I've never hooked up with a guy before and I really want

>>1503874

What part of the world, vaguely?

>>1503874
There are any number of sites you can go to... apps, websites, etc... that can get you in contact with guys that want to hook up. Whichever you use, follow some basic rules

>make it clear what you are looking for... BJ, HJ, anal, BDSM, kissing...

>set boundaries from the start... safe sex only, no pain, no scat, no blood

>be honest about your stats. weight, height, dick size. make sure he's honest about his

>meet in public first. coffee, chat. no booze as it lowers inhibitions

>if he isn't what he says, walk away. there are plenty of guys out there. if it doesn't feel right, walk away. if he lied about his stats, walk away

>arrange for a meeting. again, no booze of drugs as they lower inhibitions and you want to stay in control

>let someone know where you are going. if you don't have someone you can tell, fake it so he other guy thinks someone else knows where you are. better safe than sorry.

>have fun. if you like it, arrange another meet. if you didn't, just tell the guy later it isn't going to work out

>condoms, condoms, condoms. if the guy has an excuse for not wearing them, pass on meeting him

>>1503874
Define "safe". Safe as in no STDs or safe in like I'm not going to wake up in the morning with a smartphone shoved up my rectum?