Hey there anon What steps are you taking to become the man you

>>42849619
Doing the future-authoring program as we speak my nigga

Current goals
> Master Degree with an average of B
> 1/2/3/4 for reps @ 10% BF
> Get an amazing GF
> Develop my side business to graduate without loans
> Travel more
> Become proficient in meditation
> Good social circle with positive people
> Control over my personal economy

>>42849660
What are you studying anon?

I finished tying the noose. Just have to hang it and then myself.

>>42849673
Lecturer for higher education. English and religion

>>42849684
>religion
>"higher education"

Burgers are literally retarded

>>42849702
But im in yurop

>>42849684
yep you are the type of people to have a wife who fucks tyrone on the weekly

>>42849619
Not bringing a kid into the hellscape that is existence and sapience, for one.

I'm trying to be more low energy, more rough , care less about what people think, be a fucking man for once in my life.

My dad used to lift, played in a band, was a professor, so I'm not insecure about any of that.

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>>42849702
t.Ulfrid Dragoncloak, Athiest Warlock

>>42849619
I'm still taking care of my body everyday through lifting and cardio. Also training to be more even keeled with my emotions.


My Dad doesn't take care of himself that much and has kind of an anger issue at times. But he's a pretty well rounded individual and a good man and father. He could of been more successful in his business pursuits but he put himself out there and was willing to take the risk. I know not everyone succeeds so taking the risk is counts to me. I respect him a lot

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>>42849721
Empty pejorative mouth-noises
kys

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>>42849619
I've been sorting myself out since April. So far I've:
>quit weed
>quit tobacco (still struggling a bit)
>quit porn
>started fapping only at weekends
>started playing vidya only at weekends
>started working out (3x a week)
>started eating right (finally escaped skinnyfat mode)
>started socializing
>started taking my studies seriously (I had almost dropped out, EE)
I worked at all these all summer, and it payed off tenfold when I went on vacation, best time I've had for years.
For reference, I'm 23yo, and I spent the past 4 years of my life staying inside, hating the world, smoking weed, fapping and playing vidya every fucking night. I'd probably killed myself in a couple of years. Right now the hard work is paying off, and the future seems a lot brighter (although I've still got tons of work to do). If I could do it you can do it.

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>>42849619
Lifting
Reading
Working
Rinsing and repeating
My father worked hard to keep us fed, but he did fuck-all to take care of his body and he's 3 heart-attacks and 1 coma into paying dearly for it
He's also a 60's/70's liberal, and fell hard for the egalitarian meme. It's my duty to stop that shit right here and make sure it doesn't carry forward another generation.

>>42849790
How long has it been since you last used porn? I just recently quit myself, been quite rough.

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>>42849684
Aiming for a PhD in Linguistics myself. Good on you, anon.

>>42849721
>t. illiterate nigger

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>>42849874
Nice. I am studying grammar now and it's great. Almost makes me want to get into linguistics.

>>42849828
I too am having a rough time quitting porn, just relapsed 30 minutes ago. My life has gotten much better since I started trying last December but I need to succeed and truly break free.

>>42849619
Tbh if I turn out half the man my father is I will be Head and shoulders above most people on the planet

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>dad is 6'1
>I'm 5'9
>get sorta depressed after discovering what the internet's consensus of guys my height is, complain to my dad about height
>dad glares at me, declaring that both my grandad and great grandad were both around 5'7-5'8 and the greatest men he's ever known.
Dad was a cannon crewmember in the army so I've decided to enlist as a mechanic before I enroll in college. My admiration for him is boundless.

>>42849985
Tell me about your dad anon.

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>>42849828
It's only been a couple of weeks, and I'm still struggling and truth be told I've slipped a couple of times
I've gone through quitting tobacco, and I would even say that porn has been harder, probably because the detrimental effects are not that obvious. Porn is like tobacco and coke (although much lesser, and without the addictive chemicals) in the sense that it's your dopaminergic systems that are urging you to partake. Basically, your brain has been wired to believe that porn = reward, and so it pushes you to watch it with the same systems that it uses to urge you to eat when you are starving. Those are the hardest addictions to break, and for good reason.
The first thing you have to do is to break the mental pathways. That takes a few days depending on the person, and you have to endure cravings. Stay away from every source of porn, distract yourself, and keep doing it until those cravings subside. It doesn't take long.
After that, however, is the final and maybe most important part, which is to go back to doing whatever you used to do, and go from a person who is actively avoiding porn to a person that doesn't use porn. You'll want to go back to browsing the chans, checking whatever social media you use etc, and while you still shouldn't seek out porn, you shouldn't actively turn your head away when you come across it. The reason being, you now have to break the associations, and you are still 1-2 weeks into the breaking of the habit, so you still have the determination and the motivation to keep going. If you don't do that sure, you'll stay clean, but once you come across a hot webm a month in you'll immediately get a boner and you'll go "fuck it".
Also, you'll want to keep a note with the reasons you don't want to watch porn anymore, it'll be useful when you're 1 month in and on the verge of going "fuck it". And find a way to reward yourself. You're breaking an addiction goddammit, that ain't fucking easy!
This is a very rough guide, so ask away.

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>>42849619
>lifting

Lifting, in the words of the great philosopher Bugenhagen, is the catalyst for bigger and better things in your life. Once you start lifting properly and regularly, you start to see fields of your life as a series of goals to complete -work, family, social, health, sport etc - instead of just things you have to tick boxes in to survive. Kind of like an mmo, if that makes sense. I'm building myself as a character.

I've gotten a good job straight out of uni by following up on contacts (and making those contacts in the first place through internships and research and whatnot while in uni) in a company well-known in the industry. I've got my first paper coming out in a journal in 6 months. Now it's just a matter of doing good work and working my way up old mate's dominance hierarchy.

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>>42849619

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>>42849738
>have the opportunity to immerse yourself in and study any equally astounding aspect of the natural world
>choose a man made story
religitards only respond with hat memes

>>42849790
How should I start sorting myself out?

Trying to sort myself out proves to be harder than I thought.

It's a 24/7 job really, because I just picked the highest fucking goals that just take work and work and work and work. I keep working on the most important one, but it feels like I burn myself out with just that and avoid my other goals.
Doesn't help that I spend too much time on this stupid website. Maybe I should just block it for good. But I like you guys.

>>42850752
Do it anon, self improvement is the only thing that gives meaning to life.

>>42850798
What worked for me is starting with smaller goals and than once those become easy move onto the harder ones. Instead of forcing yourself to work out 7 days a week for 1.5 hours just start with 3 days a week. Instead of cutting out smoking, drinking, fapping make it once a week. Than once you have accomplished those goals you can move onto the harder ones

>>42849660
>B average in a graduate program
>getting the bare minimum in a graduate program
cmon son

>>42849965
I had some moderate success awhile back. What I did was stop using my computer for anything except work. I also did a thing where any time I thought about it, I switched gears to something I really didn't want to do like the dishes or laundry or homework or anything you've been meaning to optimize. Good luck dude.

>>42850249
man fuck all that gay shit, the tall excuse is the lowest hanging fruit for insults. I've done so much better than my tall friends, it solely comes down how much value you are per inch.

>>42850830
maybe I should be more specific

There are currently no small goals to tackle, my life is generally pretty much in order and nothing stands out
But that's the issue. Nothing stands out. Lifting works just great for me without having to put much effort into it. University is going great without having to put much effort into it.

Around new year's I decided to learn japanese and find a japanese girlfriend though. And that's my primary goal right now because I'm already 24 and feel like I need to start moving toward marriage at some point.
My other goal is to develop a videogame. But that's even more work and this goal is suffering badly because I'll literally spend 4 hours a day learning Japanese, 2 hours lifting and then I'm D O N E.

>>42850699
the end justifies the means

>>42849790
good job anon I'm proud of you

>>42849660
Nice, don´t stop now, my man. We´re all gonna slay that dragon.

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>>42849660
cringe

>>42849790
Hey, we have the exact same story down to every detail. I feel you, brother.
Keep going.

>>42850950
Literally what is cringe about any of that
>implying wanted to better yourself mentally, professionally, physically, and socially is cringe
stay in your basement neet

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>>42850752
Hey mate. I'm in no way an expert, and I'm still struggling, but here's what I'd recommend for getting into JBP and the process of sorting yourself out
A small intro:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EhweDo14bDM
First of all, watch JBP's first interview on Joe Rogan. It's a good outline of what he's about
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=04wyGK6k6HE
After that, I'd recommend you look around and check out some small clips of JBP
Start with these
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rnaASd6Vm58
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aVhj_phpAYQ
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wuhpaWsbFuU
Look around for more, there's a hundred of channels cannibalizing his videos and putting out clips, this one has the most content afaik
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCo9QgwWCNEhDxL1gH-jxa8Q
You can spend weeks just watching small clips, they're enough to give you the gist of why and how you should sort yourself out, or you could dive into his lectures. In that case you should start with these
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL22J3VaeABQApSdW8X71Ihe34eKN6XhCi
I'd also recommend buying his self authoring program, I've bought it myself and it has helped me a great deal. It's pretty much a step-by-step method to write an autobiography, evaluate yourself, and, most importantly, write a plan for the future.
In fact, I'd recommend you start the future authoring program right away, it's the most useful tool in this process. Since, however, you probably don't want to shill out 30$ on the word of some anon that might as well be a shill, here it is for free.99$
https://pastebin.com/BiFE2fUX
It's missing the functionality of the website, but you can easily make it work
Finally, here's a guy in his 30s sorting himself out and putting out a vlog every week or so, I've been following him in parallel to my own progress
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC2i_hx_UfauBFh5DA3YWfDg

>>42850904
>>42850970
Thanks a lot anons. I'm doing my best, two steps forward one step back, but that's how it goes.

>>42849619
my father was a chad that ran around impregnating random women not giving a fuck. As a result I was raised without a father and ended up homeless in my early teens after my mother gave up and abandoned me. Being homeless as a teenager fucked me up really bad far worse than having a single abusive mother. 10 years later I still have no fucking idea how to be a man or to undue the psychological damage I faced in my life. A bright future is a work of fiction.

>>42849684
>humanities

>>42851111
>impregnating random women not giving a fuck
pun intended?

>>42849660
>>42849684
No offense but a B average in English and religion is nothing to brag about

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>>42851161
>STEM elitism
I'm doing what I love, and that involves studying Old English literature and developing fluency in multiple languages -both modern and dead. Wouldn't trade it for anything.

>>42851111
>I still have no fucking idea how to be a man
Find a men that you idolize and do your best to copy their behavior. That the best place to start anon if you have no idea

>>42850249
Don't let genetics prevent you from being successful, breh. Sure your height isn't the ideal, but many influential people have done more with far less.

>>42850699

>two bit academic

Stopped reading there desu senpai. Stop being a pleb and sort yourself out.

>>42851232
Good luck getting a decent job kek

>>42850713

>Hahaha, why study Why when you can just study What?

That attitude creates labrats, anon, not great scientists.

>>42849660
>>42849619
Does anybody have the github link of the self authoring suite?

>>42851295
>kek
I currently teach high school English, but I've always wanted to become a university professor. After I complete my PhD I'll begin searching for openings.

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>>42849619
>Not appreciating your father's faults as a character builder and an opportunity to overcome, bettering your bloodline generation by generation

>>42849660
You might want to remove the gf goal.

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>>42849660
>>42849790
>>42849965
>>42850798
>>42850882
Set SMART goals. You have to set good goals so you can actually make measurable progress. This will help start the reinforcement process in your brain.

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>>42850249
>175cms
>depressed
>he fell for the meme

>>42849721
absolutely forever rekt how will high IQs ever recover

>>42851391
Hadn't heard of that anon, thanks for posting

I'm 28.
Is it too late for me to try this dude's Self Authoring Suite essay thing?
pls respond :(

>>42853199
Hell no dude, you're pretty much the targeted demographic (20-30), and peterson has said that even people in their 50's will benefit from doing it.
Keep in mind, it's not some miracle self-help bullshit that will solve all your problems - it's a guide to collect and write down your thoughts, clear up your past, evaluate your present, and plan for the future. Also, it's not something you do once - you are supposed to go over it first, do it badly, then correct it and keep changing it and tweaking it as time goes by.

>>42849619
Military service without being a grunt muhrine discharged for ptsd, bipolar, and schizophrenia
120 of 155 pounds lost
Kicked alcohol binges via abstinence
Kicked junk food addiction
Not married before 18
Not 5 kids at 23
Not twice divorced at 24 (unless I somehow marry twice in next 12 months)

I just hope that I can get the clearance for the 35G MOS I kept fighting for.

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>>42849721

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>>42853199
i don't know if anyone posted it yet but here are the links for his self authoring guide since you have to pay for it.

i havent done it yet but glanced through it and it's confusing without proper context of the online guide

>>42849965
Use anger, I've tried quitting for so long, and anger is what did it.

>>42850882
Start working on your video game, even if it just doing tutorials/making demos at least every week. Set one day where you will do 1 hr (otherwise you will just push it off until tomorrow). Maybe cut an hour from lifting or Japanese once a week. After a few weeks it will become like clockwork, and then when you don't need to spend as much time on the other things you have more time for your game. It doesn't even matter if you are making much process; working on the game will get your habits in order

>>42853506
The dark side huh.

>>42850332
My dad is fucking awesome
>grew up poor
>got a scholarship to a&m
>sick job doing what he loves
>makes 300k/year to boot
>awesome wife (my mom)
>4 kids
>is in training to become a catholic deacon
> 2 masters and 1 bachelors degree
>very nice to everyone and isn't afraid of roaches

>>42849619

All I had to do was not do drugs drink and fuck prostitutes all day

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My dad was great and taught me how to succeed academically, but he didn't pass on any other skills. He was an introvert with no friends and passed his time in the home all day, every day. As a result I have no social skills and can't connect with anyone. Conversation feels alien to me and I'm not sure I'll ever grasp it. I don't blame him for it but it really would've been nice to not have a secluded weirdo dad.

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>>42853506

>>42851111
I bet you at least lost your virginity early though.

>dad was an alcohol but he provided

abstract feel...

>>42853968
>dad was an alcohol
Which kind?

>>42853968
just remember before you judge that your dad thought he would be a millionaire playboy by now and instead he has no friends, a fat wife, and an ungrateful child who judges him anonymously online instead of speaking about his problems to his face.

anon your dad had all the same dreams and passions as you, and he fell in deep deep love with a woman who probably poked a hole in his condom and so she could get fat and never work. his job sucks and his family judges and hates him despite the fact that he gave up everything he wanted to work a shit job and live in a shit house and his life is no where near what he wants it to be etc etc

drink with your dad u fuck

>>42854014
hes dead, and I never said I hated him.
Hell the man even stayed on the wagon for like, 10 years or so, till he got cancer and took up the bottle again.
6/10 would be son again

>>42854063
thats understandable i guess

>my dad was like what i described >>42854014
>used to get blackout drunk every night and tell us we weigh him down and only love him for his money
>i go off to college
>dont see him for a year
>they move closer to my school
>i go to visit
>start to drink casually with my dad
>realize he is under extreme stress and just wanted a friend
>now talk to him on the phone nearly every day
>he stopped drinking so heavily
>started smiling again
>just needed a friend
3 years ago i wouldve said 2/10 never again but now its 10/10 perfect mutual understanding would son again

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>>42854104
Shut the fuck up I'm not crying

>tfw poor shitskin failure with no dad
Im sick of this, everyone's just OK with me being a poor failure except me. I get no support

>>42854191
you dont need support anon youve got the immeasurable advantage of being instantly judged to be worse than you are. realize this advantage, and you too will make it

>>42853968
Same here. He's a total prick and really verbally abusive. Didn't teach me anything I can remember growing up and he lies about everything and tells people I'm so spoiled and have everything. Pretty infuriating to have people give me shit for being spoiled despite being a poor, beta loser my whole childhood and then homeless through my early twenties.
Don't even know what to do with the man because he's absolutely unrepentant about anything and everything is always everyone else's fault and he just laughs at some of the poor ways he treated my mom.

I'm not having children. Things would have been better if he didn't.

>>42850699
Sort yourself out buddy

>>42854305
Cut ties anon. Not only for your sake, but for his too. It's probably your only shot at shaking him up enough to see the error of his ways. Sitting around and enabling his shitty behaviour is doing no good for either one of you.

Yeah I wish my father never had me and I'm getting deeper and deeper into mgtow, nofap and monk mode life.

So yeah, I will be the man he wasn't.

Also I actually lift. All I need now is to have a job I don't hate that pays my way and I'm set.

>>42850249
If you want to see how much height matters, cuck lanklets a few times once you are ripped. Nothing is funnier than having a tall guy fight you and you fuck his shit up after nutting in his gf.

>>42849619
A vasectomy

>>42850699

Put an end to your own bitterness and sort yourself out bucko

>>42851373
>tfw absent alcoholic criminal father who ive never met

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Dad is literally 9/10

> came from the bottom
> didnt have a Dad himself
> got my mother pregnant at 20
> built a happy fulfilled marriage
> is smart as hell and also quite sophisticated culturally
> just does his thing, doesnt care about what people say

My Dad literally decided at age 46 that he wants to learn piano and he just fucking did it. He is not that great but hey, hes 51 now.

> makes 250k
> owns three houses
> made us kids work for the bullshit we wanted but always paid every educational stuff we wanted to do

I am super grateful and love my Dad. Fucking edgy teenage me treated him without respect but its all good now.

Only 9/10 because
> anger management issues
Never hit us but damn, the guy can shout you down
> never had a dad so he doesnt know all that typical Dad conversation stuff


I just hope I can make him proud by being successful in life and as good a father to my kids as he was to us.
Thank god for my Dad.

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>>42849619
This my dude right here mayne

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>>42849619
What my father has that I also want
>Multiple kids (5)
>Stable family (he remarried and had some more kids but still manages to be active in mine and my sisters lives)
>In shape, was into body building through his late twenties and early thirties, runs marathons in his 50's and is now preparing to try for iron man at 56.
>Work like a fiend, he has put in a good 60-70 hour work week every week for the last 40 years.
Things I want that he didn't have
>Education, finish my bachelor in software engineering, dad spent his life working laboring jobs
>Start a business, already spent a few years studying business/accounting at uni, want to end up spending 70 hours a week working for myself rather than somebody else.
>Avoid ending up divorced, he married my mother (genuinely unstable woman) when he was young, want to avoid this more than anything else
>Find faith, my father was religious in his youth but lost his faith after my mother. Was raised semi religious but never fully got into it want to put some time into this soon.

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>>42849619
>What steps are you taking to become the man you wish your father was

Oh, boy that hit too close to home.

>>42849619
To leave humanity (and my son) behind?

>>42849684
Make mine medium rare with a side order of coleslaw.

Smoking weed and working out

Living like a chav

>>42849619
I already am the man I wish my father was. I am alive.

>>42851331
>religion tells you anything factual about why the world exists
god damn, anon. are you properly retarded? how are you even litterate? I'm baffled.

>>42849619
>dad was forced to do hard manual labour from age 12
>learned a trade
>was drafted into army for 12 months
>top sharpshooter in his division
>was drill instructor for 3 years
>spent 4 years at war

>child labour laws instituted
>trades frowned upon in favour of prep schools
>conscription abolished
>top sharpshooter in my BF clan
>military virtually abolished
>no wars to fight

every single member of my patrilineal family for the past 600 years was in the military, my surname is literally a military rank. i'm so fucking jealous of americans who can just sign up to a proper military, instead of a glorified boy scouts troop.

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>>42857336
"top sharpshooter in my BF clan" AHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA YOURE NOT EVEN IN THE MILITARY LMAO YOU PROBABLY HAVENT EVEN SIGNED UP HAHAHAHA

>>42857363
that's the point, it's a self-deprecating joke.

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>>42857212
>litterate
You're terrible at this.

>>42857379
what country are you in? im curious

> dad
> got mom pregnant when they were both in uni, married
> had two sons
> great man but his relation with his dad is fucked so he never figured out the whole "being a dad" thing
> he had kids because that's what he was supposed to do
> got clinically depressed when I was a kid, for most of my life I only knew him as the husk of a man
> last year separated from my mom
> got closer to him afterwards, he started sorting himself (TM) and now he blossomed into a new man
> we're closer now than we ever were
> he still has issues, among them being cowardly when things start getting tough, but he's still a great man who dedicated himself as best as he could for years, even when he was profoundly depressed
> 10/10 would son again

What I'm doing:
> overcoming my depression, he actually took me as an example and started beating his depression after we exchanged experiences. I'm weening off my medication right now
> developing my body and masculinity, enjoying my youth responsibly
> not fucking >girls, not getting anyone pregnant
> advancing my studies, starting a business soon in an area I'm extremely passionate and good in
> want to have kids eventually but only when I have my shit sorted out, on my 30s most likely
> LDR with a masc lanklet, when we get together we lift and wrestle as roleplay
Life is good, anons.

What if he wished nothing for you?

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>>42857831
Sounds like a good reason to not care about his wishes. Otherwise you're pretty well stuck in a very stupid loop.

>>42849660
The fuck is this future authoring program? Is it goal setting?

My dad is happy with me so long as I shave and shower regularly and work hard.

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>>42851020
Like all of the above. Meme tier or mediocrity goals.

>>42857860
ish. it's a program by jordan b peterson where they give you tasks to write different things down. google it

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>>42850699

>>42850249
There are manlets who act like they are 6.ft and lanklets who act like they are 5.2. For a long time I was the former. Attitude matters

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>>42853292
>Hell no dude, you're pretty much the targeted demographic (20-30
Thanks man. I'm feeling very hollow these days; have been for past two years really.
I mean it's not so bad, certainly not depressed like some people here, but what really got me thinking was "When's the last time I DIDN'T feel like this?"
I just wanted to teach fencing and make movies as a kid and young adult. But I did a BA of English, so now I'm in Mexico teaching ITESO which isn't too shabby but I now know this ISN'T what I want to do. It's just my "Money Career" if that makes sense?

>>42858473
Actually is gf?

>>42853652
>>42853881
Hahahhahaha, well and I read when it horny too, but getting mad when your horny distracts me cus I can use it for videogames or working out.

Guess I was just mad at the Jew porn.

>>42858265
o-ok

>>42851111
The fact that you said "I don't know how to be a man" indicates that you know exactly what you have to do but you don't want to do it.

>>42853976
The kind that destroyed his family

>>42851161
>STEMfags
>actually enjoying college
>just going from a crushing grind of work in a sausagefest of a major into a crushing grind of work into a sausagefest of a career

lel

>>42859751
great reasoning for a career path you got there

>>42849702
>not recognizing that religion has shaped the majority of cultures and is necessary to understand to help guide the future.

>>42860286
not everything is about your career ffs

i'd rather work a low paying job that I ENJOY rather than a high salary job that I get absolutely no fulfillment out of.

>>42860393
Those grapes are sour anyways!

>>42849790

This warms my heart :)

Tfw no dad how do i even sort myself out

>>42849619
I've been a resident alien of the US since I came here at 4 years old but due to sheer laziness I've never gotten around to filling for naturalization even though I've been eligible to become a citezn for years but I finally sent off the forms today. In six months I'll finally be US citizen. I have other things to work on as well but that's something I've been meaning to get around to and I'm finally doing it.

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not ego lifting deadlifts until i literally put myself in a wheelchair

nothing worse than the creeking sound of his chair telling me how much he used to lift when i'm trying to get ready for a set

>always thought dad was a cool dude growing up, but never thought much of it
>watched sports and drove go karts together
>parents divorce at 11
>dad attempts to murder mom, but backs out.
>claims god told him not to do it
>eventually killed himself after 4 years of being a hermit (15 y/o)

Huge shock that changes life for bad and good.

Im now permanently depressed and convinced its just genes, but I have decent gains, own a house (22 y/o), have a nice gf that lives with me and im about to finish trade school.

You never forget them once they're gone.

We all gonna make it.

>>42849619
Moderating my alcohol intake.

>>42863798
Also not marrying or having kids.

>>42851295
I'm also a STEM major but why are you such a cunty elitist? Insecurity?

>>42863798
Right there with you senpai.

I'm in the Airforce, studying electronics and working towards a bachelor's

When he came to my BMT graduation I saw him cry for the first time, it was surreal as fuck. The next time I see him I want him to not be able to recognize me

>>42851064
>here's a guy in his 30s sorting himself out and putting out a vlog every week or so
i don't know about that guy, it is a bit tragic to be documenting it as if he needs the help and support of others in order to slay his dragon.

he needs to change himself and become someone else by himself, not with others holding his hand and giving him validation. i suppose other people may find it useful to watch, but i see it as a cynical ploy for the bald guy to turn himself into some Elliot Hulse type guy offering $15 ebooks and a patreon.

>>42864684
Yeah, i cant bring myself to watch that fat balled fuck either. I only watched his vid talking to jp himself and cringed hard most of the time.

>>42850699
dubs speak the truth.

>>42849684
not gonna make it

>>42864684
Fair enough mate, I mostly posted his channel as a potentially helpful resource, especially for people that are past their 20s and believe it's too late for sorting. I started watching his channel when I quit weed myself and found it quite helpful to watch someone go through the same withdrawal.
Sure though, I get what you are saying. Feel free to disregard his vlogs if you find no value in them for yourself. I'm still watching him but I'm not too eager to invest in his work besides that, after all we are all doing the same thing he is doing, apart from filming it and uploading it.

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>>42850752
CLEAN YOUR ROOM ANON

>>42850699
Looks like someone doesn't wanna clean their room

>>42849619

Im dont an alcoholic, so at least I have that much already

>>42849619
should you shave your head once you're JP level thin?

>>42850882
>Around new year's I decided to learn japanese and find a japanese girlfriend though
never gonna make it you fucking weeb

>existing in our childrens life
we already won guys

>>42849790
This guy deserves a fucking harem. He's inspiring the most demoralized, un-motivated group of people to acheive heights that are huge milestones for racust faggot anime spoofers.

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>>42850873
>how much value you are per inch.
>per inch.

>>42849619
I'm starting the future self authoring, I'm pretty excited.

>>42865514
Shit's got me real blue, brehs. Especially when I realize that I've spent the best years of my life, looks-wise, being a depressed shut in

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>tfw been a NEET for 4 years
>haven't paid back a single cent of college loans, don't even open mail and have no idea what i owe
>no friends, no social life, no gf
i like jordan peterson and want to SORT MYSELF OUT but i feel like i'm so far down into hell, roughly speaking, that i don't know how to get out. well the first step i think would be getting a job, any job. but i have no skills and no work history which is huge red flag for someone with a degree and i also can barely enact a transaction at the grocery store without spilling spaghetti everywhere. i'm in "decent" shape (can do 30 pullups, calisthenics in park cause can't pay for gym) but that's literally the only thing i have going for me.
don't want to kms but it feels hopeless.

>>42849965
once you see results it becomes an addiction to be noporn

>>42865956
>the first step i think would be getting a job
You're thinking of this wrong. You need to make money. A job is but one way of doing it.

I've been making my bed every morning for months now but I'm still a loser, when does the magic happen?

>>42865992
Most of what JP says is either psychological masturbation or conflicting information. Like what the biological limitations are for each individual vs their own responsibility. If you wanna do something then do it. Don't watch 40 hours of this dude talking like I did.

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>>42865956
You're in the underworld m8
Only way out of there is to be honest
To yourself and to the people you interact with
Your honesty is your shield and your sword
And your compass

The truth is your guiding light
These are the tools to navigate yourself out of there
Learn to use them

Its never to late, shit will only get even more worse, hellish if you, if you dont confront your dragons nigga

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>>42849619
>Scroll through thread, 0
>Ctrl+F "Hitler", 0
C'mon guys, it was the easiest shitpost imaginable.

>>42866395
That wouldn't be a shitpost though.

>getting rich
>Preparing to impregnate my gf with eventually 3 Aryan phenotype ubermensch
>Becoming increasingly strong and aesthetic
>Maintaining a good sense of humour and likeability

Life is my bitch

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>>42860393
Hey, get a load of this idiot kid

Life's gonna chew you up son, I hope your parents are paying your way

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>>42853353

I know you'll probably never see this, but I'm very grateful you posted this. Thank you anon

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>>42859751
>wanting women in the work place
>wanting to get paid less so there might be ugly, married old hags in the work place that you have to tiptoe around and whisper to avoid an HR harassment tribunal because you are not chad
fucking lmao at your life

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>>42849619
For one, I'm trying to find a decent relationship and I'm hoping to stay in a marriage for more than a year, for starters. After that, if me and that wife have a kid, I hope to stay in that kid's life for more than its first five weeks.

>>42855623
you're already ahead then?

>>42851204
english departments tend to grade really tough.

>>42849660
I did the future authoring program only half, I will finish it today.

Current goals:
lifting 5 times/week
Work on university stuff every day for at least 5 hours
Getting a girlfriend (which is the hardest part)