why are some people ashamed of looking at things?
i was and avoided looking at things and people. some inner voice berated me for having the gall to stare.
i started looking at things and i love art more, and my eyesight returned.
i feel like more people than i think suffer from this. an appreciation of beauty but strong shame?
>look at some chad's woman
>woman notices you
>woman tells chad
>chad approaches you
>>3103431
Staring at people is the equivalent of interacting with them and interacting with people is scary.
>>3103695
When I walk down the street I like looking at what cars people drive. But I don't. Because I don't know what to do when the passengers look back at me.
I like to follow women down dark alleyways at night. The chicks are usually into it.
>>3103695
>interacting with people is scary.
Please elaborate.
>>3103755
ok.
>homeless man approaches me
>sputter some combination of nos and sorrys very fast
>smalltalked by clerk
>sputter something in a frenzy
>stranger points out something they like about me
>sputter some thanks and scurry away
anything else you need to know?
>>3103773
How do you evaluate a situation generally? I usually know based on what city I'm in, what sort of types I'm going to encounter. You mentioned class-based over-familiarity, but what about other qualifiers? For example, I don't shy away from people in German colonies but I consciously come out of my shell in more Swiss or British areas. That is because the people outside my hometown are more 'near to me' than those within it.
>>3103773 what a massive ego you must have to think that strangers around you give a shit about you, judging you, gauging you. such hubris. get over yourself you little bitch
>>3103695
I have always felt like people can read my thoughts when there is eye contact, and since my brain is such a cheeky little cunt, I started to get these inappropriate intrusive thoughts, usually sexual or aggressive when I was making eye contact. And people can tell, no doubt. Having a brain is hard.
>>3103431
Our eyes go to the things we want
If we look at something its because we want it
We are predators
>>3103659
>Oh hey dude bro ski dawg, you guys are a banging super dupe couple, was just drawing you while we chilllaxed in this underground quizno, feel me senpai?
just learn how to speak their language and it works out.