Having just read Unwin's "Sex and Culture", I must ask you /his/: do you think society would be better off, or worse off, if everyone (both men and women) waited until marriage to have sex?
If everyone waited until marriage, and didn't cheat after marriage std's would be almost none existent.
Could be better considering there's shitloads more to a potential relationship than just sex
There's a lot to do
>>1454066
It would lead to a lot of sexual frustration though, especially among the youth and those in highschool.
Would be worse as people would marry just for a sex, which is retarded.
>>1454118
That is why marriage and sex should be mandatory duty.
>>1454118
They just masturbate. Without porn it gets boring and they're more likely to socialize with females and get a gf. The introduction of (((porn))) is what ruined things and created a generation of docile, unamused "men"
>>1454152
This is literally what happened and it was awful. It's better to take marriage seriously, not as something you have to do before you fuck.
>>1454152
Yeah, also people need to see if they're sexually compatible, also need to get experience. Two virgins fumbling around is just terrible sex.
>>1454035
Define better.
I personally think that no, society would not be "better" off. Not only is the idea kind of ridiculous (attempting to suppress biological urges), but it can't really be done unless we drug the population.
>>1454163
>Without porn it gets boring and they're more likely to socialize with females and get a gf
I know plenty of people who look at porn and have a gf/wife, myself included. Very few people get so involved with porn that they don't want a relationship.
>The introduction of (((porn))) is what ruined things and created a generation of docile, unamused "men"
And when exactly would you place the "introduction" of porn?
>>1454333
>take marriage seriously
Not to offend, but why exactly should marriage be taken seriously? Why even bother with it anymore?
>>1454035
It always seemed to me that sex, being one of the strives in humans (the drive to ejaculate for men, the drive to become impregnated for women) was an obvious choice if you were really trying to control people and build a stable society.
"You want to fuck her, don't you? You better have this ritual in front of your whole family and this religious professional or else you won't get any of the tasty booty...."
For the plebs, anyway. Kings always fucked however many and whoever they wanted, and it was generally celebrated.
>>1454051
>if everyone
If everyone got tested regularly, especially before raw-dogging a new partner, std's would be eradicated in a week.
Also, condoms as anti-pregnancy devices are a meme.
Marriage is a fucking spook holy fucking shit. Desire for sex? What the fuck is this, 18th century? You realize porn is a thing and desire for sex is outdated? Holy shit, if you are that desperate buy an onahole, sex is a spook.
>>1454340
There's no such thing as sexual incompatibility. It's a meme pushed by hedonists to justify being scum
>>1454471
I have literally not wanted to fuck some woman once it came time. Hot body, sexy skin, just wasn't into it. Maybe it was some kind incompatible pheromone. Not even gay.
>>1454471
There is such a thing as sexual incompatibility, talk to a female or a sex therapist about it and realize everything you've ever done wrong during sex
>>1454496
What's that to do with some innate incompatibility? That just has to do with talking to your partner and learning.