156
>well, sexuality is fluid, that means it can change within your life
i doubt that. cases where people shift their attraction throughout their life from men to women and/or the other way around are adequately explained with them being bisexual. preferences and taste can and does change throughout life.

>>5800950
sounds like you recently discovered your attraction to cocks? if so then give it some time.

>>5799935
>Never thought I'd see a lesbian type something like this. (That other lesbians (other women) could actually be flawed.)

Then you don't know many lesbians...

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