I don't think I press hard with my pen but I'm replacing

Switch to flex nibs. They last forever.

>>2800700
You can buy the standard black nibs for very cheap in bulk on Aliexpress.

How rough is the tablet surface?
If it's a new tablet they often give it a bit of texture and it acts as sandpaper for nibs

After a few months of drawing it will be worn down and your nibs will last forever

Have you tried using spaghetti as nibs?

>>2800700
i just use toothpicks, and yes, you're pressing too hard and your wrist gonna resent it soon.