Nobody can seem to give me some type of advice
>I'm turning 30 soon
>Make roughly six figures and govt takes a big chunk
>Moved half way across the country for my career
>Ended up becoming successful and finally finding happiness
>After a few years of having a lot of money you see that I'm still alone
>I have nothing but a career
>I'm a workaholic
>I work a lot, and have dedicated my life to a career
>I just want a gf, or a friend again
>But these days I find reasons for not making friends
>I have no idea what to do anymore
>The nightly /kino/ nights aren't helping either
>Just cant take my mind off of being alone anymore
In Japan people like me are called salary men. These are men who spend their whole life working for a company
>>77884393
Practice making online friends, then make real life friends
Be wary of "buy me things" """friends"""
I'll be your friend, if you tell me your employment occupation.
>>77884393
gimme your bank account details I will fix everything to you mah email is
[email protected].
Thanka u in advance.
>>77884682
IT engineer
>>77884393
order a russian trap online
>>77884393
Your unconcious seemas to be signaling you want to move to the Netherlands. Give it all up, cash out your assets and start a new life.
>>77884729
If you buy me a ps4 i will be your friend forever.
>>77884874
Ping me your digits
I'll send you mine....
>>77884888
I'm afraid to put my personal info on 4chan, how would I get around this?
>>77884914
Temp email
OP, you like tanks?
>>77884963
I'm autistic in the IT field
Frankly, I like everything from vehicles to technology
I have just never spent time building relationships with people. I'm in a high up role btw and people look up to me, but they don't know about my isssues
I've been called a prodigy since I was young, but people just didn't understand I was autistic
I have been told to go seek therapy......
>>77885083
I have to be honest, I might talk to you for one day but I am a very cold person. I'm not capable of making friends, just socialize normal but no friends and everyone who meets me understand
>>77885008
Yes, but do you LIKE tanks? Could you hold a conversation about tanks? Would you be willing to play a shitty game if it was tank based?
>>77885113
Same, I hate talking to people
>>77885153
You misunderstand, I like people I can't make friends..
I even talk to people who are strangers when I am in a good mood...
Hit the gym
You like anime, op?
>>77885235
No, I'm a different type of nerd..
>>77884393
did someone say aquafresh?
i say go traveling
talk to people
if you meet me i'll buy you a coffee
we'll have conversations about trivial stuff
then you go to your next destination and something similar will happen
just don't go to tourist traps
>>77885245
>dit is wat normaaltjes denken
>>77885310
Was meant for >>77885277
Well I tried
>>77885331
so a beer for you then?
Therapy may not be bad idea, to talk through how you got this isolated. It's odd for this to happen even with an autist.
Get off here and meet people outside work so you can fail in low stakes places. Making friends is just common interests and progressively sharing more. Your biggest risk will be over sharing or over thinking things.
Good luck
>>77884393
Make friends at work
Go out to the bar with co-workers and talk shop. It's a start.
>>77884393
What state?
>>77885759
Colorado...
>>77885868
Ebin, we'll have to tell stories and shoot the shit at my favorite bar if you get the chance, I got a few friends here in Salt Lake, so it'll be a good time