Posted this on /hgg/ but I think I could recieve here better

Give up porn for a while, youare destorying your body. Its cool to fap, but try it without porn every day.

like anon said, take a break. Make sure the stuff is still special to you and quit beating your meat so much. It ain't gonna cut it at some point so hold back a bit so it can be more like a reward than a part of life.

>>4723626
The arousal is simply covering up the depression. When the arousal disappears, all you're left with is increased depression that had been blocked by the arousal. Eventually, your depression will overcome all your arousal and then you'll simply be depressed all the time.

I advise to stop doing stuff that increases your depression. If you are going to fap, then avoid depressing material.

I started masturbating at 10, then discovered softcore pics, wasnt into hardcore pics, then discovered erotic stories and hentai softcore, graduated slowly over the years to every facet of perverse hentai. Erotic stories are far more extreme even than what you find in hentai. Hit 25+, began to worry about if porn would affect my sex drive down the line. Ironically it was quitting cold turkey porn and masturbating that threw off my sex drive.

The thing is, I don't think it's normal to be horny every day and masturbate to porn. I think the more healthy rhythm is what happens when you stop using *both* porn and masturbating for a while. You lose some sex drive comparatively, but that's because previously you were artificially keeping it in overdrive with gradual increasing weird stimulating porn over the years. It feels weird to be out of the cycle but porn and masturbating loses it's importance once you quit both for a while. Then you can return and enjoy hentai in a calmer fashion, rather than triggering a relentless (and no longer satisfying) urge to jerk off.

>>4723666
digits

>>>/a/161261170
This to me is somewhat the pinnacle of enjoyment nowadays as far as lewd 2D goes. And I don't masturbate, just enjoy. And this is coming from someone who used to be into more or less only into scat, futa, rape, slavery, and torture hentai. Once you quit fapping and porn for a few months, you can appreciate subtle sexuality again, without it being a ritual addiction and a freakish routine bodily function of cumming anymore. I also enjoy watching non-hentai anime now, whereas before it was all about sadpanda and its predecessors.

I started masturbating at 10, then discovered softcore pics, wasnt into hardcore pics, then discovered erotic stories and hentai softcore, graduated slowly over the years to every facet of perverse hentai. Erotic stories are far more extreme even than what you find in hentai. Hit 25+, began to worry about if porn would affect my sex drive down the line. Ironically it was quitting cold turkey porn and masturbating that threw off my sex drive.
The thing is, I don't think it's normal to be horny every day and masturbate to porn. I think the more healthy rhythm is what happens when you stop using *both* porn and masturbating for a while. You lose some sex drive comparatively, but that's because previously you were artificially keeping it in overdrive with gradual increasingly stimulating 2D porn over the years. It feels weird to be out of the cycle but porn and masturbating loses it's importance once you quit both for a while. Then you can return and enjoy hentai in a calmer fashion, rather than triggering a relentless (and no longer satisfying) urge to jerk off.
>>>/a/161261170
This to me is the pinnacle of enjoyment nowadays as far as lewd 2D goes. And I don't masturbate, just enjoy. And this is coming from someone who used to be into more or less only into scat, futa, rape, slavery, and torture hentai. Once you quit fapping and porn for a few months, you can appreciate subtle sexuality again, without it being a ritual addiction and a freakish routine bodily function of cumming anymore. I also enjoy watching non-hentai anime now, whereas before it was all about sadpanda and its predecessors.

>>4723666
digits

apologies, I tried to consolidate but am unable to delete the originals.

kill yourself

you've ruined your mind and body with ntr and now the only solution to your problem is death

may you be reborn with a cleaner soul

>>4723626
>I can't stop feeling a bit depressive whenever I watch H

I bet you are underage or just young, but whatever.

It's quietly simple anon.
I myself don't know the chemistry behind it, but in laymans terms it goes like this.

You get excited the the excitement grows and grows the more pleasure you receive.

And then BEM. (cum)
You were building this excitement for some time now, and it went from 100 to 0 really fast.

and now you are depressed because of that.

It's same with drugs.
and the more you get these downs, the more you suffer after.

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>>4724110

I'm 23

Yes I understand that, but I don't get depressed after cumming, I get depressed watching the H and the scenes, like I can't tolerate now some things that before never ever worried me, like NTR, rape, group sex

When I read ''vanilla'' nothing of that happens, not matter if they are fucking really rough

I do think I need a mix of both things, stop fapping because I do fap a lot now, some days I can just fap one time and others 4 or 5, and stop watching/fapping to all that hardcore porn to more natural material. I don't think there is any problem watching hardcore porn tho, but I have abused a lot of it on all these years.

And thanks for the tips and help, I appreciate it.

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>>4724422
>Yes I understand that, but I don't get depressed after cumming, I get depressed watching the H and the scenes, like I can't tolerate now some things that before never ever worried me, like NTR, rape, group sex

Well, I have hypothesis for that one.

Maybe you saw something, let's give it name X.

And now watching certain H scenes evokes X.
The evocation itself is train of thoughts (connected cells inside your brain, so "train" of thoughts is quietly accurate way of describing it, but there are more trains, and they go in more directions and very very fast.)

I don't know why is X connected to certain H scenes, but that's your part.

So, did somebody call u disgusting freak ?
Did you see woman getting raped ?
Did you hear some faggot talking about gentle love ?
Maybe it was something unconscious.
Maybe you only fapped to such scenes because u wanted to escape something ? Out of hatred? And now you realized something.
But why and how did you realized something ?
I don't know.

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>>4725510

Thanks for the theorycrafting cute little Sakurako.

Anyway, I don't have any of that, my life has been always peaceful and without traumas (well I remember that me and my older sister when we were kids played dirty games about getting her naked like on a magazine, but that is HARDLY a trauma).

The thing that depresses me the most is when on a harem, romantic things are said and few scenes later all of that is forgotten and the mc is flirting with other girls like nothing important happened before, not only happens on a harem, if I see that on a romantic show I would be depressed too (even more because I know that harems are a stupid genre that I should not take serious when things like that happens and a romantic show is always more deep, but I still fell bad for the girl(or guy if is inverse).

This more or less always triggered me, but never to get depressed at this point, now I loathe cheating or NTR when before I just didn't give a fuck.

where do I find this hgg?

>been fapping to ryona 10 years
>never experienced this
and I still enjoy it, the best thing is that some anime studios finally acknowledge us and throw fanservice from time to time

Millennials that have the discipline to refrain from porn for an extended period of time are few and far between. It takes a gargantuan act of heroism to make it longer than two weeks and then right when the future's looking up and we have more energy than ever before, we jump head-first back into the downward spiral. Back on SadPanda's Wild Ride.
It's the fault of Generation X's negligent parenting. It's the fault of the Internet. It's the fault of capitalistic porn industries from Bangbros to the titty sections of Comiket. It's our fault for pretending we don't have a problem because everyone else whacks off to drawings ten times a day too.
We're smart enough to recognize our addiction yet we're too intellectually unequipped to deal with it. Every time we feel like we've uncovered the secret to overcoming our bad habits, every time we feel a surge of willpower, our dicks show us just how powerless we are in the face of our biological programming. Time is a flat circle, etc.

>>4728117
Nice Fight Club riff.

>>4728010
No one has made a new thread, the last one was #19.
>>4692832

>>4725670
i have bad news for you, you actually matured and dislike injustice in love now and are unable to enjoy degenerate love triangles, friends with benefits, ntr etc. anymore.

hardly a bad thing, but ofc unusual nowadays, when friends with benefits is the norm somehow. which is why you think it is a problem that you feel that way, when it is not. you just grew out of it and age doesn't matter in that regard, there are 50 year olds that are less mature than some 18 year olds.

you prbly always had a more conservative approach to love and sex and what kept you fapping to ntr and such was the forbidden aspect of it and thus exciting for you. those things tend to fade away quickly and suddenly, as it can only be interesting for so long for you. well and deep down you always knew it was "wrong" from your viewpoint, if i am correct.

that would be my guess at least.

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>>4729607

OP here

Nice post anon because you hit the spot. Thinking these days what u said it's the conclusion I got.

>well and deep down you always knew it was "wrong" from your viewpoint, if i am correct.

You are correct, I always ignored the ''bad'' thing about it and tried to enjoy the art or the postures.

Reading that from another person made me feel a lot better too after reaching that conclusion.

I thank you

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>>4730015
glad that i could help you. we are kinda in the same boat, so that is why i could relate easily.
wish you the best for your fapping sessions and that you find stuff that really turns you on, without depression afterwards!