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Is it normal to like the idea of sucking and fucking a guy but

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I'm just wanting to know if it is only me who experiences this I really like the idea of sucking dick but I'm not attracted to other men at all.

I have never had any gay sexual experience but would love to suck dick but don't know how to go about it was should I do.
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by definition, you're attracted to men at least somewhat if you're attracted to their cocks and or the idea of sucking them

I think I know what you mean though. You don't see guys and think "wow, he's hot!" but you can see a nice dick and want to suck it. I'm in the same boat.

Just download Grindr and make a profile without a picture (if you're concerned about staying anonymous) saying you want to suck dick. My name was "discreet mouth" for a while. You'll probably have to send at least a body pic before anyone will agree.

As for diseases, sucking dick is pretty low-risk unless you swallow, so be sure to ask them to tell you when they're gonna cum, unless you want to roll the dice.

Pic related: I blow this guy at school once in a while.
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>>1557155
i ate pussy and im gay
so i guess?
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I find it just a massive turn on thinking about sucking dick but then I have thought about alctually getting in a realationship or dating a guy it doesn't feel right but I'm going to try get with a guy and try sucking cock to see if it's just a fantasy or actually doing it is what I want
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>>1557155
Just like this friend of mine; he's in a relationship with a girl but every now and then he feels the urge to find some guy on gridr and suck some dick off. He doesn't even care much about the appearance or age. He identifies ad bisexual even tho he would never have relationship with another guy; not because he's close minded about it, he just wouldn't feel like it.
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I guess I could concider myself bi then but I just love to give sexual favours girls which I have done and then guys which hasn't happened yet but I would just to try it

Do you's think it would be okay to ask my friend who is bi to let me suck him off and say it's was just to try it?
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>>1557186
I wouldn't straight up ask to suck his dick, unless you're comfortable doing that and you think he's into you, then it's probably the easiest way. Otherwise ask to hang out and bring it up or start watching porn or something, you won't know how gay you really are till you try it
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I think I'll just see what happens and if I get the chance to suck dick
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>>1557191
I mean you could also casually flirt with him in messaging or something like that, I don't know what kind of BI he is. Some guys are less comfortable being open with that stuff than others. All I know is that if I were that BI guy on the other side and someone wanted to suck my dick, I'd want them to tell me ASAP, guessing games are no fun when it comes to this stuff
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I'm on the exact same page as you it's something I really want to try
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All I can say is do it. I had the same feelings in high school and didn't act on them. Now, I'm married. Still want to know what it's like to suck a dick. I don't want to marry a guy or even get fucked. I regret it so bad. Ow and think about it a lot.
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>>1557221
Grindr
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Anyone have any stories of them sucking dick for the first time or some hot pics of guys sucking dick
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>Just download Grindr and make a profile without a picture (if you're concerned about staying anonymous)

This is so fucking stupid and a sure way to only attract literally the most disgusting guys out there. You do realize that straight people don't use Grindr right? If you have a face pic on there none of your buddies are gonna know about it, unless they themselves are on there, in which case they wouldn't dare say anything lest they reveal that they're on there as well. And if they do say something, then you could easily arrange a much safer dick-sucking hookup than rolling the dice on the internet.
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>>1557168
>As for diseases, sucking dick is pretty low-risk unless you swallow, so be sure to ask them to tell you when they're gonna cum, unless you want to roll the dice.

Stomach acid kills everything.
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>>1557285
But lacerations in the mouth and throat don't you fucking ignorant AIDS vector. OP don't get the cum in your mouth because nothing is 100% safe
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>>1557284
>straight people don't use Grindr
>implying gay people don't gossip
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>>1557292
>fucking ignorant AIDS vector.

noone has ever gotten aids from sucking dick
google it
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>>1557296
Oh I'm sorry! I meant HIV.

Even still you can get syphilis and chlamydia
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Anyone got some juicy dick pics for me to wank over
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I'd rather someone tell a good first time story. Dick pics are easy to cum by.
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>>1557301
>>1557303
do you lazy entitled pieces of shit think this is just someplace where you come to sit on your fat asses while people serve you hot pics and stories?
well, you're wrong.
it is a community where you don't get anything unless you give something.
start contributing or else get the fuck out.
and take your shitty, self-loathing thread with you.
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>>1557305
I did contribute something and if I had sucked a dick before I'd give a first time story but I haven't so I don't have a story to tell. Who the fuck made you the thread police anyway?
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just do it
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You will not enjoy sucking dick if you are not attracted to men. The man will be attached to it the whole time. You will be reminded of that fact constantly, and you may even be disgusted by the fact that he's getting off in your mouth.

Then again, the idea that you are hot for dick but not the humans who have dicks is laughable and suggests you're undergoing some kind of cognitive dissonance as you try to experiment while maintaining the "straight" identity that is so important to you.
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just for perspective: i'm 100% gay and yet i don't like sucking dick as much as i like "the idea" of sucking dick. it is an appealing concept until i go to do it and then i'm kinda... eh
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>>1557344
(i should note i love giving hand jobs though)
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go to a glory hole thats how i stared
i like to suck/be sucked//fuck/some times be fucked
but i don't like to kiss a guy
also a tranny is a start too
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>>1557329
sauce?
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>>1557357
a gloryhole is a great option
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>>1557338
Gotta say, this is actually a valid point. If you're going to suck dick then let go of this need to insist on being straight while you do it. You won't enjoy it at all if you're hung up on what it means, and while in the short term you'll think that means you're done experimenting, chances are good that the urge will come back.

Just try it out knowing that you're already sexually fluid for even considering it, but know that there's nothing wrong with that. Your masculinity is not diminished by having gay sex, oral or otherwise. If you can believe that then you will br able to have fun and be able to truly judge whether or not you like the act of phalatio.

Btw sucking dick doesn't have any inherent feeling behind it besides what you bring to it. Sucking dick is a lot like licking your arm in terms of taste. Having a dick in your mouth is objectively awkward logistically, but I find it psychologically fulfilling. If you don't like guys you probably won't feel that way. That's why you need to give up on this "I'm straight but want try sucking dick," mentality because then there's nothing for your mind to grab onto during sex with another man.

I have a "straight" fuckbuddy, so I know from his experience that the urge will come back even if you bail out of sex. He bailed out of a 3-way we had after he came then hit me up a bunch for 1-on-1 sex afterwards. His curiosity has grown from being a total big dicked bottom to now wanting me to bottom for him.

Tl;dr: don't be so hung up on hanging on to your straight identity. It isn't any better or worse than being somewhere else on the orientation spectrum.
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>>1557155
>sucking and fucking a guy but not being gay
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>>1557682
If you wanna quickly get all the STDs and get it over with yeah, otherwise hook up with someone you know or can trust instead of a hole in the wall with a random dick in it
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I have been really considering just asking my bi friend to let me try it because he is really open and we are quite close he might be dropping out of high school and going to collage which means it will be less likely to affect me in school

What do you guys think about this ?
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>>1557756
If you don't care about possibly coming out, go for it. If you want it to stay secret, Grindr hookup with someone at least 20 miles away. Think about the fact that you never have to see a random again... Bi friend might tell someone you might not want to know.
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>>1557756
>me in school
>high school

Go back to Minecraft, friendo
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Im in the same position as OP. I live in a city with a high quality bathhouse. Should I just go there one night and suck some dick or is that just a stupid idea?
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I love girls, but I like cock too. That is why I keep coming back on this board. However, I never saw a guy and thought, yeah, I want his cock. Never. I never got hard around guys, only around girls. When I sucked cock a few times, after a couple of minutes I loose interest and I just have a cock in my mouth. However, after a few months, I want it again. Now I want to try anal, but I can't find a decent guy in my area. Only creepy guys or idiots. Sometimes it is frustrating.
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I never really thought of doing anal but I can imagine it would be quite fun I have played with my ass before but I don't know if I would take a dick up there just need to take the first step and suck some dick
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>>1557221
where u from?
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So much bullshit in this thread.

Yes, >>1557155 , there are guys who get off on dicks and aren't interested in men. It's a thing and I hear of it often. It's peculiar because it *is* straight guys that have this thing.

There's no "one universal type" of way for males to take a sexual interest in other males. This thing OP is talking about, I've heard and the guys genuinely have no interest in the male body. From what I can tell, its something about the action. Not sure if its some sort of autogynephilia or if its something else.

This is the recurring problem, deliberate, with the notion of 'gay' being broadly interpreted to mean every sexual interaction between any male. It simply doesnt wash. If it did, there wouldnt be constant in-fighting.

So yeah OP. Apparently its a thing. Just like straight guys who get obsessed with their butts for some reason. Others prefer giving chicks oral to sex. Whole lotta strange shit out there.
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I'm a trans girl and alot of men who are dating me( trans women) they like sucking dick too, but aren't attracted to males.. pretty much all of them tell me this. So, I don't think it means you're gay. Idk. XD sexuality is complex , and fun.. . ;D
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Honestly I'm not too bothered about being labelled gay but at the age I'm at it is a big thing which I don't agree with which is what puts me off trying it
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>>1558797
What age is that?
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>>1557155
This is me. But I actually tried it a few times (with different type of people) and I just don't enjoy it. Sucking dick irl feels disgusting. And I hate asshole and no intend to bottom. Kissing was fun, that's all .
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>>1557334
>>1557347
Sauce pls for the love of cock
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>>1557284
I mean I guess if letting a random person suck your dick isn't gay? Best friend is straight and he doesn't mind getting his dick sucked for free sometimes. Specially in his town, chicks are scarce as fuck but apparently gay guys aren't.

>>Inb4 some retard says that's gay and has to google the definition of homosexual.
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>>1557704
>If you're going to suck dick then let go of this need to insist on being straight while you do it.

Oh look, the retard who doesn't know what gay means already posted.

Theres more than just "Oh I love men and that's why sucking dick makes me feel good."
Just because your psyche acts a certain way doesn't mean everyone elses does. For all you know, OP gets off on the idea of just losing control, or having his mouth used by a better man, or any number of stupid shit human beings come up with. None of that means he's gay, it's a kink. You can suck dick without being attracted to the same sex, much in the same way you can use a dildo without being emotionally attached to the dildo.

"Oh Dildo-senpai! I can't be without you anymore! Let's go get married!"
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>>1559398
I was just saying that if he's hung up on definitions and whether or not sucking dick is normal (literally the question posed in OP) will detract from enjoying (or not) the experience for what it is. I then shared an anecdote about my experience with a straight fuck buddy. The gist was that no matter where on the orientation spectrum he decides he is before, during, or after sucking dick he'll still be the same person. Whether that's straight, sexually fluid, bi, gay, etc. is really not a big deal. It's pretty likely he thinks that it is a big deal if he's asking if it's normal.
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>>1557285
>>1557292
>>1557296
HIV is possible yes. Even if he doesn't cum in your mouth, precum is enough to give you a bug. And in most of my cases the guy often precums a few minutes into the blowjob. If you're going to engage in sexual acts, understand the risks.
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>>1559398
A dick and a dildo are two different things though. Anons point still stands. If OP asked "is it okay to like butt play and getting pegged?" Or something to do with a dildo, then sure, that's just normal human kinkfuckery. But the point is that OP is curious about getting off ob sucking a dick specifically which are mostly only attached to men (Or rare cases, women). So that in itself is pretty gay. OP is curious about tasting a real cock attached to a real man and theres no "explanation of their psyche" that will dismiss the fact that he wants to perform a sexual act on a member of the same sex.
Anon was just suggesting the idea of saying "fuck it" and letting go of sexual labels and not getting hung up on justifying the want to suck a cock. If you want to suck a dick, stop insisting you're straight because it's just going to damage your head in the end
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Kik. Cocklover520
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Same here and sucked my first dick literally two hours ago with a story half the guys would probably envy me. It was pure luck.

>Bicurious
>Make Grindr profile without pic
>write some guys, but none of them interest me
>other profile without pic contacts me
>old4young (41)
>wants to pay 200$ for a BJ but won't send pics
>fuck it let's try it out without knowing who I am going to meet
>meet him
>really hot daddy type who lives in a high end apartment
>really nervous but he eases me up
>actually nice guy
>suck him off
>he compliments my dick (says it is relatively big)
>pays 200
>I leave
>maybe I'll go back

It wasn't completely for me but I liked the experience and now I know I am definitely Bisexual
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>>1557155
>I really like the idea of sucking dick but I'm not attracted to other men at all.
>>>/pol/
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>>1557155
That's why it is often referred to as a spectrum. There are SO MANY variables to sexual orientation, etc.. It is not as black and white as people make it out to be.
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>>1557155
>Is it normal to like the idea of sucking and fucking a guy but not being gay

If you ask the average person on the street they are going to say that anything other than missionary sex with a person of the opposite sex is "queer".
Jumping through all kinds of hoops to tell yourself that you're straight while having gay sex is normal for closeted people.
But it doesn't mean you're straight.
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sorry but you're gay buddy
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BAKA...idk who is worse, the conservative side oro the radical homo corner...read mofos...

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=heteroflexible
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>>1557185

This is me
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>>1557185
In the industry this is known as denial, I've run into many a straight who said exactly this but got all cuddly and lovey in bed after a right fuck.
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It's really sad how many guys think they should be able to have their cake and eat it too.
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Samish. I think we could call it bi-curious. I've never done anything but Its always been a hot fantasy of mine. I just can't bring myself to hook up with a guy though, I really do feel like a straight guy in every other way other than liking dicks in porn.
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>>1562875
So you're "straight" in all the ways except the one that matters: your sexuality? lol

I'll never understand you guys posting on a gay porn board, trying to convince people you're straight. Look at yourself for a moment. Really look.
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>>1562984

I never said I was straight, only that I felt straight most of the time because of my lack of attraction to guys in general. If I'm at the mall or school I'm not checking out guys or crushing on guys, only girls. A lot of bisexual are like me but they just hook up with guys anyway to get that dick, but I think because I'm the type of person that wants to like someone before I have sex with them, I've never been able to fuck a guy.

Its like I don't have an instinctual attraction to guys, but from watching porn I was able to see the appeal of gay sex, but it never made me outright attracted to men the same way I am to woman, if that makes sense.
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>>1562999
You're bisexual. Don't overthink it, it's a definition - not a lifestyle.
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>>1563021
Fucking this, god damn "straight guys" getting themselves so worked up about accepting their bisexality. Literally nothing changes about you except you fuck/date guys.
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>>1562999
>If I'm at the mall

Do people actually still go to "the mall"?
You sound like an old man from the '80s trying to pretend you're a young guy.
If you suck dick and take it in the ass then you're a fag.
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>>1557155
Curiosity is normal and lots of guys have had similar thoughts/experiences. Some guys have tried it, not liked it and ended up being straight. Some have liked it even though they aren't romantically interested in men, thus bisexuals.

Please be aware that these are the only two options. You aren't "straight but like to play with cock every now and then", and if you say you don't like labels then this just makes you a pussy as well as bisexual. These are just in the event that you end up sucking cock and liking it, because we don't need anymore of that "five billion sexual orientations" bullshit. You're straight, gay or bi.
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>>1563055
Yes, real people do, in fact, go to the mall. You'd know this if you unglued your eyes from the fucking computer screen sometime.
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>>1563021

The only reason I don't outright say I'm bi is because I'm not interested in dating or hooking up guys, but at the same time I'm not one of those guys who's 100% grossed out by gay sex either, because of the internet I've been able to look into that world through porn, and I can see the appeal, but for the most part its still too gross to me because I don't find guys attractive.

Because I see the appeal of gay sex and even fap to the porn you could still argue that I'm technically bisexual, but its important for me to break it down for people instead of calling myself bi because it would be misleading. When someone says that they are bi it implies a significant interest in the same sex, not just curiosity.

>>1563055

I'm just using that as an example. I always thought I was straight because I was only attracted to girls, then I discovered porn and ooh nice dicks, ooh prostate, ooh traps! But that never effected how I felt about guys in my personal life. I didn't suddenly become fully attracted to guys just because I learned I had a thing for nice looking dicks.
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>>1563100
Bisexual doesn't imply anything other than you're capable of being sexually attracted to males and females. Refusing to use the label because of what other less informed people assume it means just further perpetuates that misinformation and makes it harder for other bi people.
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>>1563100
"I'm not one of those guys who's 100% grossed out by gay sex," he posted on the gay porn board he frequents. Just because you limit yourself to fapping to men in a voyeuristic way doesn't make you any less queer. You're over-thinking this, making an ass of yourself, and convincing nobody.

You don't have to come out of the closet, but you can spare us these opportunities to participate in your cognitive dissonance.
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>>1563314
"Oh, it's so hard to be able to fuck anyone and to fit into literally any social situation! "

Why is Bi even a thing?
Gay is a thing because they needed rights because they were being socially discriminated.
Bi's don't suffer from that since they are (at least 50%) straight.
Check your privilege, bisexuals, and stop whining about non-existent discrimination.
You literally have it all.
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>>1563386
Sauce for the gif?
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>>1563314

If my interest in men grows to a point where I'm actually interested in hooking up, then I'd throw it around more freely, but I'm not hiding anything, I'm not bashing gays with my straight friends, I'll tell anyone exactly how I feel, but calling myself bi on say a dating profile would just force me to continually turn down guys I'm not interested in. Plus I'm not sure if gay sex is for me, I've never experimented because there's still that straight part of me that's like don't fuck other men in their butt hole.

>>1563370

>Just because you limit yourself to fapping to men in a voyeuristic way doesn't make you any less queer.

That's fine. I'm only explaining why I don't wear the label on my forehead. Kinda pointless for me to call myself bi then say I don't want to fuck guys ever. Even now you guys don't respect my mixed feelings on homosex, if it was up to you I'd have some strangers cock balls deep in my ass right now.
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>>1563689
Nah, I'd tell you to maybe JO together first...
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>>1563314
You claim to be bi, however, you are being a total faggot right now.
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>>1563689
You don't have to suck a dick to know you like dick. You aren't straight, dude.
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>>1563689
Not all gay men have anal sex, and no one here is urging you to have sex with men at all. We're just telling you that your sexual interest in men, or their disembodied male parts, is not "straight." No one expects you to wear any specific label on your forehead, or to come out of the closet. You just have to accept the fact that liking cock is something most people consider symptomatic of being gay or bisexual.
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>>1563727
>You don't have to suck a dick to know you like dick. You aren't straight, dude.

I'm not insisting that I am, only explaining why I don't identify as bisexual. You have to look at how words are commonly used and what people associate with them. If someone says they are painter, you would naturally assume that they have spent a ton of hours painting and possibly even make money doing it, not that they haven't touched a brush in their life and only watch bob ross videos.

>>1563826
>We're just telling you that your sexual interest in men, or their disembodied male parts, is not "straight."

I never said that, only that I feel straight most of the time because my interest in men is limited to specific types of pornography, that's why I can relate to where op is coming from. Obviously if you're out sucking dick and getting fucked you're not straight, but also someone who doesn't have a strong enough attraction to men to hook up with them won't identify with bisexuality. I've even heard of gay leaning bi guys doing the same thing just so people don't get confused. Of course no one gives a fuck when they do it, but when I do it its a fucking tragedy, which I understand because of the tendency of guys to be in denial and repress shit, but I don't give a fuck about being a fag, if I wanted to suck dick I would, but I'm just not attracted to guys enough to want to be sexual with them.

I can't identify with something that I don't want to be involved in, but that doesn't mean I have to totally hate it either.
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>>1557155
find a tranny?
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>>1557155
Liking the idea of sucking and fucking a guy is the definition of being gay.
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>>1557186
No he's your mate it will be awkward everytime you see him get on grindr or any other gay sex app and suck a dick most guys on there dont want a relationship anyway and just want sex. play the field my friend while your not commited to a girl you will regret it all your life if you dont
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>>1557155
I'm weird like that. I think it means your not fully gay
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I guess everyone is different- I am Bi...I love sucking cock and getting fucked...am very comfortable being penetrated by a cock in one way or another...but have no interest in having mine sucked by a guy or in fucking a guy (although the older I get the tastier twink asses are starting to look :) ...or kissing a guy...nor do I have any emotional attraction to guys...the idea of cuddling with a guy grosses me out. My preferences around sex with men are still sorta hetero oriented- like wearing panties or being the small, submissive bottom....I like dichotomy of old/young, bear/twink, big/small etc....seeing 2 bears going at it with clashing masculinity does nothing for me but a big bear and a smooth twink is really hot.

on the other hand I love women- am infatuated with women...and need and crave not only sex with women but emotional intimacy with women....I need affection from women...and just have no desire of that from men...

So..I guess I am sexually bi but emotionally straight?
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>>1563677
Google "lil dicky"
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>>1557155
Well I remember I used to tell myself that I'd be down to have sex with a guy but not date one. The notion of dating seemed weird and made me uncomfortable. That was many years ago and have since accepted that I'm a homo.
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>>1564442
>emotionally straight
You mean "hetero-romantic"? I think you're just bisexual with your own specific blend of preferences for sex and romance. Trying to distill it to a label or phrase will be hard, and we already make fun of Tumblrinas for doing that. There are other bi guys out there who might relate to your distaste for romance with men, but also think your preference for a masculine/feminine dichotomy in sexual scenarios is weird. There's no easier way to describe it than describing it.

It'd be easier to say that you're bi, willing to fuck guys, but only willing to date or marry women. That's all your potential partners really need to know pertaining to their own gender and potential interaction with you. From a dating/hookup app POV anyway.
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>>1564442

I have a lot of the same preferences, though I've never done anything with a guy. I think because I can't like guys on an emotional level is why I don't plan on hooking up with them. Its hard to want to have sex with somebody you don't like LIKE!

Yeah I could fuck guys, but girls offer so much more. This makes my latent bisexuality feel somewhat like a burden.
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>>1557233
Nothing to regret. Talk to your wife, get a mmf started, let her fuck you with a strapon. I have much more fun in my marriage than I had before.
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>>1564457
>It'd be easier to say that you're bi, willing to fuck guys, but only willing to date or marry women

I think its more than just a willingness. I would be willing to date guys IF was attracted to them emotionally. but I am not. I have no desire for true intimacy - emotional or physical- with a guy. I can happily suck a cock but the idea of cuddling or making out with a guy does nothing for me...in fact sorta the opposite as it kinda grosses me out.

Maybe I just have a cock fetish...
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>>1559684
This is the main reason I personally don't even though I think about it every day and think about that and more when I masturbate. Women get me going but I have intense submissive fantasies about being with older, even much older, more dominant types. I am even getting hard and wet now thinking about it but yeah the bug thing, plus the aftermath. I also think I'd want it 24-7.
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>>1564783
>This is the main reason I personally don't even though I think about it every day


meh- life is too short. I have sucked over 150 cocks- all without a condom- and never got any STD whatsoever.
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i get fucked tomorow

my ass is virgin and im in the same boat like op,
i hope i like it.

i have a lot experience with dildos and i fisted myself once.(was not for me)
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>>1564772

Some girls are the same way. They do gay shit on occasion but would never date a girl because ultimately their heart lies with men. I think some guys are the same way, but we are judged more harshly for fooling around with other men.
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>>1564800
>life is too short
and it's even shorter for those who don't use protection

>I have sucked over 150 cocks- all without a condom- and never got any STD whatsoever.
With that many cocks, you probably got HPV, but are asymptomatic as it is quite common to be.
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>>1564877
>and it's even shorter for those who don't use protection

apparently not as I am still alive. I always use protection for getting fucked just never oral. My life will be the same length just infinitely more enjoyable and memorable for the pleasure I have given and received.

>>1564877
>you probably got HPV, but are asymptomatic as it is quite common to be.

..and you might get hit by a car if you go outside so you better stay inside for ever.
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Any good ways or place for someone who's curious to try things out?

I have a wierd list, like.. i don't want a stranger to come to my place, i don't want to go to a strangers place, ideally someone chilled incase i'm nervous or not into it...
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>>1564982
meet in a parking lot or a coffee shop.
if you like him then go to an out of the way unused bathroom (like a gas station with a locking door) or a remote wooded area in a public park or national forest.

in my town i go down by the river bottoms on the other side of a levee where nobody goes but the occasional homeless person or a cruising guy.

under bridges sometimes works if it is a dry riverbed or an unused bike trail.

you have to be creative.

the other option is to just meet in a public place and get to know them.
then if you like them you will feel more comfortable about taking them to your place or going to theirs.
try dating, eating something, talking and just walking around to get to know them.
usually you can tell within the first couple of minutes if you are attracted to them and if you feel safe and can trust them.
if you get a weird or creepy vibe then trust your instincts and tell them you forgot you have to be somewhere and excuse yourself politely and leave.
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>>1557300
>Oh I'm sorry! I meant HIV

please, please, please tell me that's bait. seriously, you should not be having sex with anyone if you think that HIV and AIDS are not directly correlated with each other
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Hit up a passable tranny like me lol perks of being a chick with a dick :-)
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I think it's normal I guess, same impulse as watching another guy's dick in a porno, watching gangbang porn, choosing to double team a chick, being a cuck etc.
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>>1557155
Do it. I just did it. amazing experience
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>>1557155
yes it's normal. If cocks make your cock swell, but you don't fantasize about the man's body at all, much less want to kiss or make out with a man or ever be in a relationship with a man, then you just find cocks hot. No big whoop.
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>>1566371
Not only is the cock part of the body, it's the definitive male piece. It's hilarious to hear you guys go on about how it's not gay to drool over cock so long as you pretend to be grossed out about secondary sex characteristics.

Whatever helps you rationalize you're not queer, I guess.
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>>1557155

Let's be real.

Yes. It is normal.

The amount of "straight" guys who come on here over the years that have asked this question has PROVED that it's normal.

Whether or not you're really straight or not I cannot tell you, but it definitely IS normal.
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>>1557178
Do you even hear yourself talk
>Im a gay guy but I really want to eat pussy
>I just want to put my dick in a pussy
>I want to lick the pussy

>Not attracted to women though

Are you sure you're not repressing an attraction to men? Serious question. Funny how these "str8" guys are always gay by all means except the romantic part. Even before their first relationship with a man. They just (((think))) it wouldn't work out.
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>>1566636
you really think that never occurs to a cocksucker? always the same shit from you people
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>>1566674
It's not, you just always hear the same shit said to you for obvious reasons
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>>1566681
>it's not the same shit
>you just always hear the same shit
???
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You're bisexual
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>>1564447
I don't think that's him. Just some guy who looks like him maybe?

Unless I just failed and couldn't find this vid.
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I'm in a similar but different situation to the OP. I like the idea of sucking off guys or fucking them but I wouldn't like to suck dick or be fucked. I have a gay friend who I send dick pics to and i enjoy that and I'd love to let him suck my dick. I would say this makes me bi. Am I right?
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>>1567605
I meant to say be sucked off by guys and not sucking off
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I have a long term GF, and everyone who knows me thinks I'm straight, but I've been blown by a dozen older men in my adult life. My first blowie was from a guy who managed the Dairy Queen in town. It took me a little while to cum, but when I did it was pretty great. Quite a few of them were terrible at sucking dick, with lots of teeth and shit. The standouts were

-Music teacher who worked my dick until I came twice. He was thirsty for it and a pretty handsome guy. I visited him about six times.

-Older guy who loved giving lonnng blowjobs. He could swallow my dick and keep it there for crazy lengths of time.

-Guy who in between deepthroating me would pull out my wet dick and message the head between his fingers. Something about watching my dickhead get manhandled was hot as fuck (felt surprisingly great too)

I've only sucked a dick once. It was smaller, and I didn't go to completion. He said I did really well for a first timer though. I'm not really interested in trying again, but oh well. Maybe someday.
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What does sucking dick feel like? I'm in a similar position as OP, kinda tempted to install grindr but I am kinda iffy about random hookups, whether straight or gay
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>>1567984
>I have a long term GF, and everyone who knows me thinks I'm straight, but I've been blown by a dozen older men in my adult life.

bruh
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Do not worry, I am a married man. Since the birth of our daugther, my wife is not so much into sex, let alone suck my dick. So I looked somewhere else. I met a equally married man with the same problem, through an ad, who sucks me twice a week and learned me to suck too. So no big deal: I suck him till he comes, and yes I swallow and he does the same to me. Afterwards, each goes his own way. Just do it man, go and find some cock to suck on it and learn to swallow. It is no big deal!
Grtz Paul
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Last year I decided to join a swinging site and to see what the big deal with gay sex was.

Got loads of guys wanting to meet but ended up going with a guy who offered me £150 for oral

Turned up to a hotel and went to the room, old 50 year old fat guy was there. Went in started chatting he paid me and we got down to business. First time with a guy and tried my best at going with the flow, started walking him off but he was only like 3 inches so I carried on slipping off. I got undressed and he seemed shocked on how large it was, instantly sucked me off and I let him carry on. When I got to sucking I didn't enjoy it but I did enjoy it when he fingered me and rimmed me. I left the hotel thinking how disgusting it was but I had money so I spend it on some new games. Havnt done anything since but I wouldn't mind trying anal as I enjoyed being fingered
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>>1569049
>50 year old fat guy
>3 inches
>150 for oral

Sounds like you just wanted to try out whoring. Why would you aim low for the best experience?
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>>1569057
Well i was a poor student and needed money
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>>1564442
I am 100% exactly the same way.

All of my interest in gay sex weirdly stems from my obsession with women. I grew up knowing I loved women and would marry one someday (I also exerted a LOT of effort trying to impress them/associate with them), but I'm a small guy who's never been able to experience that truly primal attraction from a woman. It started by seeing that my friends were all taller, bigger hands/feet, deeper voices, then in lockerrooms noticing that everybody else had a bigger dick than me.

I overcame all that by not being socially retarded (and being generally good looking other than being small) and have since had a ton of sex with with a ton of women.
But I've now developed this weird infatuation with the ideal masculine male (complete with height, mass, and huge cock). I would ideally want to BE that guy instead of sucking his dick or having him fuck me, but it does feel good to just let it all loose and let somebody else take control (while self-inserting as the woman).

I don't even enjoy hanging out with guys. I hate macho masculinity and generally enjoy the company of women both sexually and just in everyday life.
But when I'm bored of the routine, I get really horny thinking about submitting to a huge, masculine, older guy with a massive cock and letting him use me like a slut.
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>>1569140
>but it does feel good to just let it all loose and let somebody else take control (while self-inserting as the woman).
>when I'm bored of the routine, I get really horny thinking about submitting to a huge, masculine, older guy with a massive cock and letting him use me like a slut.

I hope you aren't that far in denial... because it doesn't get much gayer than this.
This is like, legit stereotypical, unimaginative, run of the mill levels of gay.

It's funny all of the guys in here who "aren't gay" are attracted to the most masculine, big dicked macho men and want to submit to them.

Real straight guys just want their dick sucked and will maybe fuck a nice twink ass.
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Where is a good place to find a glory hole
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>>1569142
>I hope you aren't that far in denial.


Its just not that black and white. I am not the Anon you are responding to but...yes, getting fucked in the ass by a dude is "gay"...but then by the same token fucking a woman is "straight". I want to mount as many women as I can...am I in denial about being straight?

I freely admit that I love cock...I love sex with men- I love being the cocksucker/pleaser and getting fucked in the ass feels amazing...its just that I prefer sex with women more.

If I could post a CL ad and have a woman over to my house ready to fuck within 30 minutes of posting it, I would...alas, most women are not wired that way...

Mens' proclivity for promiscuity has allowed me to explore my sexuality and allowed me to be truly comfortable with my sexuality. I have had every opportunity to try and feel emotionally attracted to men, to explore a relationship with men beyond sex...and I have come to realize I have no interest in being truly intimate with a man...happy to suck him but no interest in kissing, cuddling or being his boyfriend.

...and when I am out on the street...I never even remotely notice guys or think about guys...my natural inclination is to check out the hot girls and my desire for their bodies is almost overwhelming

I think women are so hot that its fun to try and be in their role and see it from their perspective ie; on all fours with a cock or 2 stuffed inside.

Sucking and getting fucked by guys has made me a much better lover with women.
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>>1557155
I use to be like that then i did it now I'm gay and get fucked regularly
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>>1557155
yes it's called being a closet teenager
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>>1557155
Dude you gay, you're having a mental block over the idea. I used to not be attracted to gay men at all before I accepted myself. Actually the idea of someone being gay turned me off, so I would search for "straight" men partaking in gay acts, which is usually just gay men pretending to be straight for people who like I once was. Embrace it and you'll soon find yourself swooning over guys.
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Go out ,be brave, go to the gay bar and pick up a single guy. In the end it's worth it for you, even if a guy isn't hot to you, still try to form a relationship so you can do do what you love.

Thank Me Later, Advice Goat
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>>1557155
I got into gay porn before I went full on gay
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>>1557338
total bullshit. I'm in the same boat, I don't like guys, but I like dicks. I have never been attracted to a man, but I love sucking dicks. Try a shemale first. The only thing you'll miss is that female smell...
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>>1558758
agree. I, for one, enjoy the thought of sucking a cock more than actually sucking it. I like to feel like a cock sucking bitch. Most fun I've had was sucking 3 cocks at once... best ever
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>>1569516
Thanks for this.
I am the anon he was referring to.

Like I said, I would be in heaven if I were the last guy on earth. I love women so much that I associate myself with them almost exclusively.
When I'm in a relationship, I don't even bother to pretend I'm not looking at other girls because I literally can't help it. I want to fuck them all.

My attraction to dudes is strictly sexual, I'm almost 30 years old and I can say I have honestly never caught feelings for a guy. If he were an expert handyman I would be jealous and try to learn his craft; if he was muscular, I would become jealous and would work out twice as hard... what I'm saying is I'd never swoon and want to please a man because I want attracted to him.

I only like sucking dick because it allows me to feel exactly what women feel when they're giving into their primal desires. I can't make my dick bigger, nor can I get taller, etc. and I've been burned by women more than a few times in favour of somebody that better fits that criteria. It's usually a really sad cum, but I do get off to the idea of submitting to the one guy that can take any woman from me.

I don't even think I could fuck a fully gay dude. Call that denial... but I just don't understand how you could reject the fairer sex altogether.
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The way you guys talk about cock in this thread is far gayer than the average homosexual quite frankly.
Hopefully you work through your repression and just realize you're bisexual.
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>>1557155

Gloryhole
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>>1572377
I don't think a single person here has claimed to not be bisexual.
In fact, I think even the most redneck dude understands how people can be gay. The male form can be quite impressive, and some dudes are really nice to talk to/comforting.

But I think the main point here that 99% of these guys are trying to explain is that are GENUINELY attracted to women.

I am bisexual, but I am definitely not gay.
There's absolutely no point in trying to convince a bunch of strangers you're not gay. Nobody here is lying about their sexuality man, they're just sharing feelings/experiences.... just fuccccck off. Sex is not black and white. In fact, it's usually a very fleeting feeling that defies all logic.
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>>1572385
Many on this board have claimed to be straight, that comment doesn't apply to you.
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"My attraction to dudes is strictly sexual, I'm almost 30 years old and I can say I have honestly never caught feelings for a guy."

EXCELLENT post - neither homos nor heteros understand HETERO-FLEXIBILITY (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Heteroflexibility) totally agree in how i've always felt, women for love, other discreet dudes only for sex - keep the parades, the titles, and the ignorant crazies who want to norm the world their way >:)
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>>1572385
I'm clearly not talking about you if you're ok with the label bisexual, I have no idea why you went on a little rant over it.
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>>1572388
The word sexual is literally in the word bisexuality, it doesn't imply that feelings are necessary.
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>>1572388
> keep [..] the titles
But not this heteroflexible title, that one is far too important to you!
JFC men will do anything to avoid the bisexual label. Bisexuality does NOT exclusively mean you're attracted to both men and women at equal pace (although it's a rare possibility).
It's pretty simple if you're OK with being sexual with AND/OR in a relationship with either sex - you're bi, no need to throw in/create unnecessary titles like homoromantic, heteroflex, heteroplatonic or whatever the fuck else.
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>>1572392
>JFC men will do anything to avoid the bisexual label.

I think its because most people would assume you have a significant interest in the same sex. Heteroflexible is just a way of saying I've done some gay shit but I'm not THAT into dudes. Tell the truth, if someone says they are bisexual you would naturally assume he has a significant interest in men, not that he was curious or fucks shemale escorts on holidays. Not everyone has the same level of interest in guys as others, and that is their way of expressing that. I'm not saying you are wrong, only that YOU are taking the labels too seriously. But in truth, heteroflexible or hetero-romantic are just sub categories of bisexuality, just language shortcuts to get a certain point across.
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your sexual orientation and romantic orientation are different things.

it is technically possible to be
>hetero-romantic and bisexual (sexually attracted to dicks and vaginas but only romantically attracted to women (potentially confused 'straight' guy aka thread starter)
>homo-romantic and heterosexual (have really deep bromances and emotional connections with dudes but not with women but be sexually attracted to women)
>bi-romantic and homosexual (be able to fall in love and have deep emotional connections with men and women but only be sexually attracted to men aka me)

most people have matching sexual and romantic orientations though
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>>1573885
oh also like all aspects of personality there is a spectrum for sexual orient. and a spectrum for romantic orient aka not as simple as homo, bi, hetero
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>>1573885
inb4 'sexuality and romance oerientation are not different things'
yeah just cos you havent experienced it doesnt mean it doesnt exist you dumbass hypocritical faggot
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I feel quite similar. Sometimes I feel the urge, mostly not.

>go to gay app one day
>find a guy just down the street, seems very based and relaxed
>tell him straight up what I want. he has no expectations of his own
>get totally dick hungry on meetup day
>he texts he has no time after all
>make new meetup
>don't get to sleep that day because of work. Extremely tired. dick-hunger-phase disappeared the day before
>but I was a bit of a desperate bitch about meeting up soon, so say nothing and go anyway
>relaxed and clean guy. talk for a bit. doesn't seem like a total slut at all. tries to make me feel comfortable, but turns out we're both very passive
>tell him I never fucked a stranger and it's awkward
>he says it's no more than masturbation and that's all either of us should expect
>he's right
>suck him off for a bit
>feels much like sucking the broad side of your thumb, except bigger and without nail. Can't really taste anything, but I'm half asleep
>he sucks me off. dick feels kind of weird and numb for next day. No fan of that, but maybe he just wasn't good
>be half asleep and not even slightly in the mood
>trying my hardest to please him
>it's just "meh" for both of us

>he still offered to meet again, but never got around to it. I moved away a few months later, so that's not happening
>be disappointed. but not disgusted
>would suck him again if we met, but it's hard to find time
>dick hunger still occassionally flames up
>haven't met with anyone since, because most gays who are fine with only a blowjob seem to greatly prefer doing the sucking
>texted one more guy who texted me, but we tried over literally weeks to find time.
>he's one busy faggot
>give up eventually


I'm thinking about doing it again, but not really convinced it's worth the hassle. Maybe it's just my area. I'm not in the US

The curiosity would have eaten me up by now if I hadn't.
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>>1557155
You're gay or at least bi and you've avoided thinking about it because it makes you imcredibly uncomfortable for you to imagine yourself as anything other than straight

Anything beyond that would be speculative psychoanalysis

I'd say at least 90% of us here have gone through this

If dudes make your pant hard you like dudes

You can identify as straight all you want but you're not straight and you can never be straight because you are attracted to members of the same sex in some way

No being curious is different from attraction because instead of wanting it you're questioning your sexuality and exploring for the purpose of discovery, not out of genuine desire

Thank you have a nice day
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>>1573963
And before anyone says anything no that doesn't mean you can't lime girls more or prefer to be in a relationship with a girl more
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>>1557186
Friends are friends regardless of whether they like dick and you happen to have one or not

You don't ask female friends at random if they want to fuck, but obviously that depends on your friendship
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I think to want the rest of the male body is something that needs practice. If you like dick you can train yourself to like the rest of the body
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Just want it to be over :(
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I'm gay and I have a boyfriend. I feel attracted to men sexual and romantically. I'm a top but I feel disgusted by cum and giving head.
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>>1573965
who is he?
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>>1574054
Dunno, saw him on a random Tumblr, wish I knew

And in advance this is Charles Auclair
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>>1573907
>The curiosity would have eaten me up by now if I hadn't.

For me it just died down, I'm so glad I never acted on that shit because there was nothing but negative energy surrounding that curiosity. It wasn't like I fell in love with a guy and just had to fuck him, I was depressed and indulging in way too much porn and was just trying to cling to any cheap pleasure I could find.

I'm just warning you guys don't go off the deep end, if you're really curious just go on a date like a normal human being with another cool guy, you don't have to bang strangers from craigslist and have a bad time. If you're really gay you'll want to fuck their brains out before the cloths even come off like we do with girls.
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>>1557155
Suprisingly common. Data suggest the number of men who identify as straight but fuck other men in various ways has been rising pretty rapidly in the past thirty years. I'm kind of heteroflexible myself, and I experimented in college. Would probably suck someone off again if the opportunity presented itself, but I don't go looking for it.
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>>1557155
>>1574430
And sexual identity is a bullshit progressive construct anyway--fabricated for the purpose of inflaming identity politics. Just fuck what you feel like fucking and don't worry about it.
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>>1566636
Pussy is not aesthetically pleasing in any sense. You can ask any guy that and he will concur. Not a valid contrast. Tits would be more valid.
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>>1574432
Progressives weren't the ones calling people queers for having sex with other men. They're the ones who said it was normal and okay, and that we can do it without being scared of being murdered.

How could you get it so backward?
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>>1574434

not true at all. Like peni', some pussies are beautiful and other not so much...some are like glorious flowers waiting to be teased open.
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The best thing to do if you want to try sucking dick but aren't sure about how to go about it is to express a lot of affection and flirtation towards someone, making it clear that you're into them, and then when they respond to it with texts and invites, totally ignore them. 100% confirmed best way to handle things. Fucking idiot.
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watching too much tranny, sissy, cd, etc. porn has made me want to suck a cock, but i'm completely straight and not attracted to men at all, only cocks/balls... after further research i found out that it's called heteroflexible

i made a grindr, growlr, etc. account a few guys wanted to meet up but i'm just too chicken shit and flake out on them, i'm thinking of going to a glory hole so i can just suck the dick and not have to see the guy or talk to them...however i live in mississauga ontario canada and i don't know where to find a glory hole or a sex shop with booths
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>>1557155
fucking not really, but sucking is absolutely gay anon.
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it's gotta be a dude who's confident(who else's dick would you suck anyway?). once he says
something about his big dick(probably not true but who cares, I'd rather suck something average) then you ask him to prove it. easy from there
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>>1557185
Sounds like me. Don't reply like the idea of a relationship with a male but i really want to have oral sex with one, giving and receiving. Also want to be in a gay three way but don't fancy the idea of being penetrated.
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yeah
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>>1577202
>I'm not gay, I'm heteroflexible!
>Now excuse me while I go find a gloryhole and engage in one of the most degenerate aspects of gay culture!

fucking lol
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>>1573853
What people think of as "heteroflexible" is really just 1-2 on the Kinsey scale (which would technically mean bisexual). If you're curious about trying homosex, do it, and decide it's not really something you care much about but might try again someday if the person feels right, you're a 1. If you try it and definitely like and enjoy it, you're probably a 2. On this scale, the only straight option is 0, which is EXCLUSIVELY heterosexual experiences. Granted, if you have a gay experience or flirtation right in your puberty years you could still probably be a 0, since hormones at that time are raging, you want to get off literally all the time and everything is still innocent. But if you're approaching your late teens or are in your 20s, 30s, etc and still have gay thoughts/want to try it/engage in gay shit, you are most definitely not a 0 and never will be.

Fuck all the SJWs who ruled out the Kinsey scale long ago because it doesn't account for abstract shit like pansexual romantic attraction and non-binary genders, the Kinsey scale is still the simplest, best examination of sexual behavior, and nothing will ever top it. Who gives a fuck if Kinsey was a weirdo with a larger-than-necessary interest in pedos, his theories made sense.

What's really going on with all the 1s and 2s in this thread is that societal pressures generally discourage bisexuality, and most people have a hard time taking someone at their word when they claim to be into both genders. The reason for this, obviously, is that a ton of people fall somewhere on between 1-5, so when they meet someone who is comfortable with their bisexuality it reminds them of gay thoughts they've had from time to time, so they feel the need to assert that surely bisexuals must be lying and only like one gender. Complete homos (6s) also influence this as well, and I'll explain why in the next post.
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>>1578469
Exclusively homosexual guys (which is basically me, I have 0 sexual attraction to women) sometimes feel shame/embarrassment for being totally gay and not able to engage at all in a heterosexual lifestyle, since that's obviously the easiest sexual path to take in life. There's a little saying called "misery loves company," and a lot of gays are pretty damn miserable at their predicament, and what they perceive to be an involuntary exclusion from normal society. As a coping mechanism, some gays ends up convincing themselves that EVERY bi guy they meet, even if he's just a 1, must be totally, completely, definitively lying about liking girls. I guarantee you that 1s, 2s, and 3s in this thread that have had sex with 6s know what I'm talking about - the second you guys go back to women you're immediately faced with their doubt, which is really just their grief that they aren't able to like women the way you guys can.

Am I right or am I right? The fine print of sexuality has gone completely bonkers since we escaped the times of simple living, so our genetic, animal instincts that kept us alive and repopulating ourselves for so long aren't what they're used to be. As a result, sexuality can be really fucking confusing, especially when you grow up in a culture that has tons of stigma about it, which is basically every culture. Denial is a perfectly natural reaction, but something you really need to get over. I am completely sure that those of you in this thread who say they like women definitely do, and fuck anyone who tells that's not true, they can't be in your head and hear your thoughts. But dammit, don't let it be so fucking hard to just ADMIT in your brain that you're fucking bi. All these bullshit terms you adopt as an excuse continue to promote the idea that being gay is wrong, even if you don't think it is - it doesn't help anyone. Just be confident about what you like, and no one can give you shit for it - confidence is contagious, after all.
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>>1578479
It's not that gay guys want more people being treated like misfits. That's an absurd and cynical notion. It's that most of us know at least one gay guy who came out as "bi" as the baby step before coming out as a full-blown faggot. That paradigm creates mistrust. When they hear a guy say he's bi, they assume he's one of the many who use the label to dip their toe into the gay dating pool without suffering the stigma of being "gay."

That and there are a ton of people who are bi in theory only because they exclusively date the opposite sex despite their reported attractions to their own sex. Think of the "bisexual, heteroromantic" group.
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>>1578497
I never said all gay guys were like the petty ones I described, the majority don't give a fuck. I was just trying to theorize the cultural reasons behind the rationale of some of the people here, and how it ties to fears of society labeling you as something that doesn't quite accurately describe you. Someone coming out as bi, even if they're really just gay, is always better than someone staying in the closet and repressing everything like a bitch, so I would never try to correct someone of their own sexuality if they can freely admit that they're attracted to guys enough to call themselves bi.
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>>1557704
This man speaks sense. Can 100% confirm.
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>>1578469
Anon is accurate. I've exclusively done hetero stuff, but im 25 now and i still want to suck/be sucked by a dude. Not sure i would want to be penetrated but im sure there are 100% gays that don't want that.

I'd say I'm a 2 virging On 3.
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>>1557155
I'm a "gay4pay" guy who is exclusively attracted to females but I have sex with men for money.
I'd be interested in how you guys would label me.
I'm not attracted to men at all but I can get hard and fuck them by thinking about women and focusing on the feeling of the sex rather than on what the men look like.
I guess people would say I'm bisexual but I'm really not turned on by male features at all.
I do like sex, though, and I like the fact that my body turns other people on.
The motivation is money, though.
Not that I'm sexually attracted to money, obviously, just that I'm sexually aroused by the idea that people want me enough to pay to have me.
I guess that is a form of Narcissism or something but I'm not turned on by myself, I'm turned on by females, and other people, getting turned on by me being inside them.
Their hunger/thirst for my dick is what excites me.
And big tits and big asses and tight, wet, red gaping holes.
Yep, my dick is hard now.
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>>1569516
Still super gay
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>>1578891
Personally not attracted to you at all but way to much facial hair. Shave and come back. Oh and lose the tank top - want to see if you are str8 boy pudgy or gay boy ripped.
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Yes its pretty normal for male mammals to have the urge to suck cock
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>>1578891
>I do like sex, though, and I like the fact that my body turns other people on.
>The motivation is money, though.

you do know you can get paid for having straight sex as well, right?
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I'm not romantically attracted to men, not even particularly into sucking cock, but I love the idea of getting fucked in the ass. I've made do with toys since I was a teen, but I'm certain I need to experience real cock.

Not pretending to be straight, but all I really want is the buttsex, no strings attached. Pegging would be great, but there's definitely something about genuine dick.
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>>1579131
You don't have to date or marry a man to be gay or bi. It's just a sexual orientation. Don't buy into the Republican narrative that it demands some specific lifestyle.
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>>1579043
of course.
but straight porn stars don't make as much as gay porn stars unless they're really famous.
and straight male prostitutes are pretty rare because women don't have to pay for sex, they have men literally lined up waiting to fuck them for free.

if i could get paid for fucking hot girls, i definitely would prefer that.
hook me up if you know how to do it.
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>>1578908

no. super bisexual perhaps but by definition if I have sex with women I am not gay.
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I tried it a few months ago. Had always been curious.

Was tripping on acid and drunk as fuck. Just kind of ended up happening.

I ended up thinking the ordeal was pretty meh. I blacked out halfway through and I think I passed out on him. Dunno if I finished him off or not. Wouldn't want to leave a brother with blue balls... Dunno though. Woke up in the morning while he was in the shower, gathered my shit and left.
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>>1579660
I'm really curious why they put a piece of tape over the car emblem on the steering wheel.
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>>1578469
>What's really going on with all the 1s and 2s in this thread is that societal pressures generally discourage bisexuality

Not for me. I really don't care either way. My problem is more so that I'm so much more attracted to girls, yeah I'm curious about dick, but its not that big of deal to go risking catching stds and having sex with guys I don't even like. What makes me not want to do it isn't pressure from society, its really just a lack of love. I see a girl and I get butterflies, I feel happy just being around them, I can imagine a future together, I'm not just attracted to their genitals, but with guys its all connected to this underground porn culture of masturbating alone and using porn to cope, anonymous hookups and all that gross shit.

I would totally try it if I just straight up liked another guy and he felt the same way, but this whole using people for their body parts just feels wrong to me, and living by labels don't allow you to make these distinctions where you make decision based on whats right for you, not just what may or may not get your dick hard.
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>>1579826
>using people for their body parts

yeah, straight people never do that.
/sarc
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>>1580112

Yeah that same mentality is prevalent in straight hookups too, but either way its never been something that appealed to me. I NEED LOOVE! Or at least moderate attraction :3

I think with 1s and 2s you can have fun with guys, but its not the same as that force that draws a man and woman together, its not a replacement for that experience, but really just kind of a exciting way to get off.
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>>1569003
Whats your kik?
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>>1580265
I'm guessing you're either a tranny or an MGTOW who thinks a relationship with a guy would be easy (it's not) but isn't sexually attracted to men.

Just go find a nice girl and stop telling us how you're better than everyone because you're not a slut.

Slut-shaming on a porn board is cringey af.
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>>1580302

I'm not slut shaming, I'm just saying if you have standards you probably won't fuck someone you wouldn't even want to kiss on the lips. I'd be a slut too if the people I liked liked me back.
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>>1562589
That isn't true. I identify as bi, would never have a relationship with a man. I don't like cuddling or kissing men, I make that clear before any fuck. I do sometimes kiss, but that isn't for my own sake
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>>1580959

>identifies as bi
>doesn't like kissing me
>doesn't like cuddling men
>doesn't like relationships with men

traps aren't gay so fucking dickwomen doesn't make you bi
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>>1580302
Quit being sensitive as fuck. The guy makes a good point.
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>>1564907
If you give hpv to other people though, they may very well get the symptoms
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I love cock but I would say I'm 80/20 bi or something. I've had some experience with men. A bit in my teens and then through gay sites in adult age. It's hard though, because I'm extremely picky and the sites I've used have been rife with weirdos and just general fucking idiots. Also, scared as fuck of std:s. Maybe more scared than I really have to be. So it's been like... once a year or even less. Once I had a steady guy to have sex with but he suddenly disappeared (he was openly gay).
But anyway, relax. Sexuality is fluid and it's a shame that macho bullshit culture stop so many (me included) from experiencing a lot of awesome sex.
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>>1581060
>>1581060
>it's a shame that macho bullshit culture stop so many (me included) from experiencing a lot of awesome sex.

I blame the flamers, they make it so homosexuality seems like an inherently feminine trait that makes you less of a man. I never bought into the macho bs, its dumb to think you're more of a man for fucking the weaker sex that any beta male could snap in half like a twig. What always deterred me was that to have gay sex you kind of have to walk into this underground world of weirdos and crazy levels of stds. A quick fuck with little chance of an emotional connection isn't worth it imo.
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>>1557682
How do I find a gloryhole though
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>>1557155
I've read about plenty of guys having this "fetish"

I'm in the same boat, but I recently got to experience a guys cock by creating a Grindr account. I was on vacation and on my last few nights I decided fuck it and found a guy who was interested. We met up and he let me blow him. The only thing I found attractive about him was his cock and I definitely did enjoy sucking it, but it was strictly lust. I think sex is TONS more enjoyable when there's an emotional connection to it, and I've only ever been emotionally attracted to girls, save one of my friends from years ago.

Honestly, getting some dick isn't that hard. There's tons of guys looking to experiment out there and plenty that are into "straight acting" guys who want to go down on them. My experience was fun, and if I get the chance, I'll probably try it again, but just know it won't feel as fulfilling as doing it with someone you have a connection with.
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>>1557155
romantic and sexual attraction are sometimes different. so youre sexually attracted to other man but not romantically. i guess
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>>1578891
I don't know if that's really you, but I'd pay you to fuck me hard.
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I'm opposite of OP. A nice male body and attractive face get me off all the time, but I find any dick but my own borderline disgusting and the very idea of anal sex revolting.

Then, with women, I can take or leave tits (save for a few really nice ones) but I only find a very small percentage of women attractive. To further complicate things, vaginas are also gross to look at but the idea of fucking one gets me hard all the time.

I am a virgin, mostly because u have no idea what/who to pursue.

Oh well. Time to fap to only very specific threads again.
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>>1583878
If you're near most big cities, they have adult bookstores sprinkled around (usually in the less-than-stellar neighborhoods). Most of them, or if you can locate a still-in-business adult movie theater, they tend to have glory holes in them. Sometimes in the men's bathroom, or between the partitions in the movie booths at the pornographic bookstores.

Otherwise, you can scope out grindr or cragislist and see what local areas pop up in the m4m sections. I've seen amateur cell phone videos of guys doing understall stuff (literally getting blowjobs and fucking underneath the partitions between stalls in a restroom) in the most random places, like airports and park bathrooms.
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People are so sure of how other's sexuality works. I've had experiences where the guy wanted me to hold his hand and it made me physically sick, but I loved sucking his cock. People want to interject their own opinion about how you will end up seeing sex down the line, it's fucking retarded. You're all bitter homosexuals.
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>>1584202
I dunno, bro. You're the one who sounds bitter. You know hand holding shouldn't make someone feel ill, right? Might want to talk it out with a shrink.
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>>1584210
Nah
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TwoZeroSix-6FiveZero-One944
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My answer would be, because it's easy. There are plenty of opportunities to get a guy to blow you and return the favor. While I prefer girls, it's such a hassle. I can't just go to the adult bookstore and hookup. Craigslist is even worse with so many "women" just trying to get your email and contact information.

Dicks, I understand and since porn makes it look so enjoyable and it is exciting, yeah, I think about it. I've done it a few times as well. Erect cocks are very erotic. Dudes, not so much. Whenever I'm out I'm always sizing up women and evaluating how much I desire them and which ones I'd like to fuck. I don't do that with guys. The only time I really think about guys is while I'm watching porn and getting really horny since there are so many cocks involved and like I said, accessible.

If pussy was a readily and easily available, I'd be all about the ladies.
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I think I'm straight, and I understand the irony of posting on this board, but I'd like to be blown by a dude at some point.

The masculine body really doesn't do anything for me, but I do like the idea if dominating another man, and making him pleasure me, as well as pushing my own sexual boundaries beyond what I'm comfortable with including the idea that I might have to reciprocate.
Also I'm just generally pretty starved for physical intimacy though so I imagine that's also a significant chunk of it.
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Anyone here smoke weed?
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I like this thread. I've had the same problem for years now. I'm not gay at all and I would never date a guy nor do I ever think a guy is attractive but I've been wanting to suck dick for a while now. It just turns me on, especially when I have sex with my gf It gets me in the mood to want to suck some dick. I've accepted that I might be Bi because why else would I want dick? But that's fine with me. I absolutely do not wanna fuck a guy or get fucked in my ass by a guy, but would love to suck or get sucked. Occasionally I'll watch gay porn and jerk off to that, but seeing the guys faces and how they're always so ripped turns me off so I try to focus on just their dick. My gf wants to try anal on me, so maybe I'll let her do that and see where I can get with telling her I'm bi
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>>1557155
bump
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Guess what buckeroonies, you can't be straight and also like dick. That's not how it works.
You can be bi. That's cool. There's nothing wrong with being bi. But don't for a second think anyone will take you seriously if you say "I'm straight, I just like sucking cocks"
You may not like men romantically, but if you want to swallow some dude's pickle, you are not heterosexual.

If you want to go full tumblr, you could describe yourself as "Heteroromantic bisexual" meaning "I only date women, but, sexually, I like cocks too"
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>>1586273
I love shemales desu, cock with a feminine body, the idea of kissing a guy who looks male makes me feel sick but I'd suck a dick. Fucked up man.
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I have been wanting to try it too. Honestly, I know zero guys I am attracted to. It would have to be like some of these stories I read on here. Something like... meet a guy for the sole purpose of sexual satisfaction. I could probably be talked into more than just sucking dick if it all played out perfectly. I have yet to make any steps to make it happen though. Guess I'm too worried about someone found out.
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>>1587035
A trans would be the perfect scenario.
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I'm sitting next to a friend from high school, we're by ourselves and he's bisexual and I am but he doesn't know. I want to blow him so bad right now I'm salivating but don't know how to approach it. So nervous right now
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hahaha
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>>1587366
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dyglnLD2joM

play this video and stare at his crotch
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Straight guys need cock too...

http://www.sweetpants.men/home/categories/straight/
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>>1589732
Lol this is actually said without irony.
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I've been pretty curious.

The thing is, I like toys, and have been slowly training myself to come from using them. But for the life of me I never end up seeing guys as sex objects when I'm just out and about.

The other thing that is a downer is that I'm afraid of AIDS, hepatitis, and herpes. And you're all "condom" but damn, I want bareback and ... I really really like Crisco as a lube. Condoms aren't compatible with that.
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Met a girl on tinder recently and hit it off pretty well. Sex is great, gives amazing head, pretty much does whatever I ask. She's bi of course, since all girls are these days. One night we were drinking and she brought up the bi thing casually and out of nowhere I said "so am I." Once I convinced her I wasn't kidding, she says with a delightful grin "this just adds a whole new level of fun."
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>>1592031
She didn't bring it up again that night, but a few days ago she asked if I had some ideas I'd like to try. I told her I'd love for the two of us to suck a cock together, making out with each other and sharing it. The cock would be our toy. She asked "so would you want him to cum in my mouth and snowball it to you or vice versa?" I answered "I don't care as long as we get to share it" Her response?

"I think I'm in love"

Did I hit the jackpot guys?
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>>1592033
BTW this is the first woman I've shared this fantasy with or even discussed my bi side at all.
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>>1592033
I would say a lot of women love homo shit just like guys love les action, its not that rare, have fun anon
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