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I'm thinking about one of these adult book store video arcades

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I'm thinking about one of these adult book store video arcades to get some cock.

What should I expect? What is the 'game'?

Are there normal guys or just queens, weirdos and guys that have been trading dicks among each other for years.

The whole idea of a 'regular crowd' there kind of makes me hesitate.

I'm happy to hear stories too. Any experience is enlightening.
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>>1379987
Its the 21st century. Just hit up Grindr.
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>>1379988

I tried. It seems to cater to the emotionally frail or something. I like face-to-face intros, or at least a quick pass/fail.

People on grindr act like every goddam chat is an audition to marriage.
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>>1379993

those are just millenials.
they need a safe space to retire to and cry every 1/2 hour about their hormone levels.
just ignore them and chat with the men.
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>>1379999


ikr?

Idw chat though. Its just a time waster.
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>>1380002
>Its just a time waster.

well it helps you to know who is an axe murderer and who has aids before you go to their house. but otherwise yes i suppose it is just a waste of time if you just need to drop a load and don't care who it is with.
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>>1380101

Well, I expect either to lie, so I dont see how it helps.

I'd be happy to use a glory hole at a rest room, but I swear I havent seen one in so long that I think they are extinct. All the bathrooms now have steel dividers and I cant figure how to go understall without being seen or being in some ridiculously contorted position

I guess I am glory hole retarded or something.
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>>1380112
They are extinct because of Grindr.
Why risk getting caught for indecent exposure when you can post on hundreds of websites "I need a dick"
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>>1379987
I sometimes think about going too when i get bicurious moods. but afraid of diseases.
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>>1380117

The opposite of grindr isnt indecent exposure.

Im sorry. I dont really have any patience for all the "life without any risk" arguments. There is being sensible, and then there is cowering through life to make such a priority of risk aversion that everything is bland.

Grindr gives the sense of being protected. It does nothing to actually protect you from whackos. That nutty fuck that just shot up Orlando is said to have a grindr account.

I bet everyone from Dahmer to Gacy to those rotten sobs the Freeway killers would've had grindr accounts.

People who depend on Grindr dont seem to care about safety from harm. They are just paranoid of face-to-face rejection and want a place to hide. They aren't afraid of psychos. They are afraid of being shot down in person.

They're the type that go to clubs with three friends and have to have a committee meeting on whether or not to say hello to someone across the room.

I prefer people just say what they want, or dont want.

>>1380120

Thats a legit concern. Thats why Im worried about the 'regular crowd' at those places. Im not trying to get involved in some local epidemic. Its probably not really *that* risky any more than the general public. I just dont want dicks that are getting blown by strangers every friggin night. I'd want the once in a while cock, not a regular.

I'm trying to put myself in the mindset of that once-in-a-while guy and figure out what moves him to go once in a while instead of the guy hanging out every night.

I dont even know how the game works. Thats why I posted hoping someone with experience could fill me in on how it works and what to expect.

Or just tips on restroom sex. Anything really that clues me in. I figured older people here might know. There was a decent cruising thread here a while ago. Older gays tend to know more about less technology dependent hooking up but idk if there are any/many here.
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My first, and only, time with another guy was at an adult book store after my girlfriend talked me into going. Good times.
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>>1380133

That does sound nice. People just having fun.
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>>1380130
>that once-in-a-while guy

the few times i've hooked up with straight guys i met them at the gym. i live in a medium sized town with a university so there isn't a big gay scene. just a couple of clubs which i avoid because i'm not out and the queers there are loud and feminine and drunk. i have tried the adult book store and the local park and both have old men that seem to be regulars and are not attractive to me at all. the gym i go to caters to young professionals and i go in the evenings when it is a lot of women on the treadmills and men playing basketball. i lift weights and there are a few other men who are in the free weights area with me. a couple of roid-heads. the guys i met were playing basketball and running on the indoor track. i met them in the locker room and just made small talk after they met my eyes and said hello and we wordlessly admired each other's physique. so i talk about the weather and then sports and then my gf. then i said she was out of town and asked if they wanted to get a beer after we showered. one guy suggested a bar and we went there. another time a guy said "i have beers at my house if you want to stop by and watch tv" of course i said yes to both and both turned into hookups.

i've never tried to hook up in the gym or the shower or the bathroom i think that is tacky and rude to bystanders and i don't want to get caught and outed anyway.

pic related
looks like one of the dudes
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>>1380139

Thats cool. I dont know if that would work for me or not. Im not a flamer but I am used to guys who make decisions on the spot, not a lot of courtship. It might be hard for me because I get a little effeminate around guys I like and its probably impossible for them not to notice what I am thinking. Im the type that deliberately likes to get caught looking just to trade smiles. I lovvve to flirt but know when its not appropriate, and my type aren't into masculine guys, they want to bitch a male out.

Its weird though, because I know straight guys can go either way. Either they want a femmy boi to reinforce their manhood in the interaction, or they want a masculine dude because they figure its less obvious to onlookers. So I guess it can go either way.

Maybe I should evaluate my approach. I just dont like straight guys that need long courtships. They dont really want to be my friend anyways, they want to bust one in a fag and toss me, which seems more natural and what I'd prefer anyways. Generally, the less talk, the better it seems to go.

The small talk part is great as long as it doesnt turn into a windy discussion and all that 'lets pretend we want to actually know each other' bs.

Thanks for the heads up on the book store and park crowd. There must be some way around it. Maybe there are good and bad times to go or something.

Everyone says I should hang out in bars to find that lonely straight guy but I have so little patience for bar crowds. People who require booze to socialize make me question just what the heck they are about.

On the other hand, both the book stores here are right beside bars that aren't horrible, so idk.

Thanks again for the insights. I dont mind older men. I just dont know how to take older men that hang out at those places so often. Presently, I dont even know how to orient myself. I guess I am supposed to hang in a booth and just wait. I also worry some queens could be there and get competitive...
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>>1379987

The few times I've been, usually guys are hanging around cruising the hallway outside the stalls, and sometimes you can meet someone and go somewhere without even going into the (nasty) stalls. Or, you start off in a stall, then bend down and ask if he'd rather go somewhere else (ususally they would "rather"--but oftentime they are closeted/married so can't unless you take them home--proceed with caution, but it's probably safer than Craigslist since there are witnesses who would have seen them there, if you got murdered.

I'm not saying I've never sucked a dick through a hold, but I think about all of the people's saliva, lube, and cum that rubs up against those holes, which I KNOW never get disinfected, and it disgusts me.

Also I, for one, would never suck a dick if I hadn't seen the guy's face first--another reason to meet outside the stalls first.

Sometimes the staff are very aggressive about loitering back there so you may get run out or bothered; it's a crap shoot.
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>>1380159


... I hear people make their own glory holes, but idk if thats just a porn trope or if people actually have any success with that in real life or not.

Manhoods is a big deal with me. LIke I said, I dont mind older men on principle, but I dont want to be sucking off some aging queen who just grew a beard to offset a bald head. Such types creep me out and idk how to distinguish them just by looking.
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>>1380163

When I was younger I tried it and didn't understand the protocol then either. I probably frustrated some people by accident.

I can disinfect the hole myself somewhat, that isn't such a bother, just an alcohol wipe or something.

I've sort of done it before, but its a offshoot story, where I could see the person first. I am not hung up on looks as much as they just look normal and healthy.

I like the idea of meeting outside first. I just feel like there are some missing parts I should know before I strut in someplace being a cumdump that doesnt know jack about the game.
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>>1380139
I wonder what his farts smell like?
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>>1380159
>There must be some way around it.

if you just want sex and you know you only want straight guys that are into femme bottoms then your best bet is craigslist m4w - i know it sounds weird but stick with me - send pics of your ass as a reply to ads from men looking for women and tell them that you know they are straight but you are really horny and just want to get fucked and you are not into gay men because you don't want disease and you are very discreet and more than 50% of the time they will be horny enough to fuck you. i have done this a bunch of times.

you have to have good pics of your ass though and usually they want to see your face to but they may not want to send you pics in return. just meet them in a public place (i meet in the grocery store parking lot and if i don't like them i leave) and we usually drive somewhere quiet and fuck in the car since i don't like people knowing where i live. i always make them use a condom and lube because they could be lying to me about their status and i usually have to bring it because they are scared their wife/gf will find it and i make sure to take the used condom and wrapper and lube when i go (which is fun for later wanking) and i let them know i'm taking it so they will see that i'm responsible and that i'm not going to out them. sometimes they don't want me to take the condom with their cum (maybe they are afraid of dna tests or something?) and so i leave them the condom.

pic related
ass up pics work best - good lighting - sexy underwear - implied submission (the hands tied)

get a friend to help you take pics and select the best ones. one of the guys who fucks me now and then helped me with my pics and he chose ones that i didn't like but since he's a top i trusted him and they work really well so i guess he was right.
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>>1380178

Thanks! I've been trying that but never thought to send ass pics, just head shots.

I haven't had much luck, but I keep trying. Your tip sounds pretty great. I will try that.

See, most of my experience is with men who prefer chicks. I trade the lack of action for the type of men I really like. But I stayed out of the game for a while and want to get back in.

Maybe its just me, or my fairly forward (if sympathetic) replies. Even the m4w section here is slow and a lot of bots, spam etc so I never know if I am just replying to bots. Plus, I think some are just flakes.

Your tip should be helpful, I'll see what I can come up with. I always try to talk up the rush they should get by bitching up a male. Maybe I presume too much about how they think.
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>>1380199
>I always try to talk up the rush they should get by bitching up a male.

I think you should focus on how horny you are and how much you need cock. Make the focus be on you. Sometimes they get performance anxiety if you put the focus on them to early. And honestly the less said the better because who knows what is going through their head or what their fantasy is? I usually say I have a gf because then they don't think I'm going to be a psycho clingon and they figure I understand what they are going through. I tell them I always wanted to try getting fucked and I've had guys tell me I have a great ass but I've only played around a couple of times so they don't think I'm a diseased whore. And I usually start out by saying I just want to j/o and oral and let it seem like I'm reluctant to get fucked and let him push for it. When it seems like it is his idea (but he knows I really want it) then it seems to go better. I had a guy who couldn't get hard and was really stressed and I knew he wanted to fuck me but there was too much pressure so I just blew him and he still couldn't cum and after that I just said whatever happens happens - it doesn't matter and then he fucked me hard after that. I think men want a combination of virgin and slut in the same person. Like you're shy at first and then tasting their cock just makes you so horny and you have to have it in your ass, 'please fuck me sir!'
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>>1380217

Thats a lot of good advice, I appreciate it. It seems I should change my approach.

It will be difficult for me to find my fit, since I am horrible at fibbing. I have wondered if my forward approach is setting me back somehow. It would only be natural that if a random fag replies to your CL ad saying they need rage-fucked, you might wonder if they are some walking plague. I need to learn how to keep it short and make sure the 'ball is in their court' so to speak. You are right, my desire to please may be accidentally putting pressure on them. Straight guys can be incredibly vulnerable souls.

I say I am horrible at lying; by example, no man hearing how I squeak when I am getting rammed is going to believe I have a gf. In reality, I can be physically attracted to girls (physically only), but it plays no part in my life and saying so just confuses people, so I tend not to admit it.

So trying the 'bro' angle would be difficult for me, and my type is typically more aggressive and a bit frustrated. Its not that they are hetero exactly that attracts me, its that heteros tend to have a more calibrated view towards fucking a fag. Im not into the 'experimenting' type, but rather the 'fuck it- Im gonna use my cock to punish your faggotry' type. I've actually had a few guys, odd as it sounds, tell me they were gonna fuck me hard enough to turn me straight. A timid hetero isn't really of much interest to me. I had enough of those types early on, where they basically ask permission for everything.

I wonder if there are other types of pics I could send, like me sucking cock, or would that be too much, too lewd.

Again, thanks for the great advice. I dont think I can post back tonight but I am definitely watching the thread this week and welcome any other ideas.

Many thanks again.

<3
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>>1380174
I'm Ron Burgundy?
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>>1380224
Fuck, u got sauce on that hot skater bttm?
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>>1379993
Why not look into seeing if there's a gay bathhouse in your area?
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>>1380217
Hey, that ass is from where i live :D

>>1380479
also sauce on this please.
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>>1380235
>>1380490

I'm sorry, I have no sauce. I have seen >>1380479 before though, but I don't remember where. Something about the guy gets invited to a 'huge cock' party.

>>1380489

My city is only 100k people. We don't have such a thing here.

That one anon's advice made me feel better, now that I have better ideas. I do wish someone had some more insights or stories about book stores. I am afraid of wandering in and looking like an idiot cuz idk how things work.

Grindr isn't so bad I guess, but a lot of the guys are more 'gay' then msm. Gay guys seem to intellectualize a lot. I wouldn't mind except its obviously not what the app is for.

Its just not an open, time efficient means because timid guys expect so much chat-hustle.
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>>1379987
>I'm thinking about one of these adult book store video arcades to get some cock.

20 years ago, this would have been an acceptable thing

back in the 70s, it would have been all the rage

there's these things called mobile devices and these little things called apps and they're a lot safer, more convenient, cleaner and--easier--than adult book stores

you can always find guys on grindr who'll arrange hookups in restrooms, parks or their apartments for this sort of thing, anon

that's all the 'game' you need really

even guys in the military arrange hookups through cl and grindr now on and off base and there was a big ruckus a handful of years ago when ncis 'discovered' just how many marines and civilian contractors were using them to arrange sexual liaisons on desert bases

adult bookstore gloryholes are routinely policed these days and like video stores in general, they are just dying out in favor of upscale sex shops (where you're not damn likely to hookup with anything, thank you very much)
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>>1380692
>there's these things called mobile devices

Alright, getting past the snark...

I dont really think Grindr is any safer. The point of grindr seems to make people feel safe from rejection. Thats not safe. It has nothing to do with who the person really is.

I do the grindr thing and its as least as pathetic. Chats, skype, emails, texts. All this bullshit to avoid actually meeting someone and risking getting to know them in 3d space. Using it is one thing, relying on it is a bit ridiculous. If one can't hook up with the 'safety' of a phone, they have developed a problem.

And if I sound a little peeved, its because I am. Every time I ask about real life cruising, someone wants to turn the topic to defending their precious apps. Even gay bars are saying business is down, because people perceive apps as safe, and then go into a spiel about ax murderers as if the same freaks aren't using grindr themselves.

Using it- fine. Depending on it, not fine. Timid people dont like to admit they're pussies around men, so they act like Grindr is the holy grail of hook ups and end up making sex even less personal than clocking a guy at the grocery store for a quickie.

Again, I readily admit for a third time- before the Grindr Defense Force gets here- that a phone app is a fine tool for meeting people. But if I bring up actual IRL cruising and the GDF comes out as if that were the topic to promote it as the 'answer', my bs detectors go off. Its like asking where to get a burger and suddenly vegans appear to tell you why meat is wrong. One has nothing to do with the other. So a person who hears 'crusinng' and responds with 'grindr' has some sort of issue about IRL socializing.

I am not singling you out. but if you get defensive when no one was attacking you and get condescending before promoting the exact opposite method, I am going to assume you are reading and reacting to something that isn't there.
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>>1380738

... Fourth time: grindr is fine for occasional use. But its not any 'safer' except for safety from judgement or actual personality challenges, and its sure as hell got nothing to do with cruising IRL.

I get the feeling there are people who check their grindr just to see if someone 30 feet from them is on it before daring to make a move. The way people describe their dependence on it, I can imagine it.
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I'm the manager of an adult bookstore in PA. You can absolutely get cock there. Its pretty much an all you can eat buffet depending on what time you go. Anyone who says these places are a thing of the past has no idea what they're talking about. Nice people go into them. i recommended it for anyone looking to try a cock on the down low.
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>>1381866
>adult bookstore dick
If I want HPV I'll go hire an attractive slut and at least get a good, young fuck out of it.
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You do not need to worry about cops coming in there. It never happens.
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>>1381866

That's interesting. But how does it work? Does one hang out in a stall all night? How does one read what one wants?

I guess the biggest concern is (a) how do you know you want the cock coming in the hole and (b) what do if its one you know you dont

I dont mind a daddy. I just dont want to be blowing some transient with 12 STD diagnoses.

Im just going to admit I'm clueless and probably am looking at it wrong or something.

>all you can eat buffet

It does sound tempting. I suppose I would need to up my confidence.

* I wonder if certain times are better for certain things or certain crowds.

I am as worried about being a doofus as I am of misinterpreting someone or getting in a cat fight over competition for cock.
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>>1380738
i don't fear rejection and use grindr

you have to sift through the bots and idiots and still have to vet your potentials

but it's a new way to cruise and you can get a lot of game pretty quickly

since i'm hypersexual, it's a good fit for me: when i'm horny i can line up bodies and then get picky about who i play with

hanging around some park restroom all day hoping for some morsel to fall into your hands is a big waste of time, plus you'd get desperate and have to settle for something 'less' than ideal

so try to rope in dudes who'd be willing to do a meet and greet and then arrange a 'scene' to act out in the head

you have to sort through bullshit, jokers, weenies and vicious cunts no matter what venue you're milking: grindr just makes it faster

with half a brain cell and if you're willing to go the learning curve, it can actually be fun
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>>1381867
kek
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>>1379987
Fuck i want that cock
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>>1380112
Fuck I want that mouth
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Welp, that was horrible.

I'm not blaming anyone, but when I read 'buffet of cocks" I suited up and went down to one.

It was three exceptionally aged men (one wasnt so bad, but I didn't want to be 'that guy' my first time.) The back room was a maze and I'm still not sure of the layout.

To make it a scene right out of a John Waters movie, a local roaming black retard was there, I mean literally safety-glasses and slack-jawed retard.

I think I was getting attention and politely demurred, and having seen everything there was in less than 5 minutes, simply left.

On the bright side, they had cold bottled water, and the cashier was very nice.

The strangest thing, I thought, was that it closed at 12:45am, which I thought was odd, since all the bars on either side close at 2am.

Whatever it was, I did it wrong I guess. I thought it would be more active on a Saturday night.

>>1381886


I suppose. I did get kind reply from some 21 y/o football jock who seemed nice. I gave some older men a polite 'no thanks' but the courtesy of some compliments and friendly chat.

The prize last evening was my type, a mixed Latino 32 y/o top (a recent convert or vers I suspect, but nice all the same) who was fairly handsome, and both charming and refreshingly forward. However it was very late, so I am marking it as "pending" because Im a bit skittish about anything discussed so late for some reason. I did leave my email, but I think I may have frustrated him a bit because I'm not 'right now' and he clearly was.
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>>1381944

Now Im afraid to turn it back on because I dont want to seem rude when I get dog-piled with persistent people I was just trying to be polite with or frustrate any more hotties. Both the jock and the Latino may expect something faster than I am willing to go, and being online just pushes me faster with expectations.

I can take rejection fine; I think its healthy. Clearly I'm more socially autistic than I realized. The truth is that I am used to situational hetero encounters, and this gay-to-gay tempo is just a disorienting pace.

tl;dr- I fail at life, and should probably work on that, grindr, bookstore or whatever.

Thank you for the advice, I can use any insight from more experienced people that I can get.
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Here's the sauce . You're welcum :P
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>>1382006

Thank you

<3
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>>1381867
you see, it doesn't matter. you will get that shit either way
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I've been to 3 privates glory hole (i.e: guys that had a GH at their place) and it was a pretty cool experience. ( I was the one getting sucked) I wouldnt go to a public GH but a private one is fine an can be found easily in dating site
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>>1381866
>Its pretty much an all you can eat buffet depending on what time you go

I'm straight but really curious about sucking, and what you described sounds exactly like what I want. Wish I could find one near were I live.
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>>1382355

Well, if you're straight its going to be more difficult to find an enjoyable match available by cruising. A GH doesn't seem like it would be a good match for a first time straight tourist. You might be better off developing a rapport with someone you can walk away from without either feeling hurt. Its your first, you wanna be picky or you might either get an odd fetish from the single intensity of one experience or, more often, feel bad about your self image if you dont like it.

I know guys that are just into cocks aren't into men. Nonetheless, you should think about what kind of man you want it attached to. If you treat it as a disembodied member, you wont get much from it and it may just make you feel weird.

It may even come to you pretending to be closeted or just say you're curious. If you say you are straight in real life, it will just confuse people who dont get it.
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>>1381944
>I suppose. I did get kind reply from some 21 y/o football jock who seemed nice. I gave some older men a polite 'no thanks' but the courtesy of some compliments and friendly chat.
>The prize last evening was my type, a mixed Latino 32 y/o top (a recent convert or vers I suspect, but nice all the same) who was fairly handsome, and both charming and refreshingly forward. However it was very late, so I am marking it as "pending" because Im a bit skittish about anything discussed so late for some reason. I did leave my email, but I think I may have frustrated him a bit because I'm not 'right now' and he clearly was.

reading between the lines (and maybe i'm way off base), it sounds like you're really looking for a friend who could turn into a fwb...maybe

or maybe a real live boyfriend?

grindr isn't your best venue for this, grindr is good for 'right now' or as a way for friends to stay in touch (honestly, a lot of guys use it for that, too)

join a club, hang out in a social group and just meet guys: you'll find more of a match if you find something who shares your interests
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>>1382739

I think maybe you're right, and that sounds good. Idw want to be committed to anyone because thats not right for me. But I would like some people who could depend on me to take care of them once in a while.

Idw any real emotional connection, that wouldnt be right for me either. I like to just do my thing, make them feel appreciated and cared for, and leave them in peace.

I am not used to or good with men who want to be a bf, thats not how I see myself. I see myself as someone who provides comfort and relief to men who work to make as best of a life as they can and just need a break with no judgements and true if expendable compassion, if just for a while.


Maybe thats what I should work on. Its just I have had complications myself that distracted me from it all, and I've felt a little lost getting back into it. I am used to spontaneous situational encounters, and without them and no plan, its just been disorienting.

I should maybe be a little more open minded too, and not so scared of hit ups. Im sure they are nice people, but anything internet related seems so unnatural to me. I am used to instant face-to-face appraisals and decisions, not all this internet swordplay.


When you live to please and theres no one to care for, it can make one feel useless, and that hurts if you let yourself believe it.

many thanks for your advice. I think it will be helpful and will be pondering it and the possibilities.

<3
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My first gay experience was at an adult bookstore. I was on my way to the airport and found out my flight was delayed. Rather than hang out at the airport, I saw an adult bookstore and I went in to watch a video and jackoff to relieve the horniness and kill some time. got $5 worth of tokens, went into the video booth area and saw several guys standing in the hallway - just outside the the booths. I thought that maybe they were waiting in line to use the booth, but noticed one door was slightly open. I walked in only to find 2 guys laying on the floor sucking each others cocks. Embarrassed, I hurried back out and was standing in front of everyone when one guy pointed to another door and said go ahead. I said thanks, walked in, stripped off my clothes and dropped some tokens in. I selected a movie and started stroking my cock. I am 6'5", 200 pounds, muscular and have a very large cock. In no time, I was stroking my thick shaft, when suddenly, the guy who let me use the booth, walked in on me. Now, under ordinary circumstances, I would have covered up and been embarrassed. But, for some reason, today I wasn't. I just stood there - cock at attention - staring at this complete stranger. His eyes opened wide as he just stared at my big cock. I have to admit, it was harder and larger than I had ever seen it before. He dropped to his knees and wrapped his lips around the head of my cock. He started sucking and stroking my cock. Within minutes, I told him I was going to cum. He started picking up the pace while stroking my shaft and balls with his hands. I felt my knees weaken and my balls quiver as I felt as if my entire being was preparing to shoot out of my cock. I started cumming stream after stream of hot cum in what was the most intense orgasm I had ever had. He managed to swallow most of it and ever since then, I have been obsessed with guys, cock & cum. I'm basically a full-blown faggot now thanks to this experience.
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>>1383307

Sadly, that was not my first experience because Im an idiot. I was 18 and had no idea how anything worked. I didnt understand why the guys hanging out were staring at me and thought people just went to watch porn. So I was confused and offended when eyeballs started showing up in the wall and left.
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>>1383316
It is OK to let them watch and show off if you want. Most of these places have doors that lock. If there is a lock and you don't want company, use it.
I don't go there to get sucked off. I go there to satisfy my exhibitionistic side. I even squirt my cum into the hole if someone is enjoying the show.
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>>1382466
Thanks for the advice, anon. And yeah, I'm exactly that way, just interested in cocks, not guys.
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>>1379987

Genuine question.

Are gays really this thirsty for cock that they have to go to places like this, or constantly seek cock on apps like Grindr to satisfy their thirst? Is the thirst insatiable?
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>>1384961

Its not that different than rage-quittting dating and getting a prostitute just to get off.

We do truly love the D more than words can express, however American men make everything overly complicated, and options whittle quickly. Men who want nothing more than their cock sucked have a contemptible habit of still making it a long, wearisome courtship.

If you just tell a faggot to suck your cock, he'll likely do it. Some need to feign protest for about 5 seconds, at which point you threaten to cancel the order, which should put them on their knees in under 2 seconds. If they take to long to get over their virtue, you at least get the comfort of knowing they will be kicking themselves later.

There is actually a church to cock, but sadly it isn't very spiritual or intellectual, just a bunch of crazy old men living out their own parody.
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>>1384973

Mm. It sounds like getting a gay guy to drop to his knees for me at a whim is easy.

What about commitment though?
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>>1384973
Sauce?
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Anyone been to Steamworks in Seattle? I am moving there soon and I am thinking about checking it out
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>>1380738
Source for this gif?
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>>1381946
well you sound kinda normal, which isn't a bad thing. Maybe you could put stuff in your profile which explains what you want and don't want, but politely. Also change your "Looking For" options to just chat or chat and friends or something. That way you are open to persuasion but only as a consequence of good rapport with someone, not as a prerequisite.

Also don't be too hung up on seeming rude. And try not to overthink stuff and learn to block people. You're only blocking them not condemning them to hell
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>>1382757
>I am used to instant face-to-face appraisals and decisions, not all this internet swordplay.
I'm the same I think
It's nice to get some sexy pics from people but I just know that it doesn't matter how sexy the pics I won't really know for sure if I'm into him until we actually meet in person. Then it only takes about 30 seconds to decide if it's a yes or no.

If I do ever get round to meeting someone, it's pretty rare I'm kinda fussy, then I try to make it clear that we both reserve the right to refuse any sexual contact if the chemistry isn't there in person. I've had some nice chats with guys which have ended with no sexual contact either because I wasn't into it or they weren't. I feel much more positive about those encounters than the ones where i've just gone ahead and had sex because "oh well I'm here now, may as well"
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>>1386308
>Anyone been to Steamworks in Seattle?

No, but i've been to Steamworks in Berkeley.
It is pretty cool.
Wide range of guys.
Best on weekends, obviously.
Late night it gets really busy, after the clubs close I guess.
You can find pretty much any type of guy you are looking for.
Just be careful to have safe sex since a lot of the guys who go to places like this go every weekend and have sex with lots and lots of people.
I have met some good friends there though.
Kind of expensive but worth it to get a room.

http://www.yelp.com/biz/steamworks-berkeley
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>>1380235
>>1380490
>>1380556

Its from Falcon Studios - Big Dick Club
Its quite old, but one of the best porno out there desu
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>>1386308
I live in the area, steamworks is pretty good. Better than club z (the other one) in my experience but only been to z once when the steam room steamworks wasn't...well...working. go ahead and roll your eyes at that one.
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>>1379987
Sauce on that gif please.
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>>1387767
Alright thanks for the Info I Will have to check it out. I have always wanted to try it but I always end up backing out. I planned on playing safe but thanks for the heads up.

>>1387793
Cool. I have heard mixed things about club z online was it bad?
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>>1387800
http://www.gayforit.eu/video/314712/Armond-Rizzo--Brett-Bradley-At-Gloryhole
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>>1379987
>Are there normal guys or just queens

Mostly married guys who don't get sex from their wives. Go to an adult book store next to an army base. You will get mostly young military dudes who just want to unload in your mouth. You can look through the hole and see what they look like before you suck them if you are afraid of getting an old man.

It is the best place to get straight cock, honestly, and the easiest. You don't have to buy them drinks and you are pretty safe in your booth with the door locked. You just have to buy tokens and keep watching films or the attendants will throw you out.
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>>1384973
Anyone got source on this one please?
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>>1388997
pros
>don't have to buy drinks or spend much money
>easier way to get str8 cock because it's instant
>easier way to get married or middle-aged cock
>little to no drama
>very safe and discreet
>basically any time of the day you can unload
>do what you want - suck them, get sucked, fuck, just handjobs, etc.
>can also allow them in your booth or go to private theater

cons
>there are creeps who don't stop looking at the action, only because they aren't getting any themselves yet.
>some are flat out rude, but never dangerous
>sometimes you may go there and there are only one or two other guys there, who are into other things.
>some guys make eye contact in the hallways and make the discretion of it all weird.
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>>1392597
lets not forget stds
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>>1388997

bumping for interest
anyone have any stories of sucking straight guys?
i really wanna suck a straight guy's cock
pic related
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My master is going to bring me to an adult theater to whore me out this friday. Can't fucking wait for it
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>straight guys using homo gloryholes

lmaoing at all of you
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There fun actually, I have met alot of guys going to one close to where I used to live. Just be ready for guys to come in the booth that are sketchy. I always left the booth door unlocked. Alot of guys want to be sucked off, make your point obvious, top bottom, suck me suck you kind of thing.

Enjoy.
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>>1395633
time to kys senpai
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>>1384987
>What about commitment though?
To keep a gay guy just tell him he'll have unlimited access to your dick.
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>>1379987
Honest question to the glory hole people

How do you know when you stick your dick in someone's not gonna cut it off or some shit. There's a lot of fucked up people out there
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>>1396277
Ya don't, which one of the reasons why less people use glory holes now and more people use hookup apps, online matchmakers or even just craigslist. At least you've seen the person and got a feel for them in those situations, not that they're perfectly safe either.
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>>1396277
How do you know you're not going to be brutally murdered the moment you step out of your front door?

There are risks in anything worthwhile.
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well i guess i'll step into this thread for a bit. Glory holes and adult book stores have died out over the years due to police patrols and the stainless steel urinal partitions In fact i would say its more the partitions then anything else. Back in the old days most glory holes were in truck stops and public restrooms at park and rest stops. Because the straight public started using these place more often and some dumb gay guys would try for anything they started putting up the steel partitions to stop the activity after receiving numerous complaints from straight men or underage males who had been solicited in these public restrooms and truck stops. From my experience most glory holes are in the nastiest restrooms you can find. Often the dick you suck is from some nasty old man who can't get any from his wife. the gloryhole scenarios you often seen in porn films is totally fake or extremely rare in the real world.
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>>1380174
Salty milk and coins.
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>>1396292

Thats something to think about, thank you
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