How do trans people cope with knowing they'll never date/be

Stopy whining. I'm not even fulltime and found a bf who isn't even a chaser. Alnost no sex until srs but if that's what you want you might aswell go whore yourself out. And Ilive in a small town too, all I had to do is go to other places. I have to travel for 2 hours, but that's nothing if you ask me.

>>5177563
I'm from a small town and gay, too. Finding a bf that I could actually like as a person who doesn't continuously misgender me won't be an option, even if I found one who'd put up with zero sex.

>>5177548
>How do trans people cope with knowing they'll never date/be loved again?
Well, personally, I went out and had a lot of dates and fucks and then eventually settled on one hell of a good date and fuck. But you know, you can be a whiny bitch if that's what you're into.

>>5177619
>a lot of dates

I live in a municipality with 7 000 people in it.

>>5177609
>>5177723

And I live in one with 9000ppl. Move your ass, it's not like you have to stay there 24/7

>>5177746
I don't have a car and I can't afford to travel constantly.

Besides, if dating sites don't have anything I want, why would randomly wandering around the streets?

>>5177723
I went from 10k to 50k to 350k just move
and now down to 160k with gf

>>5177763
You went on 160k dates?

I don't know where I'll be getting into school, if I will.

I've found one guy on a dating site from my town who's interested in me but he's like 6-7 years older than me and I'm honestly not attracted to him at all.

They need to concentrate on psychotherapy instead of indulging in their degenerate sex

>>5177789
I don't even like sex.

I can't do it sober at all and even if I'm drunk there's a 50% chance I'll cry.

>>5177755
Basically you are whining without even trying . People like you aren't worth anyones time. Have a nice life.

>>5177828
What do you want me to do?

I live on a pension. Do you want me to blow my rent money on chasing after men that I don't want, who also don't want me?

I just need to figure out a way to make the urge go away. Be content with dying alone.

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>>5177548
I ended up convincing myself that I'm human garbage to the point that nothing hurts anymore

>>5177835
trip on edgar

>>5177844
Sorry bud, I'm not well versed enough in the language of internet memes to understand your insult

>>5177835
I'm almost there but it still hurts. Alcohol doesn't help.

>>5177856
I'm sorry, it's not an insult. I just confused you for someone else.

>>5177548
weight up firstly
>asking 4chan
>site filled with so many awkward betas
I'm sure plenty of posters here were just as alone before transition, it's all a matter of presentation no one is going to go out of their way for you unless you're an 11/10 or rich as fuck, trans or not

>>5177923
You think I don't do anything about it, just sitting on my ass and waiting for someone to ask me out?

I've asked our literally every single guy I've found attractive since I was 14. 66% have been taken. The last one just wasn't interested.

>>5177958
you know that you're essentially saying because one guy wasn't interested that and others were taken means to you that you've done everything and there's nothing left to do

>>5178004
Well, it's also thursday. I have gone through four days of this week, 100% of the days so far. It is physically impossible for me to live more days in a week than there has been, and it's physically impossible for me to pursue more guys than I encounter.

>>5178080
you are aware that this isn't an issue exclusive to you or trans people right? it's like applying for 3 jobs in a month and complaining because you're still unemployed

>>5178148
>there have only been three open places for jobs I am capable of doing
>you should apply for jobs you are incapable for

You can't solve a famine by eating rocks. I can have guys I don't like. I want either one I would actually tolerate, or a way to make do without.

>>5178162
you could apply for a job cherry picking, you're pretty good at that, try lowering your massive superficial standards sweetie or as you said learn to make do without

>>5178241
Is wanting to date someone I would find in any imaginable way appealing too much to ask?

I can't imagine most guys enjoying dating someone who'll make a sport out od avoiding sex by any means necessary.

>>5178283
who cares lol. just bend over and date whoever fucks dat bp best.

>>5178301
I don't think I want to date anyone who's capable of doing it while I'm crying, either.

>>5178312
then fucking die alone, jesus. Its clearly what you want.

>>5178314
>how do I be ok with dying alone
>date ppl
>I can't date ppl
>omg die alone

10/10 we've made it back in square one and my original question will remain unanswered because all y'all attention spans were splurged on derailing the conversation

>>5177548
Just be yourself dude :)

>>5178460
But I'm trying to AVOID being unhappy.